How do you cope with being forced to marry an ex whore?

I am a guy in his early twenties who is very inexperienced sexually because I have always had trouble getting girls my age. I have this bad feeling that once I am out of college, have my degree, a good job, house, car that I will have to marry some used up 50+ bodycount ex slut who only partied and fucked around in her earlier years.
I am scared that my only shot at a loving relationship will be with a broken mentally ill girl and it will be intimacyless, touchless, sexless, loveless, just pure horror.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >it's another "repost image/thread I saw on /LULZ/" episode

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Good. Incel rage bait threads are always fun.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you know from the start what you get for going the beta buxxer route so maybe stop complaining and blame yourself

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What cope bullshit. You're in your early 20s, this is as physically attractive as you're ever going to get. If you're having trouble now that's not going to change just because you graduated.

    Truth is you'll be lucky to get any girl to marry you. Maybe stop judging a girl you haven't even met yet let alone have a chance with her, and instead direct that judgement at what you see in the mirror.

    You're not forced to marry anyone.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Maybe stop judging a girl you haven't even met yet let alone have a chance with her
      If you hit your late twenties as a man without a girlfriend then your only options are to marry an ex whore because that's the only ones who are left.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        or date much younger.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >what do you mean, "date younger girls"?
        >NOOOO that's pedophilia!!!!

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fuck off Austrian ginger.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The perspective you are describing here is one of many ways to look at the world, and they are all effectively magic spells dictating what you see and feel. The perspective you outlined isnt even a useful one for yourself as it just makes you gloomy and pessimistic and anchored in materialism. Dont let anyone tell you the world is to be viewed a certain way, call it by the name you choose for it, and choose one that leads you to become the best version of yourself you can be. Affix your minds eye to the harmonious, the beautiful, the miraculous.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > I have always had trouble getting girls my age

    You’re either hideous or socially retarded then. Improve yourself and get some experience before jumping to the most incel beta conclusions about your future hypothetical wife.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Improve yourself and get some experience
      I am improving myself but the time my efforts pay off I will be in my late twenties and by then it's too late to make up for lost time.
      You cannot get a degree in an instant or a good physique, even a good skin-care routine takes time, weeks to months.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It doesn’t take that long to get a good physique. Are you overweight or skinny currently? Getting jacked was the absolute game changer for me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I already have a decent physique, been working out for ~3 years now but girls still don't find me attractive because I am short and my face is ugly. I have to lift until I reach the natural limit which takes 5-10 years. I need a godlike physique.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I have to lift until I reach the natural limit which takes 5-10 years. I need a godlike physique.
            It doesn't take 5-10 years to hit your natural limit, more like 2-3 years. And as you said yourself, you'd still be short and ugly so what difference does it even make if your phsyique is "god like" or not?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >you'd still be short and ugly so what difference does it even make if your phsyique is "god like" or not?
              There is no guarantee it will make a difference but what else can I do besides trying? I took up rock climbing for bigger forearms, maybe a girl will notice me once they are big enough? Idk man, just trying to cope with being an incel.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Give us a look at the physique, I wanna know what you’re working with. Also how tall even are you. I have a 5’8” friend who fucks chicks all the time and he’s not jacked at all. He’s just confident as fuck.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There’s a point of diminishing returns with female attention and working out. I’d even say there’s a point of reversal in returns. Idk what your idea of a good physique is but I doubt girls will like you more with a godlike physique.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Please explain why you think you need a degree to get girls your age. To be accepted, your answer must include:
        >reasons why young guys who have not yet graduated college get girls
        >reasons why guys who never went to college get girls
        Any answer ignoring these two points will be instantly disqualified and discarded. Are you up to the challenge, you ginger homosexual?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          They are tall and have a decent face. It's that simple really.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >why young guys who have not yet graduated college get girls
            They are usually tall and handsome or just tall.
            >why guys who never went to college get girls
            Have a job/make money earlier, girls in their vicinity also usually start families earlier.

            Oh...so you DON'T need to have a degree then? Interesting.

            >you'd still be short and ugly so what difference does it even make if your phsyique is "god like" or not?
            There is no guarantee it will make a difference but what else can I do besides trying? I took up rock climbing for bigger forearms, maybe a girl will notice me once they are big enough? Idk man, just trying to cope with being an incel.

