1. My job is fucking boring and monotonous. I'm fucking sick of going to it everyday, but because I'm a retard I won't find a better job, at least not for a while.
2. I fucking suck at everything. I have no skills or talents. I try to do anything, I fucking can't. At almost 24 I'm too fucking old to learn anything. I invested (wasted) a shit ton of time drawing, and after 3 years I'm still pre beg who doesn't know anything. Many such cases with other hobbies. Don't know shit about music. Don't know shit about computers. Don't know shit about trades, or cooking.
3. No one will ever love me. Im too ugly. Im too stupid. Every time I meet a girl and become close with her, I let her slip away one way or another.
4. I look around and constantly see people I know, people my age, or younger, who are constantly kicking ass and being more successful than me. I am literally supposed to be at the peak of my life but Im a fucking nobody who's done nothing and will never do anything.
Life is just too fucking hard and I already failed.
>almost 24 >too old
That’s not true. You’re shooting yourself in the foot. If you want to get better, you’ll get better. If you don’t want to get better, there is no magical pill that will make you better. Quit making excuses. It’s your fucking life and you’re the one who’s responsible for whether it’s fun to live or not. Nobody can want it more than you do. Man up and work to better yourself.
I asked how one could get frustrated with existence and you just spew this cry baby whinge shit at me. For the record
>> 1. My job is fucking boring and monotonous.
Everyone feels that way about their jobs after the initial novelty wears off. You're not special.
>> I'm fucking sick of going to it everyday
That's why it's called work and not play. Everyone feels this way. It's normal. You do it for the money.
>> but because I'm a retard I won't find a better job, at least not for a while.
A real better job is just one with more power, social status and money. Of course you won't get that for awhile. You have to work at shit. That's life, for everyone.
>> 2. I fucking suck at everything. I have no skills or talents.
No one, not anyone, can just start doing a thing and be immediately an expert. It takes time. Conventional wisdom says 10,000 hours to become really actually good at a thing. That's how life works.
>> At almost 24 I'm too fucking old to learn anything.
If you aren't learning new things until the day you die you're doing it wrong. You will absolutely never become "too old to learn" ever. Sure as fuck not when you're still a 24 year old empty headed kid. Grow the fuck up you spoilt brat.
>> I invested (wasted) a shit ton of time drawing, and after 3 years I'm still pre beg who doesn't know anything. Many such cases with other hobbies. Don't know shit about music. Don't know shit about computers. Don't know shit about trades, or cooking.
It doesn't sound like you actually put in any kind of focused time to learning any of these things. TBC, learning a new skill does not in any way guarantee you will ever be particularly fabulous or remarkable at it. The point of a hobby is to do something you enjoy, that teaches you new things, is a change of pace and helps you grow. It doesn't matter if you never become the best at your hobby, that isn't the point of them
Not that anon, but looking at your responses to how life works, i can absolutely see how one would become frustrated with existence. Being a sentient sucks ass.
>> 3. No one will ever love me. Im too ugly. Im too stupid.
So what? Beyond the fact there are plenty of ugly and stupid women in the world, so fucking what if you never find romantic love? Will it somehow invalidate your existence? You're 24 ffs mate, stop wallowing and get some perspective.
Live your life for you. Stop trying to date until you're a whole person.
>> Every time I meet a girl and become close with her, I let her slip away one way or another.
You're talking about girls as if they're dead weight pulled by gravity. They're not "slipping away" and you know it. Be honest with yourself and stop making the same stupid mistakes. Fix yourself.
>> 4. I look around and constantly see people I know, people my age, or younger, who are constantly kicking ass and being more successful than me.
And? There will always be someone else doing better than anyone. Not just you. Guaranteed you're doing better than some people too, especially on LULZ, at least you have a job. How many neet fucks are on this site?
>> I am literally supposed to be at the peak of my life
Says who? Where is that rule written? That's not how life works kiddo.
>> but Im a fucking nobody who's done nothing and will never do anything.
That is the state of 99.9•% of all people who have ever existed, exist today, and will exist in the future. That includes all the people you're comparing yourself with. So, fucking, what?
>> Life is just too fucking hard and I already failed
Failure is giving up, and not until.
Seriously mate pull up your Huggies, pull that sucker out of your mouth and grow the fuck up. You aren't owed anything. You work hard for it, or you don't even stand a chance of getting it. It's that simple.
If you'd rather rope, go right ahead. The world has more than enough cry babies, it won't miss you.
The attitude of our ancestors is that sex was important. That's why literally all of my progenitors had sex. Doesn't matter how many greats you put before the grandparents.
Every single living thing on Earth has parents that reproduced
Are you saying his headspace deserves his family line ending with him?
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>> Every single living thing on Earth has parents that reproduced
This is false. Sexual reproduction is a relatively new development in the evolution of life on earth.
>> The attitude of our ancestors is that sex was important.
