How did you overcome the fear of asking girls out?

How did you overcome the fear of asking girls out?

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Doing it I guess until it feels less awkward. But that’s also kind of bullshit because regular guys do it with ease. Some people were meant to die alone.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's just a matter of doing it and damn the consequences.

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    i gotta plan it before hand. if i were to try and do it out of nowhere, I’d fumble like crazy

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How did you overcome the fear of asking girls out?
    1. Realise that this fear was hurting my chances
    2. Literally just stop having it
    3. Brain eventually adapts to match the feelings I'm having it do until the feelings become natural.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You stop caring about the fear of rejection.

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    just bite the bullet and do it, it's really not that bad
    It will be easier if you practice on girls you're not REALLY into

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Most guys use this 1 simple trick: go to a club/bar and drink enough alcohol to where you dont feel any anxiety

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I tried this at a club but nobody could hear shit, guess I'll try at a bar

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >muh height
    >muh heeeeeiiiiight
    frick off already

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    By asking girls out.

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Girls like confidence.
    Men are sensitive to status because of testosterone.
    Tall men make shorter men insecure more easily.
    Ergo tall men have an easier time attracting women.

    I think an attractive, but confident short guy would win over a tall awkward person.

    You have to remember than Tom Cruise at some point was extremely hot.

    3 inches of height is not even noticable when standing eye to eye with someone. My dad is like 6' 1 and I'm 5' 7 but when I'm angry I feel like I could literally eat him. He seems short. So as long as you aren't a complete midget it kinda doesn't matter.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >My dad is like 6' 1 and I'm 5' 7 but when I'm angry I feel like I could literally eat him

      imagine being this much of a manlet.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I think an attractive, but confident short guy would win over a tall awkward person.
      lol no
      >You have to remember than Tom Cruise at some point was extremely hot.
      Famous people are attractive for women, no shit Sherlock

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >an attractive but confident short guy would win over a tall awkward person.

      If I had a nickle for every time I was rejected in all walks of life for being a manlet I would pay off my student debt with enough money to spare for height surgery (no insurance). Frick off

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 6'1" and I haven't even gotten a date in a decade

      I've given up at this point because i'm balding in my 20s

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Hows the weather up there?

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's a psyop.
    >Are there women who like taller guys?
    Sure
    >Do all of them?
    No
    Face the facts that women who are super concerned with aren't going magically date.
    You should try and find women who are concerned with other things; finding someone who'd make a good life partner

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >How did you overcome the fear of asking girls out?

    By not asking them out

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    By not giving a shit what girls say or think. If I ask a girl out I don't really care if she likes me or not. I like her and that's enough. She can say yes or she can say no. It's her life, I don't really care. I am just throwing shit at the wall to see if it sticks. That's how I approach it. I asked girls out before and sometimes I get a yes, sometimes a no. Depends on the chick. Usually I get a no. but that's how the game goes. Still, I don't care. Four nos and one yes is better than 0 nos and 0 yes.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Four nos and one yes is better than 0 nos and 0 yes

      you are wrong
      4 nos and 1 yes equals -3
      0 nos and 0 yes equals 0
      If you can't get positive, at least be even anon, not negative

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw 5'9"
    It's over

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I also prefer ginger girls with green eyes, but that didn't stop me from dating girls with blond or black hair

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      >prefer greater than 5'9"
      and I like fit girls with huge breasts
      it's not like I will never approach anyone who doesn't fit that qualification, I just have preferences

      Girls are not like us, we have preferences but often times cannot have what we want, while women can get some degree of what they want most of the time.

      Most men will never have a big titty girlfriend, but its nothing for women to get a tall boyfriend or at least frick buddy.

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Alcohol

  17. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    why would anyone be afraid of girls that doesn't make sense

  18. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >prefer greater than 5'9"
    and I like fit girls with huge breasts
    it's not like I will never approach anyone who doesn't fit that qualification, I just have preferences

  19. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28883873/#28884060

  20. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ask girls out and you will stop caring when they reject you.
    I got over it by using dating apps a lot. Experiencing ghosting, fading, being stood up, and other mean things makes me grateful for a flat rejection and it's a lot easier to brush it off. It's all a numbers game.

  21. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    As If this mystery meat goblin is to judge attractiveness

  22. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sometimes I fear that they might say yes.

  23. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    82% of statistics are made up

  24. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    About the pic related:
    F here. Sure I "prefer" a guy taller than 5'9" but my ex was probably 5'7", 3 inches taller than me, and we were together for years. Until I got sick of him saying I'm damaged for being bullied in school. So I dumped him. But it's not height that turned me on meeting him and it's not the reason we broke up. Get your priorities straight, OP.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Every day we have coping lanklet virgins posting low effort gaslighting.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Isn't lanklet nonsensical in this context? It means tall and skinny. I thought we were talking about short guys.

  25. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I got into self improvement bullshit
    Asked several girls out
    The fear of being judged for my height, which I had removed from my system thanks to self improvement, was then hammered in as no longer a fear but a truth, by all the girls who rejected me explicitely for my height. It's over.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah this is what these self improooover morons don't get. The height thing is not in OUR heads, it's in the heads of 99% of girls on this planet. If you ignore that truth you are simply being delusional

  26. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've only asked three out at 26, but 2/3 of the time I needed copious amounts of alcohol. In reality, I've gotten more over the idea of approaching women more than my fear of actually doing it

  27. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I imagine that one Pepe meme

  28. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >holy shit i'm 22 years old and i've never had sex and im not even ugly how the frick did i let that happen
    and i stopped being scared

  29. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    By not being a 15 year old.

  30. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >5' 9"
    I am 5' 8".

    Frick.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Frick im also 5'8
      Welp, time to an hero. How many inches can I gain if I hung myself off of a sky scraper? Based on the amount of extra inches my neck and spine will stretch, I plan on wearing a white shirt that reads "am I tall enough yet?" So the 6'+ paramedics can have a good laugh when they find my pathetic manlet frame

  31. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dated a woman that would win in almost every comparison against whomever it is I ask out.

    I may not be the top of the pick when it comes to dating, but I have that one ex who I remind myself if she wanted to frick me then I don't give a damn about this person's opinion.

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