How do i (MTF) tell my Boyfriend (Cis M) that I think I might actually be a lesbian after all

How do i (MTF) tell my Boyfriend (Cis M) that I think I might actually be a lesbian after all

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He's dating you, so.... ?

    Just offer her some of your hormones

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think he would like that

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you don't know that

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        he cant not like it if he's sleeping while it happens 😉

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Were you into boys before transitioning? If so, it's probably your hormones fucking around with your sexuality. Talk with endocrinologist.
    And if you were only into girls beforehand, why would you think that transitioning would suddenly switch your sexuality?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I've always been attracted to both but lately I've been feeling much stronger feelings towards women than men

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Pretty common for bi people's preferences to slosh around a little on hormones, I wouldn't worry.
        Do you still find him appealing?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I honestly don't know sometimes...
          I've always struggled with being intimate with him but I really care deeply about him and want him in my life so idk

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Just talk to him, explain that you want to stay in the relationship but find intimacy elsewhere. If he's a good partner he'll understand, otherwise no big loss.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >find intimacy elsewhere
              >open relationship
              Kek it is inevitable

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not necessarily an open relationship, it could be a trouple too.
                Also, depending on how attractive OP's boyfriend is it doesn't necessarily have to be mutually open. I wouldn't exactly trust a straight male with honoring the rules of the relationship and staying loyal while sleeping around, but a lesbian girl? Yes absolutely.
                Sounds like you two just need to set up some rules.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >loyal
                >sleeping around
                Okay this is bait. Thanks for making me feel less bad about never being able to date a trans though considering theyd just start fucking others on a whim.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not everything you disagree with is bait.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I mean you are clearly biased against Males and are a ((transbian)) not much I can say, have fun with your agp

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm AFAB nb.

                I don't think he'd go for that, I've mentioned it before and he really doesn't like the idea of me being intimate with other people

                Relationships are about compromise. Explain that this is something you have to do, and he can't keep you from it.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'm really bad at confrontation and standing up for myself
                I don't think he'd want that compromise, He's very adamant about us being monogamous

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Sounds like he's quite the controlling type?
                Remember, this is your life. He is the one who should have to make compromises.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                he is...
                My friends tell me he's not a good boyfriend but I'm afraid to leave him because then I'll be alone again and I know how much me leaving will destroy him and I don't want to do that...
                I'm sorry my life is just so fucked...

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Leave him, you dont seem to love him, only that you arent alone and have support. He is not going to let you cuck him (if he has any respect) and you are going to end unhappy or cheating him.
                He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >He deserves to not waste his time in a loveless relationship and you deserve to find love.
                Love does not equate sexual attraction. Go away boomer.

                >right time
                Trans women have no shortage of potential partners, yes even hons, if she picked him he has other options unless hes depreciated significantly since then.

                If he approached her when she was in a vulnerable mindset it might not be so simple. Also, we don't know how long they've been together. Dating as a chaser in 2022 is very different from doing it in, say, 2019. Trans women's value has risen exponentially in the last couple years, and with it their standards and expectations for dating.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                So a quirky woman, got it.

                I think you should do what's best for you here but you should definitely not expect him to want any form of relationship with someone who doesn't want to fuck him and doesn't want him to fuck other people, that's called cuckolding and it's just not a reasonable thing to ask.

                If this is what you want, have some integrity and let him go.

                >cucking
                Hahaha I didnt think of this the other anon literally told her to cuck him thats hilarious.
                Op just say, I am sexually attracted to women only despite being a woman.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No.
                Asexual folks aren't necessarily asexual, and in the same way a person doesn't have to be sexually attracted to someone to have a romantic interest in them.
                Get with the times, please. If OP wants to stay in this relationship but no longer be intimate with her boyfriend, and even find sexual relations elsewhere, that is up to her.

                This is straight up evil unless she's letting him sleep around too.