            >There is no guarantee it will make a difference but what else can I do besides trying?
            You tell me, you've never tried a day in your life. If you want to get girls, actually talk to them. Don't just lift and grow your tomato plants you fucking retard. inb4
            >hurr durr but how do I know I can talk without muh indicators of interest like muh animes
            That my friend is your problem. Shoot your shot and pay your dues like every other guy in history. Yes, you'll get rejected a bunch of times. Cry moar about it.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >you DON'T need to have a degree then?
              To get college educated girls you need a degree as well as a good career, to get working class girls you need at least a working class job.
              To get girls as a college student you need to be tall, handsome or just tall.
              >Shoot your shot and pay your dues
              I asked out a girl on a party a few weeks ago, grabbed dinner the next day but she wasn't interested.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >to get x you HAVE to be y
                incel mentality, ngmi

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >to get x you HAVE to be y
                more like
                >if you are x you will NEVER get y
                Being tall and handsome is not a guarantee that you will get a girlfriend but being ugly is a guarantee you won't.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >implying there aren't plenty of below average dudes with gfs
                get off the blackpill anon

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              This anon wants you on the sex offenders list OP. Approaching women en masse as an ugly manlet is a social death sentence. Keep improoving until women express interest in you. There's no other way.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Approaching women en masse
                Nice wasted trips, who said anything about this?

                >to get x you HAVE to be y
                more like
                >if you are x you will NEVER get y
                Being tall and handsome is not a guarantee that you will get a girlfriend but being ugly is a guarantee you won't.

                >but being ugly is a guarantee you won't.
                And yet, there are plenty of ugly guys out there with gfs.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You did
                >Yes, you'll get rejected a bunch of times. Cry moar about it.
                Numbers game bullshit. It's easy to tell when women are into you, that's when you should shoot your shot. Asking out women who aren't into you only makes your life worse. OP can only hope with improving that girls will like him and then he can ask them out. Until that day comes, approaching women will be nothing but trouble.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >You did
                I did? Where's the "en masse" part? Where did I say anything about asking out complete strangers instead of girls he already knows? Where did I say anything about asking out girls who are clearly uninterested?
                > OP can only hope with improving that girls will like him
                OP hasn't done any improving though. No, lifting doesn't count. Fucking gardening sure as hell doesn't count.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Where did I say anything about asking out complete strangers instead of girls he already knows?
                The thing is OP isn't getting any girls interested in him now. If he were he would know. He needs to improov for that to happen. You're putting the cart before the horse. At this stage asking out any amount of women, especially "a bunch" is a bad idea, especially if they're cold approaches.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >If he were he would know.
                Lol, what? No he wouldn't. OP is a fucking autist who seems to think girls will just flutter their eyelashes at him and he's said as much in countless of these shit threads that he makes.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Is this the OP who was going on about how he would only date blue-eyed white women with 140 IQ, or is that a different one?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No that's a different one, that sounds like some variety of pajeet or other shitskin talking. OP is Austrian ginger from LULZ and is as lily-white as it gets.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Ah, okay. Thanks for clarifying. I don't come to /adv/ often and these sorts of posters all sort of blend together for me.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >implying there aren't plenty of below average dudes with gfs
                get off the blackpill anon

                Yeah, there are ugly men out there with a girlfriend but they either have a good working class job or got their degree and now pursue a career with it. I am doing the same but I started university at 22, so it will take me until my late twenties the time I got everything going.
                By then all the decent girls are snatched up and I have to enter a miserable relationship with a used up mentally broken ex slut who is just looking for my money/stability. It will be the same loveless, intimacyless, touchless, kissless existence I am already in.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                sounds like you've already given up you whiny fag, stop assuming what women want and go after some of them or wallow in your own misery like a crybaby

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >sounds like you've already given up you whiny fag
                No, my mind is constantly battling with giving up though. One side it says that I should keep going, keep improving myself, all is going to work out and the other side says I should give up because all my efforts will lead into the same empty lonely life I am in now.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >why young guys who have not yet graduated college get girls
          They are usually tall and handsome or just tall.
          >why guys who never went to college get girls
          Have a job/make money earlier, girls in their vicinity also usually start families earlier.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you cope with being forced to marry an ex whore?
    You don't marry her. Can't make a housewife out of a hoe.

