how do i as a goth girl stop being approached by deftones-listening soibois and find a real weirdo?

how do i as a goth girl stop being approached by deftones-listening soibois and find a real weirdo? shaving off my eyebrows didn't work.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Give and take. You live in a free country. You live in the United States. You have the freedom of speech, you can like whoever you want to like.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You can either accept that this will keep happening or you can wear a shirt that says "NO DEFTONES-LISTENING SOIBOIS, WEIRDOS ONLY" but I doubt that will work.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >a real weirdo
    define this, and I may be able to tell you where to find it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      OP

      guys who don't listen to mainstream shit

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That's not a werido though

        • 3 weeks ago
          OP

          i use the term both affectionately and loosely

          i dont mean a weirdo in terms of deviancy or whatever, just want someone who doesnt care about what other people think. & someone whose music taste isnt trending on tiktok

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >who doesnt care about what other people think
            I don't even care if other people breathe.

            >someone whose music taste isnt trending on tiktok
            I would think you mean someone who doesn't even know what's on tiktok.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > i dont mean a weirdo in terms of deviancy or whatever, just want someone who doesnt care about what other people think. & someone whose music taste isnt trending on tiktok
            Well if you want someone who doesn’t pay attention to what other ppl think, shouldn’t a person who listens to whatever the fuck they want without caring abt what your fake goth ass thinks is or isn’t mainstream be the perfect match?
            I really can’t stand pretentious homosexuals like OP who’s prob also a baiter.
            >imagine being +18 and haven’t gotten over the “mainstream music is trash i only listen underground music hehe plebs” meme
            >imagine caring about what other people listen to and making this the center of your personality
            get a grip op
            >also
            Deftones rules homosexual

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Not op
              Just because you have shit music tastes and dont actually care about music doesnt mean its not a viable concern. In fact, agreeing on the music to be played around the house is more important than a lot of things especially hobbies that give you time apart like biking or sports or crafts.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >guys who don't listen to mainstream shit
        Then I'm your man. I'd tell you my favs, but you probably never heard of them. Also, Deftones were mainstream 20-25 years ago. Is that still considered mainstream? Seems like a strange litmus test for normie tier mainstream stuff.

        • 3 weeks ago
          OP

          theyre mainstream now for sure. at least among people my age (zoomers)

          who are your favs?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >who are your favs?
            I was being a bit sarcastic about that, but sinve you asked.
            >looks at stack of old CDs (mostly metal, and metal adjacent)
            Only stuff I might still give a listen to is Prong, one or two Clutch albums, Neurosis once in a while, maybe some Isis (band not the terrorists), and then just random shit off YT. No idea if any of that is normie or not because I don't really talk to any about music.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If deftones is soi, what band isn't soi?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Incendiary

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They aren't but now all zoomers listen to them, so better avoid it.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How weird are we talking? I might be able to be of service.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Im a weirdo but I only listen to phonk and hyperborean music that elevates my aryan blood levels

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    True weirdos dont have tats and wear a costume. Youre a fetish and the weirdos youre looking for are clean cut guys with a psycho streak that want to treat you like a toy.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This really. Most goth girls fuck with guys who are total opposites to them. Why do you think the cute goth girl at McDonald's dates a fat spic with a 98' Chevy? A goth chick may larp and say they want the same as them, but in reality they know they're a fetish so they seek someone who isn't a fetish item like them.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That's 100% false but keep telling yourself that big guy lol

        The more androgynous or David bowie you can look the more it gets them wet

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    stop hanging out on tiktok and check out / go to one of the following or something like it:

    psilocybin enthusiast group
    ultimate Frisbee League
    Jazz club downtown
    radical Jesus Church
    black fathers matter meeting
    trail restoration volunteer day
    school board meeting
    the river with a fishing rod
    local craft brewery

    the real world is where you find people who don't go on tiktok. become a real person in the real world and you'll meet lots of us!

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The sausagefest going on in these comments trying to impress lmao

    OP, no way to not be approached, but a decent (when safe) response is nonverbal avoidance. Or travelling with a trusted man friend. Ashamed to say it works.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's not what she asked soiboy

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just make out with me on front of them and then we'll go back to my place and get high while listening to the sisters of mercy or type o negative.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Goth women usually date photographers, tattoo artists, fem boys, or also bikers but like the ones that do modeling are with guys who are very much into their feminine

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not all goth girls are femdoms and even those ones are sluts for business chad when they get a chance regardless of relationship status
        > bikers
        Nobody but old hags like bikers. The only bikers anybody likes are the ones that ride crotchrockets

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        my bf is normal, I wish he was into my music and aesthetic, he doesn't let me go in fishnet in public, but otherwise he tolerates it and accompanies me to concerts just to guard me lol which is good enough i guess. he wears the gothy clothing i buy him every now and then and i find him cute when he does that cause it's unlike him but i love him so it works, it has been working for a few years

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You fucking cunt, are you seriously gonna shit-talk deftones? Die in a fire you stupid zoomer bitch.
    -32 year old who’s listened to deftones since 2001

    God you worthless fucking vapid whore. All you have is your external appearance. Die in a fucking fire

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You wouldn't be saying any of those things if she gave you a lick of attention lmao

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dude no, fuck this worthless whore. How dare this bitch categorize deftones as “soi.” So I guess we have to enjoy bdsm and Black Death metal and smoke meth to be acceptable?

        Fuck this stupid bitch and fuck every zoomer whore. You guys are such vapid and empty soulless pieces of shit. Life is more than the clothes you wear or your homosexual eyebrows. Worthless fucking dog

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You should just go back to r/LGBT where you belong lmao fucking dickless homosexual

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Kill yourself

            i've never heard of deftones but this is what you're into? this is apparently supposed to be a metal band? listen to megadeth or somethin ya fuckin queerbo

            >You should listen to muh shitty wall of sound
            Kill yourself

            Deftones is music for posers lol basically bunch of proto basedjacks thinking they're hard-core

            They’ve been around for ~25 fucking years you worthless piece of shit. Go worship ape rappers that will be gone next year.

            FUCK zoomers lmao

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I listen to 80's rock and death metal try again kiddo

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              I listen to rappers that have been around longer than that. I listen to metal that has been around longer than that. Also king crimson and yes have been around longer. Its amazing, the only thing you can say good about them is their longevity because they have baby tier song structure and the lyrics of a fat 12 year that got turned down by stacy.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Deftones were born like a mainstream product, a ugly trend that many followed in the 90's. They and most nu metal / alt metal wanted to appeal to both, metal and rap audiences. You stubborn nostalfag old nagger.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          i've never heard of deftones but this is what you're into? this is apparently supposed to be a metal band? listen to megadeth or somethin ya fuckin queerbo

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Deftones is music for posers lol basically bunch of proto basedjacks thinking they're hard-core

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              >proto basedjak
              Sir, this is an english speaking board

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you listen to Megadeth post 1990 then you are just another Deftones basedboy homosexual

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You have shit tastes in music. Deftones sucks.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Deftones are trash oldfag

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Deftones is cool. Crosses is goth.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    BRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAP
    Also OP is a massive larping homosexual.
    That is all.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on what you mean by a real weirdo. If you’re looking for someone mentally Ill try

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    If you’re looking for someone who is a Emo/alt/goth go to concerts or conventions for it.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just go to porngrind shows, dumbass.

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >how do i as a goth girl stop
    Kys yourself, unironically.

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