Sometimes I read posts here of anons claiming they are 30+ yo virgins and it just sounds like a larp to me.
There is no way you can miss out on that much in life and not kill yourself or at least fuck a prostitute.
Are you really a KISSLESS, HANDHOLDLESS, HUGLESS virgin?
I am a 22yo virgin and im close to insanity.
nah I'm just a kisless virgin
t. 21
i started having sex when i was 17. i was a virgin before then.
Do not bother asking. There are trannies who lurk around here to demoralize you. They will pretend to be sex havers.
Examples:
For me, I only had sex when I was 17, and never again. Almost 30 now.
>There is no way you can miss out on that much in life and not kill yourself or at least fuck a prostitute
28yo khhv here. You can if your life doesn't revolve around sex like it does for normalnaggers like you.
you're probably a lying larp moron tho
Why would I come here to larp about it?
because it's become trendy to pretend you are a sexless loser or victim.
nta but wh-what?
you have no idea how good you have it
That only applies to fem""cels"", not to robots like me.
most robots still have sex.
It's probably trendy because more men are going without sex.
Most people in general have sex, obviously. Most people are normal looking.
Most users on here therefore are going to have had (and can have) sex, that doesn't mean anything for the ones who genuinely didn't have those people's luck when it came to genetics and circumstance, those of us who aren't just posting on here to be edgy but genuinely are just unlovable virgins.
>more men are going without sex
only by choice. porn is so easy
How does watching porn having sex?
they choose porn because it's easier than sex.
Retard. No one is being given the choice between sex and porn.
This. I actually was married very early and I pick porn over actual women. It is too hard these days in terms of what they want you to do for them. And there is always going to be one simp who does.
>Most people in general have sex
Yeah I'm sure the 5'4 microdick Chinks and curries who make up over half the population are out there fucking
Unironically yes, they are. The unique problem for men from first world nations is that they can't just get into a western country, become comparatively rich on 3 minimum wage jobs then go back to their country and just date anyone they choose. Being an incel is quite literally a first world problem.
Yes, they are, retard. They're not being compared to 6 feet chad unless Chad comes to their country (where he then has his pick of the litter, that's not just limited to Chad, but just white boys in general) so they get laid for the time being.
You literally get bullied if you tell people you're a virgin, i am forced to lie about it
>if your life doesn't revolve around sex like it does for normalnaggers
this, being reduced to how attractive you are or aren't and how much sex you have sounds like a miserable and empty way to go through life
Yeah, 32 khhv, not hugless as Heather unexpectedly asked me for a hug at graduation in 2009. It's crazy how bad you can squander your life.
I just wanted to be acknowledged
if your pic is really you then we are truly screwed.
It must be your behavior and personality because physically there isn't a lot wrong tbh, only you have an autistic stance. Loosen up bro. Work out twice a week, eat protein and try to look like you sre having fun in life and chicks will find you
ur cute wtf
discord?
25 kv here
I've got a nice job, few irl friends and some kind of social skills but being short, unatractive and shy around new people means it's over.
I'm a 27 year old khhv neet. Never tried to get a girlfriend, job, or driver's license even once. All of my time is spent alone on my computer
baaaa baaa baa baaaaaaaaaased, i finally had to get a job at 26. enjoy it while you can anon
>all men are copies of ME
I'm a 24 year old khhv, but I'm isolated in my own world and I don't have a real frame of reference about what I've supposedly missed out on beyond what gets posted here. As far as I'm concerned, the only difference between adulthood and being a kid is you have to work 40 hours a week now and manage your own schedule and budget.
>There is no way you can miss out on that much in life and not kill yourself or at least fuck a prostitute.
Well, I've survived the first half of my 20's a virgin.
If I'm too much of a failure to have ever had a girlfriend, what makes you think I'm capable of successfully killing myself?
im 45 and still a virgin. i have multiple mental illnesses and i havent had a job in 20 years so i cant buy a prostitute. when i was young i always told myself that one day id find a woman if i stayed positive and had hobbies. it never happened. i dont really care about sex these days. my psychiatric medication destroyed my libido years ago.
38yo khv reporting in.
hang in there, fren
Shut the fuck up and listen the fuck up you dumb whore boy. There's no real love in meaningless sex, I'm a 20 yo virgin and I predict that I will be a virgin for at least 2 years since I don't feel hope when it comes to finding a tomboy gf of my dreams. I don't give a fuck about normal women, if you like chasing girly stuff like a moron then go wear some girly dresses and have a gay tea party with your troon squad
Lost my virginity earlier this year... at the age of 31. Hooker, obviously.
Never had a date and not for the lack of trying. At best I was gently rejected. At worst they ran away like I was some kind of rapist... despite knowing me for months and sitting next to me at classes (at least until I asked her out for coffee).
27 virgin here. I've kissed, held hands and hugged. Never had sex. The last girl I was with threw out the "I'm Asexual!" card at me despite the fact like I said, kissed, held hands and hugged but outright refused sex.
I don't think it bothers me too much. It's not something I chase nowadays.
32, virgin. Well, I got assraped by homosexuals when I was a kid but that doesn't count, I've never fucked a woman.
details! details!
Penis is small so theres no point in trying
34 here. In many respects I'm successful but I think people can detect there's something not quite right under the surface.
I'm 23 but I've kissed girls and went on a couple dates but that's it. Never anything beyond that and it's a shame. No one ever wanted to go that far with me or they'd change their mind last second it felt. I've held hands and hugged but high school P.E. basically forced us to do that for square dancing.
Honestly I was fine being alone just being content. What makes me feel insane is having to deal with the uncertainty of dating these girls that only really care about how they feel. Before all that bullshit I was fine. It's the failed attempts that cause disruptions.
I turn 30 in 17 days, still a virgin
I tried a shit ton of times, I was at all kinds of parties and yet still stayed a khhv
Now I just cope with sitting in my room playing videogames and jerk off
I'm a 27 y/o khhhv. I'm 185cm tall and have a 20cm dick
32 KHV
You know me, LULZ knows me, everybody knows me.
Who are you? sincere question
Alabama PewDiePie?
i don't know who you are nagger and i dont fucking care
shut up Jason
I'm a 26 year old KHHV and I'll never go for a prostitue
I'm a 23 kv it's really not the difficult to end up a 30+ Virgin especially if you have some type of social disorder like autism or just bad social skills in general
23 khhv.
ssris killed any drive i had so i dont feel bad about being one. i suppose id hate to be in your shoes OP. going crazy from not having sex is a bit weird.
34 here. Once you get a job, the years fucking flash by without any changes.
Fuck I even feel my body is already starting to deteriorate. Injuries don't heal as fast anymore. Knees and back hurt.
I look at pictures of myself from 14 years ago and see someone that still had some hope.
At 30+ there is only bitterness. There was never any real hope
Same age and can relate bro, so many chances in my 20s when I was good looking now gone. I look pretty much exactly like Cockmongler today, except less hair.
