How do I cope with an aging partner?

How do I cope with an aging partner?

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    cheat like a normal person

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    lmfao imagine being a woman jfc

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Ok groomer

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Dude how many fricking years is that and how old is she? I couldn't stay with someone who doesn't take care of themselves. That's neglect right there, not standard aging.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      women neglect themselves because men cant keep them in their place anymore

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I just leave if a chick hits the wall or lets herself go. If I'm not attracted to someone then I don't see the point on sticking around. I'm not wasting my time putting someone in their place or arguing about it.

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Realize that you got her prime years and now this is the price you pay.

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >she got fat
    Don't let her get fat, obesity ages you like a motherfricker

    • 2 years ago
      Sean

      She was fat in first pic. The lighting is worse in the second and her hair is too unwashed, stringy, and greasy.

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If you've been together long enough to age, you should have developed bonds that are not affected by aging.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      This. If this is a worry for you, I’d recommend reevaluating your personal life.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I tell every gf Iv had that if you cant keep up with me your getting left in the dust no exceptions not gonna cheat but Ill just dump you outright.
      broke off a 4 year relationship because she got depression, gained 20 pounds and stop taking care of her appearance.
      I'm not your therapist/life coach/shrink and if you aren't gonna give me your all then why should I put my all into this for you? I hate when women try to do this weird shit, I'm not your dad, if your not up to snuff then frick off lol .

      That is such a cope for lazy people that want to lock someone down and use them like a pay pig, if your partner truly loved you they would do absolutely everything in their power to be what you want.

      I just leave if a chick hits the wall or lets herself go. If I'm not attracted to someone then I don't see the point on sticking around. I'm not wasting my time putting someone in their place or arguing about it.

      as you should.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        if you fell into a depression and put on weight and stopped taking care of yourself or whatever, if the woman you've been seeing for 4+ years dumps you on the spot, do you think she loved you?
        if you did this type of thing within a year of dating, it'd be fine. but after 4 years, your partner goes through something huge, and isn't handling it well, you break it off with them. That's extremely narcissistic to say the least. I thought this way when I was in high school man lmao, good luck.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Not really. Since what you said was an opinion and not everyone is full of themself like you are.
          >narcissist
          >Muh 10 yrs of psychology ph d degree made me say that

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          I stayed true to my word, made my intentions clear from the start and expected the same if I were to falter as I clearly stated.
          >do you think she loved you?
          yes but it would be batshit insane for her to put up with something that can only truly be solved by yourself, I don't think its too out there to expect the same of her, if only I can solve a problem then why should she suffer along side me when she cant help in solving that problem?
          >That's extremely narcissistic to say the least.
          nice armchair psychology, even used the cop out word that everyone uses when someone isn't a self deprecating sad sop and has any sense of self worth.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        have a nice day homosexual

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If you've been together long enough to age, you should have developed bonds not affected by aging.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      That's just cope. You are still having sex with an uggo

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I've broken up with two girls over this. Both were relationships lasting more than 4 years. I'm currently 30 and not sure what to do either.
    I want them to stay young and beautiful forever.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      You should start reading Cornelius Agrippa and other related tomes, and pick up the great work of humanity that is discovering the elixer of eternal life. It is clearly your destiny.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        can you give me a quick rundown? I will definitely check it out

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Agrippa was a 16th century scientist and philosopher who wrote books on various subjects but is most known for his writings on occult knowledge, particularly his Three Books Concerning Occult Philosophy is a good starting point if you're curious. Regarding the elixer of life/philosophers stone though, you'll want to expand into other things and from there you're basically on your own since obviously it is an incomplete work. Some other curious "books" on the topic would be the Mutus Liber and some of Paracelsus' work and the lineage of chemistry that spawned from it.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >Regarding the elixer of life/philosophers stone
            You mean like living forever?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            That is the most popular interpretation of those concepts, in other words the magnum opus of alchemy. Figure that out and then your woman can stay young forever, the ultimate way to cope with aging.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Another author who wrote about the philosophers stone was J K Rowling, in her seminal work "Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone'

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I thought it was the Sorcerer's Stone

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      What are you doing to stay young forever?

  9. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I have a problem with this too. I've broken up with two girls whom I had a 4 year relationship with because of this. I don't know what to do, I just want them to stay young and beautiful. I'm 31 right now.

  10. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    It is true, she is aging more noticeably every day while I am standing still.

