101 thoughts on “How do I know if I'm handsome? How does someone know they're attractive to the opposite sex?

    • Anonymous says:

      When most of the girls around you (even the hot ones), no matter where you go, are checking you out and have a thirsty look on their face. I started noooticing that only recently. Until then I used to think I was a heck ugly literal "chud". I still don’t think I am handsome, but a lot of girls seem to think otherwise, going by their reactions.

    • Anonymous says:

      >if you know you know
      Yup.

      if you were attractive, they’d come up and tell you.
      Stop this bullshit "she le played with her le hair" cope.

      Can confirm.
      I’m attractive and women come up to me and tell me.
      I have no clue about "she le played with her le hair" because I don’t pay attention to women who don’t do or say something interesting.
      Haven’t asked for a number once in my life. Women ask my friends for my number and apologize for texting me out of the blue.

      • Anonymous says:

        redpillers cope thinking that women give signs like playing with their hair or biting their lip if they think you’re attractive lmao

        • Anonymous says:

          >if you know you know
          Yup.
          […]
          Can confirm.
          I’m attractive and women come up to me and tell me.
          I have no clue about "she le played with her le hair" because I don’t pay attention to women who don’t do or say something interesting.
          Haven’t asked for a number once in my life. Women ask my friends for my number and apologize for texting me out of the blue.

          They actually do and it’s uncomfortable as heck to be on the receiving end if you’re just trying to chill on your night out. They’d do better to come up and actually talk but most women always expect the guy to initiate. It’s funny because at least two of the women I dated weren’t really "my type" or on my radar but they had enough balls to approach me, which is hot. Billions of us on this planet not everyone is going to do things the exact same way.

          • Anonymous says:

            >but most women always expect the guy to initiate
            if a woman is attracted to you, she’s going to approach you.

          • Anonymous says:

            Did you not read the very next sentence I typed where I say just that? But still, women do indeed do the make eyes at you and play with their hair from across the room style of flirting. It’s meant to be alluring but all it has ever done is piss me off and make me ignore them even more.

          • Anonymous says:

            This.

            People can cope how they want but at some point you’ll get approached. If you’re ugly/average it’s nada but if you’re hot someone at some point will.

            There’s a lot of cope about girls looking at you and that’s how they show interest BUT they might be just flagging you down as a threat, as a rapist

          • Anonymous says:

            >There’s a lot of cope about girls looking at you and that’s how they show interest BUT they might be just flagging you down as a threat, as a rapist
            this lol

        • Anonymous says:

          I really like incels.
          They are being so toxic that having multiple high value women actually becomes possible.
          The amount of men who they are attracted to is already pretty slim and the more toxic men become the better my odds.

        • Anonymous says:

          Does it count if they come sit next to you and tickle you using their own hair as kind of a brush, or bring a extra chair over to your desk in a office setting and start doing their work at your desk sitting so close that their thigh is touching yours and tapping your foot with their foot under the table. Sometimes when this stuff happens I ask why and usually get no explanation or just a non verbal smile or giggle so I don’t even ask or say anything usually. Maybe it’s some girl humor.

  1. Anonymous says:

    I found it when gay people looking at me a mean a lot, then some chad told me (and he wasnt the only one) that if gay people found you handsome, you are handsome.
    That change the way to me how girls look at things and the world open in front of me

    • Anonymous says:

      >if gay people found you handsome, you are handsome
      This is 100% true. Contrary to popular believe gays are actually quite picky and most of them only for 6’0+ hypermasculine uberchads rather than effeminate flamers

    • Anonymous says:

      My wife has a gay childhood friend, dude was always weird with me when we would talk. I figured he just didn’t like me since he was kind of a catty gay dude. Recently she told me he had apparently talked in their group chat about how he found me really attractive and it made him awkward. That was an ego boost.

    • Anonymous says:

      This just reminded me of the few times that my openly gay Spanish teacher from junior year of high school would stop class to tell me how handsome I was when I walked into class the day after I got my hair cut. Maybe I should have thought about that a little more.

  2. Anonymous says:

    I know by looking at myself and women tell me also. My grandmother was the first person to tell me and she would always show me off to the other old chick’s.

