How do you combine gym with physically intensive job?

How do you combine gym with physically intensive job?

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone got a deep dive on this pic

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      It's called being married to a lazy cunt. My wife stacks her clothes on the floor like that as well and it's fucking infuriating. And it's not like she's some low-class mongrel, she's highly educated with a well-paying job and comes from a good family. Just never learned to live at home like a person.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Higher a maid? Divorce her? You sound outrageously bitter

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          >Just end a relationship over a minor annoyance bro
          >just kick off a year-long process that will leave you broke and a social reject bro
          >if you dont youre BITTER
          summer is starting early, huh

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            based suplicator

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            At least I wasn't dumb enough to marry a slob. You reap what you sow, baby bitch

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Scared to be alone huh?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Minor enough of a annoyance for you to throw bitch about it. Either tell them it bugs you, leave them, or stop fucking crying.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You sound desperate as fuck, no wonder you have no other options

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            HAHAHA dumb cunt, you married a fat leech like every retard that falls for that scam and you're still too incompetent to remove the bloodsucker don't forget to say WOOF WOOF after each time you say "my wife" like a pussywhiped dog. Remember "happy wife, happy life!"

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            Spank her until she starts cooking & cleaning. Stop acting like a partner and start acting like her Daddy

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              whats wrong with her toes. Why are the big toes so big wtf

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              How hood is something like this in reality?
              Probably abuse charges in 15min right?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Self checking the get

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If she's working as much as you, it sounds like you need to hire a maid. You can inspire her to clean by cleaning and asking her if she'd help. Put on the Netflix show "tidying up" in front of her. She'll feel a urge to clean just to try out the tricks to cleaning in the show. Plus the show host is a based Japanese stay at home wife, former shrine maiden who made feminists seeth by making being a dutiful wife who cleans look like a good life.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              If you have a bitch wtf do you need a maid for? White guys give such bad advice OMG

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Because white people also let their women work a 9-5 and seethe when they don't respect them the same as they would an actual provider

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                i agree, you gotta let her sit at home doing some online business that brings in income. If she has to go out and work shes going to view and treat you as a roommate. This is why i dont even cohabitate, just come over, fuck suck cook clean leave.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            take it from me you need to either get a divorce or do something, being bitter about something and just avoiding it is not a solution, you will pay for it one day

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Just end a relationship over a minor annoyance bro
            It'll only only get worse so might as well end it soon

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >"f-fucking summer fags"
            >posts a thing he saved from reddit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            How is a filthy house and a disgusting slob cow for a wife a minor annoyance? I get irritated whenever I have to step over anything on the floor. This would make me fucking rage. I’d probably beat the shit out of her.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >my wife is a lazy cunt who infuriates me

            You do sound bitter bro

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >calls someone a summerfag
            >reddit watermark

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sunken cost fallacy, the post. Retard.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            u re right bro, all those replies stink of bitterness from people who don't even have a gf, let a lone a fucking wife lmao
            I found myself a liberal type naive young woman, and now im shaping her however I want, everything possible if both put in effort.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Living in a pigsty is a minor annoyance
            Sorry for you, next life don't marry a warthog. Keep going like this and you might be the next chris watts though.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            when you're on the other side of whatever nightmare relationship you're in that's causing you to project this hard, you'll curse yourself for throwing so many years of your life into the shitter

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            A young guy seeing older men get nagged by their wives, I kick women to the curb the second they don't realize it's my way or the highway.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have you spoken to your wife about it?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          About once a month for the last 8 years. It's learned behavior, like trying to make someone change how they walk.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        My brother was literally in your same position. Has 2 kids.
        Eventually he separated (she doesn't want an actual divorce because she'd get fucked over since my bro left EVERYTHING to her, whereas a judge would split it at least 30/70 or some shit).
        Even after the separation he would still go to 'her' place (duplex they bought together) every fucking single day to clean, cook and pick up the children from school.
        This lasted for 2 years until it became semi-frequent (2-3 days per week, he would end up just cooking and keeping the kitchen and the youngest kid's room clean while the rest of the house devolved into pure chaos).
        I can understand the cooking since thing since he's a chef and his bitch ex can't even make a decent hamburger helper to save her life, but jesus fucking christ.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >And it's not like she's some low-class mongrel, she's highly educated with a well-paying job
        its really interesting how all guys on fit and their wives are always very highly educated and in well paying careers

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          IDK about anyone else but I'm a STEM nerd so I have a well paying job but I don't have a social life

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Resident NEET checking in. No gf and haven't earned a dime in several years

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >highly educated
        that means nothing
        education is a fucking meme 90% of the time

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fat whore has her slave rectangle in perfect position for her daily mind poisoning.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >slave rectangle
        Kek will use this

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      lazy stay at home bitch and a dude who is too much of a pussy to leave her. Plus a little asian ghost in the hallway.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >little asian ghost
        oh god... oh fucking god

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >asian ghost

        bro I can't unsee it now

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        bros I'm too scared to get out of my blanket to turn on the lights but I really need to

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        FUCK

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        So many newfags in this thread have never seen n-word ghost boy

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm stupid where is he.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's the dirty lens smudge immediately to the left of the orange cylinder (candle?) near the hallway.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fat wife will abort his child, but she's too lazy to exorcise its spirit.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        DUDE

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I kekd fuck me lmao

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Don't you mean a basic gestalt?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      It's called being married to a lazy cunt. My wife stacks her clothes on the floor like that as well and it's fucking infuriating. And it's not like she's some low-class mongrel, she's highly educated with a well-paying job and comes from a good family. Just never learned to live at home like a person.

      https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1654929679614.jpg

      >Just end a relationship over a minor annoyance bro
      >just kick off a year-long process that will leave you broke and a social reject bro
      >if you dont youre BITTER
      summer is starting early, huh

      https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1654935530657.png

      Wamp Wamp Wamp

      My gf is thin and hot, but she started shit talking to me when we have an argument and she won’t shut the fuck up. She will even make fun of me. She never cleans my home because she says it’s not her house despite her sleeping her 4-5 days a week and eating rice cakes on my bed and always leaving plates on the table after eating. Whenever I bring it up she told me that my house was a mess before she met me and that she helped me cleaned it twice(4 months ago was the last time) she told me that she has a house of her own to clean ( she lives with parents) and they even have a female cleaner from Phillipines or something.