    T. married a virgin, but would rather stay single for life than marrying a "former" hoe.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what was your body count

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I will have to marry some used up 50+ bodycount ex slut who only partied and fucked around in her earlier years.
    Will it make you feel better if the whoring was just one of the many things she accomplished in her youth?

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >near triple-digit boy count

    That's fucking disgusting, if being a porn addict is debilitating, imagine the undiagnosed mental illness of sex maniacs, nevermind the proliferation of sexual diseases these slags promote with this lifestyle.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >once I am out of college, have my degree, a good job, house, car
    Why are you waiting?
    You can't do any of that WITH a wife?!
    >marry some used up 50+ bodycount ex slut
    less than 3% of women have a partner count that high

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Why are you waiting?
      I am not waiting. Girls just don't like me because of the way I was born, I am an incel.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Girls just don't like me because of the way I was born
        I seriously doubt that.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Try being ugly and have red hair, it's the best and most effective women repellent there is.

          >girls don't like me because I don't a college degree!
          >girls don't like me because of the way I was born!
          ITT we learn that other guys are born as college graduates.

          Stop twisting my narrative. Girls don't like me because of my genetics but maybe improving myself, which includes the degree and a job, could give me this 1% chance at getting a girlfriend and feel something else than constant loneliness.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Try being ugly and have red hair, it's the best and most effective women repellent there is.
            Being ugly sucks, but I seriously doubt it's your only problem, or even your main problem. Anyway, what's the point of whining and gnashing your teeth about the unfairness of life? Do you think that kind of behavior is likely to attract a good partner?

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I will have to marry some used up 50+ bodycount ex slut
    Don't marry someone if you don't want to. This isn't India. Anyway, if you think literally every woman is either a nymphomaniac or an asexual insane person you're incorrect.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >girls don't like me because I don't a college degree!
    >girls don't like me because of the way I was born!
    ITT we learn that other guys are born as college graduates.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The only important thing is that OP can pretend to be powerless. He can put blame for his problems entirely outside of himself.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You don't have to marry anyone. I'm old, not married, and pretty much only deal with chicks under 25. Why? Because I want to fuck attractive young women for all the days I never had bitches. My body, my time, my money, my choice.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is it just the one same guy who makes this same shitty thread every day?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He's not the only one but he is one of the worst offenders.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >every day
      I don't make them every day, I make them every other week. /adv/ posters have some weird obsession about anons.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What is the point of making thread after thread to whine about life's unfairness?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I am looking for advice on how to deal with it but I never receive any good applicable advice whatsoever.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If people don't like you it's not just because you have an ugly face. A good first step would be to get off LULZ. Try to spend as little time on social media as possible.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >A good first step would be to get off LULZ. Try to spend as little time on social media as possible.
              How does that help? LULZ at least helps me being grounded in reality.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No, these sorts of sites are echo chambers for exactly the kind of perverse bullshit you've been regurgitating in this thread. Social media is not helping to make you healthier. Spend more time in the real world, even if you have to do it alone.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >If people don't like you it's not just because you have an ugly face
              If it's friendship you're talking about, this may be right. But women will outright dislike a man and never consider him as a dating potential based on his looks and looks alone.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                SOME people might be hostile to you because you have an ugly face, but it's not something you can generalize for women or for people in general. This is all just an attempt to blame your problems on something outside your control so you can evade personal responsibility.

                Date girls that just turned 18. zoomers are having less and less sex so it's possible you could an 18 year old virgin. This solves your problem. Even if she's not a virgin she will have a lower bodycount that someone your age. Don't fall for the trap of only dating your own age.

                Imagine the poor 18-year-old girl who loses her virginity to an awkward, self-pitying, misanthropic incel.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm not ugly, Anon. I have been sort of ugly (or rather, very unimpressive) in the past. Women treated me ok, but never wanted anything with me. Then I improved my looks a lot and BAM, success.