22 khhv, I simply feel no desire for women(or men, I'm not a fag) and I never have. I am content being alone, in fact I prefer it
Had sex when I was 4
Im borderline retarded and have extreme socializing issues. I think I turn 32 this year. I kind of gave up counting because there is no point.
27
KV
I stopped socialising after high school, and now I never get a chance to talk to girls because I rarely go outside. I'm pretty immature for my age, have a shitty job and I'm very short. I had a few chances at school with girls who liked me but I was never really interested in them. It's pretty much over for me.
I was a virgin until 25
40 now and married for 10 years
Just got fed up and applied myself
Are you happier? Why would you still visit this shithole if you were?
>Are you happier?
Immeasurably happier. My ex was kind of a cunt and fucked with my head but my wife is the fucking shit. We were friends for years before hand and when circumstances aligned we started going out. Hanging out with her when we were friends was literally like hanging out with your bros. Now we just do the same shit we did as friends, but now she lets me nut inside of her and we share finances.
>Why would you still visit this shithole if you were?
LULZ? Implying you can ever leave
/LULZ/? Its like visiting the old neighborhood after you make it
How did you do it at 25? I have no idea where to go to meet girls
It was 2008
He wasn't in the hyper-inflated dating apps era
Dating apps are for boomers. If you are 25 you will meet tons of girls at bars and music events.
>bars and music events
and are these not typically trashy girls?
Trashy in what way? If you want upper class proper girls then the bars would be cocktail bars, preferably private events, and the music events would be orchestral, folk, or jazz
when I think of music events I usually think of junkies on acid and portapotties, but I guess you have a point
I got out of the military in 2006 and lost my social life which was my Navy shipmates
I reconnected with some old friends from middle/high school through World of Warcraft of all things and started hanging out in person. There were girls there. They were pretty. My ex was a shitty healer but my wife is actually an elite hunter and healer. I used to tank and we would raid all night while she healed me and then we would have the best sex after
I miss those days
29 khhv here. I stopped asking girls out in high school after being publicly humiliated by them too many times. While I do have a full time job in management I still live with my parents because it's literally impossible to buy a house in Canada now.
I've accepted that I'll die a lonely virgin.
>it's literally impossible to buy a house in Canada now.
I'm once again asking how the fuck normies can have sex while living with parents, I don't understand how they do it.
32y old Wizard reporting in. There's more and more fuss about it, like it used to be a LULZ thing but now normalhomosexuals start talking about more and more since apparently society needs men having sex so they can consume and contribute to society haha. Too fucking bad.
25 old appretiance wizard here
What should look up to when i reach your age?
I am currently saving enough to buy some land in the forest and become insane doing psychodelics and meet god so i can spit on his ugly face for putting me in this shithole planet
>What should look up to when i reach your age?
No one believes you if you tell them you're a virgin, they will think you're joking or that that's your pick up line lol. Also topic of virginity doesn't come up often, but people constantly assume you're in relationship when you're 30. It's annoying because it's awkward when people at work etc will try to do small talk and they say something like "oh you're going on holiday? you're taking your wife/gf somewhere?". It's cringe to say "acthually I don't have a wife/gf" and if you don't say anything it's also awkward because it's like you're pretending you have someone. Oh and some people do try to analyse/diagnose you like it's something unthinkable to not have anyone at this age lol, normalfags really think sex/relationship is like breathing and everyone just does it.
Well that sucks but not any diferent from what i already have to deal with so.......
Whatever
>Unfortunate times
Indeed but i feel like there is something more evil in this, saomething daemonic
idk about demonic, but it isn't by accident
Yeah, fuck 'em.
Not providing for some hoe that ate cum literally for decades.
Didn't lose it until 27 after I literally begged a girl in an open relationship to take my virginity. Biggest disappointment of my life. Even uncut I felt almost nothing with a condom on.
You on medications of some sort? I've a khv but I accidentally tasted a girl's breath once and that alone was possibly the greatest physical sensation I've ever had.
No, just used to a hand after all those years I guess. Even the blowjob just felt weird instead of how amazing it seems in the videos. Or maybe she was just bad at it. Almost 33 now and I had sex without condom twice after that, which was a world of difference.
inb4 normie. I don't consider being able to count your sexual experience on 1 hand as normal at 30+.
Oh I'm retarded, I read your first post as implying your were condomless somehow
You can be a non virgin and still an incel. It means involuntary celibate.
Prostitution is illegal in goymerica. Im 29 and still seckless. At least I can admit my reasons as to why:
>live with parents
>flunked out of uni with debt
>I am short
>I am antisocial
>I hate drinking
>I hate religion
>I barely work some minimal wage office job part time and either play guitar or play daggerfall, koikstsu, or aa2 when I am off from work
>I generally hate everyone around me anyways
I accepted my fate. I am not going to bitch about being an incel at 29 when I just don't care for society anymore. I am capable of keeping savings even if it's not alot. I plan on buying an Quest III for porn when that comes out.
Incel=/=virgin
Pardon my misuse of vocabulary but I thought the two were interchangeable. But in terms of being sexless, yeah, I never had sex other than with my hand on the regular. But so are a bunch of other people. Most people are too poor to have a relationship these days. Unless they were lucky enough to get a degree and get a job through connections so I don't feel too bad about being sexless as O used to. It's just something I grew out of. I can brag about being stronger than Elliot Rodger because I lived longer as a virgin than he did before he pussied out.
No need to apologize just educating.
Holy shit, are ......you me?
Cause you definently share my mental state
Hey brother. It makes me feel better every time I hear of someone else in the same position as I am. It makes me think our situation is not unusual or entirely our fault. I do believe these are some very very unfortunate times.
I'm so stupid. I let my horniness get the best of me. I saw an escort and lost it to her. Never had a gf or a relationship though.
>t. 21 yo
am I a relationship virgin? It was ok, but I regret doing it.
Nevertheless, you were touched by a woman and lost your V card, that alone makes you a normie
Get the fuck out of here and follow your kind
>makes you a normie
escorts/hookers don't give a fuck what you look like. Just be clean (not smelly, cut nails, etc). you can be fat, skinny, athletic, etc. it doesn't matter. anyone can do it. how can I be normie if I've had a gf? getting a gf requires some skill unless you're chad
>how can I be normie if I've had a gf
never had a gf I mean
>How can i be a normie if i never had a Gf
Dont make me repeat myself, you lost your v card and were touched by a woman, that alone condemns you
Like ebola, you were infected, is over
So, Again
Get the fuck out of here an never come back, normie
i guess not kHHV anymore, but I am still incel. again, I've never had a gf. I'm not normie if i am incel keks.
>never come back
I wish I was true normie tier
You truly want me to repeat myself isnt?
>uses normie
>thinks he has any right to tell anyone to go away
summer is over, why are you still here?
