How the fuck do you actually approach women in the bar

I went out last night. I just had a plain black t shirt, some jeans. I'm toned, caught some mires. Had a girl even stop me going outside because she asked me to dance. I had to go see a friend who was outside and check on him so I declined her offer.

Why the frick am I like this? Women are noticeably checking me out staring at my toned arms and even asking me to dance yet I still wont bother?

Is it the mindset?

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    and why didn't you dance with her

    bros got girls throwing themselves at him and he's still like "how do initiate female????"

    is it that you don't know how to dance

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ever wonder why every country song is about chicks at the bar?

    Women at bars are frickin hoes usually my man.

    It sounds like you are a motivated guy and I think subconsciously you know those women suck.

    As a side, casual sex is terrible. Like for real. It's pretty a major guilt trip and pregnancy scate.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >It sounds like you are a motivated guy and I think subconsciously you know those women suck
      I mean yeah, the girl that stopped me to dance was a bit chubby. Where else am I to meet women though?

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Oh man sorry OP you blew it, no nookie for you
        That said bars are pretty bad placed to meet women. They're noisy, smelly, and as others have pointed out you meet a lower quality of woman there.
        If you're just trying to get your dick wet they're ok but if you're trying to find a nice long term girlfriend you should just be cold approaching women.
        > Where else am I to meet women though?
        Wherever you see a woman you like and have an opportunity to talk to her for a few minutes? I've successfully cold approached girls at bus stops, stock girls at stores, etc. And I'm not Chad either, I'm a bit tall and have some muscle but I also have a beer belly and am a massive fricking weeb. If I can do it, you can

        Bruh, you literally didn’t shoot your shot. She left the goal wide open for you and you passed instead. This may sound mean, but I am saying this with genuine hope for you, quit being a pussy. You have all the tools in your toolbox already. go fricking use them.

        This

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not that anon, but how is it a guilt trip? Why feel guilty about casual sex?
      I get the pregnancy scare bit

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Your seed creates life. Casually throwing that shit around loose women is a mockery of God's dinve concept of life creation.

        You soul bond with them and from personal experience it's starts to rot your soul. Women are even worse. Once they get a certain amount of jizzum in and on them they become literal Liliths.

        Wonder why everything in the world is so shitty and gross right now? Casual sex is the beginning of it.

        The way I looked at it after I grew up was that I was fricking some dudes wife, I was ruining a girls head with my casual attitude, what if I make a bastard? Etc.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          Chase? Is that you?

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    With liquid MDMA, chloroform or a gun.

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    How weird is it to go alone?

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Bruh, you literally didn’t shoot your shot. She left the goal wide open for you and you passed instead. This may sound mean, but I am saying this with genuine hope for you, quit being a pussy. You have all the tools in your toolbox already. go fricking use them.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You don't, it's not possible.
    Women are not capable of socializing in a bar, they're just sitting at a table with their group. It's not possible to talk with them unless you already know someone in the group.

    If you want to talk to girls, you need to be in university, you need the school setting that makes women able to speak to strangers and also gives you something to talk with them about.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Women are not capable of socializing in a bar, they're just sitting at a table with their group. It's not possible to talk with them unless you already know someone in the group.
      Usually correct
      >If you want to talk to girls, you need to be in university
      Wrong, which is surprising because I see it repeated on here over and over (I guess most people here are just barely over age 18)
      I've never been more successful with women until AFTER I graduated uni

      Oh man sorry OP you blew it, no nookie for you
      That said bars are pretty bad placed to meet women. They're noisy, smelly, and as others have pointed out you meet a lower quality of woman there.
      If you're just trying to get your dick wet they're ok but if you're trying to find a nice long term girlfriend you should just be cold approaching women.
      > Where else am I to meet women though?
      Wherever you see a woman you like and have an opportunity to talk to her for a few minutes? I've successfully cold approached girls at bus stops, stock girls at stores, etc. And I'm not Chad either, I'm a bit tall and have some muscle but I also have a beer belly and am a massive fricking weeb. If I can do it, you can
      [...]
      This

      and quite frankly the quality of woman I was able to meet was better

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I've never been more successful with women until AFTER I graduated uni
        That doesn't apply to people who don't have mutual friends with women.
        When you don't have people who can introduce you to women, there's absolutely nowhere to ever get to speak to them, there's nowhere where women can speak to strangers anymore and there's no possible icebreakers/conversation topics to form a relationship. For men who don't have a large and active social circle, university is the only way to have conversations with women which is the only way to be successful with them.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >That doesn't apply to people who don't have mutual friends with women.
          >For men who don't have a large and active social circle, university is the only way to have conversations with women which is the only way to be successful with them.
          I have like three friends and I spend most of my time at home working on my business. I go out maybe once a month, the most social activity I get in a week is getting together with my business partners on Friday and drinking beer and watching OVAs from the 90s.
          It's sounds like a meme but it's really all about confidence. I built a pretty damn cool business and the confidence from my competence shows on my face. Get good at something, young man.

