252 thoughts on “how do i look better in a shirt and pants. why do i look so weird

      • Anonymous says:

        built lats, drop to 56kg with single digit % bodyfat all muscle super ripped. literally the only way, you can only eat lean chicken rice and broccoli and must spend 3+ hrs in the gym 7 days a week or it’s literally over that is OBJECTIVELY the ONLY fix besides suicide

        • Anonymous says:

          >how small are you
          im 174cm

          […]
          you look like a 1960s english teacher LOL

          thats a. compliment for me lmao

          You can get the shirt and slightly pull it out a bit, and let it sag over the pants, this will square out your frame a bit. Or you can simply not tuck in the shirt and just wear it outside the pants. You can always shorten the shirt to fit your height better if it’s too long. I have a similar problem when I wear shirts, though not quite the same. My arms are also not as long as I’d like them to be, so I find myself folding the cuffs back one time.

          so a tailor it is?

  1. Anonymous says:

    You look better than with the belt across your chest, but you still look like a women. Wear some baggier clothes or smtm if you wanna fix that.

  2. Anonymous says:

    belt loops are there for a belt. if you dont wear belts, remove the loops. put a tie on, itll distract from the white nothing that is the shirt fabric.

  3. Anonymous says:

    Build your shoulders and lays, OP. Your issue is that you have a pear-shaped body and the only six is upper body lifts. Plus, then that shirt will look amazing on you.

  4. Anonymous says:

    Your pant thigh is to wide and your belt is too tight. It looks like you’re blowing air up your pants. They’re not tight in the thigh.

  5. Anonymous says:

    as already suggested: lower rise, or: same rise as now, but get some deep pleated pants. They are sort of expected to look that way

  6. Anonymous says:

    Dude PLEASE do not do linen on linen. You’re NOT artsy and you’re NOT that guy. THAT guy is in Africa raiding tombs. Okay? You are NOT that guy and I bet you smell of mothballs. If you were that guy you would smell of oud and waterlilly. You are NOT him.

  7. Anonymous says:

    The shirt is stupid
    The pants accentuate your hips
    If you’re trying to look like a dude don’t look for artsy shit, it’s going to make you look like a lesbian

    • Anonymous says:

      you could ask fashion advice in /soc/ and get less board tourists shitting on you. i guess most people theres some invisible standard to be upheld and absolutely nothing can reach it but professional model shoots.

  8. Anonymous says:

    I basically have hips like that but I’m a bit less gaygy and feminine looking
    also mild gyno
    would’ve made a bomb tranny if I was put on hrt at a young age

  9. Anonymous says:

    Widen your shoulders and back, build your arms. I have somewhat the same physique due to years of one-leg squats.

    Sorry that the photo is one of a moron.

  10. Anonymous says:

    you look fine bro, maybe try pulling the shirt a little more out so the folds are bigger or try tucking it all the way it and it will bring your chest out moar.

  11. Anonymous says:

    >not particularly fit
    >shirt not fitted
    what are you doing? wearing a bed sheet and expecting it to hang on your body properly? go to a damn tailor.

  12. Anonymous says:

    I have wide hips for a guy. Try wearing low rise trousers with looser shirts that billow out on the sides a little more. Very slim fit is not the best look for most wider-hipped men.

          • Anonymous says:

            but some guys my age that i know weigh a ton more than me and they dont look as fat me and they’re just as unathletic as me so whats the deal

          • Anonymous says:

            you’re fat
            it’s that simple
            dont try to think, it obviously has not worked out for you this far

            just stop eating

          • Anonymous says:

            sorry sis
            but photos don’t lie
            you’re just fat

            64kg is FAT
            no matter if you think other people dont look fat to you
            it is FAT

            now stop complaining and do something about it

          • Anonymous says:

            >who are as unathletic as me

            >i am a man

            Yeah whatever, but are you male? post dink

            male is just the adjective of man anon

          • Anonymous says:

            how is it possible that im fat when i weigh less than some non-fat people i know though

            well im counting calories ig

            >who are as unathletic as me
            […]
            male is just the adjective of man anon