                Being asked about this honestly is the ONLY situation I could actually see myself snapping and becoming suddenly violent with an SO in

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I'd actually take this a step further and say that people with the audacity to ask for a one-sided open relationship are probably the only people who legitimately deserve some good old fashioned domestic violence in their lives. I would have no sympathy.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I don't think he'd go for that, I've mentioned it before and he really doesn't like the idea of me being intimate with other people

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I think you should do what's best for you here but you should definitely not expect him to want any form of relationship with someone who doesn't want to fuck him and doesn't want him to fuck other people, that's called cuckolding and it's just not a reasonable thing to ask.

                If this is what you want, have some integrity and let him go.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >just not a reasonable thing to ask.
                Actually it's more common then you think these days. It's not the 60s anymore.

                he is...
                My friends tell me he's not a good boyfriend but I'm afraid to leave him because then I'll be alone again and I know how much me leaving will destroy him and I don't want to do that...
                I'm sorry my life is just so fucked...

                You don't have to leave him, and he shouldn't leave you. But if you're not attracted to him he can't expect you to want intimacy, that's simply unfair. But there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy.

                So a quirky woman, got it.
                [...]
                >cucking
                Hahaha I didnt think of this the other anon literally told her to cuck him thats hilarious.
                Op just say, I am sexually attracted to women only despite being a woman.

                >So a quirky woman, got it.
                Nope, not at all. Do you realize what board you're on?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Hahaha what the fuck is wrong with you why would he stay if she is going to tell him he isnt allowed to be intimate with anyone else but she is?
                >not at all
                Sure.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Because it's 2022.
                Women have way higher value on the dating market than men. Especially trans women.
                The boyfriend knows this all too well.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Idk if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else. Being trans is pretty much just being OP regarding that though, pretty shallow of everyone.

                Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster

                >dating isnt a market
                You are trying too hard to play a caricature of a ditzy female and it is cringe as fuck.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >if he found a trans gf at all he probably has enough value to find someone else
                He might have just been lucky and approached her at the right time, trans girls can be far too trusting of charismatic men.

                Dating isn't a market, stupid american mobster

                Not a literal market, no, but there is still some kind of supply and demand.
                Supply of usual Guy (TM) is very high, but the demand is low.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >right time
                Trans women have no shortage of potential partners, yes even hons, if she picked him he has other options unless hes depreciated significantly since then.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You realize that Statements like that is why everyone hates you delusional pricks. ynbw

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >ynbw
                Indeed, I am not a woman, thank you for being so understanding of my identity anon.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >there's so much more to a relationship than intimacy

                i think youre confusing a relationship with a friendship you fucking cuck, a relationship is intimacy

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                No.
                Asexual folks aren't necessarily asexual, and in the same way a person doesn't have to be sexually attracted to someone to have a romantic interest in them.
                Get with the times, please. If OP wants to stay in this relationship but no longer be intimate with her boyfriend, and even find sexual relations elsewhere, that is up to her.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                This board is not pro nonbinary

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                yes it is.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Just leave him. You dont seem to love him as a partner and you will just hurt both of you be keep going with it.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I used to be like this too, but then I got on prog and lost interest in women because I need to be penetrated.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He already knows you are a transbian

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    put estrogen and anti-androgens in her food

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I
    If you are a lesbian post a picture yourself I might be interested

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the entire point of trooning is so you can get a dominant guy to fill your holes and make you feel like a woman for the rest of your life

    imagine being a transbian lmao what is the point

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Shut up, you disgusting WHORE! How dare you even think about this? You know it's people like YOU that give us a bad name! If i could strangle you to death with my own hands and take your place i would. You are trash. DIE!

    Just invite a cis girl to join you two in bed and avoid making the huge mistake that you are so close to doing. Stupid stupid stupid!

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why is this so common? Kill yourself psychopath, and never date anyone if you aren't genuinely attracted to them in your next life.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >how do I tell my boyfriend I'm a straight male with a hentai addiction and access to estrogen

    lmfao @ this entire board

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Agp moment

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It was over before it even began

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    This is much more common than it seems. tota dyspotic society

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    I agree anon. Hilarious how many of them are ~~*lesbians*~~.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "Anon, we need to talk. I have some bad news. I think I might be a lesbian after all."

