How to cope with parental rejection?


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How to cope with parental rejection?

  1. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    your parent is emotionally manipulating you with the "i still love you tho" shit
    you can either choose to forgive this behavior or cut them out of your life

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      >cut them out from your life
      >cut everyone who does not support your lifestyle from your life
      >left with no one left
      >die alone
      >forgotten by everyone forever
      Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >You should love people who hate you
        Just get some damn friends, it's a well known phenomenon for queer people anyways

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >Maybe you should love your family
        Maybe OP's family should love them.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          >I do love you very much and always will
          Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
            Maybe you should develop an IQ higher than a dungbeetle. That is an obvious lie. OP isn't even remotely selfish. The mother is.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            >Maybe OP should stop being selfish for just a split second
            Maybe OP should live for themselves and not others who're demonstrably selfish
            There's millions of people in this world, you owe your family nothing, there'll be countless others who'll love and appreciate you for who you are

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        >>left with no one left
        >>die alone
        by everyone forever
        >Many such cases. Maybe you should love your family

        what a shit post. let me finish your story if you decide to leave your family:

        >at your lowest point
        >start improving yourself out of spite, look pretty
        >find a bf
        >he lights up your world and treats you like a human
        >makes you become the girl you always were
        >holds you, kisses you, cuddles you, makes you feel loved
        >one day your parents come out of the blue wanting to "reconcile"
        >your bf is there, he's well aware of how your parents abandoned you at your worst
        >he instantly defends you, gets up and yells at them for hurting their daughter in the way they did
        >it's scary, but he's so strong and passionate about you, you can't help but blush and smile through the stressful situation
        >eventually your parents leave, defeated
        >bf goes to you and tell you there's nothing to be afraid of, and that he'll always be there for you no matter what
        >fuck like rabbits afterwards
        >get married, only closest friends allowed
        >live out the rest of your life together until you both die old together
        or you can go back and live with your parents who hate you and want to change you but they say they don't... your choice.

        • 2 days ago
          Anonymous

          Fairyfuckingtale

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        You are already alone. Those people clearly don't support you.

  2. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    make new connections, as soon as you stop caring about them they will realize troon hate hypno isnt actually worth losing your children over

    • 2 days ago
      sparky

      but I came out to her in 2016

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        why are you still trying to talk to her 7 years later, she's lost to TDS, let her go

        • 2 days ago
          sparky

          I've been boymoding since then and I was trying to get her to understand that I'm actually transitioning now. I had hoped that she might have come to terms with it a little more since then.

          Me age 18 vs 26

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Damn you pretty af maybe she just jealous

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            it’s over.

            • 2 days ago
              sparky

              wdym? I know I'm a hon

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            CAN WE GET MARRIED

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            what happened to your lips bro

            • 2 days ago
              sparky

              just duckfacing i'm so sorry please forgive me

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            damn, imagine throwing away looking like a hot indie rock dude in order to become a mediocre troon

            • 2 days ago
              sparky

              i hated being a boy and always wanted to be a girl i'm osrry

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                dont listen to them you are the cutest

                yes i simp for cute trans girls. wish i could be half as cute as you

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                Stop pursing your lips, it doesn't make you look better, just weird

            • 2 days ago
              Anonymous

              >hot indie rock dude
              The lies transphobes come up with lmao

              She is way hotter now. She just looks like a standard anxious nerd previously. Now she looks like she's coming into her own.

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            holy shit, its probably just that you are mogging her and shes jealous.

            • 2 days ago
              sparky

              i don't mog anyone i'm a hon and always will be until i can get ffs which I'll never be able to afford

          • 2 days ago
            Anonymous

            Did you ever have face hair?

            • 2 days ago
              sparky

              yes unfortunately.

              this is a recent pic from before one of my recent laser appointments.

              • 2 days ago
                sparky

                Oh yeah I meant to say I've had 6 sessions now though and it's mostly gone at this point.

                I never really had much beard area hair but I had really bad upper lip hair especially since my skin is pale and my hair is dark which made it more noticeable.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                If you're the same person I think I talked to a Sparky who looks a lot like you back in 2016. I was on blockers before I had face hair. I thought you were about my age?

              • 2 days ago
                sparky

                There's a high chance you talked to me back in 2016 yeah. I'm 26 right now. I started HRT on my 19th birthday.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                I tripped a few different names. One of them was Autumn Rainbow. Another was Wednesday Addams. I hardly ever post on here anymore. I'm glad to see you're doing well.

              • 2 days ago
                sparky

                I vaguely remember you. Add me on discord if you want sparky#1308

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                That's me the person you added LV

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                try stretching your mouth unironically that shit way too narrow

              • 2 days ago
                sparky

                My mouth isn't the problem it's my jaw which I hope to get shaved down a bit someday although I doubt FFS will ever be realistic for me.

                I got a job at Starbucks for FFS then they cut it not long after.

              • 2 days ago
                Anonymous

                no, even when before transition, even if you were a cisfoid, mouth is too narrow

  3. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    have sex

  4. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    Mistake 1 was telling her anything
    I told my parents nothing, and I hope they never know

  5. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    your mom comes across as the less mature person in that exchange
    is your dad okay with things at least?

    • 2 days ago
      sparky

      >is your dad okay with things at least?

      I never came out to my dad because he's a schizophrenic QAnon alcoholic who's barely hanging on by a thread healthwise anyways. Like he's had two different kinds of cancer already, lifelong heavy drinker/smoker, etc.

      • 2 days ago
        Anonymous

        damn i'm really sorry sparky

  6. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    tell her to kill herself and never talk to her again

  7. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    This is literally just someone who let someone cum inside them to create you. To her, she created you so she is your god. She’ll be dead one day and you’ll still be you. I’d say just move on who cares? My wife and I lost both parents by 30 and we’re the most adjusted happy people we know.

  8. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    You may have to move on if things won't change. That's not always easy, but the alternative is putting yourself through extra suffering by fighting a lost battle.
    Take care of yourself first and foremost. You already started doing so by transitioning to live your life properly.
    If you have other people close to you, nourish and protect those connections. Remember your own worth and don't compromise for the sake of people who aren't and won't be willing to try for you.

  9. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    >How to cope with parental rejection?
    Replacing unsupportive family with found family is the best cope I could come up with rn. In other words :

    Touch grass, refuse to let their manipulation control you, refuse to suppress yourself, meet people who love you and respect you.

  10. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    parental rejection is your mom saying she loves you and always will? Damn my parents are monsters

    • 2 days ago
      Anonymous

      it's a manipulation tactic
      they use it to try to trap you in a relationship with them
      "i will always love you" but then they refuse to respect your basic fundamental identity and existence
      your parents were just more open about not actually loving you unconditionally

  11. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    BPD mother
    many such cases

  12. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    By realising and internalising the fact that many people who have kids are mentally ill retards who think bringing new miserable souls into this world will solve their problems

    You can do better than them and live a much more fulfilling life than they did.

  13. 2 days ago
    Anonymous

    lmao, why does your mom sound exactly like me when i am talking to my parents? its like your family is reversed

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