how do i avoid being seen as a free meal by women that i want to date?

how do i avoid being seen as a free meal by women that i want to date?

  1. 1 week ago
    Hedgie

    Women don't see it as a free meal like the memes say. If you're that paranoid then take them on a date where there's no food

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    It’s likely impossible to gauge, at least for the first date. Just don’t spend a lot of money. And remember, if the relationship isn’t mutually satisfying you aren’t under any obligation to keep it going. Say it’s four dates and you haven’t fucked. If that bothers you just stop asking her out.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Do people really fuck in only four dates now

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        In my experience it’s normally date 2. If I hit 3 dates and we haven’t gone beyond kissing I stop asking them out.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          Jesus christ I just can't fit in with normal people anymore I guess. That's insane to me

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Don't spend more on a date than you're comfortable spending. Start small and only spend more when it's serious.

        I'm usually fucking on the second date. First date is just to make sure she's not insane. I always kiss on the first date unless I hate the girl. Kissing will tell you if they're even interested in you sexually. It's great to cut them off mid makeout and send them away wanting more.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          I just can't measure up to those standards I guess. I don't work like that

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but I always also kiss on first date as well, it isn’t hard my guy. They want to be kissed.

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              All of my online dates except one or two have been fucks. Fucks in cars. Fucks at their dorms. Fucks in a hot tub. I am telling you the brutal truth so that you can do the needful and stop lying to yourself about the nature of these hoes. Good luck anon.

              I don't really care. I'm just not gonna do that man.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Well, you shouldn't if you have any self-respect. Just saying. These hoes don't and you gotta watch out.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Unless you're dating church girls you get no brownie points taking it slow. And by all means if you want to take it slow you should stick to classy church girls.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Why are these my only options? Can't I just find someone like me out there?

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I'm sure they exist but the vast majority of modern girls are oversexed so you'll be weird by being slow especially if you're someone who takes a couple dates before the first kiss. They'd probably think you don't like them so you'd have to do other stuff to demonstrate your sexual interest without outright saying it. But just know that every girl fucked on the first and second date so you're just going slow for sloppy seconds unless she's a verifiable virgin. Honestly don't even know where you'd find a conservative girl like this outside of church.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                It's so weird this is conservative behavior now. I feel like I fell out of a different timeline or something. Like I'm from the wrong planet. I'm an adult male and I still earnestly believe in all the cringe romanticism stuff. Sue me.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Do you feel that fucking on the 2nd date and romanticism are mutually exclusive? Or you just believe significant romanticism should come before sex? Cause I can tell you I banged my gf on the 2nd date and I’m gonna marry her one day. Head over heels for her.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I don't think about it like that. I just think that's too fast for me. I don't think I could touch someone that soon after meeting them

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Not him but I wouldn't want to be with a girl who would fuck on a 2nd date
                Johnny Depp was head over heels over amber heard too I'm sure

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Kek. Thankfully she hasn’t started beating me yet. On the 2nd date she paid for my ticket to a sporting event, got drunk with me there, paid for an AirBnB and fucked my brains out. How was I to resist?

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                >Cause I can tell you I banged my gf on the 2nd date and I’m gonna marry her one day. Head over heels for her.
                Sounds like honeymoon phase shit to me.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                It’s been 2.5 years.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Glad to hear it, then. Good shit.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I agree with this too. I'm just going to stay alone

                Fuck this world

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                We all have a naive fantasy about finding someone just like us but the reality is that this is exceedingly rare. Your best bet is to attend gatherings for things you're interested in. Card games. Board games. /tg/ shit even. You will find some decent women there. But going through online dating apps looking for a non-whore is like trying to find a black man at a clan meeting. It's just not gonna happen.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I struck gold today with this technique anon. praise be

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                I really should do this but I never go out to pursue any of my interests. . .

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        All of my online dates except one or two have been fucks. Fucks in cars. Fucks at their dorms. Fucks in a hot tub. I am telling you the brutal truth so that you can do the needful and stop lying to yourself about the nature of these hoes. Good luck anon.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I lost my virginity on our 2nd, I hear some do so on their first.

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Be poor

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I'm in the same boat as some of you other anons - I just want to find someone like me. I've been in two relationships, both of them very long. The first girl and I met in HS and were each other's first, but she had BPD, You can guess where that went. Second girl was kind, attractive, we had great chemistry - but she was extremely woke and hated men & thought it was okay to be racist towards white people. She took back those opinions later, but I just couldn't trust her or be myself around her at that point.

    I feel despondent and hopeless. I'm an attractive man with a great job, and all I want is someone who's like me and has only been in dedicated relationships, but it feels like that's almost impossible these days.

    Perhaps most of the women I'd like to be with are still in committed relationships like I was, and I really don't think that reading all these doomposts on LULZ and youtube make it any better for me. Just gotta get out there and filter through women looking for the right one.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Modern culture creates dysfunctional women

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I concur with the other anons here, go to church.

    >t. met my gf of 2 years at church and we didn't kiss until the 3rd date

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    don't ask homeless women out on dates stupid

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >how do I avoid being seen as a free meal by women that I want to date?
    Make them pay for their own food, are you fucking dumb? If they don't want to be around you because you won't pay for their food then that's someone that you don't wanna date.

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly it's just astounding that even 10 years ago when I was in college people would talk about waiting like it wasn't a huge deal but now if you haven't creampied a girl you're only meeting for the second time in your life something's wrong with you
    I don't think I could do dating at this point, my sensibilities are completely out of touch with what women want

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