your parent is emotionally manipulating you with the "i still love you tho" shit
you can either choose to forgive this behavior or cut them out of your life
>cut them out from your life >cut everyone who does not support your lifestyle from your life >left with no one left >die alone >forgotten by everyone forever
Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family
>I do love you very much and always will
Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
1 year ago
Anonymous
>Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
Maybe you should develop an IQ higher than a dungbeetle. That is an obvious lie. OP isn't even remotely selfish. The mother is.
1 year ago
Anonymous
>Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
Maybe OP should live for themselves and not others who're demonstrably selfish
There's millions of people in this world, you owe your family nothing, there'll be countless others who'll love and appreciate you for who you are
>>left with no one left >>die alone
by everyone forever >Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family
what a shit post. let me finish your story if you decide to leave your family:
>at your lowest point >start improving yourself out of spite, look pretty >find a bf >he lights up your world and treats you like a human >makes you become the girl you always were >holds you, kisses you, cuddles you, makes you feel loved >one day your parents come out of the blue wanting to "reconcile" >your bf is there, he's well aware of how your parents abandoned you at your worst >he instantly defends you, gets up and yells at them for hurting their daughter in the way they did >it's scary, but he's so strong and passionate about you, you can't help but blush and smile through the stressful situation >eventually your parents leave, defeated >bf goes to you and tell you there's nothing to be afraid of, and that he'll always be there for you no matter what >frick like rabbits afterwards >get married, only closest friends allowed >live out the rest of your life together until you both die old together
or you can go back and live with your parents who hate you and want to change you but they say they don't... your choice.
I've been boymoding since then and I was trying to get her to understand that I'm actually transitioning now. I had hoped that she might have come to terms with it a little more since then.
Me age 18 vs 26
1 year ago
Anonymous
Damn you pretty af maybe she just jealous
1 year ago
Anonymous
it’s over.
1 year ago
sparky
wdym? I know I'm a hon
1 year ago
Anonymous
CAN WE GET MARRIED
1 year ago
Anonymous
what happened to your lips bro
1 year ago
sparky
just duckfacing i'm so sorry please forgive me
1 year ago
Anonymous
damn, imagine throwing away looking like a hot indie rock dude in order to become a mediocre troon
1 year ago
sparky
i hated being a boy and always wanted to be a girl i'm osrry
1 year ago
Anonymous
dont listen to them you are the cutest
yes i simp for cute trans girls. wish i could be half as cute as you
1 year ago
Anonymous
Stop pursing your lips, it doesn't make you look better, just weird
1 year ago
Anonymous
>hot indie rock dude
The lies transphobes come up with lmao
She is way hotter now. She just looks like a standard anxious nerd previously. Now she looks like she's coming into her own.
1 year ago
Anonymous
holy shit, its probably just that you are mogging her and shes jealous.
1 year ago
sparky
i don't mog anyone i'm a hon and always will be until i can get ffs which I'll never be able to afford
1 year ago
Anonymous
Did you ever have face hair?
1 year ago
sparky
yes unfortunately.
this is a recent pic from before one of my recent laser appointments.
1 year ago
sparky
Oh yeah I meant to say I've had 6 sessions now though and it's mostly gone at this point.
I never really had much beard area hair but I had really bad upper lip hair especially since my skin is pale and my hair is dark which made it more noticeable.
1 year ago
Anonymous
If you're the same person I think I talked to a Sparky who looks a lot like you back in 2016. I was on blockers before I had face hair. I thought you were about my age?
1 year ago
sparky
There's a high chance you talked to me back in 2016 yeah. I'm 26 right now. I started HRT on my 19th birthday.
1 year ago
Anonymous
I tripped a few different names. One of them was Autumn Rainbow. Another was Wednesday Addams. I hardly ever post on here anymore. I'm glad to see you're doing well.
1 year ago
sparky
I vaguely remember you. Add me on discord if you want sparky#1308
1 year ago
Anonymous
That's me the person you added LV
1 year ago
Anonymous
try stretching your mouth unironically that shit way too narrow
1 year ago
sparky
My mouth isn't the problem it's my jaw which I hope to get shaved down a bit someday although I doubt FFS will ever be realistic for me.
I got a job at Starbucks for FFS then they cut it not long after.
1 year ago
Anonymous
no, even when before transition, even if you were a cisfoid, mouth is too narrow
I never came out to my dad because he's a schizophrenic QAnon alcoholic who's barely hanging on by a thread healthwise anyways. Like he's had two different kinds of cancer already, lifelong heavy drinker/smoker, etc.
This is literally just someone who let someone cum inside them to create you. To her, she created you so she is your god. She’ll be dead one day and you’ll still be you. I’d say just move on who cares? My wife and I lost both parents by 30 and we’re the most adjusted happy people we know.
You may have to move on if things won't change. That's not always easy, but the alternative is putting yourself through extra suffering by fighting a lost battle.
Take care of yourself first and foremost. You already started doing so by transitioning to live your life properly.
If you have other people close to you, nourish and protect those connections. Remember your own worth and don't compromise for the sake of people who aren't and won't be willing to try for you.
it's a manipulation tactic
they use it to try to trap you in a relationship with them
"i will always love you" but then they refuse to respect your basic fundamental identity and existence
your parents were just more open about not actually loving you unconditionally
By realising and internalising the fact that many people who have kids are mentally ill morons who think bringing new miserable souls into this world will solve their problems
You can do better than them and live a much more fulfilling life than they did.
your parent is emotionally manipulating you with the "i still love you tho" shit
you can either choose to forgive this behavior or cut them out of your life
>cut them out from your life
>cut everyone who does not support your lifestyle from your life
>left with no one left
>die alone
>forgotten by everyone forever
Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family
>You should love people who hate you
Just get some damn friends, it's a well known phenomenon for queer people anyways
>Maybe you should love your family
Maybe OP's family should love them.
