how do you form an emotional bond with someone online that leads to e-dating

how do you form an emotional bond with someone online that leads to e-dating
i'm lonely but i'm too much of an autist to click with anyone who isn't a terminally online sperg like me
but talking to people online is too awkward and the only people who are interested in me off the bat are chasers

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    hey bagel I talked to you a long while ago
    imo connecting w people online isn't too different to offline, I'm not terminally online exactly but I'm pretty online
    so far the best thing for me has been just not forcing it ig, easier said than done I know, I don't feel the loneliness that bad myself
    where do ya meet people? I find /lgbt/ers are sometimes nice, sometimes cool, but usually avoidant in some way
    hope you find whatever you're looking for

    • 10 months ago
      bagel

      i'm just not totally on the same wavelength as most of the ppl i meet irl, i can get along with them and stuff but there's no spark that makes me want to be around them

      If you weren't such a hateful homosexual maybe someone would pity love you

      im nice i just hate chasers

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I was exactly the same way all growing up. I'd have like 1 person in my class maybe who I'd inexplicably vibe w. maybe just oversensitive to not perfectly gelling? idk

        for me I think like, if your personality is rooted in introspection and experiences that you don't share w other people, that just makes it harder to have something to bond over in the future, and you've got no incentive to even try cos it's not rewarding.
        like I think you gotta stick it out for a bit, which is easiest if you're relatively content in the meantime. so guess I'm lucky there yknow

        not sure that any of this helps lol I'm not sure that there's a 'trick'

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you weren't such a hateful homosexual maybe someone would pity love you

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    And other trannies
    (Transbian kms moment but you are pretty cute)

    • 10 months ago
      bagel

      i'm not averse to dating trannies but they tend to either be coomers or hate me or act like reddit trannies

      Just find someone single and demand they be your boyfriend. Worked for me.

      but i don't even have enough of a bond with anyone to do that

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'll bond with you bagello
        >t. Passoid

        • 10 months ago
          bagel

          i want it to come about naturally though i don't want to add someone specifically to e-date
          also if you call yourself a passoid you're probably a hitlerite

          idk you seemed nice and cool when I talked to you.
          so if you keep meeting and talking to people then you'll eventually find people you want to bond with.

          i can talk to strangers but idk how to actually like bond it always feels distant even if i know them well

          • 10 months ago
            Anonymous

            online relationships seem difficult and I've never done them, but I'd assume you'd have to like voice/video call, do stuff together, etc, and not just text chat back and forth to actually form a bond. You're right that there is something lost with text only.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yea I lucked out pretty hard on my last relationship in that she was actually normal and cute. Its basically just really nice to be dating someone who's going through the same thing. You aren't constantly feeling inferior like with cissies of either sex

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just find someone single and demand they be your boyfriend. Worked for me.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    idk you seemed nice and cool when I talked to you.
    so if you keep meeting and talking to people then you'll eventually find people you want to bond with.

  6. 10 months ago
    bagel

    just want a jerma bf

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      you want a bf to get so high he shits his pants?

      • 10 months ago
        bagel

        he's silly :3

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I could hear his voice w the scrum

          yeahhhh idk how you make that 'bond' idk if Ive ever had it mebbe personality disorders are at play

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    sometimes i think about edating just because will toledo did it and then wrote a bunch of cool romantic songs about it, but then i remember how bad edating can be, i dont know how mr toledo did it

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