Were you into boys before transitioning? If so, it's probably your hormones fricking around with your sexuality. Talk with endocrinologist.
And if you were only into girls beforehand, why would you think that transitioning would suddenly switch your sexuality?
I honestly don't know sometimes...
I've always struggled with being intimate with him but I really care deeply about him and want him in my life so idk
2 years ago
Anonymous
Just talk to him, explain that you want to stay in the relationship but find intimacy elsewhere. If he's a good partner he'll understand, otherwise no big loss.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>find intimacy elsewhere >open relationship
Kek it is inevitable
2 years ago
Anonymous
Not necessarily an open relationship, it could be a trouple too.
Also, depending on how attractive OP's boyfriend is it doesn't necessarily have to be mutually open. I wouldn't exactly trust a straight male with honoring the rules of the relationship and staying loyal while sleeping around, but a lesbian girl? Yes absolutely.
Sounds like you two just need to set up some rules.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>loyal >sleeping around
Okay this is bait. Thanks for making me feel less bad about never being able to date a trans though considering theyd just start fricking others on a whim.
2 years ago
Anonymous
Not everything you disagree with is bait.
2 years ago
Anonymous
I mean you are clearly biased against Males and are a ((transbian)) not much I can say, have fun with your agp
2 years ago
Anonymous
I'm AFAB nb.
I don't think he'd go for that, I've mentioned it before and he really doesn't like the idea of me being intimate with other people
Relationships are about compromise. Explain that this is something you have to do, and he can't keep you from it.
2 years ago
Anonymous
I'm really bad at confrontation and standing up for myself
I don't think he'd want that compromise, He's very adamant about us being monogamous
2 years ago
Anonymous
Sounds like he's quite the controlling type?
Remember, this is your life. He is the one who should have to make compromises.
2 years ago
Anonymous
he is...
My friends tell me he's not a good boyfriend but I'm afraid to leave him because then I'll be alone again and I know how much me leaving will destroy him and I don't want to do that...
I'm sorry my life is just so fricked...
2 years ago
Anonymous
Leave him, you dont seem to love him, only that you arent alone and have support. He is not going to let you cuck him (if he has any respect) and you are going to end unhappy or cheating him.
He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.
Love does not equate sexual attraction. Go away boomer.
>right time
Trans women have no shortage of potential partners, yes even hons, if she picked him he has other options unless hes depreciated significantly since then.
If he approached her when she was in a vulnerable mindset it might not be so simple. Also, we don't know how long they've been together. Dating as a chaser in 2022 is very different from doing it in, say, 2019. Trans women's value has risen exponentially in the last couple years, and with it their standards and expectations for dating.
2 years ago
Anonymous
So a quirky woman, got it.
I think you should do what's best for you here but you should definitely not expect him to want any form of relationship with someone who doesn't want to frick him and doesn't want him to frick other people, that's called cuckolding and it's just not a reasonable thing to ask.
If this is what you want, have some integrity and let him go.
>cucking
Hahaha I didnt think of this the other anon literally told her to cuck him thats hilarious.
Op just say, I am sexually attracted to women only despite being a woman.
2 years ago
Anonymous
No.
Asexual folks aren't necessarily asexual, and in the same way a person doesn't have to be sexually attracted to someone to have a romantic interest in them.
Get with the times, please. If OP wants to stay in this relationship but no longer be intimate with her boyfriend, and even find sexual relations elsewhere, that is up to her.
This is straight up evil unless she's letting him sleep around too.
Being asked about this honestly is the ONLY situation I could actually see myself snapping and becoming suddenly violent with an SO in
2 years ago
Anonymous
I'd actually take this a step further and say that people with the audacity to ask for a one-sided open relationship are probably the only people who legitimately deserve some good old fashioned domestic violence in their lives. I would have no sympathy.