      We are getting married in August

      Bros, are all women fucking insane? I’m beginning to think they aren’t even human, these stories are incredibly discouraging and they’re becoming way too common. I already know marriage is mostly a meme, but I still see successful ones here and there irl. But is that shit even real or is it just a facade?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They never have been human. It's funny because women are claimed to be the emotional ones or whatever, but in reality they have no conception of morality, empathy, or just general human decency. They are a plague on our species, and it is a great misfortune that it is necessary for them to exist for the purpose of reproduction. Hopefully our stembros will solve this issue eventually...

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          They are perceived to be emotional because they don't have control over their emotions. It's precisely because they lack empathy and decency that they don't stop to think "Is this really worth going into a sobbing fit over? Is this worth negatively affecting other people's day?" Likewise, they cry at movies because they self-insert in the film, not because they feel genuine empathy for the characters. Basically, they are emotional in the same way that children are emotional.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        theyre worse than men in every aspect
        not because theyre not capable of being better, its because they dont have to be

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The women you would actually enjoy spending your life with will never serendipitously appear in your life because they have their own hobbies and if you didn't meet them online between 2000 and 2015 you are shit out of luck. Every successful modern hetero relationship I've seen and personally experienced shares this quality.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I like to think women are some kind of child.

        You can speak with old women and some of them actually are intelligent and they look like they care about their family and loved ones. Most of them had rough lives tho.

        Meanwhile the other 90% are attentional narcissistic parasitic beings

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        marriage isn't a meme
        civil marriage is a complete sham
        marriage is a religious practice ONLY
        the law doesn't exist and you should never respect it for a moment

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They're just spoiled kids mostly. There are a lot of good women out there, you can easily work them out by asking non-invasive questions about their childhood
        I've noticed things like after school activities, hobbies, doing chores, good relationships with their parents, having a sibling, etc make a far more considerate, emotionally healthy, rational, and compassionate girl.
        Avoid women whose childhood consisted of going to school, watching TV, and never had to do any work around the house. In my experience a relationship with them always consists of coming home to a pigsty because they expect somebody else to clean up after them and binging sweets because "I deserve it" after half a shift at their low-paid zero-responsibility job and her employer should be "grateful" that she's doing the bare-minimum expected of her role. These girls are gains goblins who will never understand the value of hard work, self improvement, and discipline because they were never raises with it and see challenge as something to be avoided at all costs.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It’s “way too common” because the average person male and female are lazy homosexuals who are addicted to their phone or computer. There are plenty of sane women and men out there but they aren’t on the apps, they aren’t looking for a roidtranny, they aren’t looking for people like us.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You have to be a good man to find a good woman.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I had an ex wife just like this. Lived like a complete and utter slob. Put her trash under the bed like a fucking rat.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        was she like that before you married her? whenever I hear about a story like this I wonder how anyone even chose to marry the person in the first place. that sort of piggery is a 100% dealbreaker for me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          No she was normal and trying for the first couple years then the real person started to show. But we didn't live together until we got married so some of her habits weren't obvious. And when I kept trying to improoove that's when she turned into a sinking anchor.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Evidence for the defense exhibit A
      The man was acquitted.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >i lift to get a gf
      >picrel is the gf
      Be careful with

      you go lift
      thats it

      what you wish for

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Some guy took a picture to make fun of his disgusting wife. Also Asian boy ghost shows up to make fun of her too. Probably was eaten by her. This picture is probably around 8 years old and I first saw it on 2015 ifunny

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you go lift
    thats it

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You just push it through. Until your body fucks up. (Back, knees, shoulders, elbows, wrists)

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't over work the strained shit.
    Ease more calisthenics in.
    Make sure you don't skimp stretching, but don't overdo it either.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I know it's getting memed lately, but maybe try a Mentzer/HIT style lifting routine.
    >lift real fuckin hard until failure ~2 times a week
    >spend the rest of the week recovering (light cardio, or a physically intensive job)
    That way you don't have to completely wear yourself out every day of the week without rest.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      end of thread

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this is why you get a self a concious wife
    most fatties never move from their couch

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    Wamp Wamp Wamp

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Assassination is the only option for that man. But he's probably too pussy to ever do it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Imagine being an adult male and needing affection

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just leave the country

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thats a sad life ngl

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Any man that doesn't get his woman to sign a prenup before marriage is a fucking idiot that deserves this fate. How many fucking stories do me have to see, read and even experience for them to understand that most women have no sense of duty and are incentivized to break off the marriage?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      honest question, why doesnt he stack money and leave? Game the system, say that due to sexless life you got frustrated and lost money on hookers. Hell, find some hooker which will back your story. Hide the money. Lost the job and your credentials for 6 months - 1year. Use this time to not give a fuck, go on a trip, life like a mofo, lose some weight. Once the court proceeding are done, you are on your way back in life, possibly in a different city so that the cunt cant track you down easily.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Any man that doesn't get his woman to sign a prenup before marriage is a fucking idiot that deserves this fate. How many fucking stories do me have to see, read and even experience for them to understand that most women have no sense of duty and are incentivized to break off the marriage?

        Just leave the country

        Solid advice

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    Both my friends have fat fuck wives like this. They found them in highschool when they were skinny and half decent. I was jealous at first. Laughing behind their backs now.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My gf is thin and hot, but she started shit talking to me when we have an argument and she won’t shut the fuck up. She will even make fun of me. She never cleans my home because she says it’s not her house despite her sleeping her 4-5 days a week and eating rice cakes on my bed and always leaving plates on the table after eating. Whenever I bring it up she told me that my house was a mess before she met me and that she helped me cleaned it twice(4 months ago was the last time) she told me that she has a house of her own to clean ( she lives with parents) and they even have a female cleaner from Phillipines or something.

    We are getting married in August

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Enjoy getting divorced by december

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        bro i love her, we are together for almost 2 years. she may not be a the trad women we all anons want but she is so hot, also i have zero options and not having sex is not an option. the sex is perfect i fuck her twice a day

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You don't love her anon, you love the in house easy access to pussy.