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do i (MTF) tell my Boyfriend (Cis M) that I think I might actually be a lesbian after all

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just groom him :3

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A lot of chasers supposedly troon out ON their partner so I wonder how many would trooner out FOR their partner.
    I absolutely would not.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    How?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      90% of mtfs are either transbians or meta attracted transbians. Pump and dump never tie the knot. The oldest most experienced chasers already know this.

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    transbians are a psyop. of course there are some transwomen that are lesbian just like some afab women are lesbian.

    But if you look at the percentage of self prescribed transbians, the math doesn't check out. 70-80% of trans mtf like women? Huh?

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Easiest would be just cheating on him with a woman and getting caught to avoid the awkward conversation

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its okay, shes a lesbian too

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Mate listen to me lets be realistic here. At this point you are trying to find the 10% of the 0.3% of the population. Trying to find the 10% of trannies that are not transbians is fucking insane. And by the end of the day why go through the trouble? To land a serious relationship? Cis women exist for that and trust me they are better in the long run. You play the cards you are dealt. In a world where 90% of mtfs are transbians you just pump and dump the meta attracted ones that want to feel girly through dick and move on to cis women when you sufficiently get the coom demon out of you.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    >Lack of feminine grooming (can't style their hair, no makeup, no interest in fashion)
    >Slightly nerdy to outright autistic
    >Fan of anime
    >Vidya
    >Interest in programming
    That's me but I'm only into masc men. My husband has the same interests and doesn't care about fashion or whether I wear make-up either. To be honest I don't see why someone with those interests would be into women, aren't most women boring as hell? Or am I biased because I'm a bottom?

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Well have fun growing old alone because ohh boy I do not envy your chances of finding an mtf that is truly straight and not a meta attracted transbian.

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    don’t let the retard get you down anon, we exist. good luck on the chase

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    firmly with no ambiguity, people get really weird and start trying to win you back or turn you straight again, speaking from experience here

    [...]

    fucking lmao these homosexuals are so lost in their own insanity

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If your boyfriend is dating you it means he's gay

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is an autogyno post if I've ever seen one

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Holy quints of truth

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Trans lesbians should only be able to be tranners if they can convince the gatekeepers they are hsts and want to troon out bad enough they pull it off

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    theres a high chance that if hes dating you hes a closeted transbian. if u think hed make a good looking gf then look for signs. check his browser history. his discord history. stalk everything he does. if you see signs of him trooning, depending on how deep they are move on to step two. stop two is you fucking him. if youre bottom dysphoric you can use a strapon. dont pressure him into it too much, itd be rapey. now after this keep repeating it a few times and now you move into being his mommy. make him your bitch and feminize his brain. call him your babygirl and cuddle him. at this point if he doesnt troon out that means hes just a normal beta male and at that point you will probably no longer be attracted to him so break up and find a cute girl to be your gf. also if you start realizing he might be too honny then you can end it at any minute. if everything goes well then you finally have your trans gf of your dreams.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i hate groomers so much

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    im a transbian none of these are true of me except the first one

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Kek this is scarily accurate from my experience.

    [...]
    Mate listen to me lets be realistic here. At this point you are trying to find the 10% of the 0.3% of the population. Trying to find the 10% of trannies that are not transbians is fucking insane. And by the end of the day why go through the trouble? To land a serious relationship? Cis women exist for that and trust me they are better in the long run. You play the cards you are dealt. In a world where 90% of mtfs are transbians you just pump and dump the meta attracted ones that want to feel girly through dick and move on to cis women when you sufficiently get the coom demon out of you.

    Even if you do manage to find one of that small percentage they can at any time just decide they are (lesbian) as in the case of OP ((realizing they are a straight male)).

    [...]

    >straight mtf for every chaser
    Hahahahha what the fuck gave you that conclusion.

    [...]
    don’t let the retard get you down anon, we exist. good luck on the chase

    You just want to get money out of them.

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