  3. Anonymous says:

    I was a weird looking kid. I physically cringe looking at pictures of my younger self but for some reason girls have always liked me. I grew up into a decent looking man and it’s still the same. Women stare, they cat call, they touch, and gay men have flirted. At this point I’ve received enough compliments and good treatment to know that I’m considered to be handsome. ofc you don’t always see it or feel like it when you look in the mirror.

      • Anonymous says:

        Only the "join us for a swim" is actually accurate. Women will yell out from the car or from across the street that you’re cute but will rarely go farther than that. I’ve never worked in a female dominated space but men who have say that the women will turn the sexual harassments up to eleven when they think it’s safe to do so.

    • Anonymous says:

      When most of the girls around you (even the hot ones), no matter where you go, are checking you out and have a thirsty look on their face. I started noooticing that only recently. Until then I used to think I was a heck ugly literal "chud". I still don’t think I am handsome, but a lot of girls seem to think otherwise, going by their reactions.

      https://i.imgur.com/N8GxUup.jpg

      I found it when gay people looking at me a mean a lot, then some chad told me (and he wasnt the only one) that if gay people found you handsome, you are handsome.
      That change the way to me how girls look at things and the world open in front of me

      This could be delusion too. Like a post I read about a guy that liked to be naked in his home but then he got the idea that some neighbor photographed him and spread the pic, and then he was convinced that men in his neighborhood watched him jealously and women lustfully because of his big dick

  4. Anonymous says:

    You know how you hears guy gets 1 compliment a year and you just can’t relate? Or when a girl says you’re the prettiest boy she’s ever seen

  5. Anonymous says:

    Are you getting laid regularly
    Do people compliment your appearance regularly
    Do girls approach you regularly
    If no to these, u ugly

  6. Anonymous says:

    i’ve been asked out recently by a sorta-ugly chick
    also sometimes i find women staring at me but never smiling
    am i attractive?

    • Anonymous says:

      don’t want to turn this into LULZ, but a girl being the one to ask *you* out is the most foreign, alien concept to me. It has never once happened to me, and I have always been the one to ask girls out only to be rejected
      t. 22, 5’10" hispanic, ugly

  7. Anonymous says:

    I’m too paranoid to post any pictures of my face online publicly. Are the AI face rater websites accurate? Honestly I regret using them since they probably saved a picture of my face but one of those website said I was a 9/10 and the other said I was an 8/10. Those websites probably just give everyone a good score so people feel better about themselves but I seriously have no idea how to judge how attractive I am.
    I’m not going to base my judgement on how I look in photos or in the mirror since some bias towards or against myself will definitely skew my perception. I’m not social enough to ask anyone else for an honest rating either.

    • Anonymous says:

      9/10 means you are constantly getting harassed for sex by both men and women, been offered modeling jobs regularly and all around praised for your looks your entire life. 8/10 is similar but to a much lesser degree. You are likely a 7 or a deluded 6

      • Anonymous says:

        I didn’t say I thought I was a 9/10 or 8/10, just that AI face analyzers thought I was. I always figured I was pretty average looking myself but as mentioned prior I don’t interact much with people so I can’t confirm it. I guess a 6/10 would be right.

      • Anonymous says:

        >9/10 means you are constantly getting harassed for sex by both men and women
        It’s definitely not constantly . I’d say sex is easier to find but people aren’t throwing themselves at you on the daily. Some women that are that attractive have even said that the opposite happens, that men become intimidated and don’t approach them.

        • Anonymous says:

          >Some women that are that attractive have even said that the opposite happens, that men become intimidated and don’t approach them.
          This is the most stupid cope I’ve seen posted on LULZ for years now.

          • Anonymous says:

            Ever talk to a woman?
            >I’ve seen posted on LULZ for years now
            No it’s pretty obvious you haven’t

          • Anonymous says:

            You’re the stupid who doesn’t go outside if you think hot girls don’t get approached, kek. They get free drinks and free offers the minute they step outside, hecking moron. Stop believing your shitty animes and grow up.

  8. Anonymous says:

    Post your picture and let LULZ decide. It’s the only way. But at the end of the day this is the reality..https://youtu.be/z-2_OstpR5c?si=WKwSvWwGDT2UXbnl

  9. Anonymous says:

    Ask a gay man, women usually never give compliments, but gay men will. I spend my whole teenage life thinking I was ugly, until a gay man told me that I was a very attractive man (I was twenty)

  10. Anonymous says:

    when a lot of women stare at you. girls only stare at guys they think are attractive they will never stare at a normie or ugly guy most of them are invisible for that matter.