            You have to stop comparing yourself to others. The same literal weight number will be carried differently by different people based on their body type/genetics and fat to muscle composition. Stop obsessing about the literal number and start focusing on your composition and how the weight is sitting on you. Work on turning your soft fat into muscle (not just making the scale go down). No one ever suffered from getting more fit.

            https://i.imgur.com/nnBszzz.jpg

            people saying the pants are too high are out of their minds–you can see the waist is being pulled up given the hips so if anything the rise is too low.

            just get natural waisted double pleated wide trousers with a decently draping fabric (a stiffer linen works too!)

            nah its giving OP a wedgie because there isn’t enough front+back rise, a belt can keep your pants up but it won’t add rise

            Is dead on about the proportion problems with your fit. You need a higher rise and wider leg for the aesthetic you’re going for.

    • Anonymous says:

      You look great, don’t worry. All the tyrones and jamals on the uni football team will be pounding your bussy and you’ll make all of the other sissies immensely jealous.

    • Anonymous says:

      bro just buzz cut your hair and grow some stubble
      do 100 pushups a day (not all at once 10/hr)
      you’ll be fine in two months time

    • Anonymous says:

      Twinkmaxx or live at the gym (you will eventually have to do this anyway before twink death)
      Capitalize on baggy clothes while you can

    • Anonymous says:

      Nah heck you this is bait, you’re clearly either an FTM or a dude who microdoses estrogen. You’re getting off to these replies

        • Anonymous says:

          Then dressing like thrift store review brah is not how to do it. Get some cool sneakers, tracky bottoms and and interesting hoodie. Do not invest in dress clothes until you start interviewing for jobs post college. Because your frame is absolutely cursed you will need to save up for a nice bespoke suit

    • Anonymous says:

      You look like a woman, can you grow facial hair.

      I’d ditch bage maybe just play it safe with jeans and a shirt until you sort your style out

    • Anonymous says:

      wtf country are you from? You look like some English peasant girl from some time before the 20th century. Why are you dressing like one too? You just look like you’re doing some kind of reenactment

        • Anonymous says:

          >how so??
          you’d just have to input like something like ‘a young russian writer thinks about ending it all after traveling forward in time and noticing everything went to shit’

          your eyes look like a russian writer
          you’ve seen the heckign abyss or some shit

          and the background looks uncanny as heck, almost like its done on purpose to be so (or generated like this)

    • Anonymous says:

      >how the heck do i save myself
      What do you even want to look like?
      I’m getting some Lara Croft’s nerdy wallflower sister vibes?

      https://i.imgur.com/TZjztrb.jpg

      ok im wearing a belt, now i somehow look even worse

      Wear this, pull your shit out a bit more so you have a bit of drape. Wear a jacket or cardigan that ideally goes over your belt/waist. Add brown leather necklace and armband. Also a scarf in dark green, dark red or dark blue.
      You are pear shaped so you will always look unbalanced when you don’t draw interest towards your shoulders with something.

      • Anonymous says:

        >What do you even want to look like?
        idk like i want to exude dark academia vibes ig? at best?
        most of all i just want to look ‘normal’

        • Anonymous says:

          >i want to exude dark academia vibes
          Not a bad idea tbh. You’re not set up too poorly for that but you need to introduce some more classy features to get there.
          A dark green sports coat/blazer for example would get you a long way. Ideally with polished brass buttons. Or a sweater vest. Suspenders might work if you want to dress dark academia down.
          If you don’t you need some crisper shirt or polo. Maybe iron the one you have so it doesn’t look as crumpled, or wear something less brown and more white.
          >most of all i just want to look ‘normal’
          Sorry to have to bring in the tough love, but as a 2 meter dude I also had to hear this: You will never look normal.
          If you try to you will always look like a weird hybrid between wallpaper and a human being, because you naturally have such an unusual look that trying to blend in means that you have to go for the deepest recesses of NPC looks.
          If you’re going to stand out anyway you should do it with a bit of bravado.