35yo wizard here. I kissed a girl once back in 2009 at least
I dropped out of college and wasted my 20s as a NEET living in my parents' basement. Now I'm old and poor with nothing to offer
We accept you
We accept you
One of Us
I'm sure it's nice but I've accepted a long time ago that it just isn't in the cards for me. At this point I'm numb and I wouldn't even know what to do with a girl if I ever had the opportunity. Call it maximum copium but I'm content with my video games and masturbation.
23yo and never even went on a date. If I didnt love my mom I would probably be a homeless crackhead by now, I genuinely hate being alive and want to be asleep or wasted all the time. Whenever I see a couple I feel the strong urge to bash my head against a wall full-force
nice body :3
Thanks bro. Unfortunately its attached to a mentally ill intel
You are handsome and seem to be able to care about a woman. I'm sure you could find someone that will care about you as well. Please don't give up on yourself :3
Thanks for the words of encouragement anon
32 not khhv. Had like 8 prostitutes and 6 or 7 hookups. I even got my bachelor's last year. But. Drug addict, short, never been in relationship, no friends, only doggo and PC 14 hrs a day while I pray for job interviews. Online dating is trash and I'm finally realising what I am and losing my hope and motivation to ever have a girlfriend. At first it was the drugs but now I'm just a miserable paranoid shut-in. The sad part is I love the lifestyle, I love tech and games I love being inside. Even though I get outside and try to be normal its just not going to happen. I don't get sad and cry about shit but I'm so apathetic. All I wanted was love and nobody would like me back. Now I'm just numb and trying takes too much effort.
Here
For you, normie
>6 or 7 hookups
this man here is normie
hookups require you to be somewhat attractive.
I dont Care
You both are normies on this Book, therefore need to get the fuck out and never come back
You are both infected and i am the Guard trying to save the town from your sorry ass existance
>i am the Guard trying to save the town
i'm not leaving, anon
.
Son, you better get the fuck out and return to your normie kind, Asap
This town is only for incels and virgins and since you dont fill the Part, you get Nothing
Go back to where you came from, normie
I'm a 32 year old khhv. I tried when I was younger and gave up in my mid 20's. Lost weight and started working out recently though and I seem to be having more positive interactions than previously.
build on those positive interactions. keep doing what you're doing, youre going to make it
Thanks, I'm trying. I did spill my spaghetti at the dispensary today with the cute cashier but I think I recovered alright.
I'll just say
All the guys who copes... like "yea anyway I am not interested in chasing pussy" "I don't revolve my life around hoes" etc
Are the SICKEST and more depressed
Getting sex and girls for a REAL MAN (not a sissy low test homosexual) is something ESSENTIAL, is like eating, is something needed
Plus it encourages the life of a man for everything... if you get a high quality young hot girl, you will be compiting against many other guys, so it encourages to be the best version of yourself
Fucking girls rises self-esteem astronomically too, that's why you see the chads acting confident
In resume fucking girls as a man is something ESSENTIAL, the abstinence derives in mental illnesses and physical decay
Think about having sport cars, yachts, mansions, private airplane, but without any girls to share that with, it would be shit and boring... there isn't so much in this stupid life to do besides fucking young hot girls
Pls tell me how I can become mental and feel uber confidence and joy and no bad feelings from no sex. I want to be constantly confident what do I do?
23, purely v.
Best strategy for robots is to settle for a "non-binary" woman or whatever the current version of a tumblr girl would be.
They are your female equivalent, chasing women who look like OPs pic is a complete waste of time and effort if you're an autist.
Also from experience the female nerd types will at least pretend to give a shit about your autistic hobbies, whatever they might be.
I am 21 years old and a KHHV
The last time I had a female friend I was 12 years old. Even best, the last time I could have a conversation with a female that was not about school or work I was 12 years old.
Nowadays Im still trying to have some hope, but I guess its game over for me. I have never dated either while women of my age go to clubs and have sex every weekend. Initially I wished I could have a first love with a girl who didnt have a first love either, but at my age that is asking for the impossible.
I get sad and find everything pointless. If I got a girl, she would be my first in everything, and I would be just another dude on her list. Its brutal.
>Best strategy for robots is to settle for a "non-binary" woman or whatever the current version of a tumblr girl would be.
It really depends on the kind of guy you are yourself. Tumblr girls want pretty tumblr boys. Ive seen them outside a lot of times, and I can not really see myself in those guys
>Like how would I even do it?
It happens authomatically and on the spot. Its true, its a "click", but it needs to come from both of you. If I had to describe it, imagine you approach a girl, and there is something funny about that girl that tickles your subconscious mind. Suddenly a burst of confidence hits you. Confidence like you never had. If you are anxious you calm down. You are high. You just know what to say. Everything you say is on the spot. The girl reacts positively to you. You notice it. You just know it, she is in your bag. Everything about you screams "I am a man", and everything about her screams "I am a woman". You cant fuck it up.
If this does not happen right away, it will probably never happen anon. And its funny because people keep talking about "having a personality" and acting alright because they never realize it wasnt their attitude that got them girlfriends, it was the initial mutual attraction that unlocked their "Chad-like" personality.
>The girl reacts positively to you. You notice it. You just know it, she is in your bag. Everything about you screams "I am a man", and everything about her screams "I am a woman". You cant fuck it up.
Exactly this, its mutual good chemistry which is the driving force between attraction that leads to more.
People claiming its anything else is literally cope.
Wondering if going to dance class and holding the hands of the women there makes me only a kv instead of a khv, but anyway
If what you say is true then I guess that makes me the most boring guy ever, even if somewhat good looking, which explains why everyone acts cordial in the beginning then soon after just start politely distancing themselves from me...
>Tumblr girls want pretty tumblr boys
Understand I don't mean cutesy emo normie-adjacent tumblr girls (the whole Tumblr thing was just an example anyway) I mean fat, BPD, Steven Universe fanblog-having Tumblr girls. Women who would be femcels if men hadn't figured out they'd be easy to settle for.
Tumblrettes have the same standarts the girl in OP's picture has.
The only women with lower standarts are the ones that have no social media profiles
Yep, 22 years and a virgin.
Already given up really, I know it's a meme to say that but I just can't imagine myself being able speak to and just generally know a girl in that way which leads to sex. Like how would I even do it? For everyone else it just seems to be a natural thing, no self improvement, planning, or discussion required.
I'm a 29yo virgin but I did make out with a drunk girl once
yeah i am a kissless, handholdless, hugless virgin at 31. it happens easier than you think. all it takes is be ugly and have absolutely no friend group. haven't had a friend online or irl in well over a decade and i just rot away as a shut in NEET. i am far past even being able to imagine a woman ever considering me as date material and i fully expect to die a virgin. it is what it is.
Time flies and you can easily be a virgin in your 30s when you're stuck working all the time and being broke. Men slow down and stop trying.
Will be 27 in about 2 months.
honestly doesn't bother me that much. I mostly spend my time doing other shit anyway.
26 m virgin, i am hot af, 6'2, great muscular body like a model, but my abusive father broke me too much. By the time i escaped i hate myself too much to ever think i deserve anything good thus i have rejected or fucked up every single relationship that ever came across me. I just want to die, but my body wont let me, so i keep living.