                Women WILL reject men based on looks and looks alone regardless of who he is as a person and how great his personality is. If the guy is ugly, it's over.
                >inb4 "muh ugly guys with pretty girls"
                Prostitution with extra steps. Those guys would never feel the embrace of pussy walls on their dick if they weren't providing good money for those women.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yeah, no shit. Physically attractive people are considered attractive. This isn't a rebuttal of anything I said.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Physically attractive people are considered attractive
                Obvious statement, but not what I was saying.
                >Physically unattractive men CANNOT get women without paying for it
                This is what I'm actually saying.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Physically unattractive men CANNOT get women without paying for it
                Untrue, unless you really stretch the meaning of "paying for it."

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >/adv/ posters have some weird obsession about anons.
        You've mad dozens of threads on two boards about your incel crap and never having a gf.
        I wouldn't talk about being "obsessed" with anything.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Date girls that just turned 18. zoomers are having less and less sex so it's possible you could an 18 year old virgin. This solves your problem. Even if she's not a virgin she will have a lower bodycount that someone your age. Don't fall for the trap of only dating your own age.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >18 year old virgin
      Top kek anon.
      I hope your seriously aren't thus delusional

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        it's more likely, but even if not at least her bodycount is lower than a 25+ year old

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Something like 10% of US people age 20-24 are virgins. But it really doesn't matter because getting into a relationship with a virgin won't solve OP's problems. It's just another way for him to blame his unhappiness on external circumstances. "I'd be happy if only I could date a virgin, but there aren't any virgins so therefore I'm doomed and it's not my fault."

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm a 34 year old virgin who finally graduated and got a high paying job, now I'm going to start working out. Maybe by the time I'm 37 you think I'll be ready for my real life to begin and then I can get an 18 year old?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      or date much younger.

      >what do you mean, "date younger girls"?
      >NOOOO that's pedophilia!!!!

      Op your problem comes mainly from older men, who are in better positions
      financially than you right now, dating girls your age. They can blame Chad, a small percentage of the male population and ignore that most age gap relationships don't work out, especially not theirs when they're choosing girls based on their age and lack of experience

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Early twenties? Holy fucking shit you whining failbaby, you could easily be banging 18 year olds.
    Just bang sluts for now and raise your SMV. Build a good slut-handler rep, don't kiss and tell, and pursue non-sluts in parallel. Get friends as well. You want to be seen as a desirable man without being a douche. This will help you get a low-mileage woman.
    Give up on the virgin bride thing though. In the west, the time for that was when you were 13. Only virgins your age are virgins for a good reason.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not true plenty of girls graduate highschool virgins bc of strict parents and school pressure. After 2 years of college its pretty much no chance but I met a good handful of virgin girls in undergrad 18-20 y/o

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >some used up 50+ bodycount ex slut
    this is uncommon even today

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Incels have an overly active imagination because they have been left out. Finding an actual virgin girl is unlikely but most haven't had sex with a high number of guys. Even if they would want to the mechanics for that to happen just aren't there.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      not a worry fren, doesn't sound like you're gonna get yourself involved in any romantic relationships when you're suffering from terminal incel-brain

      Also this.
      >even today
      ESPECIALLY today, zoomers live in one fo the most sexless ages of all time, thanks to porn and internet autism.

      I'm a 34 year old virgin who finally graduated and got a high paying job, now I'm going to start working out. Maybe by the time I'm 37 you think I'll be ready for my real life to begin and then I can get an 18 year old?

      >can't wait to start dating when I turn 38 years old

      why do people keep doing this

      Date girls that just turned 18. zoomers are having less and less sex so it's possible you could an 18 year old virgin. This solves your problem. Even if she's not a virgin she will have a lower bodycount that someone your age. Don't fall for the trap of only dating your own age.

      >just find a perfect attractive 18 yo virgin girl who's attracted to 40 year old incels bro
      cool advice

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >why do people keep doing this
        Some of us got hurt bad when we were little.
        You'd need to actually have empathy for people like us to understand that.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Some of us got hurt bad when we were little.
          I was molested twice

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What I said and what you said are not mutually inclusive.
            It's very possible for you have to been abused and then turn around and lack empathy for others. In fact it's quite common.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I think that you're saying that I lack empathy is quite the lack of empathy on your part.