          Think long term anon. What HELL will your life be when she squeezes your kid out her cunt and your sex life ends up on r/deadbedrooms?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >we are together for almost 2 years
          Lol
          I've been with mine for almost 6 years
          She never brings up marriage cause she knows that if she does I'll put her in her place

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          you about to get divorced raped

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            never correct your enemy when he is making a mistake

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >We are getting married in August
      why?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Because the weather is nice

        Red flag

        Take the hint homosexual

        What do you want me to do cancel the wedding?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          its only going to get worse, like

          Enjoy getting divorced by december

          said, enjoy your divorce, and giving her half your shit. All because you're too pussy to break up and find someone better.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          you can still marry her, but get her to sign a prenup

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >but get her to sign a prenup
            you'll be shocked to find that those aren't even legally binding in most states, i know amazing isnt it.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Boomer retard doesnt know those are always thrown out as soon as her lawyer (which you have to pay for) says it was signed under "duress"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Red flag

      Take the hint homosexual

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      are you marrying her just because shes hot? lol

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Strongly think about whether you really want to spend the rest of your life with this girl.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >she started
      Yeah it's only gonna get worse, do what

      you can still marry her, but get her to sign a prenup

      cuz you only seem to want to marry her because she's hot and you want sex.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bro i love her, we are together for almost 2 years. she may not be a the trad women we all anons want but she is so hot, also i have zero options and not having sex is not an option. the sex is perfect i fuck her twice a day

      You are either bait or retarded. Both her looks and sex will disappear the moment you sign that slavery contract. You frankly almost deserve what coming to you since so many people warn about this shit now.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        we are literally living two houses apart from each other. how the fuck im i going to find a new girl without her knowing? what if i see her with another guy knowing he fucks her? i can't deal with this shit, or if i can? how do i cope?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          lol at this scarcity mentality. you are right, go ahead and marry her; what could possibly go wrong

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            not an argument

            lmao
            >we live close by so i have no choice but to marry some lazy bitch
            wild guess here but she's your first gf and you make good money?

            >wild guess here but she's your first gf and you make good money?
            i make good amount of money yes, but no she is not my first gf but she is the hottest i had. Before her i was in a 5 year LTR with a greek girl but we broke up on covid and i met this new girl in dec 2020. so yeah i was kinda out of the game for a long time, my physique and being toxic carried me when i was single. the money part tho i listened to LULZ from a year ago and i'm not simping her with presents etc. I take her out once a week or so. She is not broke either tbh.

            From your description of your relationship, another guy is going to fuck her whether you marry her or not.

            >From your description of your relationship, another guy is going to fuck her whether you marry her or not.
            So it's my fault i'm getting cucked? She is just born this way to be a bitch, her ex'es were soft dyels and i'm the first man that i talk when i don't like something. Just because i let out my situation it doesn't mean that im a soft beta that doesn't talk. Maybe im a beta for not leaving tho i will agree on this because she will resent me when she senses that im in a relationship that i don't like. I literally work 12h like pic rel with 6 day ppl and have sex on top of that. I don't have time to think what i even want. damn

            >how do i cope?
            by thanking God she's not your problem anymore. She's a garbage person. Would you feel jealous if you threw your garbage and someone picked it up because they liked it?

            >by thanking God she's not your problem anymore.
            based, i didn't think of it like that, but i can't help the fact she will fuck another dude. and im saying it again the sex with her is pretty good and she does everything.

            What a fucking beta bitch you are lmao

            thanks homosexual.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >So it's my fault i'm getting cucked?
              It is your choice to marry her, just as it can be your choice to step back and properly thinking about your relationship. I strongly recommend you sit down with her and sort this out before you sign the marriage contract. Also, prenups are not work the paper they are printed on so you can forget about them.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

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              Onassis poster is a beta cuck. No surprises here

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          lmao
          >we live close by so i have no choice but to marry some lazy bitch
          wild guess here but she's your first gf and you make good money?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          From your description of your relationship, another guy is going to fuck her whether you marry her or not.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >how do i cope?
          by thanking God she's not your problem anymore. She's a garbage person. Would you feel jealous if you threw your garbage and someone picked it up because they liked it?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What a fucking beta bitch you are lmao

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If you can get one girl anon you can get another. Honestly where is this low self esteem coming from? Do you believe you really can't attract another female or are you just comfortable and don't want to put in work?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Honestly where is this low self esteem coming from?
            it's honestly from me being around her. We were talking about my body one day and i told her i literally don't know anyone in my circle who is that lean and muscular, and she started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc. that's just one example, another example she jokikingly said that im a 'little man' because im 178cm. The other time her best friend told her that i look skinny in that shirt and she told me about. there are more brutal examples that i won't get into. and when i confronted her she told me she was 'joking' or she did because i tried to talk her down and that i was making insecure that i thought i was the best physique she ever had (her ex was a dyel btw)

            things of that nature anon. also some lookism threads here got me

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              dump her, she is toxic and is detrimental to your life
              >BuT I LuW HeR
              ok great, does she love you back or are you only a convenience to her life?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

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              lmao so fucking hard at your life right now. break up or break down

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc
              You have a good physique. You are 178cm tall. You make good money. This is a self inflicted mental prison and she has become your warden, seriously rethink if you want to spend your life with a woman who does not clean, bitches at you, talks about how other dudes are better than you, talks shit with her friends about you, all because she's hot and the sex is good.
              How do you see this evolving 5, 10, 20 years later ?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              its over before it even began holy shit. look forward to a miserable future as a cuck to your bitch wife

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

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              What a bitch. Tbh you're a massive cuck if you put up with that shit (or worse) regularly

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              It's literally over anon, she looks at you like a fucking tool to be used. Sounds like she had a pathetic relationship with her father (if she even had one). You can try the "I can fix her bro" but 99.9% of the time it wont work, these are deep rooted psychological issues within her which make her into an entitled bitch... and yes I learned about these type of women the hard way, you are a fucking object to be USED and disposed of as soon as you stop functioning in the desired manner, then kicked and spat on (as well as having half of your financial assets confiscated) for not being a good little cuckslave

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

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              Didn't expect this to get so many (You's) i just finished a two hour leg day and gonna take a shower now and have 3 meals ahead. I guess shit is serious

              dump her, she is toxic and is detrimental to your life
              >BuT I LuW HeR
              ok great, does she love you back or are you only a convenience to her life?

              >does she love you back
              She said she does but i low key don't believe her. She told me she will do 'everything' to keep the relationship alive. But my gut doesn't trust this shit.

              https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1654962098831.jpg

              lmao so fucking hard at your life right now. break up or break down

              >break up or break down
              damn bro...

              >started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc
              You have a good physique. You are 178cm tall. You make good money. This is a self inflicted mental prison and she has become your warden, seriously rethink if you want to spend your life with a woman who does not clean, bitches at you, talks about how other dudes are better than you, talks shit with her friends about you, all because she's hot and the sex is good.
              How do you see this evolving 5, 10, 20 years later ?

              >How do you see this evolving 5, 10, 20 years later ?
              me being divorced and having my money stolen.

              https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1654965984000.jpg

              What a bitch. Tbh you're a massive cuck if you put up with that shit (or worse) regularly

              >Tbh you're a massive cuck if you put up with that shit (or worse) regularly
              This is not what a cuck is but i might be one soon.