  11. Anonymous says:

    When you walk past someone and you exchange looks, if and only if they look down you’re gold, if they look to the side you’re a background character, a tree by any other name. That said even a tree can get the chick/dude, gotta put some effort.

  12. Anonymous says:

    Go hang out with a southeast Asian family. Any woman over 40 will tell you straight up if you’re handome/cute/fat

  13. Anonymous says:

    I have a bi friend who gasses me up often and even offered to have sex with me when we were drunk one time but idk if I’m decent looking or he’s just horny

    • Anonymous says:

      Not saying if you are ugly or hot but I’d say he’s just horny. But you also might just be genuinely doing something for him in the looks department. I’ve been in that situation with women, I knew they weren’t conventionally attractive but I had the absolute hots for them so the compliments flowed easily because they were genuine and I really wanted to put my dick into them.

  14. Anonymous says:

    I was at a fair in my dad’s hometown one night and the mother of a girl that was in my class in elementary school (literally never seen her since I was like 10) walked up to me.
    I think she was a bit drunk.
    She was very excited to see me and tell me that her daughter became a cop recently.
    After talking for a bit she gets all personal and goes "you have really grown. You have a kind soul, I can see it from your eyes".
    She puts a hand on my shoulder and asks "are you still alone?".
    Then she tries to get me on the phone with her daughter.

    Does that mean I’m ugly?

  15. Anonymous says:

    i have a few friends that are really good-looking. One is model/actor tier
    i like to pay attention to how women look at them when they enter the room, and is somewhat random, depending on the environment mostly
    when there is alcohol involved, I’ll catch girls looking at them when they are not looking, and just giving very little eye contact when they are looking, ugly chicks will stare like a starving dog, and they will 100% aproach if drunk enough
    If it’s a more formal daylight situation, it’s way more subtle, almost unnoticeable.
    I’m a 6/10 in a good day, and i rarely get any looks, especially now that i’m 30, at 22 i would see chicks looking here and there (I bulked up and got my face fat, at 22 i was skinny af)
    Overall, you have to be a 9.5/10 to experience people staring at you all the time, to see if you are considered good looking, aka 7/10 and up, you will have to approach girls and see how they react to you, its the only fast and easy way

  16. Anonymous says:

    If you don’t know, you’re not.

    >guy who’ve been called hot and objectified his entire life and now gets snarky if you say it to him

    • Anonymous says:

      Stuff like girls stuttering and getting flustered when you make eye contact, nobody thinks you’re in the wrong and unlimited benefit of the doubt, asked if you’re an actor or a model, some guys are hostile towards you by default cause their girl likes you, etc.

  17. Anonymous says:

    I’m 40 years old. When I was young I thought I was handsome, in reality was average. I look at the pictures from 20 years ago and it look like an average nerd kid.

  18. Anonymous says:

    Basically when you’re good looking, older guys who are washed will seethe around you, constantly try to heck with you or put you down. Woman will start random conversations with you about ANYTHING. Older woman will treat you like a sexual object and shoot their shot because to them "heck it",they’ll want to see if they can fulfill their fantasy of finding a hot young fling. You can use your peripheral vision and catch 6-7/10 girls staring you down. For some reason, you’ll have a very specific type of woman who consistently thinks you’re attractive. For me it was high maintenance Taiwanese girls with no tits and THICK BIG ASS white girls with no tits (my favorite). Traditionally attractive girls would strike convos with me, but I’m autistic as shit and would turn them off immediately and they always have their guard up.

    TLDR:
    >if you’re ugly 5 or <, you’re invisible, the end
    >if you’re good looking 7/10, you’ll get girls being more open to starting conversations with you
    >if you’re hot and young 8+, you’ll get old woman trying to take you home for casual, psycho sex; 7/10’s checking you out aggressively in which you’ll have a near 100% rate of success if you approach them, no matter what you say, and specific types of women constantly asking for your number and initiating dates

    • Anonymous says:

      >For some reason, you’ll have a very specific type of woman who consistently thinks you’re attractive.
      It’s funny how true this is. Everyone does have a type, I wonder how much influence does genetics play in it. Much like pheromones, if your gf doesn’t love your smell, then she doesn’t love you.