              I was asking "why". I want to understand what leads people to plow right through their teen years and young adulthood only to wake up one day as a 27-40 year old who decides that now is the time to start getting interested in girls. It's not just you but we always have threads on here where dudes only want to start dating after they've graduated and got a job and like bought a house or whatever. It makes no sense. I want to understand.

              Your response? "you lack empathy"

              very cool.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                The post to which I replied was extremely flippant and dismissive. A lack of empathy is a perfectly fair way to characterize it.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >why do people keep doing this

                which part of this is flippant or dismissive

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >>just find a perfect attractive 18 yo virgin girl who's attracted to 40 year old incels bro
        Aight, 40 yo incel is pushing it.
        But
        >be past me, 22
        >not a "Chad"
        >meet qt 16 yo virgin
        >she's attracted to me
        >we get in a relationship
        >she gives her virginity to me
        If I could pull it off, decent-looking, non-sperg sub 30 yo men can attract a 18 yo, and if they look deep enough they'll find SOME 18 yo who are still virgins.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >>be past me, 22
          that other anon is 34

          of course it's easy to get pussy as a 22 year old, but all these other anons for some reason beyond my comprehension decide that they should start dating when they're 30.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >for some reason beyond my comprehension decide that they should start dating when they're 30.
            It's because these people have completely non-existent self-esteem and self-worth. For some reason, they've deluded themselves into thinking that they can't start actually living their lives until everything is lined up perfectly for them: career, degree, big house, bodybuilder physique, etc.
            Meanwhile they're completely ignoring all the people who date without having this, or before having this, and that life is never perfect for anyone and there will always be setbacks and new challenges to overcome. You don't need to be an independently wealthy homeowner with a 4.0 GPA and abs carved from granite to ask a girl out for coffee, and funnily enough if they actually were they wouldn't have to be settling for some "post wall" 35 year olds either. But these people hate themselves so much and sell themselves so short, that even in their unrealistic fantasies they still kind of pretty much end up as frustrated losers.
            Sad, many such cases.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >For some reason, they've deluded themselves
              yeah that's what I'm interested in,

              cause like you said all the memes of "women only date you if you make 6 figures and have a jaw that's 10 inches wide and le status and money" clearly they must see couples starting in high school where it's just average dudes dating average girls.

              or do they mentally not see it? or they make up a cool story in their heads like "yeah he works at subway part time but that's only because his father is a millionaire and he wants CHAD here to learn a bit of normie life and that's why the girl is going out with him because he's actually secretly a Chad millionaire"

              or what

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's funny how you see men struggling with self-worth as just an opportunity to dunk on incels or something. Your language is just loaded with buzzwords and animus.
                I am a virgin, I have had women come on to me in high school and college. But I still never responded because I literally could not believe anyone would be interested in me. I was not even engaging with the external world and still don't to a large extent.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I have had women come on to me in high school and college. But I still never responded because I literally could not believe anyone would be interested in me.
                why

                are you like the other asshole and you were like "oh no I don't own my own house yet this is embarrassing"

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >why
                Didn't fit in for some arbitrary reason when young and then it gets internalized and carried with you, sometimes your entire life.
                what do you mean "why"
                this is things that happen to people

                >But I still never responded because I literally could not believe anyone would be interested in me.
                >It's because these people have completely non-existent self-esteem and self-worth.
                I love how people will always vehmently deny that I'm right and then turn around and casually, completely admit that I was right in these threads.

                ???
                I never argued with you, idiot.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I never argued with you, idiot.
                So? You never acknowledged that post and admitted I was right either. At least, not directly...

