How long do I have to be on HRT before i can give up and rope?

asking for a friend

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    5 years plus surgeries

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    about 10% of fat cells die and are replenished each year. This should give you an idea how slow fat redistribution is.

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    5years for physical body
    Whenever you want for brain since it will never get better anyway

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      5 years plus surgeries

      this.. give it your best shot before giving up OP

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        i don’t want to. i want to die now. i am a terminal fick up and this won’t get better and the sooner i’m off this earth the sooner everybody who knows of my existence will have peace

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          A surprising amount of people who are doing terribly built up some kind of aversion to things that would make them get better, especially in the long to medium term. Your feelings are, for better or worse, natural. They are however equally unreliable cause they were bred in part from what got you this low to begin with.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            that’s cool and all, but how do i fix it?

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              Well, from the ground up? I'm not a shrink, not by a long shot, but the very first step is to check what your foundation is like. The start is always super routine. Your environment, your health, that stuff. Do you have some friends, emotional support, ideally close by? Are you feeling well physically, eating enough (normal BMI), getting enough nutrition, spending enough time outside? Are there any sources of pressure or existential threats in your life?

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                i don’t really have any friends, because i dropped out of college and most of my high school friends are gone studying somewhere else. at the moment i’m just working and sleeping basically.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Well I have good news then, cause pretty much every direction is up for you, then. First, it is good you have a daily schedule. Use it as a skeleton to ritualize self care routines. Do you eat proper meals? Do you get enough sun? Do you have any hobbies or interests you gave up pursuing? Is your room well kept? Just rattling off standard fare, please try to answer all of them.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I'm the other one u talked to earlier OP I was out at dinner. I was reading your thread. If you have no frens would you like one? I'd like to help, at least listen to u. There's a reason why 41% of us commit suicide. Our pasts are generally insanely miserable and often traumatic

                You wanna be frens?

                guys i’m just gonna some hydrocodone tn but thanks for the help

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                You can get better. But you really need to actually seek out things that make people happy even if you don't feel like doing it. It is only gonna get worse if you don't fight back, even getting out of bed can be a challenge, but you must try.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                whatever i’ll give it a shot tomorrow. tn i’m gonna have some fun

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Good luck anon, have fun

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Good luck. Just as a TL;DR: Try to make friends, practice self care, work on your other issues from there. Therapy cannot fix wallowing in your own shit and never leaving the house.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                for the time being i feel stuck where i am. i am gonna go back to college in the spring and that will involve moving to a different country so i’m counting on having a chance to reset, try and make friends, and get some distance from my parents. for the time being tho i feel stuck living with my dad who doesn’t really say transphobic shot to my face but deadname me and just will not acknowledge the fact that i’m transitioning

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, an unsupportive environment like that can do a lot of harm. I'm sure you will get better once you are out of there, and I'm glad to hear you have an immediate next step to resolve that planned. Godspeed, anon.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I'm the other one u talked to earlier OP I was out at dinner. I was reading your thread. If you have no frens would you like one? I'd like to help, at least listen to u. There's a reason why 41% of us commit suicide. Our pasts are generally insanely miserable and often traumatic

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                You wanna be frens?

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    5 years (with good levels) + ffs + vfs +ba
    if you did all that and still don't pass then it indeed might be over

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    and that was the last we ever saw of her

    Good job bumping it to 43%, everyone

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Detrans and embrace masculinity

  7. 1 week ago
    3b

    5 years + at least 15k in surgeries.

    If you still aren't happy you have my permission to die.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      ok gonna mark my calendar.

      it’ll be the best birthday ever

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