Just use some nerd shit as an excuse to visit her, grab her one if her skirts and say "wow, i bet you would look great in this, put it on girl" and hand it over.
Then tell her she looks cute.
pinkpilling / "egg cracking" is unironically grooming, don't do it
if that's their identity they'll figure it out on their own, they don't need to be pushed / gaslit / manipulated into thinking that they're trans, which I have unironically seen done to multiple people on this board, r*ddit, and discord servers
is it really grooming? at the end of the day its an adult picking a choice. we wouldn't say a friend or anyone giving advice for certain things "grooming" or what have you.
idk i am actually glad i got a friend wbo helped me thru the transition process and "cracked my egg" at the end of the day it was my choice to listen.
elaborate why then? im just curious is all because I'd only agree it would be grooming if its done on a minor. but in this case its all consenting adults.
just because someone reaches the magical age of 18 that doesnt make it not grooming. youre still trying to convince someone hes something hes likely not. if he is actually trans he will figure it out for himself. especially because op said "i want that bussy" themselves, making it clear they just want to manipulate a friend so they can sexualize him
it's gaslighting and manipulating someone into believing something about themselves that isn't necessarily true, and then encouraging them to make significant life decisions (like transitioning) as a result of that gaslighting
if someone wants to repress then it's their life and their decision to make
transitioning isn't the solution for everyone, a lot of people would probably unironically have better lives on the whole if they didn't transition because of all the negatives that come along with transitioning, especially if you don't pass
like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
the average tranny today is an autistic nerdy guy groomed by internet
Maybe they don't want to repress and they're just scared and want some encouragement and validation
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then they need to decide to seek out that encouragement and validation, if someone says they're repressing it's not an invitation to jump down their throat and try and pinkpill them because you think they might secretly want it
if someone wants to repress then it's their life and their decision to make
transitioning isn't the solution for everyone, a lot of people would probably unironically have better lives on the whole if they didn't transition because of all the negatives that come along with transitioning, especially if you don't pass
like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
[...]
I don't think it's the average but it does happen
yeah it's an extremely bitter pill unfortunately :/ a lot of people don't want to acknowledge the fact that while transitioning can improve dysphoria, it can also literally destroy so many other aspects of your life, leading to a net negative. it's something people should weigh up really carefully
>like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
Op is talking about a 5'6 skinny femboy, basically a woman all ready. Doesn't sound like hon material, people dont groom hons.
>basically a woman already
stop this shit lmao. femboys aren't fucking trans women, they're feminine boys. stop invalidating and denying their identity just to try and make them fall under your umbrella, it's fucking insanely creepy
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
meant to reply to
Damn that's a bitter fucking pill to swallow but it's absolutely true. I gotta rethink some of my life choices.
for the second reply: >yeah it's an extremely bitter pill unfortunately :/ a lot of people don't want to acknowledge the fact that while transitioning can improve dysphoria, it can also literally destroy so many other aspects of your life, leading to a net negative. it's something people should weigh up really carefully
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>femboys aren't fucking trans women,
God i hope not, trans women and femboys should be fucked by real men. They deserve to feel like the girls they really are.
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
They are seeking out encouragement and validation by baiting people to tell them they're fans. Reppers come here all the time to characterize themselves as trans so that people will tell them they're trans. I did the same thing when I was working up to getting hormones
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
lmao you are not them. your experiences aren't theirs.
leave people alone you creeps, it's fucking insanely weird to try and "crack someone's egg", like it's so fucking weird you have to be autistic to think it's acceptable to try and convince someone that actually you understand their gender better than they do and that they should transition because of that
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I've never tried to crack anyone's egg and I think it's a cringe and gross term but I don't like the idea that people should have to figure out their transness in total isolation. For some people it's more important to be socially recognized and to be given a place and stuff. I was like that and I know I'm not the only one
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
offering advice and trying to convince someone they're a tranny are two very, very different things
Ava a lot of people who transition have totally empty and dysfunctional lives and literally nothing to lose. When I began transitioning I didn't do anything safely because I was hoping I would hurt myself and die. I cared that little about myself and my future then.
I'm absolutely not saying it's always a net negative, it's been a massive net positive for me, my life is 100x better than it was before. but I also pass, I'm relatively good looking, and I'm able to live a normal life. that's not true for all trans people
shut the fuck up ava. nobody likes you
a lot of people seem to like me 🙂 I like me 🙂
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
only pink pill potential passoids got it
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
don't pink pill anyone. people are individuals responsible for their own lives. if you want to share advice and your own experiences with someone, then great that sounds healthy. but trying to gaslight someone, especially a vulnerable person, into believing they're actually a tranny and need to start taking hormones or they'll never ever be happy is beyond fucked up it's actually horrendous behavior
>I like me 🙂
because you're a narcissist
no I'm literally not lol
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
>I like me 🙂
because you're a narcissist
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
I don't pass, I'm ugly and I don't live a normal life and I'm glad I've been on hormones for a year
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
like I said, I'm not saying people shouldn't transition. I'm saying people should carefully weigh up the pros and cons of that decision before making it
>like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
Op is talking about a 5'6 skinny femboy, basically a woman all ready. Doesn't sound like hon material, people dont groom hons.
