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How do I platonically cuddle and kiss boys without leading them on? Especially if they already have feelings for me as most of my friends do?

How do I platonically cuddle and kiss boys without leading them on? Especially if they already have feelings for me as most of my friends do? I don't want to play with anyone's feelings but I'm so lonely. I want to cuddle with a friend all day long and give them a million platonic kissies.

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it's probably not a good idea in general,but the best thing you can do is just say it before you do it.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    larp

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You don't, that's not how it works.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw you'll never platonically snuggle and spoon with your guy friends
    my girl friends are ok with forming snuggle puddles and having your 5foot4 friend spooning your 6foot2 person is so endearing. but I dont think any guys wanna spoon with me! the closestthey will get is wrestling and pinning me but all the aggression ruins the tranquility of human contact

    • 2 weeks ago
      Lorn

      Aw man this sucks none of my friends ever cuddle and male socialization made me so so paranoid to initiate physical contact and now I'm so touch starved :/

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The benefit of being autistic is that you can just ask people if they want a hug.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          But afaik I'm not autistic and no one ever asks if I want a hug 🙁

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    🙁

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    for u 🙂

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      please die

      ????

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >how do I lead on my friends without leading then on?

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dont be friends with incels
    its not that they think they 'deserve' sex
    just if you even look at them or talk to them they think you are hitting on them
    dumb fucking virgins should die

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    please die

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just say "hey, you wanna be friends with kiss/cuddle benefits?" See if anyone's interested.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe I'm just emotionally constipated but that genuinely seems such a strange ask to me

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I mean... it's not a common ask for sure. Generally people who want a little more out of their friendships are "friends with benefits" and have sex on top of normal stuff... but that doesn't mean you can't be something new if you clearly communicate it. Our generation is pretty flexible with how we want to structure our relationships just as we are with our identities. More people are willing to be friends with benefits, more people are willing to be in polyamorous relationships. Surely there are people who would accept a proposal of "hey, wanna be kissing friends?" I mean after all, you would, wouldn't you?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >you would, wouldn't you?
          Well yea... (/ω\)

          But I'd be so scared of wierding someone out and making them uncomfortable

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anon, do you also want to get railed by them in a casual way and keep your friend relationship as it is?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No... I just wanna be frens...

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what kind of friend doesn't help their bros relieve their sexual tension

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you are not a cute anime girl and should do those things with your blahaj

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Please do it to me I don't care I just need cuddles and kisses

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Okay but please don't fall in love with me just because I kiss you thousands of times in one day it's not romantic.......

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What if I do? I'm lonely so I probably will fall in love with anyone who gives me affection...

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It's okay anon I won't stop snuggling you or kissing you everywhere even if you do fall in love with me...... kissing you on your cheeks and forehead over and over and over all day will make the loneliness go away I think......

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh god please that would definitely help with the loneliness but I'll also definitely fall in love with you if you did that :<

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Is that a problem? If you're in love with me shouldn't you enjoy being held by me all day? I'll hold you until all the pain you've gone through goes away. If being kissed makes you happy, I'll kiss you 10,000 times during the day instead of just a thousand. I want to make you happy........

              >how do I lead on my friends without leading then on?

              I never lead people on

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not sure if bait or you're genuinely retarded, but sometimes cuddling and usually kissing is a way to bond and get closer to someone romantically. So by doing this you are getting them to have stronger feelings for you. You can't deny feelings happen so you need to act appropriately with friends if you don't want them to have those feelings.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Don't worry. I'm very responsible and conscientious. I know how to not give mixed signals ^^

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                So why did you ask the question in the op in the first place

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                wtf is it with trannies and insane narcissism

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Yes please that'd make me very happy but I'd be scared you'll leave me if you don't really love me ...

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Anon you're sweet and adorable, leaving you would break my own heart ;_; We'll always be friends and there will always be many snuggle days where there's nobody in the world but you and me...... I will always be a part of your life sweetheart, I will keep you as warm as I can so that you're never cold or sad or lonely.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                So why can't we be more than just friends then ;_; I'll take the snuggling over being alone ofc but I'd like something more too...

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Well maybe I'd fall in love with you too of course <.< I friendzone almost everyone but maybe you would be the exception ^^

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                so you're saying there's a chance then? :3 That's all I need... a small flicker of hope for something more

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                *kisses you on the cheek* Yes darling, you do. I'm going to bed now angel, let's have our first snuggle session. It's almost morning but I can kissy you about 500 times before the sun rises I think........

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                *snuggles up tight* yes kisses from my tranner gf help me calm down and fall asleep :>

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you don't you frickin hussy, you strumpet, you absolute trollop

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      o.o how am I those things......

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They all mean the same thing, a woman who is deplorable because she has way too many intimate partners, and seeing how kissing and cuddling are intimate things done with partners, they all apply. You harlot, you floozie, you irredeemable jezebel. Does that feel good? Do you feel validated now?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What.... why would I feel validated by you insulting me

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            idk hos are weird

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              anon flirting in the wild

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's always bad idea to get this affectionate with all your friends. Really have to pick one or two, and even that's a mess sometimes.

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