Completely irrelevant to my comment. Your existence is not validated nor invalidated by sex you edgy incel fuck. You're not going to get very far thinking otherwise. It's why you're an incel.
Sometimes things can feel like a rollercoaster or a train, out of control. As if, one had little rest.
Or at others, as if things had little meaning.
It can be better than these things. I'd say it can.
Some general advice and ideas that you could perhaps find helpful, would be these:
Happiness and pleasure are not the same thing. Anybody can find pleasure, and giving too much room to those, tends to instead bring emptiness. Happiness is a much more valuable thing.
Perhaps being moderate can be valuable, avoiding too much laughter, and staying sober and in control in entertainments.
Trying to do what one considers right can also be of value. It is said that a clean conscience can make a good pillow.
Perhaps one could have made many mistakes in the past, and end blaming oneself a bit. Yet, mercy is also possible. There's no need to beat yourself too much. You can have mercy, both of yourself, and others. It is also said that God forgives. You can let go the past. Perhaps apologizing if considered fair is a possibility, and trying to do better in the present.
Sometimes one might feel worried about the future, what could it be, what others could say in conversation, how things might go, and how we'd react, or what others might think or say.
These things are not really all that important. You are not what others say, or others think. We can't control much of what happens, as well. Each day has enough trouble. And it was also said that God oversees it all.
You can be present. The only moment in which something can take you by surprise, is now.
Mind, body, spirit. Every day. Pick at least one from each category, but as many as possible will only help.
Mind = learn something new, solve a puzzle, read pages of an actual book, write something creative, do a duolingo lesson, work on an online class
Body = go for a long walk, eat conscientiously, clean yourself thoroughly, lift weights
Spirit = pray, meditate, journal your thoughts, practice positive self-talk even if you don’t believe it, get in touch with family/old friends
The ultimate goal is to participate in some kind of public structured activity, like trying a new recreational sport or a new class, where you can fulfill yourself with a new skill and meet new people. It’s okay if that sounds like too much right now. Just start small.
Existence is mostly suffering and life is learning about how to cope with it.
How you do it is up to you
For some people the few moments of joy they get and the knowledge there will probably be more in the future is enough
Some people find that joy in the little thing sin life.
The truth is working hard at something won't mean you get it, or if you do that you actually enjoy it. But I think it's worth it to at least try
How does one "get frustrated with existence"?
1. My job is fucking boring and monotonous. I'm fucking sick of going to it everyday, but because I'm a retard I won't find a better job, at least not for a while.
2. I fucking suck at everything. I have no skills or talents. I try to do anything, I fucking can't. At almost 24 I'm too fucking old to learn anything. I invested (wasted) a shit ton of time drawing, and after 3 years I'm still pre beg who doesn't know anything. Many such cases with other hobbies. Don't know shit about music. Don't know shit about computers. Don't know shit about trades, or cooking.
3. No one will ever love me. Im too ugly. Im too stupid. Every time I meet a girl and become close with her, I let her slip away one way or another.
4. I look around and constantly see people I know, people my age, or younger, who are constantly kicking ass and being more successful than me. I am literally supposed to be at the peak of my life but Im a fucking nobody who's done nothing and will never do anything.
Life is just too fucking hard and I already failed.
>almost 24
>too old
That’s not true. You’re shooting yourself in the foot. If you want to get better, you’ll get better. If you don’t want to get better, there is no magical pill that will make you better. Quit making excuses. It’s your fucking life and you’re the one who’s responsible for whether it’s fun to live or not. Nobody can want it more than you do. Man up and work to better yourself.
I asked how one could get frustrated with existence and you just spew this cry baby whinge shit at me. For the record
>> 1. My job is fucking boring and monotonous.
Everyone feels that way about their jobs after the initial novelty wears off. You're not special.
>> I'm fucking sick of going to it everyday
That's why it's called work and not play. Everyone feels this way. It's normal. You do it for the money.
>> but because I'm a retard I won't find a better job, at least not for a while.
A real better job is just one with more power, social status and money. Of course you won't get that for awhile. You have to work at shit. That's life, for everyone.
>> 2. I fucking suck at everything. I have no skills or talents.
No one, not anyone, can just start doing a thing and be immediately an expert. It takes time. Conventional wisdom says 10,000 hours to become really actually good at a thing. That's how life works.
>> At almost 24 I'm too fucking old to learn anything.
If you aren't learning new things until the day you die you're doing it wrong. You will absolutely never become "too old to learn" ever. Sure as fuck not when you're still a 24 year old empty headed kid. Grow the fuck up you spoilt brat.
>> I invested (wasted) a shit ton of time drawing, and after 3 years I'm still pre beg who doesn't know anything. Many such cases with other hobbies. Don't know shit about music. Don't know shit about computers. Don't know shit about trades, or cooking.