2 years ago
Anonymous
I don't think he'd go for that, I've mentioned it before and he really doesn't like the idea of me being intimate with other people
2 years ago
Anonymous
I think you should do what's best for you here but you should definitely not expect him to want any form of relationship with someone who doesn't want to frick him and doesn't want him to frick other people, that's called cuckolding and it's just not a reasonable thing to ask.
If this is what you want, have some integrity and let him go.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>just not a reasonable thing to ask.
Actually it's more common then you think these days. It's not the 60s anymore.
he is...
My friends tell me he's not a good boyfriend but I'm afraid to leave him because then I'll be alone again and I know how much me leaving will destroy him and I don't want to do that...
I'm sorry my life is just so fricked...
You don't have to leave him, and he shouldn't leave you. But if you're not attracted to him he can't expect you to want intimacy, that's simply unfair. But there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy.
So a quirky woman, got it.
[...] >cucking
Hahaha I didnt think of this the other anon literally told her to cuck him thats hilarious.
Op just say, I am sexually attracted to women only despite being a woman.
>So a quirky woman, got it.
Nope, not at all. Do you realize what board you're on?
2 years ago
Anonymous
Hahaha what the frick is wrong with you why would he stay if she is going to tell him he isnt allowed to be intimate with anyone else but she is? >not at all
Sure.
2 years ago
Anonymous
Because it's 2022.
Women have way higher value on the dating market than men. Especially trans women.
The boyfriend knows this all too well.
2 years ago
Anonymous
Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster
2 years ago
Anonymous
Idk if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else. Being trans is pretty much just being OP regarding that though, pretty shallow of everyone.
Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster
>dating isnt a market
You are trying too hard to play a caricature of a ditzy female and it is cringe as frick.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else
He might have just been lucky and approached her at the right time, trans girls can be far too trusting of charismatic men.
Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster
Not a literal market, no, but there is still some kind of supply and demand.
Supply of usual Guy (TM) is very high, but the demand is low.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>right time
Trans women have no shortage of potential partners, yes even hons, if she picked him he has other options unless hes depreciated significantly since then.
2 years ago
Anonymous
You realize that Statements like that is why everyone hates you delusional pricks. ynbw
2 years ago
Anonymous
>ynbw
Indeed, I am not a woman, thank you for being so understanding of my identity anon.
2 years ago
Anonymous
>there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy
i think youre confusing a relationship with a friendship you fricking cuck, a relationship is intimacy
2 years ago
Anonymous
No.
Asexual folks aren't necessarily asexual, and in the same way a person doesn't have to be sexually attracted to someone to have a romantic interest in them.
Get with the times, please. If OP wants to stay in this relationship but no longer be intimate with her boyfriend, and even find sexual relations elsewhere, that is up to her.
2 years ago
Anonymous
This board is not pro nonbinary
2 years ago
Anonymous
yes it is.
2 years ago
Anonymous
Just leave him. You dont seem to love him as a partner and you will just hurt both of you be keep going with it.
2 years ago
Anonymous
I used to be like this too, but then I got on prog and lost interest in women because I need to be penetrated.
Shut up, you disgusting prostitute! How dare you even think about this? You know it's people like YOU that give us a bad name! If i could strangle you to death with my own hands and take your place i would. You are trash. DIE!
Just invite a cis girl to join you two in bed and avoid making the huge mistake that you are so close to doing. Stupid stupid stupid!
90% of mtfs are either transbians or meta attracted transbians. Pump and dump never tie the knot. The oldest most experienced chasers already know this.
Mate listen to me lets be realistic here. At this point you are trying to find the 10% of the 0.3% of the population. Trying to find the 10% of trannies that are not transbians is fricking insane. And by the end of the day why go through the trouble? To land a serious relationship? Cis women exist for that and trust me they are better in the long run. You play the cards you are dealt. In a world where 90% of mtfs are transbians you just pump and dump the meta attracted ones that want to feel girly through dick and move on to cis women when you sufficiently get the coom demon out of you.
