How do I make friends with cisgender heterosexual women as a transgender woman? Posted on May 20, 2023 by Anonymous How do I make friends with cisgender heterosexual women as a transgender woman?
Complain loudly at service workers more
I'm seriously asking.
I also don't know how to meet men.
I don't want my whole life to be "queer" or whatever. I want to be normal, or at least have some normal interactions/friendships.
> I don't want my whole life to be "queer" or whatever. I want to be normal, or at least have some normal interactions/friendships.
enjoy a life of never having friends who respect you.
nta but where do you find trans people that aren't like batshit insane or oozing honfidence
>aren’t oozing honfidence
>aren’t batshit insane
the best you can hope for is older trans women who’ve been trans for closing in on a decade or longer; they tend to be at least outwardly mentally stable due to having gotten the batshit insanity mostly wrapped up and locked in the attic. Still up there, thumping around, tho.
Yes because spending 4 hours a day (or even more) online is going to be mentally healthy people interacting with other mentally healthy people.
Honestly just look for other women who seem lonely and talk to them. If they seem friendly then ask if they wanna grab coffee or lunch.
Easier if you pass, not impossible if you don’t but you might need a better reason to be talking to them like being coworkers etc.
gl, hope you make some nice friends.
Masturbate in ladies' restroom while loudly moaning
Revolve your entire life, hobbies, interests, careers, etc. around a man.
why would you want do?
Become a homeschooling mom and go to essential oils seminars. Change your Facebook profile pic from an anime girl blushing to a photo of a coffee mug, and your profile banner from the Jojo scene where Jotaro meets Dio to a sepia photo of a book, a coffee mug, and a sunflower. Visit a foreign country once, for 4 days, and never shut up about it. Always talk about how you're ready to go vegan but just don't want the commitment so you're pescatarian but you cheat sometimes.
Also become a christian and go to church. If you want lesbian friends, just do what you're doing for chasers but every time you're about to say "chaser", say "men" instead, i.e. "Why do men always have to treat us like garbage. They never want a relationship, they just want to fuck us then dip."
> If you want lesbian friends, just do what you're doing for chasers but...
Horrid advice. lmao
Go stealth and get an office job
for me I went to uni and did a postgrad course where i studied very closely with cishet women, and I got to know them pretty well and had some solid friendships
Then i fucked a couple of them, and that was the end of that
I don't want to sleep with any of them. Just be friends.
i didnt want to sleep with them either but one thing led to another
Same as with men. Find shared activities, do shared activities. With women, these can be more talking heavy than shared activities with men ie getting coffee and talking about current events while showing each other memes and such on your phones as opposed to like
giving each other concussions with a football or whatever cismen do.
That makes sense. I'm not sure about how to make the shared interest things work. Ive tried that before and I was just by myself and other people came and went while I sat there.
I do like the jcs psychology stuff
I don't know anything but the guys are cute.
>Ive tried that before and I was just by myself and other people came and went while I sat there.
Unfortunately, online spaces will likely be your friend here. Otherwise, settings like school and work could be helpful in making irl connections.
Conventions could be worth a shot maybe
talk about boys, or maybe fashion/books/music if your tastes r basic enough
True crime is a pretty fembrained fandom. Avoid ww2 history/civil war history.
what do you know about supernatural (the tv show)?
ACT like a gay guy. if you pass they'll like you as one of their own, if you don't at least you won't seem like a rapehon, just a maladjusted weird gay guy. how to meet cis women looking to socialize? go to zumba class or aerobics, stuff like that (prolly older women though). roller skating, maybe softball? i heard that girls do that and is full of lesbians if you want a girlfriend. obviously classes and work too, but i'm shooting extracurriculars.
try at ur own risk obviously because if you get too "how do you do fellow wemen" about it ur gonna look 700 times more rapehon-y
People advising to just stay terminally online, just keep your garbage opinion to the waste bin. You are actual crabs in the bucket who deserve to be amputated like the cancer you are.