25m khhv i used to not give a fuck but this year i started hitting the gym, I dunno just decided not to give up on myself. is there any hope for me or am i just wasting my time
Hope isn't dead until you are. If I can get laid anyone can
not too bad
25, KHHV
It probably won't happen, I think I accepted it at this point and I'm just looking at staying alive and trying to find shit to enjoy
T. Moderate-severe autist and anxiety
Almost but not quite
I am only a sex virgin, thankfully
Almost
Is it over for me? It seems pretty fucking over. Kek
I kind of like Chud posting.
>I used to be 6' but due to degeneration of discs and lumber vertebrae in my back I've lost about an inch over the years and I'm now 5'11.
>I don't live in America so all the Trump stuff is irrelevant to me.
>I've never masturbated to traps but I have fucked an actual tranny.
30 here.
It's pretty easy if you have low self esteem in HS so you nevver find a virgin gf, then you become an adult with self esteem and you're a virgin surrounded by women with a high boydcount. I don't care if the steryotype is men only care about sex, sex with a thot won't be special and I didn't want any relationship because the thought of previous guys put me off.
Your options are virginity, settle for a "reformed" roastie, single moms, etc. All bad options, so I just chose virginity because other people aren't worth enough effort when I can just do other things I enjoy.
You don't go for a prostitute because you realize how hollow it is that you aren't actually desired in any way, it's just a transaction because you couldn't get a girl to like you.
>25 years old
>165cm (5'5)
>48kg (106lbs)
i should probably just give up
Yeah, it's easy. Live in a rural area with not many options. Otherwise your options are single moms or obese whales. I have a good career and own my house, but it's just not worth it these days to chase after women. Besides, time fly's by when you get old. Spend your money on activities and things you want to buy like vacations, not whores.
I was disappointed when I saw she was a bugged eyed Asian.
>live in a rural area
>average age: 60
>way more men than women
just described your average rural area, great advice
25 KV. If you entirely focus on nothing but school/studying and do nothing else it's quite easy to fall into it.
33 in December.
Never had a gf, and I'm a hkv.
At this point I don't care. You can't miss what you've never had. Sex looks weird at this point.
>you can't miss what you've never had
I think this is the most apt way to describe what it is like. similar age (2 years older), but kissed/hugged/hand-held when I was 19. I've completely forgotten what that was like, so at least there's that
27 virgin
kissed, hugged, handheld once in highschool.
Trust me young robot, It is very easy to stay a virgin if you don't actively try.
I was part of the first generation of guys for whom sex didn't just happen so I was caught off guard. don't be like us.
>make friends with as many girls as you can
>she if any of them likes you
>if not, ask if they will introduce you to their friends
Best you can hope for is a gassed-up, used-up mid who feels like she is settling for you. This will cause problems down the line but for now at least you will get laid.
>ask if they will introduce you to their friends
That's the weird thing. I have quite a lot of female friends, but none have introduced me to one of their friends. Never had a gf at 32.
I guess they enjoy my personality but don't think I'm worthy of pussy at 5'9.
>Are you really a KISSLESS,
HANDHOLDLESS, HUGLESS virgin?
Yes I am all of those things, I had an opportunity to change that but missed out due to my lack of self confidence. She was teasing me all night and I wasn't sure if she was being genuine or not. I also didn't want to make her uncomfortable because she was a lot younger than me at 18.
t. 25
Fuck prostitute is good. But the big problem with that is if you did it once you can already do it twice and again and again.
When prostitution becomes solution of every of your problem it becomes your biggst problem.
I am almost 22. I can't imagine caring about being a virgin.
Yeah no one would bat an eye at 22 today
33, I don't give a shit and I don't leave my house
Nice pepe I definitely copped it
24KHHV. Despite being above average in fizeek and face i was a loner in highschool and didnt have a job that allowed me to meet people in my teen-20 years. Past 20 i realized i wouldnt make a very good boyfriend and it would be embarassing to tell a woman im 21 and have never had a kiss. I also enjoy being alone so i dont really try.
nope these people fucked up
I'm 30
KV but have held hands and cuddled with a girl who friendzoned me hard as hell when I was 18
I used to post here a lot up until 6-7 years ago when the board quality drop-off was too much
I don't kms because I'm not in active anguish over never loving, it's sad in general but it becomes dulled out. And I don't get a prostitute because it's not about the act of sex, it's about love and validation
Anyway get good at masturbation, have a creative hobby that you can share with others, and have friends. Life isn't so bad if you can get that much going
>KV but have held hands and cuddled
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE THE PAIN MY PAIN ALL OF IT
fuck kissing and fuck sex, I want handholding and cuddling
t.cuddlecel
I was accidentally pretty good with girls when I was a kid, I got to make out with two girls, see a third's bra, and touch two butts on several occasions. But that started drying up the second I got old enough to decide my hair/clothes style, and I never got further than that. I kind of wish I didn't get as far as I did because when I think too hard about it I take psyche damage and I feel like I'm going to go insane if I don't knead an ass or tongue punch a girl in the tonsils. I miss the body warmth the most.
33 yr old kissless virgin
It baffles me that sex is something that normal people actually do
>It baffles me that sex is something that normal people actually do
Fucking this. It's weird talking to people at work and seeing instagram posts of attractive girls, only to realize they're going home at the end of the day and have sex with their partner or fwb.
I also work with a lot of women (none are single) so it happens often that they're discussing their relationships. Very confronting to be listening into that and knowing you're missing out for years.
Some of this is easily fixed though. I didn't give a shit about clothes either, but decided to just buy good looking clothes (doesn't have to be expensive) every few years and people picked up on it. Also you can use navigation to go anywhere, most people don't know the route by head.
I feel you on the second part though. Suddenly you realize how the years have slipped by and everyone around you is getting married/having kids while you're alone at home. Somehow it feels like a male biological clock. The problem is that now the dating market is completely fucked up.
>The problem is that now the dating market is completely fucked up.
The worst part about being 30 is you think how you could have had a chance 15 years ago, now everything is a fucking nightmare where you're competing for girls who have zero idea what the fuck monogamy is.
I think thats one of the biggest reasons I don't care about my virginity too much anymore, because I know, I remember when women were so much better than today. There was no talk about rosters, girls who dated multiple guys were called whores, girls who put their nudes online were called sluts, girls didn't have insane expectations, you weren't the 475th guy becuase Tinder wasn't a thing yet, etc. Girls were just better and now in living memory you're expected to put more effort in, for something far, far worse.
Oh yes definitely. I remember middle school, the girls were so different. They weren't all caked in makeup, getting lip fillers, going to the gym for an oversized ass (because they didn't have social media to flaunt it on). Tbh in middle school girls used to pretend to be into me over MSN. When I reciprocated they'd wait for me at school the next day to laugh "you thought you had a chance?". This made me completely avoid girls and trying to not stand out anywhere, in order to be left alone.