>Lack of feminine grooming (can't style their hair, no makeup, no interest in fashion) >Slightly nerdy to outright autistic >Fan of anime >Vidya >Interest in programming
That's me but I'm only into masc men. My husband has the same interests and doesn't care about fashion or whether I wear make-up either. To be honest I don't see why someone with those interests would be into women, aren't most women boring as hell? Or am I biased because I'm a bottom?
Well have fun growing old alone because ohh boy I do not envy your chances of finding an mtf that is truly straight and not a meta attracted transbian.
theres a high chance that if hes dating you hes a closeted transbian. if u think hed make a good looking gf then look for signs. check his browser history. his discord history. stalk everything he does. if you see signs of him trooning, depending on how deep they are move on to step two. stop two is you fricking him. if youre bottom dysphoric you can use a strapon. dont pressure him into it too much, itd be rapey. now after this keep repeating it a few times and now you move into being his mommy. make him your b***h and feminize his brain. call him your babygirl and cuddle him. at this point if he doesnt troon out that means hes just a normal beta male and at that point you will probably no longer be attracted to him so break up and find a cute girl to be your gf. also if you start realizing he might be too honny then you can end it at any minute. if everything goes well then you finally have your trans gf of your dreams.
[...]
Mate listen to me lets be realistic here. At this point you are trying to find the 10% of the 0.3% of the population. Trying to find the 10% of trannies that are not transbians is fricking insane. And by the end of the day why go through the trouble? To land a serious relationship? Cis women exist for that and trust me they are better in the long run. You play the cards you are dealt. In a world where 90% of mtfs are transbians you just pump and dump the meta attracted ones that want to feel girly through dick and move on to cis women when you sufficiently get the coom demon out of you.
Even if you do manage to find one of that small percentage they can at any time just decide they are (lesbian) as in the case of OP ((realizing they are a straight male)).
[...]
>straight mtf for every chaser
Hahahahha what the frick gave you that conclusion.
[...]
don’t let the moron get you down anon, we exist. good luck on the chase
He's dating you, so.... ?
Just offer her some of your hormones
I don't think he would like that
you don't know that
he cant not like it if he's sleeping while it happens 😉
Were you into boys before transitioning? If so, it's probably your hormones fricking around with your sexuality. Talk with endocrinologist.
And if you were only into girls beforehand, why would you think that transitioning would suddenly switch your sexuality?
I've always been attracted to both but lately I've been feeling much stronger feelings towards women than men
Pretty common for bi people's preferences to slosh around a little on hormones, I wouldn't worry.
Do you still find him appealing?
I honestly don't know sometimes...
I've always struggled with being intimate with him but I really care deeply about him and want him in my life so idk
Just talk to him, explain that you want to stay in the relationship but find intimacy elsewhere. If he's a good partner he'll understand, otherwise no big loss.
>find intimacy elsewhere
>open relationship
Kek it is inevitable
Not necessarily an open relationship, it could be a trouple too.
Also, depending on how attractive OP's boyfriend is it doesn't necessarily have to be mutually open. I wouldn't exactly trust a straight male with honoring the rules of the relationship and staying loyal while sleeping around, but a lesbian girl? Yes absolutely.
Sounds like you two just need to set up some rules.
>loyal
>sleeping around
Okay this is bait. Thanks for making me feel less bad about never being able to date a trans though considering theyd just start fricking others on a whim.
Not everything you disagree with is bait.
I mean you are clearly biased against Males and are a ((transbian)) not much I can say, have fun with your agp
I'm AFAB nb.
Relationships are about compromise. Explain that this is something you have to do, and he can't keep you from it.
I'm really bad at confrontation and standing up for myself
I don't think he'd want that compromise, He's very adamant about us being monogamous
Sounds like he's quite the controlling type?
Remember, this is your life. He is the one who should have to make compromises.
he is...
