how to date as a straight passoid in college

my college isnt super huge, and it’s relatively conservative. i’ve been in a relationship for the past year and before that i was still IDing as bisexual and mostly dating women - how do i find a male fwb? i’m pretty attractive, but a lot of guys who initially express interest on dating apps will ghost me or decline when i tell them that i’m trans. how do i figure this out? where can i find straight guys who aren’t creepy?

  1. 4 weeks ago
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    >Passoid<

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ?

      • 4 weeks ago
        ><

        >Why the fuck are you using words like passoid?<
        >Legit, go touch grass<

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          my bad, i’m trying to use board colloquialisms. i’ll stop

          • 4 weeks ago
            ><

            >Literally no one on this or any other board, uses passiod<

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              are you retarded

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I've seen the word passoid here a bunch of times what are you talking about? you freaks add "oid" onto everything

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              lurk moar

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          why do you have a typing quirk

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >ghost me or decline when i tell them that i’m trans
    not as passable or attractive as u think lol

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i am. i just think a lot of guys wont date trans girls

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    honestly your best bet is probably just to wade through the shit on dating apps

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how conservative are we talkin? what state?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why do you ask?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        because some conservative areas actually have quite a few bubbles of lgbt friendly and progressive I guess people, groups, etc etc

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          i just wanna date a bisexual skater boy is it too much to ask 🙁

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            idk where are you the deep south?

            • 4 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              i’m in illinois

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                rural Illinois can be pretty rough in that regard I think. You'd def be able to find that in chicago I would think

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                how would i go abt it !

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Do they have any lgbt groups at your school?

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                yeah but like im not gonna join them lol. i dont really feel gay

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                good thing it's an lgbt group then and not an lgb group

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                how does this help me find a fwb

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                didn't you say you wanted a bi skater bf?
                at least that group might have hangouts at bars or some other places in your area that such people might go

              • 4 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                chicago has lots of lgbt safe spaces, but as soon as people leave the metropolitan area its relatively rural and conservative. maybe urbana champaign has some safe places tho?

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >it’s relatively conservative
    buy a gun and keep it in your bedroom for when one of your chaser bfs inevitably tries to murder you to stop his friends/family from finding out

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Either filter for bi/pan guys or just open with your transness first thing and know you're gonna have to sift through the vast majority of straight guys who aren't cool with an estrogenized male body

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      how do i filter for bi/pan guys

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Music taste maybe? I'm super masc in pretty much every aspect but love some bubblegum/k pop
        t. bi dude

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