It doesn't sound like you actually put in any kind of focused time to learning any of these things. TBC, learning a new skill does not in any way guarantee you will ever be particularly fabulous or remarkable at it. The point of a hobby is to do something you enjoy, that teaches you new things, is a change of pace and helps you grow. It doesn't matter if you never become the best at your hobby, that isn't the point of them
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God bless you anon. This is what every depressed fuck needs to hear. This is what I taught myself when I was depressed. The only way out is through.
Not that anon, but looking at your responses to how life works, i can absolutely see how one would become frustrated with existence. Being a sentient sucks ass.
>> 3. No one will ever love me. Im too ugly. Im too stupid.
So what? Beyond the fact there are plenty of ugly and stupid women in the world, so fucking what if you never find romantic love? Will it somehow invalidate your existence? You're 24 ffs mate, stop wallowing and get some perspective.
Live your life for you. Stop trying to date until you're a whole person.
>> Every time I meet a girl and become close with her, I let her slip away one way or another.
You're talking about girls as if they're dead weight pulled by gravity. They're not "slipping away" and you know it. Be honest with yourself and stop making the same stupid mistakes. Fix yourself.
>> 4. I look around and constantly see people I know, people my age, or younger, who are constantly kicking ass and being more successful than me.
And? There will always be someone else doing better than anyone. Not just you. Guaranteed you're doing better than some people too, especially on LULZ, at least you have a job. How many neet fucks are on this site?
>> I am literally supposed to be at the peak of my life
Says who? Where is that rule written? That's not how life works kiddo.
>> but Im a fucking nobody who's done nothing and will never do anything.
That is the state of 99.9•% of all people who have ever existed, exist today, and will exist in the future. That includes all the people you're comparing yourself with. So, fucking, what?
>> Life is just too fucking hard and I already failed
Failure is giving up, and not until.
Seriously mate pull up your Huggies, pull that sucker out of your mouth and grow the fuck up. You aren't owed anything. You work hard for it, or you don't even stand a chance of getting it. It's that simple.
If you'd rather rope, go right ahead. The world has more than enough cry babies, it won't miss you.
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>so fucking what if you never find romantic love? Will it somehow invalidate your existence?
Uh...yeah actually, kinda.
Then you aren't in the right mental space to have it. You'll never get it with that attitude.
The attitude of our ancestors is that sex was important. That's why literally all of my progenitors had sex. Doesn't matter how many greats you put before the grandparents.
Every single living thing on Earth has parents that reproduced
Are you saying his headspace deserves his family line ending with him?
>> Every single living thing on Earth has parents that reproduced
This is false. Sexual reproduction is a relatively new development in the evolution of life on earth.
>> The attitude of our ancestors is that sex was important.
Completely irrelevant to my comment. Your existence is not validated nor invalidated by sex you edgy incel fuck. You're not going to get very far thinking otherwise. It's why you're an incel.
Sometimes things can feel like a rollercoaster or a train, out of control. As if, one had little rest.
Or at others, as if things had little meaning.
It can be better than these things. I'd say it can.
Some general advice and ideas that you could perhaps find helpful, would be these:
Happiness and pleasure are not the same thing. Anybody can find pleasure, and giving too much room to those, tends to instead bring emptiness. Happiness is a much more valuable thing.
Perhaps being moderate can be valuable, avoiding too much laughter, and staying sober and in control in entertainments.
Trying to do what one considers right can also be of value. It is said that a clean conscience can make a good pillow.
Perhaps one could have made many mistakes in the past, and end blaming oneself a bit. Yet, mercy is also possible. There's no need to beat yourself too much. You can have mercy, both of yourself, and others. It is also said that God forgives. You can let go the past. Perhaps apologizing if considered fair is a possibility, and trying to do better in the present.
Sometimes one might feel worried about the future, what could it be, what others could say in conversation, how things might go, and how we'd react, or what others might think or say.
These things are not really all that important. You are not what others say, or others think. We can't control much of what happens, as well. Each day has enough trouble. And it was also said that God oversees it all.
You can be present. The only moment in which something can take you by surprise, is now.
I'd recommend you Miracle Morning, by Hal Elrod.
God loves you, never forget it
Drink
Read Nathaniel Branden get some self esteem.
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Mind, body, spirit. Every day. Pick at least one from each category, but as many as possible will only help.
Mind = learn something new, solve a puzzle, read pages of an actual book, write something creative, do a duolingo lesson, work on an online class
Body = go for a long walk, eat conscientiously, clean yourself thoroughly, lift weights
Spirit = pray, meditate, journal your thoughts, practice positive self-talk even if you don’t believe it, get in touch with family/old friends
The ultimate goal is to participate in some kind of public structured activity, like trying a new recreational sport or a new class, where you can fulfill yourself with a new skill and meet new people. It’s okay if that sounds like too much right now. Just start small.
Existence is mostly suffering and life is learning about how to cope with it.
How you do it is up to you
For some people the few moments of joy they get and the knowledge there will probably be more in the future is enough
Some people find that joy in the little thing sin life.
The truth is working hard at something won't mean you get it, or if you do that you actually enjoy it. But I think it's worth it to at least try