              It's literally over anon, she looks at you like a fucking tool to be used. Sounds like she had a pathetic relationship with her father (if she even had one). You can try the "I can fix her bro" but 99.9% of the time it wont work, these are deep rooted psychological issues within her which make her into an entitled bitch... and yes I learned about these type of women the hard way, you are a fucking object to be USED and disposed of as soon as you stop functioning in the desired manner, then kicked and spat on (as well as having half of your financial assets confiscated) for not being a good little cuckslave

              >It's literally over anon
              Ok...

              Brahs, THANKS! My first mistake is that i thought that this shit is fun and games and didn't notice how my mental state would be affected. I will kick her out and give her her things. Im low key anxious on her reaction. What if she flips? Should i have a redpilled friend standby? Should i record anything? Im 1000% she will not take it lightly. Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house because i wasn't answering. Any tips? THANKS to all of you anons tho...

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >But my gut doesn't trust this shit.
                Listen to your gut, your intuition is not wrong, we were able to sense this shit way before we were capable of higher intelligence. Actions speak louder than words and we know it intuitively.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >She told me she will do 'everything' to keep the relationship alive
                Yeah It's always in the best interest of gold digging whores to do that

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Thank God you two don't live together this will be way less painful than if you were. My advice is to not explain "why" too much, keep it civil

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Should i have a redpilled friend standby?
                best bring a woman i.e sister or mother. for when she undoubtable cries rape, having other men there will only make it worse, women know men will put up with shit, if there's another woman there to call her out on her bullshit hopefully she's behave
                >Should i record anything
                100% yes
                >Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house
                jesus dude, this is long over due

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                sounds like youre set. good. she sounds a bit looney from your concerns. only advice I have is to stand your ground at all costs. if you have to call the police on a flip out then thats what happens. dont back down, dont play games. she either leaves reasonably or you call the cops. there's no other winning move. they'll see she's insane and deal with it. feel free to start recording if she does lose it, but make sure you announce it in the recording that youre recording. youre allowed to record in your own home, but its a good move to make sure people cant turn it on you in any way and could save your ass from poor defamation attempts.

                > Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house
                cops. if shes violent be prepared. dont answer with violence if avoidable. these people always destroy themselves just fine

                godspeed brother

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              You got to work on your mental health bro.
              Your brain is fucked. Get rid of the things that pull you down bro. You can't get to the surface otherwise

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >my gf is thin and hot
      >we're getting married
      Ho ho ho, common mistake my friend.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >We are getting married in August

      Now, why would you do that?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      GET OUT BRO WTF

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You should only be saying two things to her (1) "shut the fuck up" and (2) "I want anal"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      do NOT marry her anon
      I repeat, do NOT marry
      >t. been through a very similar fucking relationship, standards of cleanliness are REALLY FUCKING IMPORTANT

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      youre actually fucking retarded
      she knows that she can get away with doing shit like this now so she will 100% continue
      you should have had a go at her before you proposed

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why aren’t you beating her up yet?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      You know what makes women actually change their ways in these situations? You have two options.

      The first is to simply give her an ultimatum. When she makes fun of you and talks shit, after the argument is over and you've all cooled off, just bring it up to her and tell her if she ever does it again you'll be forced to blah blah blah. You figure out what will "hurt" her the most, and do it. And you have to actually do it. For my ex, she would be devastated whenever she couldn't be over at my place 24/7 every day, so, my ultimatum was: knock it off or I'm sending you home and instead of 7 days a week at my place, let's move it to 6. That way I have a day that I can use to clean up this messy apartment. :^) Problem solved. Suddenly, after months, she started putting her clothes away nicely instead of tossing them all over the floor and my bed. Amazing!

      The second option is throwing her own behavior right back in her face. They're mentally children, so sometimes you gotta show them, not tell them. Another ex liked to wear revealing clothing sometimes. I asked if she wouldn't mind saving those outfits for when I was with her. So the very next day she's out with her parents and best friend she posts a mirror selfie on her Snapchat story in a revealing croptop, the same croptop that had been part of the discussion the day prior. Apparently, asking nicely and respectfully had no effect. So, what did I do? I stood in front of my mirror, pulled up my shirt with my one hand, and took a mirror selfie and posted it to my Snapchat story. She was so incredibly furious, so exceptionally seething at me only doing the exact thing that she did, I cannot even begin to tell you but it was intense. In fact, she even pretended she was going to break up with me (but I didn't beg forgiveness like she thought I would, and she bitched out when she saw I was calling her bluff). But I assure you that was the last time she wore that kind of outfit, even with me there. :^)

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I just list things I do for her, then ask what do you do for me that a hooker wouldn't? She knows I like affection and that type of shit so genuinely if it's nothing besides sex she figures out she's useless to me yet costs much more than a hooker per say. Wouldn't say it to most girls but if you have a self aware one yep. In general the "what do you do for me?" is a good question to unground them because usually they only think about themselves and not your benefit to being in a relationship with them.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >getting married
      Bad move. You want my advice call off the wedding

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >relationship has severe issues
      >get married
      Genius. You know what will really solve all the issues you guys have? Have a kid or two, smooth sailing from there on out

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        friend of mine genuinely said he decided to have a kid because his relationship had hit a rough patch.
        said it like it's the most logical thing in the world.
        I hope the kid turns out okay, poor thing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You have a right to change your mind. Why would you willingly walk into a dissaster. I was engaged too, but once she showed me who she really is and what she really thinks about me, I said no, I will not marry you.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Enjoying getting your back blown out financially when she divorces you, takes the kids, the oven, the dog, the computer, the televsion, the pots, the pans, the silverware, the unused condom box, the sex toy, and the weights away from you. Leaving you a penniless malding 30 yr old with test problems and low self esteem before a cold bullet to the temple ends your miserable existence, homosexual.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My buddies who have tried this are all miserable or divorced. Don't do it anon. These habits don't change easily. At a minimum you need to be expecting to delay the wedding to solve this. Yes it will be embarrassing but a life of misery is 100x worse.
      When I asked my buddies before the wedding the answer was usually some combination of "this girl is the best I can do/have done lookswise" "her dad is rich and it's gonna be a big inheritance" "the sex is great" etc.
      -t. dude in his late 30s.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >"her dad is rich and it's gonna be a big inheritance"
        perfectly valid reason to get married

