how do we get men to stop listening to toxic dating advice? i am talking to a woman, and things seem to be going well, but we are both very busy people, and its difficult to get together. she says she wants to take things slow and let ot develop organically. well if you listen to the average dating coach, that means i got friend zoned because she is fucking chad/tyrone (daily?) and i am the cuck waiting in the wings like a passive bitch. lol. what retarded advice. i agree, attraction is a process, and you should only go after women who are choosing you, but it seems like this woman is choosing me, she is just legitimately busy. how do i alleviate these concerns of mine (the idea that “chad is remixing her guts nightly” - physically unsustainable at scale given how many chads/tyrones there are relative to average women - while i am left with rosy palm or hitting on another random girl for gratificaton is supposedly proof that i am a beta). any advice for me?