I broke up with my ex yesterday because she wouldn't let me see her phone. I suspect she was cheating because of many clues. My gut was telling me her behavior wasn't normal. However, she made an entire show about how invasive I was for attempting to breach her privacy. She even made a post on social media about my 'toxicity' and how 'controlling' I am because I broke up with her for not letting me see her phone an an attempt to "cancel" me. The word is reaching my employers too. They could fire me for the sake of my company's reputation. I don't know what to do. Any advice anons?
Make up to her.
Fuck her.
When she's sleeping get her phone and look through it.
Then go from there.
Don't do this. Don't get tangled up in the negative value socializing. Be better. Even if you have to be better, alone.
Nah, that's pussy shit. A man should control everything about his woman's life. I look through my wife's phone whenever I want.
If she's hiding her activity, she isn't your property. There is no need to secretly figure out what's going on. Just leave.
big mistake to follow this retard's advice
ya dont even know if the guy was just paranoid or not, it sounds like the girl might have been just mad because he didn't trust her after however long they were together and the whole thing blew up
this guys got the right idea, people do pick up on it when you always try to rise above, even if you're not perfect... it helps them to trust you. consistently lying and being cynical will fuck you over in the long run. sneak a few whoppers in there when it counts if ya gotta but dont overdo it, and this is a great opportunity to overdo it
Same. But she wasn't his wife, just some slut slutting with him for a minute.
Do this. Ignore the homosexuals that tell you it's feminine. Do it, expose the cheating, cancel her. Find a hacker on the dark web to do it would be a better option. Or alternatively tie her hand in her back. Cut her finger using a cutting plier. Have her spit the unlocking digits. Expose her. Open her skul using a vibrating saw. Slap her brain out. Film it. Upload it. And finally, KYS.
I like you Anon.
Social media is gaming for women
There they practice their better skills
Famanon here. That's what I use /misc/ for.
>inb4 show tits
For many years that shit has always bothered me, and it never garners results. Yet, these homosexuals still go through the motions in their pathetic little attempts.
It's tradition you fat poofter
Don't have social media.
you have to prove she was cheating on you and blast her on social media. It will be the only thing that vindicates your controlling behavior.
>you have to prove
you dont have to prove shit just spread the word that bitch is a whore
the people she talks to aren't going to look into it
a rumour is a powerful weapon
You act like a bitch, but YWNBAW.
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Sounds made up, do you at any point catch a dick in the mouth? Otherwise unbelievable that you weren't catching a face full of ball slapping.
Here OP
Get a broken phone of the same model, switch it with hers. Now you have access to her phone. While she has no clue, copy her data, then switch the SIM card back later.
Just ignore it. If your employer calls you aside, jut explain as you did to us. Simple as.
Start looking for a new job and forget about the whore, focus on youself and get dates only with interesting women. Remember, we all die alone, create oportunities instead of chasing goals.
She just snitched her self, you can throw her to the garbage bin (not kill her).
And as the famous rapper said once: "if she cheats....."
honestly it sounds jaded but from the start you should have just looked without asking... if you dont know her pass you shoulda just watched over her shoulder. then when nothings wrong (which is the most likely situation) you can just relax and treat her good. it's a bit fucked and it is an invasion of privacy but if thats what it takes for you to feel comfortable making things work then maybe it's for the best. where you are now, i don't know what you should do. i would advise ignoring it and denying it.. your not the only person to go through a messy breakup that involves the workplace, just say something else happened and that what she is saying is not true. if they find some other reason to fire you then maybe a more proactive measure would have been better but i figure that escalation is more likely to hurt you. just move on, if you lose your job over it it's not the end of the world.
language is the weakest tool in your arsenal
Cut your losses and if your employer tries to fuck with you just explain your ex gf is a whore I mean there's nothing else you can do but the most important thing is letting it go and pursue either another hot young woman or a hobby
There is no such thing called “cheating”, you just have a micro-penis.
lol just relax and enjoy the show. It will give you toxic vibes that will attract a lot of bitches.
I don’t need to buy I know that feeling. I had an ex cheat on me and I instantly dumped her. She cried, begged for me back, etc etc.
she was about to inherit $175k on her 25th birthday. I “forgave her” for a few months and let her buy me a bunch of shit. Then I dumped her on Valentine’s Day. She CALLED THE COPS on me. Claiming I stole her money. She bought me a MacBook Air and some other shit.
Lmao ofc they did nothing.
If a bitch cheats on you they deserve to be fucked over. Just publicly out her as unfaithful and the work is done
Simple as.