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Not worth a lifetime of misery. There's more wealthy fish in the sea if that's a requirement.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's only miserable because you have the stress of knowing your wife can take everything you own/your kids if you don't put up with it. You don't have that problem when you marry into money

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Randomly my local WAKA kickball league seems to be packed with wealthy white daughters. Most have 50-100k jobs and a safety net if they got laid off/big expensive medical problem/whatever. They otherwise mostly live a middle income until retirement. They don't have student loans, maybe they got a nice hand me down car from parents, maybe parents started some funds for them at a young age that by mid 20s is $100-$300k, maybe they have a family vacation home they can use. But otherwise until they inherit their parents money, life is middle class as usual.

              t- guy who has dated several girls like this and married one. A divorce doesn't entitle you to her future inheritance. Nor would being miserable for a few decades be worth it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kill her and then yourself

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >my gif is thin and hot

      This is the only reason you're been with her as long as you have, and that's going to change. It's time to stop an evaluate whether staying with her is worth it; because her looks WILL fade, and like tha majority of women, she's probably going to put on a lot of weight after she's secure.
      Moreover, the shit she says shows that she has no sense of personal accountability. A woman with no accountability will cheat on you, not feel bad about it, and rationalize it to you and herself when she gets caught. All women possess these traits to a greater or lesser extent, but the fact that you guys aren't even living together full time and she's already pulling that shit should tell you it's time to fucking run.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Kill her and then yourself

        >Should i have a redpilled friend standby?
        best bring a woman i.e sister or mother. for when she undoubtable cries rape, having other men there will only make it worse, women know men will put up with shit, if there's another woman there to call her out on her bullshit hopefully she's behave
        >Should i record anything
        100% yes
        >Last time i told her to get out she broke inside my house
        jesus dude, this is long over due

        Thank God you two don't live together this will be way less painful than if you were. My advice is to not explain "why" too much, keep it civil

        >She told me she will do 'everything' to keep the relationship alive
        Yeah It's always in the best interest of gold digging whores to do that

        Damn this thread is still up? She just blocked me out of every social media platform and phone. We talked and i told her that i will NOT tolerate any other disrispect from her. I gave her examples about her bring me down, and she told me that's how she is and she can't tell me ''everyday that im good enough'' she was being uronic and hostile towards like that was my point or something. She started crying and braking down and i told her that your fake tears won't work and she told me she needed an apology for when I did her wrong. It turned against me. I told her that apologies are retarded and only actions matter and i acted properly towards you. She was rumbling about some shit and continually interpuppting me while i was speaking. I told her to fuck off.

        She closed the phone and blocked me out of everywhere. I'm low key sad af bros... laters...

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          sorry for spelling, im kinda shaking from anger. Also she told me that i should learn to behave as a 30 year old and i should see a pshychatrist. That was while I was calm.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          sorry for spelling, im kinda shaking from anger. Also she told me that i should learn to behave as a 30 year old and i should see a pshychatrist. That was while I was calm.

          Wait so what actually happened, did you kick her out or did you two just have an argument over her bringing you down? Only you know the full details but from your descriptions it sounds like you're in the right here, even just the breaking in part is enough.
          It's gonna be okay bro, whatever happens, don't forget that there are people out there who will love you unconditionally without bringing you down or fucking breaking into your house lmoa. It's all going to be okay in the end, everything always is.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah, emotional manipulation, playing the victom, and no sense of accountability.
          Don't let her try to weasel her way back in by acting pitiful to make up with you. Call off the engagement.
          You do NOT want to attach yourself to a woman like that.
          Just move on, for your own sake. If you marry someone who acts like that, you'll end up with your very own Amber Heard.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Don't let her try to weasel her way back in by acting pitiful to make up with you
            how the fuck did you know? she just unblocked me, how do i stand my ground without her being a bitch and breaking in my house again?

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Because that's what women like this do.
              That's why I said RUN. If you think she's making your life difficult now, she's really going to make you miserable if you keep heading where you're heading.
              Get her shit out of your house, secure it--change the locks if you have to--and call the police to come get her if she tries breaking in.
              She will exploit any weakness you have for her to get her hooks into you. Recognize the threat she poses to your well being--your life, even, and I'm not exaggerating--and excise her from your life.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Damn bro she is playing wicked games. Pray for me. I’m going to take a walk I feel like shit. Fuck w*men

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You are all the better for it. The sadness is natural, and it'll pass.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are you a US Marine by any chance?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      pls be bait

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    WTF THERE'S A GHOST

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Am I the only one that counted 7 ghosts?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I see 2

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You tweaking bro

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ghosts of the babies she miscarried due to being so unhealthy

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Take meds

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lit sticky
    >tactical barbell
    /thread

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Better aim for 16h.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >marry hot girl you lowkey hate living with
    >has zero reason to maintain her looks because you are tied down
    >gets fat and old, and is no longer hot
    >no sex and still hate living with her

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >you are tied down
      I thought this said "you are a tied clown" lol

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      many such cases
      dudes dont realize a womans behavior is auditioning for commitment, most drop the charade once you begin cohabitation with them

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    marrying a fat bitch is getting cucked. if she was lazy before, and you married her, why would she change?

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    you whitee guys are actually beta and cringy as fuck

    and then you blame garden gnomes for BMWF when the reality is you have zero game/leadership and let women control the relationships

    Look, this mfker has his bitch in the kitchen where shes supposed to be; and she's happier for it. You cannot refute this

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Norway bros...it wasn't supposed to be like this

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Worked in customer service in Scandinavia for a bit. Norwegians are fucking horrible. Fucking retarded grown up babies. Worst type of boomers and karens. Even their young ones don't know how to act or how to get simple things done.
      Danes on the other hand were the nicest people ever.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Can you be more precise on why Norwegians are horrible ?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      n-words dont have game or leadership, they just act on impulse and hit on women that really dont like them, chimp out when it doenst go their way, then move on. Vast majority of young girls only end up with blacks because they are given drugs. There is a reason why you have to put BMWF all over TV and poorn, garden gnome, and its because you know n-words are ugly incels otherwise

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds like you are socially awkward and can’t approach women

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          n-word detected opionion rejected

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            sperg with no game kek

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What’s annoying about posts like these is that these couples are just families trying to live their lives. Those kids are just normal kids. It’s not like the mother said she wanted a black husband because BBC or some autistic racial obsession. She just loved someone who incidentally was of a different race.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >totally a coincidence goy!