  11. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    that's crazy how she has the phenotype of the girls aging poorly

  12. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I have a problem with this too. I've broken up with two girls whom I had a 4 year relationship with because of this. I don't know what to do, I just want them to stay young and beautiful. I'm 31 right now.

  13. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Being fat is unacceptable at any age.

  14. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    ur pic related is misleading OP. The pic on the left isn't better because she is younger - her looks is the same in each. The left just has warmer lighting, her hair is down, her arm tats are hidden, she's smiling, her eyes are more flattering, and it's more clear/vivid in that you can see more of her makeup+freckles. Pic on the right could easily be the left on a better day, and the left could be the right on a worse day.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      She gained at least 40 pounds between pictures, you're delusional.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        I would agree his main point is that it wasn't age though, she's just been packing back too many burgers.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        camera adds 20 pounds

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          >camera adds 20 pounds
          How many fricking cameras are pointed at her?!

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            2 more than on the left l guess

  15. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    You point at her and say “THAT’S THE WALL, BROTHER!”

  16. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    such a sad picture . wtf happened to remy lacroix

  17. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >implying this is aging
    Right pic is the result of
    >Shoddy, blurry camera work, awful camera angle, and poor lighting
    >hair back versus down
    >no eye shadow
    >no lip gloss
    >no blush
    It's the same girl in both pics, you're just getting to see how had you can improve your looks with a little splash of well-applied makeup.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      THIS. Bad angles will age you like a motherfricker too

      If you're with a partner for their looks, you should probably reevaluate your commitment to them. looks fade. If you want an eternally young girl, either date a 13 year old or keep getting a new 20 year old every few years. You don't deserve a real woman.

  18. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is what happens only if you treat your body like shit.

  19. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    That's not even age, that's just weight, lighting, camera angle, and lack of makeup in the second image.

  20. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is one of the reasons monogamy doesn't work.

  21. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    you're also aging.

  22. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I cope with an aging partner?

    Maybe... Take it like a man??

  23. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Get a younger gf

  24. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    She would still look good or at least decent if she wasn’t fat.

  25. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Ah yes the classic latina transformation

    They all do this as they age

  26. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Kill her so she’ll stop aging?

    You don’t realize how your partner has aged until you look at old photos. It’s kinda weird. Then you see how old you are and it’s over all a bad time.

  27. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Wtf she is covered in tattoos now?

    Why do they always do this and who TF thinks tattoos are better than none? Or do her subscribers pay for her to get them or something and offer amounts that are too hard to refuse

  28. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    just dont be superficial duh

  29. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is not physical aging. This is no make-up, +5kg, horrible lightning, horrible hairstyle.
    Having said that, aging in general is a real thing.
    My wife is over 30yo.
    I adore her, her mind and I like her face and body.
    But, from a sexual standpoint, she no longer excites me animalistically.
    For instance, it usually takes me about 10min to cum with my wife, and I usually don't want another round.
    On the other hand, I had an affair with a 9/10 19yo escort who always made me cum immediately after penetrating her. And, again, around 3-4 minutes after getting in again.
    So I had to cum 2 times to calm my dick down and be able to properly frick that escort, and cum a 3rd time. I even once cummed 4 times in around 45mins.
    That escort was a shallow and dumb high school dropout, but she was cuter, younger, and with bigger boobs, so the animal inside me wanted to breed her.
    I believe it is normal.
    Normal to find young 9/10 girls more sexually appealing, as long as you still love your girl's mind and body and she remains your priority in life.
    There's a problem only if you start to dislike your girl.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Why are you cheating on your wife and I hope you're using condoms

  30. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I don’t have a problem with aging. I will have a problem if my partner lets herself go and decides it’s alright to balloon up 50 pounds.

  31. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This isnt an insult or a roast but have you thought how she feels about you aging? Its not so bad putting yourself into someone elses shoes and aging is inevitable. Imagine how you will look once you are elderly, how would that make you feel?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Men brains are hard-wired to breed attractive adolescent and young adult females.
      On the hand, women prefer men their own age or older, and while they appreciate good looking men, appearance isn't as important to them, especially when they're 24yo+.
      So, sure it is good to put yourself into your girl shoes, but it is definitely easier for women to be less concerned about an aging partner.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >appearance isn't as important to them, especially when they're 24yo+.
        If a female said this on this website you would be screeching like apes about how much of a lie that is but then you tell the same lie yourselves when it makes you feel better lmao
        >On the hand, women prefer men their own age or older
        >Men brains are hard-wired to breed attractive adolescent and young adult females.
        When left to select for *purely sex* time and time again we see women choose young guys. They will marry the older man yes, and when he's at work she's fricking her coworker or "friend" that's her age if not younger. It's part of the dual mating strategy, they pick older men to be providers and your glass-smooth brains as usual conflate who they marry with whose cum they actually want to guzzle.