My friends tell me he's not a good boyfriend but I'm afraid to leave him because then I'll be alone again and I know how much me leaving will destroy him and I don't want to do that...
I'm sorry my life is just so fricked...
Leave him, you dont seem to love him, only that you arent alone and have support. He is not going to let you cuck him (if he has any respect) and you are going to end unhappy or cheating him.
He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.
>He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.
Love does not equate sexual attraction. Go away boomer.
If he approached her when she was in a vulnerable mindset it might not be so simple. Also, we don't know how long they've been together. Dating as a chaser in 2022 is very different from doing it in, say, 2019. Trans women's value has risen exponentially in the last couple years, and with it their standards and expectations for dating.
So a quirky woman, got it.
>cucking
Hahaha I didnt think of this the other anon literally told her to cuck him thats hilarious.
Op just say, I am sexually attracted to women only despite being a woman.
This is straight up evil unless she's letting him sleep around too.
Being asked about this honestly is the ONLY situation I could actually see myself snapping and becoming suddenly violent with an SO in
I'd actually take this a step further and say that people with the audacity to ask for a one-sided open relationship are probably the only people who legitimately deserve some good old fashioned domestic violence in their lives. I would have no sympathy.
I don't think he'd go for that, I've mentioned it before and he really doesn't like the idea of me being intimate with other people
I think you should do what's best for you here but you should definitely not expect him to want any form of relationship with someone who doesn't want to frick him and doesn't want him to frick other people, that's called cuckolding and it's just not a reasonable thing to ask.
If this is what you want, have some integrity and let him go.
>just not a reasonable thing to ask.
Actually it's more common then you think these days. It's not the 60s anymore.
You don't have to leave him, and he shouldn't leave you. But if you're not attracted to him he can't expect you to want intimacy, that's simply unfair. But there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy.
>So a quirky woman, got it.
Nope, not at all. Do you realize what board you're on?
Hahaha what the frick is wrong with you why would he stay if she is going to tell him he isnt allowed to be intimate with anyone else but she is?
>not at all
Sure.
Because it's 2022.
Women have way higher value on the dating market than men. Especially trans women.
The boyfriend knows this all too well.
Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster
Idk if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else. Being trans is pretty much just being OP regarding that though, pretty shallow of everyone.
>dating isnt a market
You are trying too hard to play a caricature of a ditzy female and it is cringe as frick.
>if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else
He might have just been lucky and approached her at the right time, trans girls can be far too trusting of charismatic men.
Not a literal market, no, but there is still some kind of supply and demand.
Supply of usual Guy (TM) is very high, but the demand is low.
>right time
Trans women have no shortage of potential partners, yes even hons, if she picked him he has other options unless hes depreciated significantly since then.
You realize that Statements like that is why everyone hates you delusional pricks. ynbw
>ynbw
Indeed, I am not a woman, thank you for being so understanding of my identity anon.
>there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy
i think youre confusing a relationship with a friendship you fricking cuck, a relationship is intimacy
No.
Asexual folks aren't necessarily asexual, and in the same way a person doesn't have to be sexually attracted to someone to have a romantic interest in them.
Get with the times, please. If OP wants to stay in this relationship but no longer be intimate with her boyfriend, and even find sexual relations elsewhere, that is up to her.
This board is not pro nonbinary
yes it is.
Just leave him. You dont seem to love him as a partner and you will just hurt both of you be keep going with it.
I used to be like this too, but then I got on prog and lost interest in women because I need to be penetrated.
He already knows you are a transbian
put estrogen and anti-androgens in her food
>I
If you are a lesbian post a picture yourself I might be interested
the entire point of trooning is so you can get a dominant guy to fill your holes and make you feel like a woman for the rest of your life
imagine being a transbian lmao what is the point
Shut up, you disgusting prostitute! How dare you even think about this? You know it's people like YOU that give us a bad name! If i could strangle you to death with my own hands and take your place i would. You are trash. DIE!