          Where did you meet said women if not through dating apps and uni?

          The places I literally just said? Retail stores, public transit, cafes, etc.
          If you're semi-attractive women won't mind. Sure some of them will only enjoy the ego boost and you'll never see them again, but you'll be surprised at how often you get digits

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >It's sounds like a meme but it's really all about confidence
            it is a meme and it's not at all about confidence. it's about verbal communication. women do not even know mens confidence before they speak to them, they pass by thousands of men every day without speaking to any of them despite all of these men being confident.
            Get good at something child or at least develop some confidence and you will see that it doesn't work.
            It's all about school and mutual friends who give men chance to speak to women.
            >Retail stores, public transit, cafes
            No one speaks to strangers there you fricking moron. You massive autistic shut in. You have never been to any of these places, no one talks to strangers there, there's nothing to talk about here. It cannot ever result in relationship as there's nothing to talk about there and womens autistic nature prevents them from forming relationships there

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Everybody look at this man
            This is the man who defeats himself in his head before even beginning the battle
            This is a man who will never win, never succeed, and anyone reading his posts should strive to never be like him
            In short, this is the type of man who'd literally be better off crossdressing and taking hormones

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Everybody look at this man
            This is the man who defeats himself in his head and instead of facing reality lives in his daydreams
            This is a man who will never win, never succeed, and anyone reading his posts should strive to never be like him
            In short, this is the same type of man who is literally already crossdressing and taking hormones

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Holy shit you are such a self-absorbed LOSER lol
            >NOOOOOO THERE CAN'T BE PEOPLE HAVING SEX! IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME THEREFORE IT'S IMPOSSIBLE FOR EVERYONE!!!
            Whatever you say, bro, your words don't make the blowjob I got in the parking lot of a Walgreens a month ago from the stock girl that thought I was cute and couldn't wait to suck my dick, not real

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Holy fricking shit you are such a self-absorbed LOSER LMAO

            Write me a 20-30 minute long conversation you'd have with a complete stranger in
            1) Retail stores, 2) public transit, 3) cafes
            just like you could have in school or at a party with friends
            write exactly what would you say that lets both you and the woman learn about each other enough to agree to meet you later on, like she'd agree to meet a classmate
            if you cannot do it, you prove that you have never done it and are just another loser troony, shut in your room and never doing the garbage you copy paste over and over
            You cannot win this battle, you never fought ever before in your life. You will just sit still in your delusion and fabricated life. You have never and will never succeed and will just keep taking your injection alone and miserable.

            and now 4) write exactly what would you say, word by word to a cashier that ends with a blowjob right now. Word by word, the whole interaction. If you cannot do it, you admit you're just some troony lying on here

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            tl;dr
            It so funny to me how much this is fricking you up. You're raging and probably literally shaking with rage right now as you type out each response. You have some serious fricking issues. What lack of pussy does to a motherfricker I guess

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            exactly, you just admitted to being a delusional troony, It so funny to me how much this is fricking you up. You're raging and probably literally shaking with rage right now as you type out each response. You have some serious mental issues. What complete lack of pussy does to a motherfricker I guess keep your crossdressing and taking hormones because you have no fricking clue what a conversation you claim could happen coul ever sound like, you fricking defeated loser

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're getting so worked up you're imagining things, holy frick this is awesome

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Schooler is off his meds again

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            This shit didn’t happen

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Everybody look at this man
            This is the man who defeats himself in his head and instead of facing reality lives in his daydreams
            This is a man who will never win, never succeed, and anyone reading his posts should strive to never be like him
            In short, this is the same type of man who is literally already crossdressing and taking hormones

            Holy fricking shit you are such a self-absorbed LOSER LMAO

            Write me a 20-30 minute long conversation you'd have with a complete stranger in
            1) Retail stores, 2) public transit, 3) cafes
            just like you could have in school or at a party with friends
            write exactly what would you say that lets both you and the woman learn about each other enough to agree to meet you later on, like she'd agree to meet a classmate
            if you cannot do it, you prove that you have never done it and are just another loser troony, shut in your room and never doing the garbage you copy paste over and over
            You cannot win this battle, you never fought ever before in your life. You will just sit still in your delusion and fabricated life. You have never and will never succeed and will just keep taking your injection alone and miserable.