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Both reality and research show a significant gender difference in the perception of physical attractiveness (youth is far more important for men) and its importance in the dating and mating process (physical attractiveness is far more important for men).
          Besides, stop thinking black and white, I never said women couldn't be attracted to younger, attractive men and cheat on their husband with such; I just said it wasn't as important and systematic as it is for men.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >Both reality and research
            The issue with that is that study is aligned to the woman's age, and when women hear "attractive" they are envisioning themselves in a relationship. (Most) women can't detach carnal desire from that the way men can. That's where the
            >(physical attractiveness is far more important for men)
            comes in. When they ask women "which guy is most attractive?" women think in relationship terms, not to mention many would feel embarrassed for liking younger boys whereas for men honesty is more acceptable.
            This is why in rare cases of unhinged bawds with no relationship desires, as they got older, they continue to go for younger boys. The carnal sex desire has been disconnected from relationship desires.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            Not really, if you look objective features of physical attractiveness in men, shoulder width and facial masculinity peak in their mid-late 20s. Neotony is associated with femininity as well. Most men who women fawn over sexually are 25-30( or look like it), the early 20s baby face men usually have isn't attractive to women.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            >Most men who women fawn over sexually are 25-30
            It's more like 25-45 tbqh

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          Its really sad that you think people in general are this quick to cheat.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Who is that girl in the picture I know she's a porn actress but I can find her name anywhere

        I also need to know this is...

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          She had a good face before, well you saw the right side...

  32. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Who is that girl in the picture I know she's a porn actress but I can find her name anywhere

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      [...]
      I also need to know this is...

      Remy LaCroix

  33. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 20yo male. IMO men reach their peak "beauty" on their 40s. Women, on the other hand, have their peak beauty on their 20s. After that, it declines.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I think it varies wildly from guy to guy. If he doesn't regularly lift, drinks alcohol, etc then men tend to peak in their late 20s or early 30s. A guy with perfect hair genetics who takes care of his body might peak around the late 30s, but most guys have already started showing signs of wear by then.

    • 2 years ago
      Sean

      I looked like a manlet angel around 20, and now I look like a poop angel. That's when you squeeze the poopy so the poop slides between your fingers and looks like six wings.

  34. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    > 10 years
    > kids
    >40lbs
    >pro makeup + lighting vs screencap of homemade porn at an unflattering angle

    Meh... The real question is what do you do when you've had a kid with someone who changes like that.

  35. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    We've seen many adult film actresses go this route. They start off young and unbelievably attractive, then finish their careers slightly aged and borderline obese. I think there's some intention behind this. Like, that lifestyle is probably a roller coaster ride that some of them really desperately want to get off of. So long as they're young and sexy, coercive producers will constantly try to exploit them. Ergo, if you get fat and stop presenting yourself as a young tart, they leave you alone.

    This is more about the pic and not the topic, sorry anon.

  36. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit, this is depressing. As someone who works out regularly and cuts out sugar/sodium/etc. I am going to be vetting all future partners for fitness and health-awareness.

  37. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit, she's looking like that now?

  38. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If you're dating someone seriously and not rigorously looking for fatal character flaws then I don't know what to tell you.

    That's your fault at the end of the day. You are supposed to find someone who, bare minimum, has enough respect and dignity for themselves to take care of their body all their life. This is why I don't date "le based thicc chubby girls" I know where that shit is heading.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      This isnt an insult or a roast but have you thought how she feels about you aging? Its not so bad putting yourself into someone elses shoes and aging is inevitable. Imagine how you will look once you are elderly, how would that make you feel?

      OP here. I'm 25, she's about to turn 28, when we started dating 5 years ago I thought I didn't mind the age gap cause we looked the same, but now she developed some wrinkles and this fricked me up to the point I had to ask her to take a break, I'm now abstaining from porn and masturbation, but I still feel a strong desire to dump her and date younger girls. This whole experience is messing me up, it's making me doubt of the existance of love and of me being a good person

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      >You are supposed to find someone who, bare minimum, has enough respect and dignity for themselves to take care of their body all their life

      Yes, absolutely. A man who doesn't make enough money for a hair transplant or penis job isn't worth it either. Ugly. Useless. Can't even make enough money for a stupid fricking operation, character flaw galore. Puke.

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