How do I meet women? My hobbies don't allow me to meet women (even the social ones like playing basketball at the park/in a gym). My job is remote and I work in tech. I see so many comments online that they absolutely don't want to be approached in public by a stranger, so how can I meet them? I hate bars/clubs and I tried Tinder for a year and it fucking sucked ass.
If I was single, I would go to bars. You can hate them all you want but it's a great place to start. Once you have a lot of friends and a nice social routine you can stop going to bars, until then I hope you suffer for thinking it's harder to meet girls than getting a job.
how are bars a great place to start? is it like a specific type of bar.
because there are bars for every type of person, people go there specifically to socialize or share in the experience of watching/doing something, and drinking alcohol removes almost all communication barriers to the extent that it matters.
i don't know if you live in an area that has more social events or an active community that you could vibe with, but i know for a fact you could start figuring out what people do and what kind of people are around you by going to bars.
kek. maybe. i guess that makes sense. i never really thought of bars as being that communal.
Try Bumble, women are a lot more invested since they have to message you first.
i thought LULZ hates dating apps.
Turns out that /LULZ/ is more than one person, and different people can have different opinions.
i mean yeah. but they feel artificial. doesnt it feel strange meeting someone just cause you swiped right on them.
I mean, who am I to say how something is supposed to feel to you?
However, to me, it feels fine. Using dating apps is an admission by both of you that you're looking for some kind of relationship/hookup. The fact that you both swiped right is a sign that you're at least somewhat interested in each other, so it just makes it easier to actually suggest a date.
Obviously, as you haven't actually met in person, it can turn out that you have no chemistry in person. However, the sheer volume of people you meet will make up for it.
> I see so many comments online that they absolutely don't want to be approached in public by a stranger
And thats why theyre being miserable on the internet and not going outside. YOLO. If you wanna talk to a girl just talk to them. If they respond like a bitch then just talk to another girl.
Ive talked to many girls in public and most of them are nice and cool.
yeah but what are the odds that youre actually compatible? lots of people are nice and cool but that doesnt always escalate to anything.
women only want to get approached by chad. if you're a sub 8 doing cold approaches, you are more likely to find yourself being punched in the head, than finding a girl who will sit on your penis like she does for chad.
This. Most women are lonely and struggling these days. Men seem to think you need big tits to be a good gf
im not sure where you got that idea. woman are taking turns sleeping with chad. they literally have harems until they are in their 30s and decide to bless a sub 8 male who has lots of money with their run through hole.
>just wait your turn, trust me lol
Most women have been waiting for 20+ years with no luck, nobody wants them. There are no more men out there
women get thousands of tinder matches. the only lonely women are the ones lonely by choice. average guy gets maybe 1 match from a tranny per day. its over.
>misery loves company
You should stop complaining like some bored housewife and do something about it, you have a fantasy world in your head.
cope, you've clearly never been to a public park or mall. 90% of the people with women next to them are tall chads with wide jaws, broad shoulders and a large frame. the other 10% are rich incels who moneymaxxed for an ugly old women.
do you truly believe that 5'4 is "tall" lol
seeing a 5'4 man with a woman is extremely rare.
i've been outside lots bro. nothing good ever happens to me because i'm not chad.
>extremely rare
are you stupid?
i've fallen in love lots of times. and i've witnessed each of these women locking lips with chad. the men always look the same, its not a great mystery. if you aren't born with the correct bone structure, nobody is going to like you. thats what this world is really like.
it's not rare, it's common. you're just a retard who probably watches porn. your bone structure exists because people just like you are having sex all the time.
That's probably because you consider women 'holes' and men as either 'chads' or 'incels'. It's very demeaning to the ladies of course, and your whole 'chads cucking me!' thought process needs to be revaluated. You've got some Saturday night cartoon fantasy in your head where chads always steals the girl from the virtuous gamer, no man 'chad' has a good job and showers. Neurotic shut-in discrimination claims another victim.
cope, i've done lots of research. you are talking out of your ass homie. in college, all the girls were always talking to chad, and the incels sat alone. sub 8 males dont get any pussy. you are just gaslighting the incels like a typical normie sex haver.
You need to stop thinking in black and white terms, crawl out your gamer dungeon and smell the roses.
women can't get "matches" if nobody accepts them. i fucking wish that there was a 1000:1 male to female ratio, but sadly it's not a choice.
I usually end up flirting with the local gas station clerks and have successful fucked two.