>Worried about her privacy regarding her phone
>Posts on social media
The mistake here is that you didn't take advantage of her social media presence. You probably could have dug something up without raising any suspicion.
Never attach your company to your social media, the moment you put in your bio your company thats when you have to watch out. Just delete your company from your profile.
Is it legal for them to fire you because some random girl doesn’t like you? Sounds like total job insecurity. Wasn’t job security a big deal back in the day that the boomers had?
>she made an entire show about how invasive I was for attempting to breach her privacy
She's right though. Would you let me rummage through your phone?
>Would you let me rummage through your phone?
you're fucking OP? i always knew he was a homosexual so i guess i shouldn't be surprised
>you're fucking OP?
Clearly not, check ID.
Goddamn I hate ESLs. Go fuck off to your own language site.
Hey, ESL poster, he meant "you're having sex with OP?" not "you're the fucking OP"
YOU fuck off
>he meant "you're having sex with OP?" not "you're the fucking OP"
Then he's a fucking idiot. Why would anyone think that, and why does he need you to defend him?
>The word is reaching my employers too. They could fire me for the sake of my company's reputation. I don't know what to do.
Nothing unless you get hit by rape allegations. Don't let what horror stories you read on here cloud your judgment. Never heard of any case in Germany where regular post-relationship shenanigans interfere with your employment.
You did well, just soldier on and do your thing bro.
I'm telling you from experience, trust your gut*. If she's willing to end your relationship over not showing you her phone, whatever she's hiding is more important to her. Don't fall for the 'omg fine anon, here's my phone since it's so important to you'. She's cleared the evidence of whatever the fuck she was doing. Move on and learn from this experience.
*unless you're an insecure jealous little so! bitch
Well, don't kill her.
Even if she leaves you with nothing and ruins your life, don't do that. Don't seek satisfying revenge through killing.
That would be bad, and wrong.
In fact there needs to be a new, stronger word for killing. Like badwrong. Or badong.
Yes, killing your girlfriend would be badong.
Strive to be the opposite of badong.
Gnodab.
You got some play money? Get a lawyer to draft up some defamation action letters, to ex and anyone that's said bad things about you. Just for the lolz. This is presuming your country has laws like that.
Next time you're accusing and things are falling apart, you can say "well obviously this relationship is doomed coz there's no trust now, so if I'm wrong why don't you take the opportunity to own me and prove your innocence?". Flip that shit back on them
>fired for not being a cuck
Welcome to the West in 2023
Trust the thot, get shot!
This is why all men must become AI waifu Chads.
Kek. I once suspected the same and asked to see my gfs phone. She threw a huge fit and then smashed it with a stool.
>nothing suspicious here
Women are retarded.
Yeah. Suk a dik.
Why would your boss give a shit if you broke up with a whore?
If I were in your shoes I would fear for worse if she is trying to "cancel" you. She doesn't get enough attention, "You go gurls", and validation she might take it to the next step and say you raped/beat her.
Hope you kept receipts. But what do I know?
Never ever trust any woman. They are biologically forced to lie and deceive. They aren't capable of understanding why lying is even wrong. Literally.
Why is lying wrong? Explain it, if you know so much.
If a butch even insinuates something I don't like I slam on my brakes and tell her to get out. Don't give a fuck what time of day or night or where.
Then I swipe right on the next one. Wat du fuk Tina gonna do?
Considering how she is acting over this you made the right call.
>Didn't buy a brand new iphone and install spyware then gift it to her
you deserved it
>never happened
>asking permissions
slide thread
kill everyone
Don't respond, pretend she don't exist; be the bigger person.
You're fine and to show everyone that, you truly are you will move on and move forward.
Just forget about her.
If anyone asks tell them she was cheating but wouldn't tell you who with and went crazy when you asked to see who she was sexting with.
Nobody is going to give a fuck buddy, literally everyone knows women only get secretive with their phones because they are being massive sluts, especially other women. If she contacts your work just apologize and ask them for advice or how you should handle harassment from an ex.
It's not a big deal buddy this shit happens every time a slut cheats now. Stop worrying about it, go bang some other girl and don't talk or think about this crazy cunt again.
I smashed an ex gfs phone for that one time. Turns out she was fucking other guys. Don't fall for the accusations of being insecure as a way to shame you. Just break if off if they're some boss bitch that tries to turn their it into a trus5 game. Trust your gut and dip if you're girlfriend isn't 100% feelin you and about you. Also "clinger" girls are not bad. You literally want your gf to want to be around you all the time. It's only a problem if it's just a fuck toy you don't like.
Just say you wanted to check because of some weird purchases made on your PayPal from her phone