        Kids are mutts, anything BUT normal

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          go leave or at least shoot up a supermarket or something so the cops can end your pathetic existence

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        These couples are broadcasting their childrens faces and the layouts of their home to potential pedos rapists burglars and murders on the internet for attention money and tiktok followers. People who want to live a humble private life dont upload this information to the internet; it goes in a cloud or drive somewhere and is watched during family events by the family. Narcissists dont get a say or sympathy

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah but I bet they get crazy amount of social validation for race mixing.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          They're consciously making content for asian incels to spam. This is their purpose in life. "Honey we must post a video, Liu Kang needs help with not getting pussy."

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            Serves a few propaganda purposes.
            >Demoralization of the native population.
            >Encouragement of immigrants to travel to Norway with the promise of a middle-class 1st world life and a white woman.
            >Traditional dress pushes the idea that to be truly Norweigen is nothing more than an elective identity that anyone from anywhere can choose to adopt.

            There will be a garden gnome facilitating this somewhere in the background.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I actually love seeing foreigners embracing and being embraced by other cultures
      Maybe I'm a fag but that's me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >n-words
      >Leadership
      Choose one

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        and where is your white wife and 3+ children?

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >gf gets mad if I dare keeping my jeans inside instead of changing to clean home clothes
    glad I got the opposite extreme

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Fucking based nagger

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    >being alone is miserable (don't try and convince me otherwise, I haven't had a gf in years and it sucks)
    >even if you do find a wife, there's a solid chance it will end in divorce or OP's pic

    What the fuck am I supposed to do?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      maybe stop being a momma's boy homosexual who tried to emulate his relationship with his mommy through random roasties? That mentality is precisely why you're single. Happiness is supposed to come from within

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Become happy alone
      Become a little happier with the right woman at your side

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      alone is miserable
      maybe im just numb and broken inside but i find it far more tolerable than being around people, even family.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Too bad city fag, but stay the fuck out of the rurals.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My gf is renting a room from me in my house
      If she gets uppity, i give her a 30 day notice and its over

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >having no gf is miserable
      if you are not happy alone you will never EVER be happy, period.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i was in the same boat a while back, learnt that being single for life is the life for me. i eventually will make a deal with a nice women to let me impregnate her to give me a son though.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      become a world champion and live in the woods

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm alone and not miserable. I've been with a couple of women in my life and they were shit. I thank them for effectively black-pilling me on relationships, well before the notion of black-pilling was even a thing.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The traditional way? Always have something to offer and find a way to make her wait for it. The second you give her access to everything and have nothing else lined up to give her is the day you lose her love and respect. That's why you live life in stages:
      >When are we getting married?
      >When are we having kids?
      >When are we getting a bigger house?
      Once she runs out of things to ask for she gets bored and tries to fuck the delivery guy to spice things up, because women are essentially biologically programmed to be needy whiny cunts that are never satisfied. They're the ultimate mindless consumer. If you can find a way to always have something appealing on the horizon you'll never run into any issues, unless someone else can offer her more than you can, but that's another battle. That's why planning for your future is essential to making things last in a relationship. Especially retirement. And if they slip up you can literally tell them "I don't see a future with you if you continue X behavior."

      That whole strategy has worked since the dawn of time, but now with our hyper-sexualized liberal feminist women that think they can pretty much do and fuck whoever they want, you have to be incredibly selective of who you give your time to. If you can convince them to work out with you and cook and clean because it's the kind of family you want to have in the future, then you should be good, as long as she believes you'll actually break up with her you'll hold power in the relationship. If she's resistant to that or thinks she can change your mind or trick you, she's for the streets and you need to broom her.
      I've never seen the power dynamic change faster in a relationship than when a woman realizes he'll never leave her. Woman are parasitic by nature and that's carte blanche.
      >tl;dr
      She'll never love you, only what you can provide for her. So make sure she's worthy of providing for by telling her exactly what standards you have and living by them.

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ty for the thread guys
    now i know i should beat my future wife
    very grateful, i shall learn from your mistakes

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I workout on my free time.
    That's it.

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    From what I've seen in this thread and read posts elsewhere about similar situations, it seems like a common theme with guys who get into and stay in relationships with women who regularly shit all over them, have zero respect for them and don't even sleep with them. What the fuck is wrong with you people? Were you not given a spine at birth or something? Do you not have an ounce of self-worth and just let everyone walk over you? Man the fuck up or just cut your dick off now. Shit like this is a disgrace to manhood.

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    such is the nature of some women. this hurts my soul

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    If anyone remembers the BPD gf anon that broke up with his gf please help me I guess we are back together I don't know what to do
    I don't want to hurt her but I can't be a psychiatristt to her I can't save her AHHHHHHHHH

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bpd women are soul sucking manipulative nightmares and they all cheat. Don’t let her manipulate you to get her way. Just fucking leave her dude.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        I am legit considering just suffering out this life so as not to have to break her heart again
        she is not as bad as most bpd stories I hear about but I am still suffering, even just being in the relationship is wearing away at me despite nothing going on right now, I know that's a mental issue on my side but it's what the relationship had left me with.
        Everything was going great after the break-up until I fucking learned she was to attend a festival in my uni town that I was going to, she is kinda a part of my friend group so I told them I thought it'd be better if we don't meet.
        Afterwards she started texting me, berating me about how she wanted to see me and how she just got told I didn't want to see her (fair I guess) and I felt suicide-level bad about myself, having just wanted to fucking retain my mental integrity.
        Then I drove over to her uni town to make it up for her by spending 2 nights at her place and we ended up somehow getting together again.

        captcha XD JMH

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You spent two nights and her and you “somehow” got back together with her.
          People on this board that get a crumb of pussy are so fucking pathetic. No advice anybody gives you is going to make you do anything different. Just learn the hard way homosexual

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            >that get a crumb of pussy are so fucking pathetic
            I don't give a shit about pussy lol, I fucking detest having sex because it disgusts me how animalistic it is and how everything in the world spins around it (my dislike probably has to do with my unhappy relationship situation though kek)
            I can't let her go because I fucking hate hurting her and seeing her do shit while she isn't mine, we "somehow" got together because I couldn't bear being around her in town among other people without her being my "property" and because we hugged for like 30 minutes nonstop and it was very strong...

            https://i.4cdn.org/fit/1654971032944.jpg

            what's your end game, anon? nothing goon can come out of it
            imagine you get her knocked up and having to fight tooth and nail for custody, or worse yet having your kid raised by a crazy-ass bitch who moves 3 states away to live in a "lesbian leather house" just to fuck you over