Just invite a cis girl to join you two in bed and avoid making the huge mistake that you are so close to doing. Stupid stupid stupid!
Why is this so common? have a nice day psychopath, and never date anyone if you aren't genuinely attracted to them in your next life.
>how do I tell my boyfriend I'm a straight male with a hentai addiction and access to estrogen
lmfao @ this entire board
Agp moment
It was over before it even began
This is much more common than it seems. tota dyspotic society
I agree anon. Hilarious how many of them are ~~*lesbians*~~.
"Anon, we need to talk. I have some bad news. I think I might be a lesbian after all."
>How do i (MTF) tell my Boyfriend (Cis M) that I think I might actually be a lesbian after all
just groom him :3
A lot of chasers supposedly troon out ON their partner so I wonder how many would trooner out FOR their partner.
I absolutely would not.
How?
90% of mtfs are either transbians or meta attracted transbians. Pump and dump never tie the knot. The oldest most experienced chasers already know this.
transbians are a psyop. of course there are some transwomen that are lesbian just like some afab women are lesbian.
But if you look at the percentage of self prescribed transbians, the math doesn't check out. 70-80% of trans mtf like women? Huh?
Easiest would be just cheating on him with a woman and getting caught to avoid the awkward conversation
its okay, shes a lesbian too
Mate listen to me lets be realistic here. At this point you are trying to find the 10% of the 0.3% of the population. Trying to find the 10% of trannies that are not transbians is fricking insane. And by the end of the day why go through the trouble? To land a serious relationship? Cis women exist for that and trust me they are better in the long run. You play the cards you are dealt. In a world where 90% of mtfs are transbians you just pump and dump the meta attracted ones that want to feel girly through dick and move on to cis women when you sufficiently get the coom demon out of you.
>Lack of feminine grooming (can't style their hair, no makeup, no interest in fashion)
>Slightly nerdy to outright autistic
>Fan of anime
>Vidya
>Interest in programming
That's me but I'm only into masc men. My husband has the same interests and doesn't care about fashion or whether I wear make-up either. To be honest I don't see why someone with those interests would be into women, aren't most women boring as hell? Or am I biased because I'm a bottom?
Well have fun growing old alone because ohh boy I do not envy your chances of finding an mtf that is truly straight and not a meta attracted transbian.
don’t let the moron get you down anon, we exist. good luck on the chase
firmly with no ambiguity, people get really weird and start trying to win you back or turn you straight again, speaking from experience here
fricking lmao these homosexuals are so lost in their own insanity
If your boyfriend is dating you it means he's gay
This is an autogyno post if I've ever seen one
Holy quints of truth
Trans lesbians should only be able to be tranners if they can convince the gatekeepers they are hsts and want to troon out bad enough they pull it off
theres a high chance that if hes dating you hes a closeted transbian. if u think hed make a good looking gf then look for signs. check his browser history. his discord history. stalk everything he does. if you see signs of him trooning, depending on how deep they are move on to step two. stop two is you fricking him. if youre bottom dysphoric you can use a strapon. dont pressure him into it too much, itd be rapey. now after this keep repeating it a few times and now you move into being his mommy. make him your b***h and feminize his brain. call him your babygirl and cuddle him. at this point if he doesnt troon out that means hes just a normal beta male and at that point you will probably no longer be attracted to him so break up and find a cute girl to be your gf. also if you start realizing he might be too honny then you can end it at any minute. if everything goes well then you finally have your trans gf of your dreams.
i hate groomers so much
im a transbian none of these are true of me except the first one
Kek this is scarily accurate from my experience.
Even if you do manage to find one of that small percentage they can at any time just decide they are (lesbian) as in the case of OP ((realizing they are a straight male)).
>straight mtf for every chaser
Hahahahha what the frick gave you that conclusion.
You just want to get money out of them.