How do I platonically cuddle and kiss boys without leading them on? Especially if they already have feelings for me as most of my friends do? I don't want to play with anyone's feelings but I'm so lonely. I want to cuddle with a friend all day long and give them a million platonic kissies.
it's probably not a good idea in general,but the best thing you can do is just say it before you do it.
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You don't, that's not how it works.
>tfw you'll never platonically snuggle and spoon with your guy friends
my girl friends are ok with forming snuggle puddles and having your 5foot4 friend spooning your 6foot2 person is so endearing. but I dont think any guys wanna spoon with me! the closestthey will get is wrestling and pinning me but all the aggression ruins the tranquility of human contact
Aw man this sucks none of my friends ever cuddle and male socialization made me so so paranoid to initiate physical contact and now I'm so touch starved :/
The benefit of being autistic is that you can just ask people if they want a hug.
But afaik I'm not autistic and no one ever asks if I want a hug 🙁
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>how do I lead on my friends without leading then on?
dont be friends with incels
its not that they think they 'deserve' sex
just if you even look at them or talk to them they think you are hitting on them
dumb fucking virgins should die
please die
Just say "hey, you wanna be friends with kiss/cuddle benefits?" See if anyone's interested.
Maybe I'm just emotionally constipated but that genuinely seems such a strange ask to me
I mean... it's not a common ask for sure. Generally people who want a little more out of their friendships are "friends with benefits" and have sex on top of normal stuff... but that doesn't mean you can't be something new if you clearly communicate it. Our generation is pretty flexible with how we want to structure our relationships just as we are with our identities. More people are willing to be friends with benefits, more people are willing to be in polyamorous relationships. Surely there are people who would accept a proposal of "hey, wanna be kissing friends?" I mean after all, you would, wouldn't you?
>you would, wouldn't you?
Well yea... (/ω＼)
But I'd be so scared of wierding someone out and making them uncomfortable
Anon, do you also want to get railed by them in a casual way and keep your friend relationship as it is?
No... I just wanna be frens...
what kind of friend doesn't help their bros relieve their sexual tension
you are not a cute anime girl and should do those things with your blahaj
Please do it to me I don't care I just need cuddles and kisses
Okay but please don't fall in love with me just because I kiss you thousands of times in one day it's not romantic.......
What if I do? I'm lonely so I probably will fall in love with anyone who gives me affection...
It's okay anon I won't stop snuggling you or kissing you everywhere even if you do fall in love with me...... kissing you on your cheeks and forehead over and over and over all day will make the loneliness go away I think......
Oh god please that would definitely help with the loneliness but I'll also definitely fall in love with you if you did that :<
Is that a problem? If you're in love with me shouldn't you enjoy being held by me all day? I'll hold you until all the pain you've gone through goes away. If being kissed makes you happy, I'll kiss you 10,000 times during the day instead of just a thousand. I want to make you happy........
I never lead people on
Not sure if bait or you're genuinely retarded, but sometimes cuddling and usually kissing is a way to bond and get closer to someone romantically. So by doing this you are getting them to have stronger feelings for you. You can't deny feelings happen so you need to act appropriately with friends if you don't want them to have those feelings.
Don't worry. I'm very responsible and conscientious. I know how to not give mixed signals ^^
So why did you ask the question in the op in the first place
wtf is it with trannies and insane narcissism
Yes please that'd make me very happy but I'd be scared you'll leave me if you don't really love me ...
Anon you're sweet and adorable, leaving you would break my own heart ;_; We'll always be friends and there will always be many snuggle days where there's nobody in the world but you and me...... I will always be a part of your life sweetheart, I will keep you as warm as I can so that you're never cold or sad or lonely.
So why can't we be more than just friends then ;_; I'll take the snuggling over being alone ofc but I'd like something more too...
Well maybe I'd fall in love with you too of course <.< I friendzone almost everyone but maybe you would be the exception ^^
so you're saying there's a chance then? :3 That's all I need... a small flicker of hope for something more
*kisses you on the cheek* Yes darling, you do. I'm going to bed now angel, let's have our first snuggle session. It's almost morning but I can kissy you about 500 times before the sun rises I think........
*snuggles up tight* yes kisses from my tranner gf help me calm down and fall asleep :>
you don't you frickin hussy, you strumpet, you absolute trollop
o.o how am I those things......
They all mean the same thing, a woman who is deplorable because she has way too many intimate partners, and seeing how kissing and cuddling are intimate things done with partners, they all apply. You harlot, you floozie, you irredeemable jezebel. Does that feel good? Do you feel validated now?
What.... why would I feel validated by you insulting me
idk hos are weird
anon flirting in the wild
It's always bad idea to get this affectionate with all your friends. Really have to pick one or two, and even that's a mess sometimes.