            and now 4) write exactly what would you say, word by word to a cashier that ends with a blowjob right now. Word by word, the whole interaction. If you cannot do it, you admit you're just some troony lying on here

            >Incel rage is real

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            You're getting so worked up you're imagining things, holy frick this is awesome

            Keep seething and frothing at your mouth, you already proved you had gotten 0 pussy in your whole life
            you will will never win, never succeed, you're just stuck being an incel moron

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            The funny part is I'm just vibing, you're copying my responses to try to reply as fast as possible because you're so utterly shook
            That wasn't even me calling you an incel, my dude 😉

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            The funny thing is, you just admitted your posts were complete bullshit, you're so utterly BTFO my dude

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Kek, you are so bent out of shape I only find it funny, dude Are you going to keep replying all day? That'd be hilarious!

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            lmao you're still so triggered, is this first time you got called out? are you gonna stay this worked up all day long??

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Where did you meet said women if not through dating apps and uni?

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    every day schooler wakes up his purpose in life is to tell people that strangers don't talk to each other unless they have a mutual school friend, no one has any hobbies, and there's no girls on dating apps.

    oh and of course to gaslight anyone and everyone who did meet a girl at a bar or somewhere else.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >no one has any hobbies
      No one has said this you fricking sperg
      and no one has met girls at bars or anywhere else unless it was by meeting them through friends.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        >No one has said this you fricking sperg
        you say something in that general ballpark, no?
        like there's no such thing as hobby store but if there is there's no one to talk it's all lonely incels and there's no women and even if there's women them it's impossible to talk about the hobbies because uuuh homework or whatever

        >and no one has met girls at bars or anywhere else unless it was by meeting them through friends.

        So for all human history not a single stranger said hello to another one at a bar - or anywhere else for that matter. Your whole thing is that strangers never talk to one another after school.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          >So for all human history not a single stranger said hello to another one at a bar - or anywhere else for that matter. Your whole thing is that strangers never talk to one another after school.
          Yeah, at least not in a way to form a relationship. Saying "hi" doesn't mean you're meeting anyone, having a conversation means to exchange sentences back and forth for a prolonged period of time. Hello isn't that, it doesn't result in a relationship or a girlfriend. Your whole thing is that 1 word = relationship which isn't true
          >like there's no such thing as hobby store but if there is there's no one to talk it's all lonely incels and there's no women and even if there's women them it's impossible to talk about the hobbies
          yeah exactly
          internet exists, when people want to buy something related to a hobby they can get it from internet. no one will ever get to speak to anyone or learn their hobby
          Your whole thing is that if someone isn't constantly in a store talking to everyone in the store then they don't have a hobby, which means that it's you who thinks no one alive has any hobby because uuuuuuh muh stores or whatever

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Why is schooler still talking?

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            he will never stop talking until we go "oh... oh yeah well I guess I never did meet those girls at the bar or those night clubs or online or at the gym or concert... yeah. no of course that never did happen haha how even would I have a conversation that's not about school?"

            or we provide him with another 500 page script of dialogue that he can also get mad at

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Your whole thing is that 1 word = relationship which isn't true
            No, that's just how conversations start. Obviously there's more than just "hello"

            my point is that obviously people meet at bars as strangers, always did.

            >Your whole thing is that if someone isn't constantly in a store talking to everyone in the store then they don't have a hobby, which means that it's you who thinks no one alive has any hobby because uuuuuuh muh stores or whatever
            but you actually don't have any hobbies, literally all you do is post about school and get mad when people talk about how they met girls somewhere else.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >my point is that obviously people meet at bars as strangers, always did.

            No they don't, all the women there just sit at tables with their own group and only talk to those groups. There's nothing to say to them and no one wants to speak to some stranger who interrupted their meeting and just hovers over their table silently after your "hello"
            >but you actually don't have any hobbies
            No, you don't have any hobbies and you proeject that on others. Literelly all you do is spam same list of places and then get mad when people point out to you that internet exists and people don't just stand in their designated stores or else lose their right to claim they have a hobby or whatever else, all while never speaking to any women anyway

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >tables and groups
            okay, I know there's only one bar in your village, but move to a city where there's real bars with dance floors and smoking lounges.