            >who moves 3 states away to live in a "lesbian leather house"
            that's the fucking thing anon she won't let go she never will she is fucking obsessed with me, everything she does revolves around me and everything bad she does revolves about her being sad about not being around me or having my attention

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              You’re a lost cause. All you’re doing is blog posting and no amount of advice will change anything you do. Fuck off

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              bro you sound exactly like me when I was with my toxic ex. It didn't end well (she cheated on me). She doesn't love you. You know it's not going to work but you still rationalize continuing this any way you can because you are desperate, for whatever reason. Trust me bro this will NOT end well for you, it's only a matter of time, the choice is yours how long you want to prolong it. It's gonna hurt like a motherfucker and you'll feel depressed about it for a while but it's going to be ok, time heals everything. Broke up with mine 1.5 years ago and I couldn't be happier. Yes I do miss her sometimes as toxic as she was but I feel less and less every day and I'm the happiest I've been in for the last 4 years.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Thank you friend. The 1 month or so after we broke up and beforre the festival incident happened was the happiest period of my life in a very long while. Is there any roundabout way I could do this without explicitly breaking up with her for a second time?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Just tell her you made a mistake and you don’t belong together. Fuck her feelings you’re so worried about “hurting her” that’s what happens when people break up stop being such a pathetic pussy dude. Grab your fucking balls, produce some test, and be a man for once in your life. You have no spine

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You can become a piece of shit so she breaks up with you but that will hurt her even more. Just gotta be straight up with her and tell her exactly how you feel and that you cannot continue this relationship. Don't act over emotional but don't be stone cold, she should understand you thought about it for a long time and you did not take this decision lightly. Just be mature about it.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >she should understand you thought about it for a long time and you did not take this decision lightly
                kuk but that's the thing I literally just got back together with her a few weeks ago after having broken up with her a month prior to that, at this point I'm pretty much a homosexual toying with her feelings

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                well you sound fucked in the head and you would think you suit each other well, BUT...

                >that's the fucking thing anon she won't let go
                she will if you have a kid with her
                crazy bitches can't have a normal life and will do anything to sabotage your attempts at pursuing happiness together
                so yeah, you can't have a BPD happy ending
                it just doesn't exist
                she clings to you because you're still ambivalent, but once she knows she's got you under her thumb she will ramp up the psychoness to 11 until you call it quits or she leaves you for another mentalcel

                >well you sound fucked in the head
                Yeah it's what these relationships do to you sadly, I wasn't anywhere near as possessive or whatever before it.

                Just tell her you made a mistake and you don’t belong together. Fuck her feelings you’re so worried about “hurting her” that’s what happens when people break up stop being such a pathetic pussy dude. Grab your fucking balls, produce some test, and be a man for once in your life. You have no spine

                It's not about being spineless, I have firm boundaries that I let her know and I already broke up with her once, I'm just under the impression that my capacity to suffer through is much higher than hers and I don't want to hurt people who feel dependent on me.

                I think I might be able to maneuver around it in the moments where she's still unsure of whether she's ready for a relationship or not.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I'm just under the impression that my capacity to suffer through is much higher than hers and I don't want to hurt people who feel dependent on me.
                That's a good quality to have when you have loving wife and children. But it can be exploited by people like your gf.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

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                Okay so here's my crazy-ass borderline gf story:
                Bitch slept around. She was a fucking nympho and I couldn't satisfy her so I just put up with it like a dingus.
                Eventually I met a nice girl in swimming practice and that sort of gave me the courage to break up with dah crazy. Breaking up was easy: I simply waited for her next meltdown and went "yeah ok, if you want me to GTFO I will do just that bye" and cut contact for a few months.
                Eventually we got back in touch and would sometimes fuck (the sex was amazing tbhngl). Then she faked a pregnancy scare because I wasn't paying her enough attention. After this I stopped ALL contact.
                Then she banged one of my acquaintances to... well, obviously to spite me but she also thought it would somehow make me go back to her. Haven't talked to her ever since.

                Thank you for reading my blogspot.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                As for the relationship itself, she was incredibly abusive and epic gaslighter. She negged the fuck out of me so I'd feel like I have no chances with other girls (not to brag but I'm literally 9/10 with a 7/10 body and she's a hard 8 with 8/10 body) but she would also praise my faults and make me feel loved/nurtured. What anon here describes

                >Honestly where is this low self esteem coming from?
                it's honestly from me being around her. We were talking about my body one day and i told her i literally don't know anyone in my circle who is that lean and muscular, and she started rambling about that she knows guys who are better than me and that im delusional etc etc. that's just one example, another example she jokikingly said that im a 'little man' because im 178cm. The other time her best friend told her that i look skinny in that shirt and she told me about. there are more brutal examples that i won't get into. and when i confronted her she told me she was 'joking' or she did because i tried to talk her down and that i was making insecure that i thought i was the best physique she ever had (her ex was a dyel btw)

                things of that nature anon. also some lookism threads here got me

                really hits home.

                It was a weird as fuck affective roller coaster and definitely served to keep me hooked.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

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              well you sound fucked in the head and you would think you suit each other well, BUT...

              >that's the fucking thing anon she won't let go
              she will if you have a kid with her
              crazy bitches can't have a normal life and will do anything to sabotage your attempts at pursuing happiness together
              so yeah, you can't have a BPD happy ending
              it just doesn't exist
              she clings to you because you're still ambivalent, but once she knows she's got you under her thumb she will ramp up the psychoness to 11 until you call it quits or she leaves you for another mentalcel

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              It isn't her choice to make, it never was. Just leave

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          what's your end game, anon? nothing goon can come out of it
          imagine you get her knocked up and having to fight tooth and nail for custody, or worse yet having your kid raised by a crazy-ass bitch who moves 3 states away to live in a "lesbian leather house" just to fuck you over

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >what's your end game, anon?
            Also to answer this, I guess the ultimate end game is to die and go next but I don't want to bother you guys with my metaphysical beliefs kek.
            But the endgame rn would be for the circumstances to somehow aling so that we separate without either of us hurting over it and without me having to endure the knowledge that she's doing whatever the fuck out there without me. Worth noting I was never this insecure/protective before her, I think some of her shit seeped onto me, now I'm insecure as fuck over her.