supremely based take
transition doesn't work for everyone, better to explore your own boundaries and find your own comfort zone, than to be goaded into believing that This One Weird Trick Will Cure Your Depression/Anxiety/Isolation
trans people are still real, but not everyone is trans. lotta mfs on the sidelines
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
yeah I couldn't agree more
people tend to I think focus just on the dysphoria aspect and think "well my life is already decent, if I fix the dysphoria then it'll be amazing!" when in reality transitioning improves (does not cure) dysphoria, and in return: >you have to come out to everyone, potentially lose family and friends >potentially lose your job >if you don't end up passing you're constantly at risk of being discriminated against, victimized, and even hate crimed >if you do pass you'll likely be experiencing constant anxiety about being clocked every time you're in public >a lifetime of medical treatment, having to take HRT forever, plus surgeries
it's really, really hard for people who have previously been in very privileged, safe social roles (e.g. a straight man) to imagine just how bad it can be to be a marginalized minority that faces active discrimination and danger
and people REALLY need to factor that stuff in before they make the decision to transition
2 weeks ago
Anonymous
Ava a lot of people who transition have totally empty and dysfunctional lives and literally nothing to lose. When I began transitioning I didn't do anything safely because I was hoping I would hurt myself and die. I cared that little about myself and my future then.
So fuckin what lol transition doesn't work out for everyone, is it really better to be a gigahon in the UK right now than a repper? You're gonna be depressed and unfulfilled either way, nobody is going to see you as a woman, and one runs a chance of getting hate crimed.
Ava you just come across as spoiled and privileged tbh, like you'll only settle for a good life. Some people will have shitty lives whether they transition or not and it would be nice if they could stop experiencing psychosis because they're convinced they're going bald
describe your classmate, what he wears etc so we can help
he's short, maybe 5'5" or 5'6", skinny, talks about how he likes wearing skirts (but doesn't wear them to class), is into nerdy stuff
agp
Just use some nerd shit as an excuse to visit her, grab her one if her skirts and say "wow, i bet you would look great in this, put it on girl" and hand it over.
Then tell her she looks cute.
>5'5"
Isn't she already a woman?
Say “hey are you a fellow tran? I’m ftm” and see how that goes
even after it cracks it'll probably take them a year or more to talk to someone else about it. No bussy for you.
pinkpilling / "egg cracking" is unironically grooming, don't do it
if that's their identity they'll figure it out on their own, they don't need to be pushed / gaslit / manipulated into thinking that they're trans, which I have unironically seen done to multiple people on this board, r*ddit, and discord servers
>pinkpilling / "egg cracking" is unironically grooming
you make grooming sound lame if you put it like that :/
I love grooming
is it really grooming? at the end of the day its an adult picking a choice. we wouldn't say a friend or anyone giving advice for certain things "grooming" or what have you.
idk i am actually glad i got a friend wbo helped me thru the transition process and "cracked my egg" at the end of the day it was my choice to listen.
It is grooming. Kys
elaborate why then? im just curious is all because I'd only agree it would be grooming if its done on a minor. but in this case its all consenting adults.
just because someone reaches the magical age of 18 that doesnt make it not grooming. youre still trying to convince someone hes something hes likely not. if he is actually trans he will figure it out for himself. especially because op said "i want that bussy" themselves, making it clear they just want to manipulate a friend so they can sexualize him
it's gaslighting and manipulating someone into believing something about themselves that isn't necessarily true, and then encouraging them to make significant life decisions (like transitioning) as a result of that gaslighting
idc what you call it, it's grooming
A lot of trannies like myself will encourage egg cracking in the repper phase, what about that. Is it wrong to do if someone is promoting you
if someone wants to repress then it's their life and their decision to make
transitioning isn't the solution for everyone, a lot of people would probably unironically have better lives on the whole if they didn't transition because of all the negatives that come along with transitioning, especially if you don't pass
like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
I don't think it's the average but it does happen
Damn that's a bitter fucking pill to swallow but it's absolutely true. I gotta rethink some of my life choices.
