I cant be attracted to someone who knows I am trans

Can someone explain what happens to me? I am exclusively attracted to men. The minute I know they know, I lose the attraction

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Can someone explain what happens to me?
    i think that's what we commonly call being retarded

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    skullchan is a closeted gay man

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      La vita è nel tripudio

  3. 4 weeks ago
    ArabMan

    You're insecure about being trans or don't want to deal with it or are scared of rejection because of it
    Same with people who are only attracted to people who are emotionally unavailable. They themselves are emotionally unavailable and not ready to commit to a relationship so they're only comfortable being attracted to people who wouldn't be able to be in a relationship anyways so that they don't feel like the reason they're not in a relationship

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah it's just routine internalized transphobia and looking to use cishet archetype as a validation tool, standard stuff

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I Don’t think it’s internalized transphobia. Let me explain. I have noticed a huge difference in the way men treat me based on whether they know I am trans or not. Society simps to cis women, but cis women have it incredibly easy. They can be nasty and toxic and ravaged by pregnancies, and they will still find suitable men who will put up with them. A trans woman is seen aaa the most grotesque and worthless and depraved thing. So, it’s part of the identity. I have to be with a man who doesn’t know about my transition. If he knows, that turns me off even if he is cool with that. Because I know that in the back of his mind he will always see me as a gay man

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think the belief "it's impossible for anyone to truly not be transphobic" is still an expression of internalized transphobia

    • 4 weeks ago
      ArabMan

      >Because I know that in the back of his mind he will always see me as a gay man
      This is the definition of internalized transphobia tho. Thinking that everyone will hate you or think of you differently solely because you're trans

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You really going to say this when you claim to have sex stealth too

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I spent 10 days in Jamaica, one of the most anti-LGBTQ country. Guess what? I have had sex with many men without disclosing. They have ridden me like a Shetland pony and have given it to me doggie style. I want to destroy, expunge, annihilate, obliterate anybody who has convinced me that I should disclose my trans status. How fucking stupid I was. Who is going to give me back the best years of my life? I wasted my best years. I destroyed blossoming relationships with my fucking disclosure. Men say they want to know, but they do not want to know. All I have to do is maintain a degree of plausible deniability. If I disclose my trans status to a man, no matter how good I look and no matter how open-minded he is, he will always see me as a cheap knockoff bought on AliExpress. This is unfair. I have suffered too much. He will see things that are not even there. In his eyes, the ugliest and most repugnant of cis women will be more authentic and better than me. No, I won't disclose.
    And one day, I realized that my mind is very powerful, way more powerful than any physical trait. That I can virtually have any man I want as long as I mindfuck them. I did not even realize that I had this unused talent. It's almost as if I can hypnotize them and make them believe what I want. I do not like being Machiavellian, but what is the alternative?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You write really well, this feels like prose. I hope you're having a nice day.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Really? Or you’re being sarcastic?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm being serious anon 🙂

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He writes it well cause he's written the same shit dozens of times

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Well, he should have written it the first time. No?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I can virtually have any man I want as long as I mindfuck them.
      Most any girl, trans or cis, can have virtually any man they want by giving the impression they're down to fuck.
      Being attracted to men is always dating on easy mode.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Getting banged by random yokels who are undoubtedly poor isnt hard.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It means that I passed

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your neurotic, and projecting a lot of of baggage onto the men. Like most passers your disgusted with yourself and trannies, and project those same feelings to men whom know.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I refuse to believe that all the men who have penetrated me and ejaculated inside of me felt a difference. I just don't buy it. I refuse to believe that a man's penis has a brain of its own or X-rays and is able to tell that mine is a neovagina and not a natal vagina. Yet, there is a crusade against SRS. I have no experience with SRS for trans men, so I apologize in advance. My experience is solely attributable to SRS for trans women.

    Everywhere you read that a neovagina is in no way similar to a cis vagina. I am sure that if we dissected a neovagina and performed a histological examination, there would be differences with a cis vagina. But I do not care. The purely functional, practical, and utilitarian differences are non-existent if they do a good job. It looks good, it feels good, it has resolved my genital dysphoria.

    Everyone on Twitter and Facebook says that a man's penis is able to tell that it is not "a real vagina." And that when a penis enters a neovagina, it feels like drywall or expanded polystyrene. Bullshit. Men can ejaculate even by sticking it in a hole, and you want me to believe that a penis doesn't feel good in a neovagina? Give me a fucking break. Of course transphobes are gonna fearmonger. Duh! They want us dead.

    My vagina looks very realistic. I have amazing orgasms. I have been able to accommodate large penises. Every single man who has penetrated me has ejaculated. So, that means that it felt good. I can contract and release (this is super important because transphobes say that a neovagina is just a hole with no contraction).

    No, I do not have to dilate daily. No, there is no fecal matter coming out of my vagina. No, there are no maggots. No, my vagina doesn't spit hairballs like kitties. No, my vagina is not placed just below the belly button. You have no idea how disgusting and nasty the stuff I have to read is. Every single day I come across posts demonizing neovaginas. These people are mentally ill. They obsess over our genitals.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Now, what I do know is that for men, the mental aspect is paramount. I no longer disclose. When I used to disclose, I can totally see that men would feel or hear or see things that were not even there. Like one guy I disclosed to said that he could feel with his penis hitting against testicles inside of my vagina. Of course, I smacked him and ripped him apart because he was full of shit. He made shit up. There aren't testicles in my vagina, but be careful. It just goes to show how important the mental aspect is. Now that I no longer disclose, men enjoy it and always want to come back for more.

    Okay, now I want someone to explain to me why is everybody eager to hear me saying that I regret "chopping off my dick." Like, when I have to disclose in medical settings, the doctors want me to say that I regret it, and I don't. He/she is very disappointed when I say I don't regret it. This is kind of like the broken-arm syndrome. I had a slight shoulder injury while lifting weights, and an orthopedist asked me if I regretted it.

    I promise you, I swear on my life, I swear on my furbabies that I have never regretted having the operation. I know people like to believe that I regret, but I don’t.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You people are stupid. Jeez. You are so naive. You must be 12. Nobody believes that trans women are women. The only way is to go stealth. I would never disclose. No matter how much they swear up and down, they do NOT believe we are women

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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