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >So? You never acknowledged that post and admitted I was right either
                lol what the fuck

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >You never acknowledged that post and admitted I was right either. At least, not directly...
                lmao the people on here never cease to amaze me, i hope you arent trolling anon

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                What? What's the big deal?
                If I'm able to suss someone out completely, then yes it would be nice if instead of continuing to jump through hoops of coping and seething, the people in question could be big enough to say
                >yes, you have me pegged completely, now what should I do?
                But everyone would rather save face on a faceless forum than actually get anywhere or solve some of their problems.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Didn't fit in for some arbitrary reason when young and then it gets internalized and carried with you, sometimes your entire life.
                autism?

                cause almost everyone doesn't fit in at one point when they're like 15 or whatever but it shouldn't still be a weight on your shoulders 20 years later

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                whether you think it should or shouldn't is irrelevant.
                I'm not sure why you are so focused on giving mental health advice here when it's obvious you have no clue what you're talking about.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >it's obvious you have no clue what you're talking about.
                which is why I was asking questions trying to understand

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >But I still never responded because I literally could not believe anyone would be interested in me.
                >It's because these people have completely non-existent self-esteem and self-worth.
                I love how people will always vehmently deny that I'm right and then turn around and casually, completely admit that I was right in these threads.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >there will always be setbacks and new challenges to overcome
              Girls don't care about your challenges and setbacks, they don't care if you are making an effort to get a degree and a job, they don't care about you being consistent with your training and diet, that your skin is still not perfect because a skin-care routine takes time to show results. Girls only care about you having already overcome every obstacle, that you already got the job, have the house, drive the car, that your humor and kindness is fully developed.
              Women only see the winners, the guys who crossed the finish line. Everyone who is still running is undesirable, invisible even.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Girls only care about you having already overcome every obstacle
                So why do guys still get women without having done this then?

                >For some reason, they've deluded themselves
                yeah that's what I'm interested in,

                cause like you said all the memes of "women only date you if you make 6 figures and have a jaw that's 10 inches wide and le status and money" clearly they must see couples starting in high school where it's just average dudes dating average girls.

                or do they mentally not see it? or they make up a cool story in their heads like "yeah he works at subway part time but that's only because his father is a millionaire and he wants CHAD here to learn a bit of normie life and that's why the girl is going out with him because he's actually secretly a Chad millionaire"

                or what

                It's because they're mentally ill and coping hard, as the other anon who replied to my post (see above) demonstrated nicely.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >So why do guys still get women without having done this then?
                women are easy to lie to and manipulate

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >So why do guys still get women without having done this then?
                Like I said, they have done this. Working class guys have money early, post-college guys can buy a home after their degree. The rest are tall handsome guys.
                An average dude in university for engineering is an incel.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                you know people date in high school, right?

                where are all the 15 year olds who own their own house?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Dating hoes anon group chat:

                https://courtyard.gg/chats/7axz9grjc4

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >got the job, have the house, drive the car,
                My dude you watched too many 1950s propaganda films if you think that you need all that shit to date girls.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >women only care about successful men
                Dude you are delusional. Unironically go outside, touch grass, and quit spouting your blackpilll nonsense. There are literal drug addicted homeless guys that have gfs

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >just find a perfect attractive 18 yo virgin girl who's attracted to 40 year old incels bro
        according to the internet it's very easy to trick/"groom" an 18 year old if you're older

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          apparently you just need to live as a misogynist shut-in for 10-15 years with 0 social experience, 18 year olds love that

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well people on the internet think it's that easy because of power dynamics or some shit

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m a 26 year old virgin. I will die a virgin before playing women’s game. None have liked me, none do like me, and none will like me. That’s fine. I’m so used to being alone at this point the that thought of learning how to be in a relationship, intimate, and emotionally invested in someone who isn’t family is scarier than the reality that I’ll die sexless, childless, and loveless.
    I guess I still like looking at women, but I no longer feel the desire to talk or interact with them that I used to. Fuck it. I’ve adapted to my circumstances in a way that I can tell myself preserves my dignity, and I no longer complain or harbor ill feelings towards people (based on this issue).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I will die a virgin before playing women’s game.
      why

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Because I’m not giving women any more power over me than that already legally have? It’s weakness to mold myself to their demands or do what they want.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >in a way that I can lie to myself preserves my dignity
      There anon, I fixed that line up for you.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That’s why I worded it the way I did. And while I originally was coping, I coped so long that I internalized the cope and genuinely believe it now. Perhaps a broken clock is right twice a day

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why does this thread trigger women and soi males so much?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It was a soi male who made the thread though...
      I love when incels like to play up the angle that they're somehow incel and chad at once, Schrodinger's Chad if you will, and it's the guys trying to straighten them out that are actually the seething losers here.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        but the people calling everyone incel are incels themselves

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          But...they're not, though.
          This is the same coping train of thought that leads to people saying anyone who calls you homosexual is secretly gay themselves. It's nonsense.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            they are the same. soi males and incels both don't get laid. incel=involuntary celibate. being sexism/misogynist isn't a requirement to being an incel

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >incel=voluntary celibate who lies about it
              Fixed that for you.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >rape is justified
                I concur

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >schroedinger's chad
        death surrounds my being

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      that's right, only cool chads have mentally-crippling issues about being intimate with a girl who has had more than 0 sex.