    • Anonymous says:

      I’ve tried to figure out what category of man I fall into based on the type of women who consistently find me attractive. Mine are tall, skinny, glasses wearing bisexual white girls with some kind of mental trauma from their teenage years.

      • Anonymous says:

        People try way to hard to label things in their lives. I find that all of the women who have been attracted to me have been different. There’s no one type. Every girl friend I’ve had has been completely different from each other, different in looks, backgrounds, interests, jobs, personality, even different races and nationalities.

  19. Anonymous says:

    When I went to china I was literally stopped and asked for a photo with a couple, when i asked why the guy said ‘we think you look like moviestar’

    I thought they were just taking the piss but no, just hot apparently

  20. Anonymous says:

    I’ve been hit on by gay dudes, tranny’s, older women, teenage girl, and adult women. I once got on a bus and all the women just stared at me for a good 5 seconds as soon as I got on, one was constantly looking up at me while her boyfriend was going on and on thinking she was paying attention, another time a cute red head skater zoomette was staring at me on the bus but I got nervous and didn’t make a move, which I massively regret to this day, and another time I took my, at the time, 13 year old brother to his school to pick up a copy of the yearbook and a group of mini stacies came up to us and told my brother "your brothers hot" and ran off giggling. I have a lot more stories but the point is, I guess I am more attractive than I think, I personally don’t think I’m anything special and am typically pretty insecure, my only problem is I have ADHD and I suspect possibly some autism as well, so I always heck it up the relationships up with some awkward bullshit, so ultimately my looks are worth diddly squat.

  21. Anonymous says:

    on the rare occasion i go out, girls smile at me and sometimes talk to me. i’ve always thought i was kind of below average looking, but then i realized i just didn’t go out at all. if girls have a reputation for asking you, "how come i don’t see you around here more often", or generally seeming kind of eager to talk to you, then you’re fine. if they avoid you completely, well then you’re not.

  22. Anonymous says:

    people will tell you constantly. I get it all the time after my late-20s glow up (i started hitting the gym basically). I’m 33 now and never looked/felt better. Constant mires too, to the extent that it causes me problems in bars etc, because I get a reputation as a ladies man when it’s actually the ladies coming to me. Also, being good at guitar is a cliché but singing and playing makes girls cream their hecking pants, mostly cos it shows confidence.

  23. Anonymous says:

    if you’re handsome, you will hear it without asking.
    No, close friends and family do not count.
    If you’re plain, people will just ignore you, if you’re ugly your life gets made harder. (higher chance of being a target for bullying, people will just shrug you off and forget about you etc)

    • Anonymous says:

      I think this, ive had random women start shit over my hair and eyelashes, random drunk people compliment my hair, all my friends at some point have commented on how pretty or handsome I am, when I’m walking around sometimes if I actually look at people I’ll notice looks. Makes me very self conscious though, not a fan of being noticed by randoms. People will also remember you if you are i think. Theres a venue near me and on specific nights there will be this one door girl, both times shes picked me out and specifically commented on me and saying she remembered me. Despite this I dont think I’m really that good looking, I’m just in shape and have long ish hair

  24. Anonymous says:

    I think only guys find me attractive, ive had a lot of comments from random men complimenting how i look or a lot of irl friends telling me that out of our friend group im the one that they would heck if they had to choose. a lot of men will usually start up conversations with me, for instance bartenders will strike up convos about drinks that i buy and constantly smile at me. ive been hit on exclusively by men for the past couple years now too

    i dont experience this with women really, like at all; am i ugly/is this experience common with others

  25. Anonymous says:

    Say a shitty joke to a girl you’re talking with.
    If she laughs, she’s into you.
    Point out an objectively bad physical flaw about your body(e.g. if you bite your nails or an ugly scar(not a cool one))
    If she copes for you, she’s into you.

    • Anonymous says:

      Neither of these are good suggestions girls, but people in general, give pity laughs or laugh when they are uncomfortable.
      Women are socially conditioned to sympathize, they’ll hit you with the "aww it’s not ugly" and not mean it at all, it’s just something they know they’re supposed to respond with.

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