            People at bars don't just hang out in their own isolated little clumps of cell-like groups. They dance and talk to and hang out with the people around them as well.
            >There's nothing to say to them
            that's you. That's your problem since you can't think of anything besides school.

            >No, you don't have any hobbies and you proeject that on others. Literelly all you do is spam same list of places and then get mad when people point out to you that internet exists and people don't just stand in their designated stores or else lose their right to claim they have a hobby or whatever else, all while never speaking to any women anyway
            So I don't have any hobbies except for the hobbies that I go to the hobby stores for which you say also don't exist.

            extremely cool logic

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            Listen I know you're stuck in some potato shithole but move to a city and see a real life bar. Every woman in there is just sitting at their table with her group. If they dance, they do it with a friend/boyfriend.
            People in bars absolutely do just hang out in their own isolated little clumps of cell-like groups. They only dance and talk to and hang out with the people around them, the people they already know, the ones they're isolated with, never any strangers.
            >that's you
            That's everyone. That's you as well, you have never written us this 20-30 minute long conversation just sperged out immidietly when asked. You can't think of anything besides school.
            >So I don't have any hobbies except for the hobbies that I go to the hobby stores for which you say also don't exist.
            You have no hobbies, literally all you do is post about going to a hobby store and get mad when people point out to you that internet stores exist.
            Majority of hobbies on this planet do not even involve any stores at all, I don't know why you're so fricking obsessed with the word "hobby store". WTF even is that? How isolated is your shithole village to come up with this moronic concept.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            No cause see I've danced with strangers, I've talked to strangers, I've made out with strangers

            and hobby stores are real my dude, so are the people inside of them. If not, the place would be out of business and it would be some ghetto vape shop instead or something and even that's a hobby to some people. A hobby store is a store that specializes in a certain hobby. There's stores that sell trading card games & tabletop RPGs. Some stores focus exclusively on the LARP hobby/lifestyle. Record stores, obviously, for people who are into more eclectic music and still buy physical media and aren't spotify normie streamers. There's clothing stores that sell only punk/metal/goth clothes. There's stores that sell nothing but plastic models of WWII fighter planes and Japanese robots. A hobby. You should know what a hobby is. Even if you don't have one.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            So that option is only available to people in cities

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            No not really, even frickin Chris Chan in his dumpy Virginia community was able to hang out at a game shop for like 15 years.

            But generally speaking sure the most specific hobby stores with lots of people passing through everyday will usually be found in big cities and not so much small towns.

            Same with specific bars and nightclubs. If you live in some dinky ass town with only one bar on the main street that suck I guess you don't have the luxury of going to a nerdy barcade to play video games with nerdy chicks or go to the goth night club.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            No because even if you do go to a city, no one goes to these stores or talks to people there.
            He has no clue what a hobby is, he just read word "hobby store" on a list of random places on reddit enough times that now he has to keep repeating it. He has no hobbies at all and has never been to any of his "hobby stores" he probably doesn't even know what a hobby is.

            The only option is to go to university again and speak to people there or to meet someone through friends you already have.

            No not really, even frickin Chris Chan in his dumpy Virginia community was able to hang out at a game shop for like 15 years.

            But generally speaking sure the most specific hobby stores with lots of people passing through everyday will usually be found in big cities and not so much small towns.

            Same with specific bars and nightclubs. If you live in some dinky ass town with only one bar on the main street that suck I guess you don't have the luxury of going to a nerdy barcade to play video games with nerdy chicks or go to the goth night club.

            If you live in a city, you still don't have that luxury because nerdy chicks and goth will just be sitting autistically at their table with their group.
            And guess what, chrischan never met anyone either and that shit was like 20 years ago before people used internet to buy their garbage.

            Nearly every single hobby that exists does not involve physical stores whatsoever. There is no way to meet any people at all in big cities except for meeting them through mutual friends or in schools.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >chrischan never met anyone either
            he met so many people that it ended up ruining his life, but that's another argument for another time.