I'm looking a lot better since puberty but that shit left me scarred and killed any confidence I had.
Dating any girl over 20 that looks decent is basically cucking yourself. A lot of girls lose their virginity at 13-14 now and fuck around because they're young, horny and experimenting. As you said, they're no longer labeled a whore if they play multiple guys at once. And with dating apps they can get fucked by a random guy and nobody will be the wiser. There are times I used dating apps and so many times I'd see a late 20s girl, barely hanging onto some beauty with an insane amount of makeup. I always wonder how many dicks she's had until she reached this point. Trying to find a beta guy to settle down with.
Makeup, ass and lip fillers are the least worrying things. Those fucking nose rings and tattoos are the ugliest shit I have ever seen, and they are fucking everywhere. Girls also dressed more conservative which was good because it left more to the imagination, where now they show everything.
Girls then weren't amazing, there were still issues but you looked past that and made an effort for them. Modern women you just struggle to care about, I don't feel any sort of loss, meanwhile if I start to think about the girls I knew in HS and I acutally feel I missed out by not trying harder. No wonder so many zoomers say they are asexual.
Oh right, I forgot about those. Fortunately the nose ring epidemic isn't very strong in my country. However if you're not into tattoos, you can already write off 50% of women these days. Either they have one or are thinking about getting one. I don't get the hype either, makes you look like a notepad with scribbles.
>pic related, she's now covered in (self done) tattoos
You're right about the 90s/00s girls though. Apparently it helps when they had only their local town/friend group to pick from and not the whole country. In hindsight there were girls into me but I was too shy do something, fml.
>so many zoomers say they are asexual
I haven't heard that tbh. If anything they're all going to festivals and dating apps, fucking different people. I had a zoomer kid at work who had an amazing gf (she brought him lunch when he forgot) and he repaid her by telling me how he was fucking a girl on the side who also had a bf. That was the best scenario because then she also didn't want their sex to come to the light. He wasn't even chad, just tall for his age.
Speaking of tall, me being 5'9 in a country with average 6'0 male height is a death sentence when it comes to dating. When I go to a south EU country, the girls literally stare at me on the street. In my own country they don't even look at me for a second.
>Fortunately the nose ring epidemic isn't very strong in my country.
Where do you live?
In my experience the ring and the tattoos are always found together.
>he repaid her by telling me how he was fucking a girl on the side who also had a bf.
Truly modern dating is wonderful and in no way justifying misanthropy.
>Where do you live?
Close, Netherlands. Aka country with tallest people in the world. Of course there are some art hoes with nose rings, but I rarely see people with them. Even when walking in the city.
In that case, it will be there in a few years time since you're still a western nation. I thought it was a city thing, but no my small town in the UK has them everywhere it's almost the norm.
So what's left then. Girls covered in tattoos with a kid from their ex and a nose ring.. great.
Yeah she was. Imagine being chad enough for her to take out her nympho urges on you. You could die happy after that. I'm surprised she only has 1 nude leak, and that was even before she got fake tits.
I lost mine at 27 during a one night stand and it was very disappointing. That's why I don't recommend any robot to go the prostitute route. You don't really miss sex, you miss affection and being loved by someone. Being together against the world, exploring it together.
I don't recommend the prostitution route either. It needs to be legitimate. I meant, guys would be a lot more chilled out if they got laid just once in high school or shortly after. May be a little dating experience as well. A couple dates and sex one time and then they would be more chilled out.
Stfu homosexual nagger. I got laid in HS and right out of HS and I'm not even close to chilled out. Im 30 and it's been years since a women has even shown me any interest no matter how hard I try. FUCK YOU.
Yeah I feel you, I'm 5'8 in the baltics.
But being a manlet isn't even in my top 5 of problems that led me to where I am now. Health issue (acne that left scars, scoliosis for which i needed surgery twice because the first time around they put metal in me that nearly killed me), the most broken household I know out of all of my peers, no longer have friends etc
Almost feels like I was destined for rope lol
are u cute at all or fun to shit post with
I crossdress alone in my house sometimes because I'm a degenerate
discord pls? (words so i can post)
Yeah it's insane how important height has become the last years. I mean women have always loved tall men, but they weren't shouting it off the rooftops like now. Demanding a certain height or you are automatically not dating material but rather someone to ridicule.
I've had more interest from gay guys than women.
I don't really have friends anymore either. No idea what I'll do when my parents aren't there anymore. Probably feel very alone in the world and angry at myself that they've never had the experience of me bringing a girl home. Grandchildren is something they probably don't even consider anymore.
beautiful men have always been loved, except
>at least women inherently find men who can provide attractive and it's not like we're artificially stealing from them to completely demolish this masculine trait. you still got a great shot
oh wait, picrel
>at least women still need to accept someone from their local community, it's not like they get hit on by chads from across the ocean haha
oh wait, the internet
the reason why women are now hyper-fixated on your genetics is because it is literally the only variable left that matters to them anymore. it makes sense when you think about it. does it make me feel any better that i got born with the worst stats during the worst era? no
Lmao that graph. Doesn't surprise me since all the women I work with only do part time, and often leave because of "muh children".
Thing is, men gave them this position by letting everyone have their own income. Then there's simps who comments "you're so beautiful" under every social media post and even pay for onlyfans.
Women can demand what they want, have casual sex throughout their 20s and still manage to snag a provider by the end of it. As long as they're not held accountable by any of this, they can have their cake and eat it too.
I'm a woman and have had crushes on short men. Its bredy common.
baltics / scandinavia?
man jadey used to be actually fucking perfect
Virginity is just something to get out of the way. If i wasn't a virgin i would feel more comfortable about being single. I want children, but marriage scares me. I don't trust a woman not to leave. I could see myself having several flings once i get past being a virgin. Serious long term relationships seem unlikely and scary.
I lost mine at 22. I have a female friend who is unironically a 30 year old virgin and a solid 7/10. ass like a dump truck and decent titties too. She is an extremely unusual story though with some difficult personal circumstances.
i havent had sex in over 3 years, im basically incel even if i fucked some ugly chicks in college
I had an 8 year stint of not being able to get pussy. Then the ex gf wanted to get back together to make her 50yr old bf mad so she slept with me for a couple months now I haven't gotten paid in 3 years. I've become born again incel twice. According to the gatekeepers here neither of us are incels even though we are involuntarily celibate.
Laid* kek not paid
But I also haven't had a woman interested in me in the past 3 years and that 8 year dryspell. I really don't know how to attract women and it's destroying my brain.
>im basically incel even if i fucked some ugly chicks in college
No you're not.
There's a gulf of difference between an actual incel and you.
You've already proven yourself capable of receiving validating love and relationships, you're not ugly, you're probably just a shitty person.
Actual incels are just unfortunately ugly and no women will ever love us.
Same goes to you.
Just because you're not trying to get pussy now even though you're clearly able to slay, doesn't mean you're incel.
Go to MGTOW or some other manosphere community, the incel one isn't for you.