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Date a girl that just turned legal. Simple. There's no better woman to get into a romantic relationship with. She's very, very unlikely to ever have had sex and is very uneducated (which is why you need to be a good man for her, by the way).
    Things might be weird and awkward for you at first if this isn't common in your culture, but you'll soon get used to it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      age gaps are only taboo in america and the uk

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >uk
        My friend 23 dated a 17 year old girl out in the open, nobody cared.
        Bit of a white pill for uk bros

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        U.S more, I believe. But that probably depends on your state. If you live in California or NY, it's gonna be more taboo.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > I will be FORCED to marry a used-up whore
    And who will be forcing you in this unrealistic scenario, anon?

  22. 3 weeks ago
    A girl that will break the rules

    You don't have to marry. Stay away from people with healthy sex lives if it bothers you that much.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Stay away from people with healthy sex lives
      Kek

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      ok we get it youre a woman now post tits

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lol we want to avoid you. You are the ones who hide yourselves

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only real advice you will get in this thread
    You're early 20s so you still have time to find Jesus Christ and find yourself a nice Christian girl at Church before it's too late and your dating pool is only single moms or psychos. Your #1 goal should be this.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >loving two people at once isn’t being a whore
    I’m not following

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I am scared that my only shot at a loving relationship will be with a broken mentally ill girl
    Listen, anon, if you're serious, you are also broken and mentally ill.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Mental illness is a great example of how "muh hypocrisy" is just retarded when it comes to dating.
      So a person who is suicidal is only "fit" to see people who are also suicidal? And when those kids are inevitably born with horrible depression, will you say those kids should also only breed with depressed people? Should people born with MD only see other people with MD?
      I have depression and was able to trauma bond a lot with my current gf because she has it too. That was fun and it was nice to have a support resource, but it also means living with someone who has depression. Our depressive episodes compliment/amplify each other and make it worse. I would never, ever agree to date another depressed person if it's at all avoidable.

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I took on an old whore. She was 28 and in the desperate stage of her life where she realized she was too old for chads and was going to die alone if she didn't settle. So I emotionally abused the shit out of her for months telling her I wasn't interested because of her baggage but still flirted with her and took her out every now and then. She'd get mad and ask what the point of it was when I'd say she wasn't good enough for me and I'd tell her point blank "because spending time with you is still fun. That's what you're good at right? Having fun?" And for some reason she'd accept that. She finally begged me to try a relationship and I would leave her every month over something stupid and make her crawl back. I tell her all the time to do her make up better because she looks ugly today or that she needs to lose weight because those clothes are getting too tight. If I don't make her cry at least once a week I'm not doing my job. We had a kid together last year and I still haven't married her but have dropped hints I might. I booked a hotel room for tomorrow night, planning on packing my shit and leaving her again to make her panic and beg me back. She hasn't fucked up lately but I need to keep her on her toes.

    If you've got the right mindset, settling for a used up whore can be kind of fun.

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go on Spring Break and try to fuck some sluts - I recommend Cancun and South Padre
    If that fails, sex tourism - smash a new Latin, Slav, or SEA girl every night for a few weeks and get it out of your system.

    At that point, you shouldn't feel like you missed out on anything

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're getting your black pill incel-bait threads mixed up. This one is about how he hates that women sleep around, not envy about men sleeping around.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        A lot of the insecurities are centered around being inexperienced. Partying for a week and having a ONS would address that, crossing everything off his sexual bucket list overseas would address it as well.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      OP doesn't want a girlfriend. He only wants to whine.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        True

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anon, let's be honest with ourselves here: You aren't getting married, period. 50+ body count or no, you just aren't going to get there with a woman.

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