>I do love you very much and always will
Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
>Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
Maybe you should develop an IQ higher than a dungbeetle. That is an obvious lie. OP isn't even remotely selfish. The mother is.
>Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
Maybe OP should live for themselves and not others who're demonstrably selfish
There's millions of people in this world, you owe your family nothing, there'll be countless others who'll love and appreciate you for who you are
>>left with no one left
>>die alone
by everyone forever
>Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family
what a shit post. let me finish your story if you decide to leave your family:
>at your lowest point
>start improving yourself out of spite, look pretty
>find a bf
>he lights up your world and treats you like a human
>makes you become the girl you always were
>holds you, kisses you, cuddles you, makes you feel loved
>one day your parents come out of the blue wanting to "reconcile"
>your bf is there, he's well aware of how your parents abandoned you at your worst
>he instantly defends you, gets up and yells at them for hurting their daughter in the way they did
>it's scary, but he's so strong and passionate about you, you can't help but blush and smile through the stressful situation
>eventually your parents leave, defeated
>bf goes to you and tell you there's nothing to be afraid of, and that he'll always be there for you no matter what
>frick like rabbits afterwards
>get married, only closest friends allowed
>live out the rest of your life together until you both die old together
or you can go back and live with your parents who hate you and want to change you but they say they don't... your choice.
Fairyfrickingtale
You are already alone. Those people clearly don't support you.
make new connections, as soon as you stop caring about them they will realize troon hate hypno isnt actually worth losing your children over
but I came out to her in 2016
why are you still trying to talk to her 7 years later, she's lost to TDS, let her go
I've been boymoding since then and I was trying to get her to understand that I'm actually transitioning now. I had hoped that she might have come to terms with it a little more since then.
Me age 18 vs 26
Damn you pretty af maybe she just jealous
it’s over.
wdym? I know I'm a hon
CAN WE GET MARRIED
what happened to your lips bro
just duckfacing i'm so sorry please forgive me
damn, imagine throwing away looking like a hot indie rock dude in order to become a mediocre troon
i hated being a boy and always wanted to be a girl i'm osrry
dont listen to them you are the cutest
yes i simp for cute trans girls. wish i could be half as cute as you
Stop pursing your lips, it doesn't make you look better, just weird
>hot indie rock dude
The lies transphobes come up with lmao
She is way hotter now. She just looks like a standard anxious nerd previously. Now she looks like she's coming into her own.
holy shit, its probably just that you are mogging her and shes jealous.
i don't mog anyone i'm a hon and always will be until i can get ffs which I'll never be able to afford
Did you ever have face hair?
yes unfortunately.
this is a recent pic from before one of my recent laser appointments.
Oh yeah I meant to say I've had 6 sessions now though and it's mostly gone at this point.
I never really had much beard area hair but I had really bad upper lip hair especially since my skin is pale and my hair is dark which made it more noticeable.
If you're the same person I think I talked to a Sparky who looks a lot like you back in 2016. I was on blockers before I had face hair. I thought you were about my age?
There's a high chance you talked to me back in 2016 yeah. I'm 26 right now. I started HRT on my 19th birthday.
I tripped a few different names. One of them was Autumn Rainbow. Another was Wednesday Addams. I hardly ever post on here anymore. I'm glad to see you're doing well.
I vaguely remember you. Add me on discord if you want sparky#1308
That's me the person you added LV
try stretching your mouth unironically that shit way too narrow
My mouth isn't the problem it's my jaw which I hope to get shaved down a bit someday although I doubt FFS will ever be realistic for me.
I got a job at Starbucks for FFS then they cut it not long after.
no, even when before transition, even if you were a cisfoid, mouth is too narrow
have sex
Mistake 1 was telling her anything
I told my parents nothing, and I hope they never know
your mom comes across as the less mature person in that exchange
is your dad okay with things at least?
>is your dad okay with things at least?
I never came out to my dad because he's a schizophrenic QAnon alcoholic who's barely hanging on by a thread healthwise anyways. Like he's had two different kinds of cancer already, lifelong heavy drinker/smoker, etc.
damn i'm really sorry sparky
tell her to kill herself and never talk to her again
This is literally just someone who let someone cum inside them to create you. To her, she created you so she is your god. She’ll be dead one day and you’ll still be you. I’d say just move on who cares? My wife and I lost both parents by 30 and we’re the most adjusted happy people we know.
You may have to move on if things won't change. That's not always easy, but the alternative is putting yourself through extra suffering by fighting a lost battle.
Take care of yourself first and foremost. You already started doing so by transitioning to live your life properly.
If you have other people close to you, nourish and protect those connections. Remember your own worth and don't compromise for the sake of people who aren't and won't be willing to try for you.
>How to cope with parental rejection?
Replacing unsupportive family with found family is the best cope I could come up with rn. In other words :
Touch grass, refuse to let their manipulation control you, refuse to suppress yourself, meet people who love you and respect you.
parental rejection is your mom saying she loves you and always will? Damn my parents are monsters
it's a manipulation tactic
they use it to try to trap you in a relationship with them
"i will always love you" but then they refuse to respect your basic fundamental identity and existence
your parents were just more open about not actually loving you unconditionally
BPD mother
many such cases
By realising and internalising the fact that many people who have kids are mentally ill morons who think bringing new miserable souls into this world will solve their problems
You can do better than them and live a much more fulfilling life than they did.
lmao, why does your mom sound exactly like me when i am talking to my parents? its like your family is reversed