I'm 21 and haven't had intercourse. I don't make sex the center point of my existence
I'm 29 and have been rejected by every girl I've asked out, I'm considering just fucking/dating femboys at this point
You are aware any femboy worth his sissiness had standards just as high as women right?
Just let me be delusional
Seems like nobody needs to let you. You've been doing it already for a long ass time too.
Cant you just tell normies youre asexual
>How many of you are unironic 20+ virgins?
I will be in a few months. I wish I could stay 19 forever.
I am a 28 year old KHHV.
The situation objectively is so much worse than it feels.
I haven't had any friends at all since 18, and in high school the friends I had were all distant; basically high level acquaintances. I never saw any one of them outside of school. I have pretty much done nothing with my life outside of solitary hobbies at home and wageslavery since finishing school. I wear hand-me-down clothes my older siblings give me once every few years when they decide to get rid of clothes they no longer wear. I've literally never been clothes shopping for myself in my life, I wouldn't even know what the fuck to do if I tried. I only started driving a year ago and I am okayish on the road but really bad at parking. I have no sense of direction when driving. I don't even know how to drive ANYWHERE in this city except how to get to work and how to get to the supermarket. It's actually embarrassing. A 20 year old already knows how to get around this place off memory but I have no clue.
Never been to the pub, a concert, club, or any of the things that young people even do. I have no idea what these things even look or feel like, it's like they aren't even real. I don't even know what a young persons social life even looks like at all.
From 18-26 I just concerned myself with hobbies and being employed casually. And you know what? I was genuinely content. Always had things to look forward to. A new book to read, new anime to watch, new game to play. Would take the dog for walks and play with it in the backyard. It never felt like anything was wrong. That changed when I turned 27 though, and started to feel very lonely and some (but not all) of my hobbies became increasingly unappealing. I attribute this to some sort of hormonal change, because my libido has actually increased considerably. It's become quite hard to not fap whereas it used to be so easy for me to go long stretches of time without fapping (weeks, sometimes even a couple of months).
To add to this I am very well aware of the fact that I am just a weirdo. Take music for example. I've never developed a taste for it. Never became interested in it when I was young. I wouldn't be able to answer the question "what music are you into?". I just never got the memo when I was a kid, never wanted a walkman/mp3 player/ipod or what ever. Tried forcing myself into listening to some music for the last 2 years and all I really even found myself enjoying where some anime and game soundtracks and military marching songs from various countries.
I have never felt infatuation, butterflies in my stomach, or had a crush on someone. When ever I see or hear someone talking about having a "crush" it's almost like they are playing a joke. Isn't that somethings kids had when they were in school (but never me for some reason)? How the fuck can some 25-40 year old person get a crush? I have no idea what it feels like.
And to top it all off I am now ugly as fuck. Bald head (norwood 5-7 off memory), prematurely aged up face from years of sleep apnea, heavy, dark eye bags, bad skin, massive nose with flared nostrils. Women have literally jumped in fear at the site of my face in the grocery store more than once.
This is so fucked up when I think it all through.
I'm not kissless/hugless, but yea I'm a 34 (turning 35 in less than a month) year old virgin. that shit really mattered to me in my late teens/early-mid 20s, but after awhile I just stopped caring. I think a big part of it was that I started living alone in 2015, and in august of 2016 I went full time work from home. I basically get zero in-person human interaction on a level that isn't outside of random small talk with cashiers at the grocery store/gas station. I'll talk to some of my friends in discord when game, or call my parents a few times a week, but almost all of my irl interpersonal relationships have fully crumbled. I'm definitely depressed in some way, but at this point the prospect of starting up a relationship seems like it will just create more issues than it would help solve
sorry for the dissertation
how does one be an ironic virgin
Yes. I was hugged by a girl for the first time about a year ago at age 24. I've not done anything further than that.
23 (Gonna be 24 soon) and close to insanity too. Kissless and Virgin. It's impossible to find anyone given the position I am in and with what I have. At this point I only live to hopefully see the world burn at this point, not that I ever wanted it to.
The fact I see so many other anons with a similar age to me is also depressing as shit.
>position I am in and with what I have
Elaborate.
>starting up a relationship seems like it will just create more issues than it would help solve
What type of problems do you think it would create for you? I assume you live in the USA. Have you ever travelled outside of your country?
>Are you really a KISSLESS, HANDHOLDLESS, HUGLESS virgin?
Yeah 25 here. You'd understand true suffering if you weren't a normie fakecel
25
Sex is a psyop and not real
Couples in public are government agents
Do you guys count getting hugged as a kid toward the KHHV stat or no? Because kids at that age are much more touchy and low inhibition than adults.
I lost my virginity at 27. I always thought I was destined for wizardry, but life had other plans
We are real anon
32/M KHV, working on it but I'm scared shitless of being vulnerable with another human. So used to be safe behind my screens.
Spend my 20s in front of a computer screen jacking off and playing videogames. Got my autism diagnose at 25. I always put up certain things I need to do before I can have sex/get a gf. Not having a drivers license, need that before I can even speak to a girl, my apartment isn't the best, need to do a ton of upgrades first. Its all a shield to protect myself from feeling like shit about my situation. Only learned this recently, its a major cope.
Still coping, now its gym cope, but it gives me structure in my else shitty life. Games never got me that. Bonus if I can become a Greek statue. Prostitution is legal where I live(northern europe) but have never wanted to do it, too brainwashed with wanting to feel genuine attraction from a female.
I almost feel like prostitution is cheating away KHV status, like it only really counts if you didn't pay the female and she did it with you of her own accord
Similar, pretty sure I have avodant personality disorder. I think the idea of women being attracted to me/romance is pretty much dead though. I'm still going to be the same sperg, it's just now my income may change and I could get more money, if I suddenly had more interest (anything) it wouldn't make me happy.
>Got my autism diagnose at 25
What does getting diagnosed with autism matter though?
I'm fairly certain I'm autistic myself, but being diagnosed doesn't make a difference as an adult, you are who you are at the end of the day. If you didn't have a chance pre-diagnosis, you don't have one post-diagnosis.
Government benefits, less work hours, less stress. It have helped me cope better. Also offers a explanation to why I'm socially retarded
A girl hugged me a single time during highschool. Do I lose one H in my KHHV badge because of this?
Yes.
source: got hugged by a girl in high school for my birthday and then got a massive crush on her
It is cheating, but since most only allow sex, you are usually still left kissless.
Take me for instance: kissless and handholdless. Dateless, too. I'd say that is more pathetic than KHHV, in a sense.
>I'd say that is more pathetic than KHHV, in a sense.
Almost like a Frankenstein; neither a true KHHV nor a normie.
Yes, out of them all, I want to remove the H of handholding from my status
The rest can burn for all I care
How far back would you have to go to not count a hug? Or is a hug a hug, regardless of age?
No idea. Whatever arbitrary rules we set here are pointless, but perhaps at an age when your peers started dating? So 14-16, depending on location?
