I have extremely wide hands. "Wider than most men" wide.
How badly might this impact my future passing prospects?
How important are hands for passing?
I have extremely wide hands. "Wider than most men" wide.
How badly might this impact my future passing prospects?
By about 7.32% it’s all about the geometry and precise measurements
Hm.
I see. Well they give me extreme dysphoria.
The inside of my hands do make me insanely dysphoric yeah. They're the same size as my dad who has really big hands. Mine look a bit less rough than his but yeah ...
Post face, if your face passes people will overlook your hon hands
I am 5 months HRT and no FFS so ofc my face doesn't pass at all and reads masculine. I am currently manmoding.
I just don't know how to cope with my hands knowing they are unchangeable.
looks almost like my hand
I'm guessing it's bigger my your description but the shape is basically the same
Indeed. Are you on HRT?
yes
but we're finding out my dosages and I'm pretty sure I've been too low for a while
Oh I see.
Do you think our hands will forever clock you?
no
my dick is bigger than my hands
Mine barely is.
not too much
Omg anon is this you
I’ve seen tranny hands and honestly on both sides they seem to be in a weird middle place. Like, pooner hands are tiny but they’re also really veiny and too rough for a normal female’s. Hon hands, well honestly they’re just men’s hands but softer.
Le me with the twink hon hands long but slender. I really sh
Hand girth and wrist are more important. You can always hide a wide hand by not spreading it out
My hand girth is in the very high male range for my height.
Hand wrist is in the mid male range for my height.
Well in that case idk, wear long sleeve tops that partially obscure your hands maybe? If you are too dysphoric about them.
Idk how to cope with having big manhands for the rest of my life.
It's not like I can just wear super long sleeve forever, or like they fully hide my hands.
My God I hate this.
I want to die.
I feel like arm thickness and shoulder width matters much more. I'd kill to have a slender frame.
Clueless retard here, how to measure hand breadth, like picrel? Without the thumb?
yeah
reads as male to me idk. theyre very big and wide but they dont look masculine?
>but what do i do with these big hands!!
idk maybe u can wrap them around my neck or something
I'm afraid they'll forever prevent me from passing.
>idk maybe u can wrap them around my neck or something
I am an obligate bottom like most troons.
sad 🙁
Do you think I can pass despite them?
yah of course, why would hands stop you from passing sis??
>but theyre so big!!!
okay but like my cis F friends have literally had bigger hands it's really nbd youre just being wormy!
calipers
I thought mine were big
Thanks for the suicide fuel, asshole.
Literally only 2 women out of 2200 have hands bigger or as big as mine on anthro freiburg.
Anon did you jerk off too much
What does this have to do to hand breadth?
Grip too strong = bigger hands?
Passing isn't a thing for most people ... the image you see in mirror is the image that you select by posing in aa particular way... Profile always reveals the browridge
>What is ffs
Also women with light brow ridge exist
No surgery exists for my manhands sadly.
digit ratio is also very important
https://calculator.academy/digit-ratio-calculator/
I also have super short fingers so they are not slender tho 🙁
most men have below 1 so you're fine with index ratio.
No one will clock me from digit ratio.
People will however clock me from giant manhands.
high digit ratio = fem hands = also low t and fembrain = better passing
you probably have a low one then.
I don't care about being le fembrained, I want to stop being so dysphoric, and having giant hands makes me dysphoric.
Mine is 1.07 above and I was probably low t when I was younger cuz people always thought I was a girl, but my level when I trooned out (late 20s) was normal...
>cis guy
>decide to measure my fingers for fun
>get this
what the fuck
Are you gay? Bottom fags have similar ratio as well
>measured breadth
>3.15 inches
>3.1 is female average
THE FUCK?
bisexual leaning fem.
and yes a bottom
but regardless how did you even know I'd be a bottom?
Bruh, do you want to make me suicidal?
Why does everyone on this board have such small hands?
At this point I'm wondering whether I'm not just a straight cis guy who memed himself.
i am 6"2 if it makes you feel any better
Bruh. It only makes my hand look bigger in comparison.
>Troon (well, dysphoria and AGP at least)
>Complete bottom
>Still got masculine face, big feet and hands, masculinized (somewhat) digit ratio, malebrain
What happened?
Eh sis I mean the above is "on average" not for all cases. Also how do you know if you are 100% bottom how many have you been with
I am a virgin but I could never imagine dominating someone etc. It disgusts me and just doesn't arouse me.
I just don't get how I could be trans but also have all of these manly characteristics.
Regardless it's just not worth it.
Lol you sound exactly like me except I'm also a tranny. From what I've read bottom tendency and "fembrainedness" in general are in part due to low prenatal androgen exposure, which also leads to high digit ratio and smaller hands.
yesh. hope thats not a sign i might troon out or anything.
that might explain why people always treat me as if I was half a man and why i often struggle with labour skin wise because of a smaller hands and softer skin.
ahhh don't stress about it I've known women with much bigger hands than me
nta but if you were to troon out you'd have dysphoria from a young age. you're just a bicoping homosexual.
not sure if its dysphoria. definitely as of late starting to realize i don't enjoy looking very masculine, never did in the first place. but its not extremely strong feeling because i can still live my life and i don't care what gender people refer me as.
probably just being weirdo enby or some shit idk
enby isn't real, maybe you can try to look like a twink tho might help.
Doesn't sound like dysphoria to me but everyone is different. Can always try hrt for a few months and see how that makes you feel
Yeah I agree with
if you were gonna troon out you would've known. If you indeed have dysphoria, eh, better do it sooner than later girl.
Aaah don't read too much into it as long as you're dysphoric you should troon out, that's better than the alternative
Looking at it rationally, I realize it's just not worth it. Stuff like my hands will always cause me dysphoria. My height too. And I am malebrained and not naturally effeminate so acting Fem will never appear natural. Social transition, FFS, voice training, the hatred from my family, the constant fear of being clocked.
It's just not worth it in my case.
But I don't want to live as a man either, so there is only one alternative.
I can't do it anymore.
I am tired.
I DONT CARE ABOUT DIGIT RATIO THE ISSUE IS MY GIANT HANDS
unless you have like construction worker hands then no normal person is going to clock you just based on them
but other trannies and people suffering from TDS probably will clock you on them if they're noticeable