See, I am an autistic who gets picked on a lot. Reason I cannot do banter, reason is if someone call me something like "homosexual", I just laugh. That and my autistic tendencies, makes me a clown. I realize if I get a wife how I am now, I will become a pathetic loser husband.
How do I fix this?
Be less agreeable
>Be less agreeable
I don't understand this shit
How am I supposed to tame a woman, if I don't actually care what she does besides be my property?
>be my property
She's not your property, she's a human being with her own thoughts, emotions, and personality. If something she says is wrong tell her. If she's being a b***h tell her to stop. If she's gaining weight tell her to lose it. It's not hard to be disagreeable kek.
If she doesn't belong to me, then I care even less
Are you stupid or something?
What do you mean? She belongs to you but she's not your property. You also beling to her but you're not her property per se. I don't understand your question though, just don't be a pussy.
Let's get a clear understanding. What are your expectations of a tamed wife? What would a wild or untamed wife be like by comparison?
Tamed might be the wrong term, but what I mean is
>loyality
Does not cheat on me
>corperation
She understands that we need to build a family unit, understands whats best for family, and argues in good faith. I seen shit like ultiamatums, like "you get no sex unless you clean kitchen" and I want to avoid that behaviour. ESPECIALLY WITH MONEY.
>loving
I want her to be loving towards me. I do not wanna grow old with a wife I hate
That loyalty, love and cooperation come from a feeling of safety and security. A woman will offer the love, loyalty, and cooperation if she knows you will protect her from harm, and that she doesn't need to fear you abandoning her.
What each woman needs to see in order to feel they're safe and secure with you will vary from woman to woman, but that's the ultimate criteria for what you hope to see.
I see. So basically I got to be a man who can protect and feed her? Vague but I get the point.
It's also gaslighting and a lie
Do either of those things without letting her know that you can leave at any moment on a whim and you won't even get the barest semblance of love or sexual desire
This is gaslighting. Don't fall for this shit guys.
Women need to KNOW (not think, know) that you have one step out the door at all times if she screws up. She has to feel loved but at the same time believe you WILL abandon her if she oversteps your boundaries.
You can pity losing her, you can get sad and cry (alone) over losing her, but you CANNOT FEAR losing her.
If you make her believe "you'll never leave her no matter what", she WILL take you for granted, disrespect you, and ultimately cheat and/or leave you.
lmao this is such hot incel garbage
the average "man" these days are such insecure losers
>Gaslighting
Like clockwork
>gaslighting
not even applicable to the situation.
do you even know what it means? what is it you're trying to say?
like all your incel garbage, none of your words seem to line up with reality.
Gaslighting, as in
>NOOOO, passive dreadgame isn't real, j-just because i-it works in real life with r-real couples i-it doesn't mean y-you should do it
>T-trust me, w-women want to feel that y-you will never leave no matter what, they r-respect you the m-most when t-they think you c-can't get another w-woman
>A-and if you say anything d-different, y-you're an incel!!!
Don't fall for it, guys. Me and any other Anon who has experience with women and relationships can tell you that women desire and respect you the most when they KNOW other women would take you, and you're not afraid to leave her if she misbehaves (within reason of course, I'm not saying "she didn't do the dishes properly").
yikes, first why do you type like that?
also, still not gaslighting, but ok.
also what the frick is "passive dreadgame"?
it sounds like you're on another planet to the rest of us, but ok, have "f-f-fun" lmao
>also what the frick is "passive dreadgame"?
LMFAO
Indirectly (or sometimes directly) letting your woman know that other women have interest in you, so she knows she can't take you for granted.
Opposed to "active dreadgame", in which you'll actively hit on other women; this might work to play mindgames with frick buddies, but will just make you look like a dog to an actual girlfriend (and deservedly so).
Now stop setting inexperienced Anons up to failure with your "just be a good boy who would never leave her", roastie.
oh, not everyone knows your weird women-hating community words.
i can see a kind of reason behind it, but it seems to me like it would be a lot easier for women to just go find some dude who won't play dumb games. it's not like they have limited choices out there, why would any girl bother with some dude who plays mindgames instead of just acting like a normal person?
i mean, i think it's probably a fair bet that you wouldn't stick around with some girl who is constantly talking about how her hot male friends want to frick her when she's done with you. i know i wouldn't.