As for social context, I can't really draw a line. What if it is socially acceptable to hug the opposite gender, like in some warmer climates? What if it is customary to kiss cheeks three times, right-left-right, like in the Balkans?
I made it, but fucking barely. I lost it a year ago when I was 19, broke up with her tho so im a month single now. Beside that, i havent done anything else with a girl
I think the best explanation is that I simply have a lower than average sex drive. Even when I was a teenager I never felt uncontrollably horny or anything like that, though I tried to act that way with cringy results. I ended up asking my high school oneitis out in the first year of college (nothing cringy, just a simple "would you like to get dinner?"), which she then used to turn everyone against me for the rest of college, rekting my early career. After the event, I did the rational thing and took a break from dating so I could graduate from my ultra-competitive major and not end up in court. I come back 10 years later thinking it's safe, and when I ask for advice normies think I'm a fucking psychopath for "taking a break" for that long. Worse, if I end up pleaing my case, they shit on me for not dropping out immediately and making m'lady so uncomfortable she couldn't stop bitching about me; back then they would have shat on me for dropping out due to a girl and then for being poor and uneducated. I'm not even asking for a reward, simply not to be punished (aka literally nothing) but that's too much to ask, so it's best for me to just say nothing. As far as most people are concerned I am perfectly normal...
I forgot to mention: if you end up like me, then all your achievements become negatives. Like the fact you graduated college, perhaps got a graduate degree of some sort, and a well-paying, respectable career simply makes your lack of relationship experience WORSE. It becomes more shit people use to paint you as some kind of psychopathic pariah it is OK to strike against.
21 and never been with a girl, I just spend all my time in my room, just chilling. I've also just no real drive to chase anything, let alone women, be it work or things I should probably get done, like an oil change or go for a run, I just have no motivation to get it done or attempt it
That and I know damn well I'm not some model either, majority of the time I'm not even looked at, Hell coworkers forget I'm even there, I could be in the middle of the room and whoever walks in just will not notice me, pretty nice though, no unwanted attention
I'm 35 and an EV (including dates, kisses, hugs, handholds, cyber, phone, you name it).
Women are whores yes. But only to certain people they don't fuck 24/7 and in most countries prostitution is illegal dumbass. So the only thing that is left is to get into a relationship and make it happen because nowadays you need "consent" no matter how faggy and shitty that sounds. So get out there and just find someone like you it's not hard.
>Are you really a KISSLESS, HANDHOLDLESS, HUGLESS virgin?
Yes, I am. And I'm 27 y.o.
22, depending on how you value kisslessness I might be kissless too.
>Are you really a KISSLESS, HANDHOLDLESS, HUGLESS virgin?
29 year old virgin here. Will be a wizard next month. I've had polite, platonic hugs but that's it.
This. I've never understood the hugless part of KHHV, unless you reek, anyone can get a hug, just gesture a woman remotely friendly with you as a greeting or goodbye hug and you'll get one, even if some might be a little uncomfortable with you.
I wonder if there's any benefits in the USA I can take advantage of because I have zero doubt I'm autistic.
Imagine being a 30 year old bicel fufufufu
My only cope is that I haven't initiated anything besides one online relationship, because I know the conclusive evidence that no one wants me would destroy me. But I think not being asked out tells me all I need to know.
I'm a khv and i got my first hug last week somehow
>I am a 22yo virgin and im close to insanity.
i'm 24yo and i've completely lost it, i can't step outside without getting reminded of what i'll never have anymore
probably offing myself on the weekend as i already have my SN
>probably offing myself on the weekend as i already have my SN
If I had N itself I'd be gone already. SN isn't as appealing to me.
i live like 30 minutes one-way from the nearest hospital and also live alone, every survival case i've read of was due to medical intervention so i figure it's good enough
what makes it so unappealing to you?
It's not as blissful and your body turns blue while you're still alive, right? That would horrify me and in my last moments I would think "I don't want this."
With N I can just doze off to sleep, secure in the fact that I'll pass away as peacefully as possible.
yeah that'll happen, depends on how long it takes until you lose consciousness, you could get around the psychological of it by covering up with clothing and being in the dark
N is never happening though, everyone knows it's sought after and the ingredients are very difficult to get, there's also a global shortage even for veterinarians who legally need it
at a certain point you just decide anything that works is good to go, anhedonia is long-term fatal
If not N, I'll settle for inert gas, but EM got raided and I'm too much of a brainlet to set up my own rig.
I guess I just don't want death enough yet. I'm 24 as well, maybe the burning desire will overcome me closer to my 30s.
I wish you the best of luck anon, and I hope that when It's time to go, It's completely peaceful for you.
thank you for the blessings anon, if you still have hope and feel joy in day-to-day activities i suggest you seriously hold onto that, hopefully you never even come to this point and instead things work out
Another bait/gaslighting thread reaching over 200 replies, congrats motherfuckers.
Just read or watch GAME material (misterys book, Todd V YouTube channel, etc). I was Khhv until 21 and then started putting in practice all the seduction shit I read/watched and it actually worked. Got my first gf (we only lasted a couple of months) and I lost my virginity to her, she was like a 5 or a 6. Then she cheated on me and broke my soul, but that motivated me to practice game even harder and after that I went on a rampage and fucked over 65 more in a 4 years span (also had a a couple of relationships of over a year or else it would have probably been hundreds at this point) the quality of women have gone up tremendously too, my current gf is at least an 8, a freak in bed that does literally everything I ask her and her personality is exactly like mine. Now in retrospective the fact that first gf cheated on me was the best thing that happened to me. Nowadays I basically fuck a new Slut whenever I feel like it and have the time. So yeah, Im not particularly attractive or anything just really smart and good at learning and once you know the psychology its pretty easy to create attraction and everything else you need to make bitches like you. Also its honestly fucking great, I was borderline suicidal before I got good with women, now my life is incomparably better, whoever says you dont need to fuck to have a good life is just coping.
I lost my virginity at 27. Was a khv before that
I guess Im a volcel virgin at 23. I have kissed and hugged and whatever. I could have had sex with fat ugly chicks if I wanted to. I guess I dont really care enough. Im too lazy to change my personality and honestly Im not that attractive. I think I give off creepy vibes, but thats understandable, since Im mentally unhinged. Ive been close to attractive people a few times and its insane how much easier it is for them. Not just sex, but literally everything from jobs to grocery shopping to relationships.
27 HHV, never even been in a proper relationship before. I was far too awkward in high school to make anything happen, and even in college I was pretty socially isolated and my confidence was at an all time low. After I graduated I was at the age where most people in my area are already either married or in long term relationships. The women who are still single at my age probably don't want anything to do with me, and from the ones I've talked to they either just want to play the field or aren't interested in relationships at all.
By all accounts I've done the "right" stuff in life- got my own place and car, good degree, tall, can make friends and pass as a normal human at work. It honestly just makes it feel worse because I can't blame anyone but myself, the only other variable is me. I wouldn't even know what to do in a relationship if I actually got one, it's almost like an alien concept at this point.