            You’re a lost cause. All you’re doing is blog posting and no amount of advice will change anything you do. Fuck off

            Yeah I'm kinda ranting you are right. I did take advice from here the last time when I broke up with her though. It just went to shit when she came into my fucking uni city where she neither studies nor lives and made me feel bad about a normal decision I'd made. I'm full of vitriol and I don't know what to do with it. I want both of us to be happy.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Are you me?
          My bod gf lives with me and I cant fucking get reid of her, she treats me like shit until I try and end it then the fucking water works and manipulation come out.
          I regret moving in with her so badly, if she had her own place I would honestly just ghost the cunt.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Damn I'm sorry to hear that anon. Thankfully moving in with her isn't an option so far and won't be for some time.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I lived with a BPD gf for a bit anon. Just leave, that is the only thing you can do. Don't put her feelings above your own.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For all the shit this board gives women, this thread is proof that men are retarded when it comes to relationships and are often authors of their own misery.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do you combine gym with physically intensive job?
    do calisthenics

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just don't be a bitch

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do everything possible to avoid the hell of physical labour in the 21.century

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I will never understand people who fail to do laundry in 2022. It's beyond fucking simple. Put clothes into a washer and throw a tide pod into it, then go back to watching your goyflix for an hour, then transfer the washed clothes to the dryer, throw in a drying sheet, and continue watching goyflix.
    It isn't like the old days where laundry was an all day affair with a scrub board and then you're manually hanging shit onto a clothesline.
    Same goes for doing dishes literally just throw in a cascade platinum pod and go back to your phone.

    Fucking lmao at SAHMs who act like this is a job.

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how do you reach adulthood and think this is ok?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Thought bad. Just consooooome

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    By just fucking doing it.
    >Meme_man_JUST_DO_IT.gif
    I have a much easier job now, but at the peak of things I was working 12 hour days at a very physically demanding place and still managing to get my butt to the gym and do a proper workout every night. Yeah, it fucking sucked at first, but once I got used to it I was in the best shape of my life. (Just don't forget to eat enough calories/get your protons/etc, look up how much militaryfags burn hauling all their shit around and you'll see that it can get really high).

    I ended up breaking my arm, leg, and three ribs, (car accident), and needing surgery including pins in my arm and leg, so couldn't work a lot OR go to the gym for a long while, and when I finally could get back into it even just my usual workout that I used to do after a 12 hour day kicked my ass severely to the point I would have quit if I didn't already know I could do it if I just applied myself.
    It took a long ass time but I did get back to my usual workout schedule, although now my job involves chatting with normies and using a computer so it makes working out every day significantly easier.

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    pic is my bf
    He works 40 and I work 60 hrs/week, only have one day off, do the cooking and 80% of the cleaning. Since I started training I have no time to see friends cause I'm picking up his slack.
    hard to feel attracted to him when its like living with a teenager

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If you're a woman this is a self-inflicted problem, you have infinite choice in partnership and can be as selective as you want with no downside so choosing poorly is more a reflection of your priorities than anything else.
      If you're gayboi420, suxbro.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Gaybros also have an abundance of choice. If you are attracted to men at all it's fish in a barrel.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >infinite choices in partnership
        I dated for years and maybe I’ve been unlucky, but it seems like the only types of guys I’ve come across are the ones that just want sex or the ones that want relationships but aren’t getting their shit together.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Lower your standards severely on literally everything EXCEPT personality and world view. Figure it out day 1 instead of after you've moved in with the person. Look for actual physical evidence that their actions match their words. It's not that difficult.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Sounds like you're just mid. You can get pumped by hot guys who won't commit, and resent the ones average enough to want you long term.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Many such cases. Mid tier women with nothing to offer but some mediocre pussy don’t realize that this is the reality. I’ve even tried explaining it to some of them but they just call me an asshole lol

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          you're smashable but not loveable. we know how to get sex but do you know how to make a guy fall in love?

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I do this, I think it fucks my lifting up a bit because sometimes I have expended most of my energy at work and have no energy to lift heavy. Drinking a pre workout is essential, and helps a lot.

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a tree surgeon which is quite physically intensive and this is what I do
    >Mon work 9-4, gym 5-7
    >Tues work 9-4
    >Weds work 9-4, gym 5-7
    >Thurs work 9-4
    >Fri work 9-4, gym 5-7
    Going into the gym straight after work is key so you're still warmed up and motivated from work, but I'll have a snack and a quick shower to wash the sawdust and sap off between work and gym
    The only real problem is balancing it with the gf. I spend 36 hours working, 6 hours gyming, and despite having 126 hours together she claims I never have time for her.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    get a better job

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    GHOST KID

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I was 28 when I started grooming this 15 years old fatty with a cute face. After a couple of years she's lost the weight and she turned out to look stunning. I also gave her a job in my business and I plan to marry her soon.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Undeniably based and Elvis-pilled. Decent women are basically out of stock, so you have to grow your own.

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Be anal about sleep hygiene
    Shoot for 9 hours per night
    Eat grass-fed meat and drink raw milk
    At work, wear knee pads, wrist braces, etc. proactively at the slightest hint of soreness or overuse
    Also, get in with the cool clique favored by management so that you can work less hard and make everyone seethe

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How did you get a picture of my sister?

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate American women so much it's unreal

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    >beta white males let women walk all over him
    >hey why are they dating strong black alpha males? Must be garden gnomes!

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have recently come about using this approach anon, it actually saves me a bunch of time and stress
      I just kinda messed up since I basically went out with a girl from HR in my company and when she tried to friend zone me i finished my drink in one swing and just said " ok I'm going home, later"
      I swear the look on her face as she realized I was serious did make me happy, but i never should've asked a girl from HR out in the first place
      Shit cous backfire to me in the long run big time

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Damn i mean to reply with this post

        To

        A young guy seeing older men get nagged by their wives, I kick women to the curb the second they don't realize it's my way or the highway.

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My wife literally cleans and cooks 4+ times a week

    She does it so much that I feel guilty for working out while she cleans even though she tells me she just needs me to do the yard and laundry (which I do, but still)

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      > My wife literally cleans and cooks 4+ times a week
      Mine cooked 7 times… but she cheated on me at the end.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        I told her if she ever cheated on me I’d kill her and her lover, she told me that’s only fair cause she’d do the same

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wake up 04:30, in the gym at 05:00, out at 06:00 and at work by 07:30.

    t. HVAC tech

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As a paramedic I've had to sacrifice a consistent gym schedule, we have gym at the station and I fit in a workout when I can but the heavy/real lifting I save for my days off but that means I'm only really pushing it 2-3 times a week because sometimes I need 1 day off to fully recuperate from work.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I SWEAR if this is some Ringu shit and I end up getting killed by ghosts I'll curse your dumb ass

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate women, but lazy slob women like pic really makes me think of murder.

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Good thing I married a Filipina, she even cleans up after making one of her big Filipinx meals

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