>NOOOO, you can't act in a way that will make me more attracted to you, you MUST let me take you for granted so you will forgive me when I cheat on you with Chad
>T. roasties
Notice I specifically said the man must not act upon it (that would make him a dog), but for BPD roasties who want a submissive men they can use, abuse and cuck, any sign of self assurance is "mUh aBuSiVe BoYfRiEnD"
>self assurance
playing mindgames to attempt to instill loyalty seems more like insecurity and laziness to me
>Indirectly (or sometimes directly) letting your woman know that other women have interest in you
Oh, so it's just abuse, Figures.
>lol, weird, why is it hard to find women? i just want to own them like property and care nothing for them
>anyway, i will not be a slave! you can't control me! i am the master of my own destiny!
wew
That's actually a pretty good answer
>I don't understand this shit
>That's actually a pretty good answer
It's obvious. If you don't want to be a b***h and submissive to your wife just don't be agreeable.
>>Wtf do I do?
>This
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>Then read this book x2
>Double your Dating by Dating Deangelo
>Its free on z-lib.org
>>Am I moronic?
>No but make sure youre a Bio XY
>Because with all those feelings it sounds like you bleed once a month.
Be her b***h and let her lead you
>Be her b***h and let her lead you into cuckoldry
Depends on the context, if they're picking on you do not allow that behaviour, take a stance. For some reason at 23 something switched in me and my tolerance for this is lower especially disrespect to me or to others for no clear reason.
>Work on your social skills, read books like "Games people play", and "How to win friends and influence people". The first one helped me out a lot.
>Start lifting regularly
>Study banter its likely that your social skills are low, also find out your humour and people you find funny.
>Just be you, people will either dislike you, like you, or respect/appreciate you in some odd way.
The best way to tame a woman is to:
1. Give her mind-blowing sex
2. Put her in her place every opportunity that arises
3. Treat her like a child. Praise her when she deserves it and treat her gently when needed, but never forget who is in charge and who calls the shots
4. If she forgets, see #2
Yeah this is a terrible idea kek
t. woman
I'm not saying he has to simp for her or anything, but don't demean her or treat her like a child. Just be disagreeable and strong, it's really that simple.
Where did I say demean her? Women are not our equals the same as a child. It doesn’t mean we should demean them, it means we should lead them and that means putting them in their place. I love women and have had a lot of success with them. This is what not only works, but is what nature intended
Women aren't children lol. You don't need to talk down to her or anything. It's really as simple as not being agreeable.
When did I say anything about talking down to them you dense frick? I can make a woman think I see them as an equal and talk to them as such while maintaining the appropriate power dynamic.
You said to treat them like children lmao. Just be disagreeable, there's literally nothing else to it.
Have you ever dealt with a child? Do you demean them? Do you make them feel stupid or less than you? No, you treat them like children who need guidance and a strong hand. Frick, you’re moronic or something. Maybe worse, a woman
I'm a man. I'm extremely disagreeable and I'm always blunt and honest in communication. And I don't treat children as inferior to me because they're actually my equals, children are often smarter and more perceptive than adult men.
>children are my equals
I am sure this is the case with you both intellectually and otherwise. Best of luck
I, at 12 or so, was more intelligent than most adults. It always frustrated me that they didn't treat me as their intellectual equals, and so I treat children the same way as adults who have no experience in the subject. Say I'm advising a guy my age on calc 1, which I've already learned. I treat him the same way with regards to calculus as I do children with regards to everything. Children have no wisdom but they have intelligence.
Intelligence is not wisdom. Intelligence is not accomplishment. Intelligence is not experience earned through life lessons and hard living that comes with being a man of which the world gives no fricks about. A man makes his own way and builds greatness. A woman latches on and thrives specifically due to man. Listen, I am not here to change anybody’s mind. I have had a lot of success with women using my approach and all evidence validates me. If you want to live and believe otherwise, have at it. I have said my piece to OP and attempted to guide him
>intelligence is not wisdom
So by that logic, a naive but intelligent 18 year old man is inferior to you?