Youre just ugly like me and you dont put enough work in to make up for it.
>Someone will like you.
>There is someone for everyone.
>Love comes when you stop looking.
This is all false. Women always just go for the prettiest face. Or they get aroused by being chased by some orbiter. Meanwhile ugly men without game like you and me are just waiting around for the special one to appear.
I wish relationships worked like making friends. They dont
>Youre just ugly like me and you dont put enough work in to make up for it.
That's the conclusion I've reached as well. I'm not hideously ugly or anything, but being below average with an awkward and introverted personality is a huge detriment.
Maybe once my career takes off I can make something happen, but it all feels so pointless and transactional. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I wanted a partner that I could go through life with, the ups and the downs. Now it feels like I'm running a marathon on my own in the rain, and maybe someone will want to tag in and cross the finish line with me after I've done 99% of the hard part on my own. Why even bother at that point.
>Now it feels like I'm running a marathon on my own in the rain, and maybe someone will want to tag in and cross the finish line with me after I've done 99% of the hard part on my own. Why even bother at that point.
Not the anon you were responding to, but you just summed up exactly how I feel.
I've been in so much work and effort already, and It's still not enough. I need to be even richer, even more fit, have an even bigger house, and then maybe I'll be good enough.
But for what? I put in all this work, and will continue to put in all this work, just to be worthy enough for someone to piggyback off of me?
I just wanted to be accepted and loved for who I am, not what I provide.
But that seems to be something reserved only for attractive people. You can't be ugly and have an delusions that you're worth loving without a bunch of tangibles to accompany you.
No and sex isn't my first priority due to heart issues at age 38. Can't have sex until I can have somethings done. And fuck would literally and figuratively. They don't do shit in society but shake their ass on Instagram and Onlyfans and shit.
I done everything except sex. I've been 95-99% of the way. I just couldn't get hard due to alcohol.
No you didn't get hard because you're gay.
I was drunk as fuck. I was borderline stumbling to her bedroom. I managed to do foreplay, but i couldn't get hard.
I've always gotten hard when I was attracted to her no matter how fucked up I was. You're just gay dude. Stop denying the truth.
You're a bitch. You're a demoralizing insecure piece of shit. It's a legit thing.
It's a legit thing for closeted homosexuals I believe that. Just because I'm truth speaking doesn't mean I'm a demoralizer that's your own shit you're trying to project onto me bud. Good luck we it's your homosexualry I guess.
Lol you demoralizers on here are such pieces of shit. Crabs in a bucket. You want to bring everyone down because you're a self hating loser who wants everyone to feel bad. Get help. It's okay, but you need to find happiness in something else than trying to demoralize people.
Tldr. Truth speakers like me make you seethe
Soon to be a 25 years old khhv.
I isolated myself in high school, so I missed all the experiences that teach you how to flirt with women and shit. Now that Im in uni with a more or less stable group of friends, its fucking crazy how everyone get a gf or have casual sex. They just know how to do it, I simply cant imagine myself getting a girl unless she explicitly said "do you want to fuck?" or some shit like that. They say that you have to talk to her and show interest, but how in the fuck do you do that? I wish I were a homosexual, they are straightforward and simply ask if you would let them fuck you in the ass. But with women you have to show your intentions somehow and magically know if they are insterested in you. No man, its not fucking fair
It's a lot easier when you don't have to try very hard. What's supposed to happen is you notice a girl is into you, go out on dates, then make a move. Still scary and nerve racking, but it's not trying to get a girl to like you. The goal is to find girls who are somewhat attracted to you if not more. Even if a girl is into you, you can still self sabotage and fuck it up. That's what i did, but it's way easier to get dates and move it along when she likes you. You do stuff and it kinda just happens.
What is this a data harvesting thread?
Yes, I'm a khhv. I turn 30 next year. A year ago, I was too poor to hire a prostitute. Now that my job pays slightly more, I'm giving prostitution serious consideration.
None of this is a larp.
Every thread is a data harvest thread
I'm 22 years old and a kissless, hand holdless virgin.
But I do have a girlfriend and we have hugged.
Yeah, I'm 33 KHHV. I don't know why this happened to me. I don't know what to do.
32
i unironically never cared and made a single move on a woman. Never had female friendsand never spoke to them in school. I don't think i'm gay cause i feel the same for males. Have some friends but i don't give care about them, just random people that decided to talk to me for some reason during my life. I speak to them once a month at best when someone proposes a fun videogame to play together. Rarely cause they have shit taste. Never cared about family too.
All my life people tried to bond with me and I always avoided them. I'm probably schizoid. All i care in life is learning and developing skills pertaining my hobbies and work. Humans don't interests me. I like things. Oh i don't think i'm autistic cause i have empathy and can understand them, just don't care
42, had ~37 dating/relationship experiences, three as a pseudo stepfather. Tried every race and side of the spectrum and just decided 3 years ago that I just don't like humanity. Went ACE/ARO and have been none the happier.
yada yada.... you guys aren't missing much but a bunch of stupid drama, and if you want to experience said drama? guess what? get off your asses and just start dating randoms. doesn't matter if they're hot or not. Just give your dicks some exercise and stop fucking complaining about it.
Being a bunch of filthy armchair losers that always sit there complaining and judging while never experiencing is why half of you suck at life.
I just want to get a bunch of women pregnant but not be financially ruined for it.
why?
inb4 muh genes
you and your genes are nothing special like 99.9999999% of the humans on earth. We are the species with less diversity on the planet, everyone can be traced from a common ancestor from tens of thousands years ago. The outliers are extremely rare. We are all replaceable. Stop obsessing over this dumb shit
I just want to have a bunch of little mes run around creating havoc. A clan one could say. I'm not charismatic enough to convince people around me but I can mould the minds of little mes for sure.
you won't be able to mold them to your image. They will hate you for that and you will hate them too
>reeks of douche
>guess what? get off your asses and just start dating randoms
Easier said than done. Wanna organize some dates for my ugly-ass? Guarantee you'll have a new perspective once you try to.
Male virgins are good. Sex is overrated. Fuck off.
My coworker is a 30+ year old virgin. Seems like a normal dude to me.
>just turned 33
>gotten two drunken kisses at some point
>still a virgin
>not expecting it to change anytime soon
I have just never tried to get a gf/laid
I mean ZERO effort into trying
24 khv. At this point I don't even care anymore. I just want it to be over. All I do is go to work and go to sleep. I genuinely don't think that w*men would increase my purposefulness in life. Exponentially more bullshit drama but sometimes she lets me put my penis in? Sounds like a scam
It's totally possible when it's not something you're actively looking for. After a while you stop caring and realize it's not that big of a deal.
i'm a 20 year old kissless and handholdless virgin
hugging as a sign of greeting is a common thing where i live
i've thought about killing myself but doing so because of my lack of intimate relationship would be stupid
i also don't want to spend money on women, prostitution included