            >If you live in a city, you still don't have that luxury because nerdy chicks and goth will just be sitting autistically at their table with their group.

            table what table why is every a frickin high school cafeteria for you god damn

            >Nearly every single hobby that exists does not involve physical stores whatsoever.
            hey whoops that's weird cause literally every one of my hobbies has at least a few stores in the city.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >No cause see I've danced with strangers, I've talked to strangers, I've made out with strangers

            No you didn't. You cannot do it there.
            I could write that I've conquered China, I am 200 feet tall I am in control of the sun but I cannot prove any of it or write how I had done it just like you cannot write what would you say.
            You have no hobbies, literally all you do is post about going to a hobby store and get mad when people point out to you that internet stores exist.
            Majority of hobbies on this planet do not even involve any stores at all. You should know what a hobby is.
            If you think clothing stores is a hobby go ahead and write me exactly what would you say in one
            You're in H&M, you see a woman, write exactly this 20-30 minute long conversation that takes place there. What would you say you fricking moron? You cannot do it, you never can and never will be able to do so.
            Exsistence of spotify and computer games invalidates your whole idea since they're hobbies that don't involve stores. Existence of online stores in general destroys your whole worldview. Almost no one who has a hobby will ever step a foot into any store you named, they will just do it online. And to meet these people, you need schools or mutual friends with them, it's the only possible way to meet people.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >If you think clothing stores is a hobby go ahead and write me exactly what would you say in one
            A specialty store bro, that's why i mentioned goth and punk etc. I also mentioned the LARP stores where they sell make believe knight armor and wizard's robes and like medievel banners to hang in your apartment etc.

            They're specialty stores that cater to a specific hobby, not a frickin wal mart or H&M lol

            >I could write that I've conquered China, I am 200 feet tall I am in control of the sun but I cannot prove any of it or write how I had done it just like you cannot write what would you say.
            no cause I'm not gonna waster any mroe time on you especially when you think a 20 minute conversation can be written down in 30 seconds and 50 words. The difference between you claiming to be 200 lbs and conquered the sun or whatever is that of course that's purely fiction, not something you could actually do. You could actually go talk to a woman at a bar.

            >online stores
            again, those exist sure but so do the physical stores still. And moreso the people who casually buy shit online form amazon or whatever are casuals who aren't really into whatever hobby. The people who go to the physical stores are the real ones.

            I hope you find yourself a nice hobby one of these days, even maybe a gf.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            >You could actually go talk to a woman at a bar
            No you couldn't. You never could because they just sit isolated in their little groups. There is no difference and they're all lies.

            You also just admitted to lying AGAIN you couldn't write what would you have said in your own moronic example AGAIN because you admit it cannot ever happen. No one speaks to strangers in stores. And it makes no difference if its walmart or a "hobby store that is in 1 specific city on the planet" no one talks to strangers in stores.
            If someone wants to buy a banner or whatever, they order it online.

            I hope you find yourself a nice hobby one of these days to see it's not at all a solution, you cannot ever get a gf through it as women will never be able to speak to you to learn what this hobby is.
            No hobby on this planet requires anyone to be locked in a store 24/7 or talk to anyone in it, no one goes to stores for their hobbies they just do it on their own and talks about it with their friends and orders shit online if they need something

            >How the frick do you actually approach women in the bar

            You don't as it cannot happen.

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            I have spoken to strangers in hobby stores, we talked about our mutual hobby. We introduced ourselves, and then we weren't strangers anymore.

            If you're unable to talk to anyone anywhere about anything, what makes you think people will want to talk to you in school?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Kek nice
      >oh and of course to gaslight anyone and everyone who did meet a girl at a bar or somewhere else.
      *Tries to gaslight, in reality they just come off super unhinged (and then wonder why they seem to creep women out)

      >no one has any hobbies
      No one has said this you fricking sperg
      and no one has met girls at bars or anywhere else unless it was by meeting them through friends.

      Shut up, schooler

  8. 10 months ago
    Garrote

    Attract more than chase.
    Never miss a window.
    Snowball it.

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How the frick do you actually approach women in the bar

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a female who goes to the bar alone, sits alone and gets drinks, desperately wanting anybody to talk to me but it never happens lol. I don't know if I'm butt ugly or broken or something. I wish people interacted with strangers more

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      no nooooooo you're supposed to be sitting with an impenetrable circle of friends at a table, that never happened, women cannot be alone at bars wanting to meet new people, write 30 minutes of dialogue

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you never get approached if you’re alone at a bar as a woman you’re probably not attractive. I mean if you’re at least marginally attractive you’d have at least a few Shlubs try to chat you up.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I've concluded it's got to be that kek. I work out so it's not like I don't try though. Might have to bite the bullet and just do dating apps

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          For a woman, it’s not a requirement to be in shape. Don’t you see all these fat chics dating Men? A lot of the Men are Chads too with fat women.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah I've concluded it's got to be that kek. I work out so it's not like I don't try though. Might have to bite the bullet and just do dating apps

      Why don't (You) try approaching guys then?

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