Yes. The same way a male lion may dominate another male lion. It doesn’t mean the lesser lion isn’t better than a lioness
You're underestimating a lot of people man...
Not any women. I am at the top of the food chain and my life is phenomal. Some men may be my betters, but they have earned it because of the actions of themselves or other men before them
>my life is phenomenal
What is your life like? What kind of lifestyle do you lead? What do you do for work?
I am a powerful executive building a multimillion dollar company. I have seen combat and bested other men in war. I have been beaten down, laughed at, and grinded into the ground only to learn and grow stronger. I have dominated women in every arena that matters and made them subservient to me. I am king fricking shit. You have been filled with lies to make you docile and easy to control. I feel bad for any man who sees anybody except another man as an equal.
Are you daft or something? Treating an adult like a child is deeaning, because they aren't children. Of course it isn't demeaning with actual children.
Your girlfriend is an adult and deserves to be treated on an equal level to you.
No she doesn’t. She is inferior in many ways. What has a woman built of value without a man? What has woman achieved without a man putting her in a position do allow it? Women are beautiful creatures, but make no mistake, they are as inferior to men as a child is
I'm not gonna lie dude, a gifted child is probably a superior being to you.
I promise I have had more success in life and with women specifically than you have. The evidence of man’s superiority is everywhere. Believe as you wish though
What do you mean when you say success with women?
Name it
What? You said you had success with women, could you elaborate?
I said name it. I’ve fricked dozens of women of very high pedigree. I have had multiple beautiful women in my bed simultaneously. I have been pursued and seduced. I have even now been in a successful thirteen year marriage with an amazing woman who idolizes me because of my wisdom, because of how I make her feel secure and due to what I have built in life and achieved greater than others. Take your feminist, college indoctrinated bullshit elsewhere. Equality of the sexes is a very destructive meme
>I've fricked dozens of women
have a nice day degenerate.
>multiple beautiful women in my bed simultaneously
Disgusting.
Can you tell me more about your wife? Also, have you fricked other women in your marriage?
My wife is educated and beautiful. She was not a virgin when we met, but as close as one can find anymore. She is a great mother and keeps the house in line while I frick the world as hard as it tries to frick me. Call me cringe or misguided, it doesn’t matter. I know my worth as a man and recognize the beauty in women without every acknowledging or falling for the trick that they are somehow my equal
>she was not a virgin when we met
Pick and choose loser. Throw stones if you want. Life is not perfect and neither are people. I did very well for myself and it isn’t because I fell for new wave feminist bullshit positing that a creature who has built nothing worthwhile in this world is somehow my equal
>I don't fall for feminist bullshit
>marries a non-virgin
You get what you deserve man, your wife was fricked by another guy and you deserve it.
>Waaaah, I am insecure
Tell me about your incredible success posting memes and tearing other men down on NSFFW who you could not hope to match
Now you're beginning to sound like the feminists kek. You're just coping. You were a degenerate, and you married a prostitute as a result. Maybe I won't frick dozens of beautiful women or build a multimillion dollar business, but I don't need that to live a good life.
What the frick are you on about? I hope you do have a great life. The world is cold and cruel, eat or be eaten so any success a man has achieved for himself, he has earned. Again, I’ve said my part and my prerogative comes from a place of hard learning and rejecting the aspects of modernity that are destructive for the human race
>what the frick are you on about
When you said I sounded insecure because I wouldn't marry a non-virgin, it reminded me of arguments with feminists on this.
>rejecting the aspects of modernity that are destructive
Like free sexuality? Seems like you've embraced it tbh.
Free sexuality for men is a tale as old as time. Genghis fricking Khan had scores of women as did almost all great men. That is not a modern concept. When it was extended to women, it fractured the whole fricking world. When women engage in it, it is destructive. What is good for the gander is not always good for the goose
>great men
Great men are usually not good men.
