basically that, how do I know if i'm really FTM, or just a tomboy girl, sometimes I want to look more masculine, and have a more "masc" shaped boy. other times I don't really relate to a lot of women, and want to be "one of the guys" or generally just be seen as more "serious" or "masc" (another important thing, is that i like girls). What should I do?
you're on LULZ, so you're probably massively autistic and struggle to relate to normie girls, instead spending time in male-dominated communities. of course you would feel this way
This is not a male dominatd comunity there's a lot of trannies and lesbians, just men are the bullies.
You want testosterone or not? Thats all that matters
yeah, op, do you wanna look like your dad?
Or a male version of your mum?
Not OP, i want to look like my dad if he went to the gym instead of sitting on the couch watching netflix all day.
Become my boyfriend thats what you should. If you don't like it, go back to be a woman. If you do. Just grow a dick anon, we could have so much fun
Do you want to be “masc” or biologically male?
Most females would rather be biologically male, that’s not a sign of poonerism
No they wouldn’t
Lmfao
Any time someone asks on one of the other boards would you rather be the opposite sex all the femanons say no and like 2/3 of the maleanons say yes.
At most some women want to be women who have dicks.
All that said testosterone is pretty hardcore and you might end up bald and having a man voice you can't do much to undo so only do it if you're serious, not just because it seems like it'd be fun.
>At most some women want to be women who have dicks.
This is probably pretty common. Should be normalized to just get bottom surgery
Not really, most women find the idea appalling despite being attracted to dick
It's the ultimate irony so many straight guys wish they were cute lesbians and so many lesbians wish they had dicks.
>femanons
No shit, there are no cis women on LULZ, they’re all larping troons projecting their fantasies about amazing it’d be to be a bimbo porn slut. Ask the same question in any female dominated space and the VAST majority would say they’d love to be born amab.
If you say you are a boy then you are a boy .. take your t John!
There’s a saying:
>mtfs detrans because they realize they won’t ever pass, FTMs detrans because they start to
Would you detrans if you passed?
I don't know OP but stop typing like a retarded tumblr girl
I think it depends on whether you have dysphoria or not. Do you hate how your body looks and wish it was more male so much that it causes you a considerable amount of distress? If so poon out. Otherwise just pick your favorite non-binary label.
I think that it is fine for girls to have masculine interests or being seen as powerful leaders, so I don't think that just this is enough to warrant a change like that.
do you want to take testosterone and be seen as a man yes or no
you poon out and if you like it you might be ftm or enby
>What should I do?
split transition into as small chunks as possible (pronouns, facial hair, fat redistribution,etc. all separate, you can even keep having a penis and not having a vagina as 2 different things), don't worry if it's realistic to detach them, just make a list of everything that can be possibly changed
rate how much you want each of these
plan what's the most efficient way of achieving these while compromising on as few (and as unimportant) things as possible
when you have a plan some sort of identity should crystalize but it's never a guarantee until you try it out
what gender you relate to and shit is not super important, for one because it's not very related to gender and second because it's not necessarily changeable by transitioning
Do you want a male physique/muscles?
Do you want no boobs? Would you prefer pecs instead?
Do you want a deep male voice?
Do you want to be bald or are you okay with it?
Do you want body hair or would you be okay with it? If it was really thick?
Do you want clit growth?
Do you want a beard?
How tall are you? Are you okay with being a short guy? If you date guys, what do you think of short men?
>Are you okay with being a short guy? If you date guys, what do you think of short men?
These are rather irrelevant
Not that anon, but being short is easily one of the most common negatively perceived traits cis men are most distressed about.
That’s why it’s not really relevant to wanting to be a man. Men don’t like being short
Wouldn't it be relevant because few guys would choose to be male if it meant being short?
Like if you're on the fence about your gender like OP is, that would be a strong mark against the male option.
Idk how it is being a girl bc I'm not one but I struggle with thoughts of dysphoria and have trouble relating to others and enjoying the same things but I know I'm straight because I don't have the same kind of base attraction to males. I still wish things were different but I know I would never be happy transitioning. I just do whatever I want and don't think about gender association
> but I know I'm straight because I don't have the same kind of base attraction to males
I wonder about this.
I'm strongly attracted to women physically and completely repulsed by men.
But that only happened during male puberty.
I wonder if I'd been on E and gone through female puberty instead if I'd be ace or something.