How do you cope with being a failure? I'm 28, useless degree and unskilled at it, can't drive, virgin with no GF, no friends locally, the ones I do have all are successful living in other states, my family deep down thinks im a failure as well. I still live with my dad. I have no skills and wasted my life thinking i'd be an animator but my drawings suck ass.
I'm scared of death so I can't rope but everything feels hopeless and I'm too retarded to know what to do. My dream of being an animator is pointless
Get a job. Save up some money in a few years to move out literally anywhere.
In meantime focus on your hobbies. They will keep you mentally stable, even content. And as long as youre saving up money, youre progressing somewhere. And remember that its never too late. There are millions of bigger fuck ups than you. And who knows, maybe you luck out with your animation artism
This. Any education is better than none. One of my college professors once told a bachelor's degree only tells people three fundamental things.
>You can read.
>You can write.
>You can think analytically.
It's a terrifying thing to sink or swim in life, but I've found that life becomes easier to manage after your twenties. Never stop reading. Never stop studying.
Thanks, anons. I've been applying to call center jobs lately
I don't hold societal expectations in very high regard. Simple as. I just want to chill. The lack of human connection does sting sometimes though. But people are always evil underneath anyway.
Based. I came in here to basically post this exactly.
i know, a psychologist or a woman would probably say I have "trust issues", but here's my issue, everytime I trust somebody, they leave me holding my dick after they get whatever they were after and vanish and that deficit is what I'm left with everytime, always faithful, patient, and understanding and they're just like "SUCKER!" and split, like I probably would have given you even more if you didn't need to be with "new" people all the time
i started working with this guy who wasn't bright, had this bitch mother in the workplace and he had a stutter. treated him like a person and in return he pinned his fuck ups on me in front of everyone, couldn't understand three syllable words unless there were management he wanted to show off for.
fuck was i supposed to do?
made fun of his stutter every chance i got and made him look like a retard in front of management by asking him questions he should have known the answer for, fuck that guy.
Watch this.
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that was an interesting watch, thanks
tldr
It's better to have art as a hobby than be your main thing. Most people won't "make it" and many people who do have to try really hard.
even the artists working in the industry are shit poor despite making 60-80k a year thanks to Cuckifornia's godawful costs of living. Same with New York and hell on earth (Toronto)
Then why live in those places anyway?
They're essentially the only places to get animation jobs.
It's incredibly fucked
Then not do what Mangaka do an send all of their scripts,Scraps and what not through fax or mail?
You'd think they would considering remote work is absolutely possible. I don't know why the west won't do it more often
Oh noooo how are you gonna marry a used up roastie with a 50+ bodycount now?
holy kek
i cope by ignoring how fucked things are.
whenever i go sober for more than a week i get these depressive episodes where i can just forget about sleep because i'm angry and opinionated for hours on end until i run out of steam. it serves no purpose but its anchored in reality so ''simply not being like that'' is like asking water to not be wet. getting good and drunk every now and then keeps me from doing this to myself.
I am exactly like you, I'm a 27 year old virgin, can't drive, am obese, live with my dad. But have a meme degree and expected to do well. I just eat to cope with it, but that only makes things worse. I would kms if I had my method of choice available.
At least you have a degree, could be a lot worse. At least women dont give a fuck if you have a job or bot as long as you have a degree
>27
>Women laugh at him
>men keep their daughters away from him
>crippling alcoholism
>obsessed with Japan
>dead end job that pays shit
>no teeth
>leeching off of family to exist
>grabs paint brush
>drowns in pussy for 5 years
>settles for a MILF
>kills himself
He's just like me fr, save for the painting
>I'm 28, useless degree and unskilled at it, can't drive, virgin with no GF, no friends locally, the ones I do have all are successful living in other states, my family deep down thinks im a failure as well.
This is me.
>I still live with my dad.
I live with my mom.
>but my drawings suck ass
That's where we differ. Drawing is my life. Literally the only thing I'm not shit at. I haven't monetized it though
I threw myself into studying another degree,
To obsess about failing a test rather than in life.
What degree did you throw yourself in?
Medicine, now I'm seething about it day and night and how much I can't afford to fail, but at least I stopped seething about my other short comings in life.
I do drugs, improve on my hobbies and workout. I still hate my life but atleast Im not just rotting away in my room anymore
genuinely kill yourself.
https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/suicide-resource-compilation.3/
Some species turn out to be successful, some aren't in terms of survival, the ones that aren't dont get to reproduce and continue their lineage because they are failures. You just have to accept that you are one of them, stop having any wishful expectations and hopes about how are you going to get rich or get a gf, what you were doing wasn't useful or had any real meaning anyways, but that's ok, all artists are like that falling for the meme and ending up societies clown stock, you won't, all intelligent, beautiful, fun women are already long chosen a partner amongst available in ones, settled and married, and the younger ones would never accept to belong to a low quality boring old man, whenst there are younger and much more interesting options available. You have already wasted your young best years having done nothing during it and there is nothing you can do to fix that anymore, because they are already gone. You apparently having a hard time coming to terms with reality, but you are going to end up alone, maybe living for a few years more fading, until eventually roping yourself.
Tldr, you are upset because you haven't realised it yet.
honestly same here anon, I'm 28, useless degree and unskilled at it, can't drive, no GF, no friends, can't walk can't talk, my family deep down thinks im a failure as well. I still live with my dad. I have no skills and wasted my life thinking i'd be an programmer but my tech IT skill suck ass, everything feels hopeless and I'm too retarded to know what to do. My dream of being an programmer is pointless, IDK if my brain still works anymore.
oh yeah fuck you mate, your parents paid out the ass for your useless doodle degree, i bet they tried to talk you out of it hundreds of times and you yelled at them and argued like you knew better. you are fucked loser
also you cant drive? what ? you cant drive in a straight line? are you not able to draw straight lines? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Am5vnx2ZpOY