By what standard? Religion? Philosophically? Who gives a frick really? Men build empires and everything great in the world. Sure, the world is flawed, but that is inevitable. Women built nothing and are as such, only equal to one another
>who gives a frick really
I do, and I think we all should. Your philosophy of pure power and strength is quite depressing in my opinion. I'm not religious but I really wish I did believe, and I am convinced there is more to life. Ultimately, what's the point of your conquests?
Legacy. What’s the point of anything you fricking 14 year old nihilist? Grow up and come to the table with more than your idiotic memes and feminist theory
>legacy
Why do you care about your legacy? Do you just want to make the greatest impact on the world, positive or negative? Won't that all disappear in the end too?
Tell that to the Rothschilds or to Caesar or to Genghis Khan who many humans can trace their ancestry to. At the base level, your goal here is procreate and ensure the ultimate success of your bloodline. Kvetching about “that man is mean” or “the world is bad” does nothing for you or the human race
Their legacies might have survived centuries and centuries, but it will eventually die out in the end. If you don't believe there is anything after life, please don't care about legacy or anything. I just want to live a decent life and start a modestly sized family. As for promoting my bloodline, I'd rather just pair up with one virgin woman as intelligent as me and start a normal family. Having a couple of intelligent kids would be great, and I could also go through my whole life sexually speaking with one woman.
Good then pursue your dreams and make it happen. I am not here to dictate what your dreams should be. I am expressing my own and what I have learned
I just jerked off to hentai and finished homework in the time it took for the two of you to argue about this shit. This shit is pathethic. Maybe I'm a newbie but getting pissy that someone is moronic on the internet doesn't inspire me to seethe, ESPECIALLY if its something dumb like this. It isnt like youre gonna convince the other dude once we reach 10+ reply chain
>I just jerked off to hentai
>YWN be white
God I wish I was a basedjak. I am a homiejak instead
Make the most of the hand you were dealt, anon. Nobody gets anywhere great by being a victim
I am not trying to convince him, I am providing perspective and advice on an advice forum. Personally, I am smoking a cigar after dominating my day and enjoying the discourse. Frankly don’t give a frick whether you like it or not or whether yo my agree or not. You do you
>I am smoking a cigar after dominating my day
Got him
Was the world during Genghis Khan’s period not “fractured” as well? Constant war, death and disease seems pretty destructive to me
>yeah but he was heckin POWERFUL so I gotta be like him
Oh shut the frick up. You are picking and choosing all the bad without acknowledging the greatness also achieved by man. Man went to the moon. Man painted the Sistine chapel. Man harnessed the power of physics. Man. What has woman achieved? Exactly what they should…raising future generations of men to continue to dominance of the species
I don’t know man, there’s been a lot of conflict, famine, slavery and suffering during all those centuries men were in charge, maybe we could have done a better job with that.
Then do better if you can. A woman certainly won’t
Also it's not a good idea to be a manipulator and play games like this. If you see a woman as your equal treat her like it, if you don't don't. Children are more our equals than you'd like to admit also.
Dang why you Black folk always arguing over dumb shit on the internet? If someone is a moronic homosexual not arguing in good faith drop it. I just played Megaman 2 and had a nice eggs in the time for you guys to argue over this shit.
I did not come to NSFFW for a month (lost internet) and I forgot everyone did this
So just make her cum and stick up for myself? Does dick size matter? My dick is average size, can I rock her out of this world?
Do I need to frick her daily? I do not like the idea of sex cause its slimy and I hate slime. What about pregency? If I frick her a lot won't we have lots of kids? Not that its a bad thing, but I wanna have 3 year gaps between kids, so when they are young I can give them my attention. Does protection work, and is the birth pill actually evil? What lifts should I do to get good at sex (I assume hip thrusts, anything else?)
You dont even mean what you say. Give it up
>I'm autistic so I laugh at being called a homosexual
No, you're a NSFFW native, buddy.
I do belong here, yet I hate banter. Or at least, relentless banner. Being called a homosexual loser for hours and nothing else wears you down. I had people only talked to me to call me names. This is why Im scared about marriage: if my wife is not loving and calls me a homosexual all day I might kill myself