Maybe they don't want to repress and they're just scared and want some encouragement and validation
then they need to decide to seek out that encouragement and validation, if someone says they're repressing it's not an invitation to jump down their throat and try and pinkpill them because you think they might secretly want it
yeah it's an extremely bitter pill unfortunately :/ a lot of people don't want to acknowledge the fact that while transitioning can improve dysphoria, it can also literally destroy so many other aspects of your life, leading to a net negative. it's something people should weigh up really carefully
>basically a woman already
stop this shit lmao. femboys aren't fucking trans women, they're feminine boys. stop invalidating and denying their identity just to try and make them fall under your umbrella, it's fucking insanely creepy
meant to reply to
for the second reply:
>yeah it's an extremely bitter pill unfortunately :/ a lot of people don't want to acknowledge the fact that while transitioning can improve dysphoria, it can also literally destroy so many other aspects of your life, leading to a net negative. it's something people should weigh up really carefully
>femboys aren't fucking trans women,
God i hope not, trans women and femboys should be fucked by real men. They deserve to feel like the girls they really are.
They are seeking out encouragement and validation by baiting people to tell them they're fans. Reppers come here all the time to characterize themselves as trans so that people will tell them they're trans. I did the same thing when I was working up to getting hormones
lmao you are not them. your experiences aren't theirs.
leave people alone you creeps, it's fucking insanely weird to try and "crack someone's egg", like it's so fucking weird you have to be autistic to think it's acceptable to try and convince someone that actually you understand their gender better than they do and that they should transition because of that
I've never tried to crack anyone's egg and I think it's a cringe and gross term but I don't like the idea that people should have to figure out their transness in total isolation. For some people it's more important to be socially recognized and to be given a place and stuff. I was like that and I know I'm not the only one
offering advice and trying to convince someone they're a tranny are two very, very different things
I'm absolutely not saying it's always a net negative, it's been a massive net positive for me, my life is 100x better than it was before. but I also pass, I'm relatively good looking, and I'm able to live a normal life. that's not true for all trans people
a lot of people seem to like me 🙂 I like me 🙂
only pink pill potential passoids got it
don't pink pill anyone. people are individuals responsible for their own lives. if you want to share advice and your own experiences with someone, then great that sounds healthy. but trying to gaslight someone, especially a vulnerable person, into believing they're actually a tranny and need to start taking hormones or they'll never ever be happy is beyond fucked up it's actually horrendous behavior
no I'm literally not lol
>I like me 🙂
because you're a narcissist
I don't pass, I'm ugly and I don't live a normal life and I'm glad I've been on hormones for a year
like I said, I'm not saying people shouldn't transition. I'm saying people should carefully weigh up the pros and cons of that decision before making it
>like if you push a repressor into transitioning, and they end up being a hon and having a miserable life and killing themselves, it's literally your fault
Op is talking about a 5'6 skinny femboy, basically a woman all ready. Doesn't sound like hon material, people dont groom hons.
supremely based take
transition doesn't work for everyone, better to explore your own boundaries and find your own comfort zone, than to be goaded into believing that This One Weird Trick Will Cure Your Depression/Anxiety/Isolation
trans people are still real, but not everyone is trans. lotta mfs on the sidelines
yeah I couldn't agree more
people tend to I think focus just on the dysphoria aspect and think "well my life is already decent, if I fix the dysphoria then it'll be amazing!" when in reality transitioning improves (does not cure) dysphoria, and in return:
>you have to come out to everyone, potentially lose family and friends
>potentially lose your job
>if you don't end up passing you're constantly at risk of being discriminated against, victimized, and even hate crimed
>if you do pass you'll likely be experiencing constant anxiety about being clocked every time you're in public
>a lifetime of medical treatment, having to take HRT forever, plus surgeries
it's really, really hard for people who have previously been in very privileged, safe social roles (e.g. a straight man) to imagine just how bad it can be to be a marginalized minority that faces active discrimination and danger
and people REALLY need to factor that stuff in before they make the decision to transition
Ava a lot of people who transition have totally empty and dysfunctional lives and literally nothing to lose. When I began transitioning I didn't do anything safely because I was hoping I would hurt myself and die. I cared that little about myself and my future then.
the average tranny today is an autistic nerdy guy groomed by internet
you can't groom without a power dynamic
shut the fuck up ava. nobody likes you
Because she is insanely fembrained,honestly she could be a terf
Nah she's spitting facts here
ava is basically a less attractive taftaj
So fuckin what lol transition doesn't work out for everyone, is it really better to be a gigahon in the UK right now than a repper? You're gonna be depressed and unfulfilled either way, nobody is going to see you as a woman, and one runs a chance of getting hate crimed.
roofie date
inform them that they can buy estrogen online with no prescription
"Egg cracking" culture is retarded and must be stopped.
>you can't groom without a power dynamic
absolutely incorrect.
If you friend wants to transition, it must come from him,simple,dont groom him
if he is agp, your presence is enough , and you will surely learn that he took the plunge a few years later btw
Being a hon is only worth it if you can live in the us or amsterdam
Ava you just come across as spoiled and privileged tbh, like you'll only settle for a good life. Some people will have shitty lives whether they transition or not and it would be nice if they could stop experiencing psychosis because they're convinced they're going bald