          • Anonymous says:

            i mean i have a dark green jacket and a dark green linen shirt that i occasionally wear

            and i dont have that weird of a body i thought, im just a bit bottom heavy

          • Anonymous says:

            >i have a dark green jacket
            Perfect. So you have everything you need to fix the fit.
            >i dont have that weird of a body i thought
            You don’t. All bodies fall out of the norm in some way. There is nothing wrong with that. You have a number of feminine features, wide hips, small shoulders, thin, little muscle, no beard, feminine face in general. You can’t play around all of these, you have to work with them.

          • Anonymous says:

            >Perfect. So you have everything you need to fix the fit.
            well after this thread im not really too keen on tucking in my shirt and all
            so i kinda just went to either wearing shirts untucked a bit like in that face pic or unbuttoned
            or i just wear an oversized tshirt
            >small shoulders
            nah my shoulders are basically the only thing that is fine

          • Anonymous says:

            >well after this thread im not really too keen on tucking in my shirt and all
            I really hope you don’t take anything in this thread too seriously. That includes everything I say.
            You can keep tucking the shirt if you like the clean look even if people here insist it looks bad. You also don’t have to transition just because people here beg you to.
            >nah my shoulders are basically the only thing that is fine
            Impossible to say from just the pictures, but usually broad shoulders already counterbalance wide hips. So you wouldn’t appear as bottom heavy as you do. Maybe the issue is that your torso is too short.

          • Anonymous says:

            i mean if it looks bad then i obviously dont want to walk around like that
            >your torso is too short
            hahah no i have a really long torso

          • Anonymous says:

            >im just a bit bottom heavy

            >Perfect. So you have everything you need to fix the fit.
            well after this thread im not really too keen on tucking in my shirt and all
            so i kinda just went to either wearing shirts untucked a bit like in that face pic or unbuttoned
            or i just wear an oversized tshirt
            >small shoulders
            nah my shoulders are basically the only thing that is fine

            >my shoulders are basically the only thing that is fine

            i mean if it looks bad then i obviously dont want to walk around like that
            >your torso is too short
            hahah no i have a really long torso

            >i have a really long torso
            This makes no sense.

    • Anonymous says:

      https://i.imgur.com/gcGSjPU.jpg

      heyyy besties, op here
      what face shape do i seem to have, im ultra self faceblind

      its for the barber

      You are wearing your pants way too high, you may have pants that are too small for you- try going to the mall and seeing what size sits closer to your hips than your waist.
      Do not cut your hair, stupid- your hair is really pretty, and hot, girls will be attracted to you if your confident in who you are.
      You look very young, but please go to the gym if you want to be more masculine, work out your arms, shoulders, and chest, going to the gym and eating clean and healthy will boost testosterone and allow you to grow facial hair if you desire while also giving your jaw more of an angle. A young mans face often changes drastically between the years of 18-25 if the right hormones are present.
      Your posture is also a problem, stand up straight because you’re making your shoulders look narrower by rolling them forward- posture is everything!
      Dark academia look is harder to pull off than it looks, because most who attempt it are ugly in the first place or lack the requisite complexion, but you actually have great pale skin, good lips, etc. that you can make it work if you want to.

      Don’t worry about looking gay, just cultivate a style that represents you, even if its less masc than people think is normal. Look how you want to look! What are you studying?

      • Anonymous says:

        >Do not cut your hair
        yeah sorry too late… :/
        >try going to the mall and seeing what size sits closer to your hips than your waist.
        yeah but then its wayyy too big in the waist, its kind of a lose lose situation
        >go to the gym
        im lazy 😐
        and not willing to spend the money for a subscription to then only go for like a week
        >Dark academia look is harder to pull off than it looks
        oh dude i know lmao
        been continuously finding out, especially with this thread
        >Look how you want to look!
        i want to look normal lol
        >What are you studying?
        dont laugh but im studying history

        https://i.imgur.com/KNfhb11.png

        I came to /fashion/ for fashion inspiration and now im gay.

        congratulations on coming out

          • Anonymous says:

            nah i look kinda stupid
            barber cut it shorter than i wanted (which is new because usually barbers dont cut my hair enough)

          • Anonymous says:

            I need you in my life I want to Plap your bussy all day and night. You were made to be bred by BWC and BMC

          • Anonymous says:

            find God please

            ah what a shame! it will grow back though, early uni is the perfect time to have an awkward appearance, also no one gives a heck in uni do not care what people think at all because every 6 months you’re going to get an entire new set of people in your classes, first impressions only matter to professors in your mid-late years.

            get pants that say they have a tailored fit, they will be more form fitting than just regular pants- go to uniqlo if you have them in your country, if not try going to a tailor and getting him to tailor pants that look right on you from their perspective, they’ll know what to do 🙂

            as for exercise, nothing worth doing is easy, especially in the beginning but definitely do some kind of exercise when you are your age… if you dont… your proportions will almost certainly get worse (you’ll actually look like an egg with gyno most likely at 25 if you dont start working out now)

            history is a good degree! heck the girls there okay pal and remember to not to take relationships seriously until your a little older, and if you have trouble getting with women now you definitely wont when your in your mid 20’s (speaking from experience)

            "Normal" is not what you want to look like too btw… considering the avg. in most western countries bmi is like 50… again be yourself! fashion and style are forms of expression, enjoy it!

            >because every 6 months you’re going to get an entire new set of people in your classes
            oh i dont think thats how it works here haha
            >go to uniqlo
            we have them but what’s special about them? how are they different from other retailers? ive only seen their banners on store streets
            >history is a good degree!
            yeah its quite fun! … for now lol
            the mandatory economics is whats mostly scaring me tho
            >heck the girls
            lmao what did they do?
            >considering the avg. in most western countries bmi is like 50
            nah everyone is pretty skinny where im from, its just me who looks like an inflated balloon with weird proportions

        • Anonymous says:

          ah what a shame! it will grow back though, early uni is the perfect time to have an awkward appearance, also no one gives a heck in uni do not care what people think at all because every 6 months you’re going to get an entire new set of people in your classes, first impressions only matter to professors in your mid-late years.

          get pants that say they have a tailored fit, they will be more form fitting than just regular pants- go to uniqlo if you have them in your country, if not try going to a tailor and getting him to tailor pants that look right on you from their perspective, they’ll know what to do 🙂

          as for exercise, nothing worth doing is easy, especially in the beginning but definitely do some kind of exercise when you are your age… if you dont… your proportions will almost certainly get worse (you’ll actually look like an egg with gyno most likely at 25 if you dont start working out now)

          history is a good degree! heck the girls there okay pal and remember to not to take relationships seriously until your a little older, and if you have trouble getting with women now you definitely wont when your in your mid 20’s (speaking from experience)

          "Normal" is not what you want to look like too btw… considering the avg. in most western countries bmi is like 50… again be yourself! fashion and style are forms of expression, enjoy it!

  13. Anonymous says:

    people saying the pants are too high are out of their minds–you can see the waist is being pulled up given the hips so if anything the rise is too low.

    just get natural waisted double pleated wide trousers with a decently draping fabric (a stiffer linen works too!)

  14. Anonymous says:

    Shirt stays. Changed my life. heck the haters. But to be completely honest you can also rock the oversized fit. It doesn’t look bad on you.

  15. Anonymous says:

    -Shirt too baggy, cut/fit is a box and is atrocious, white hecking undershirt?! JFC
    -Pants are cut terribly, too baggy, incredibly too high.
    -Belt is giant, need new style, size, color.
    -Iron your GD clothes!
    -Get new clothes(slim,tapered,fitted,darker colors) Don’t hike up your damn pants.
    -Lastly, are you a woman?

  16. Anonymous says:

    I kinda have the same bodytype. You need slim-fit shirts.

    And like the rest said- way lower rise pants and a thinner (not thin) belt. The pant tightness is a corporate look but thems way too high.

  17. Anonymous says:

    I dunno m8 maybe try some more relevamt style, oversize tops that obscure your shape. Go to the gym. Don’t be trying to dress like hecking Noam Chompsky

  18. Anonymous says:

    I think you should wear women’s clothing since you are a woman. You will always look weird dressing up as the opposite sex.

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