Listen to metal genres, get some ink, put on some muscle, maybe get some piercings if that's your thing. Wear more black, style your hair; take on their lifestyle, basically. Go to indie bands, protests, embrace the dwindling remains of counterculture.
That being said goth/scene girls were all over me when I had the buff farmer aesthetic going on, almost always ones with daddy issues. I naturally gravitate towards counterculture despite being pretty traditional and women seemed to like that. Idk, your mileage may vary.
Try listening to popular metal songs and find what suits you best.
Start with more mainstream like Metallica and Korn and others and then drift around and see what fancies you. I'm sure Spotify has some playlists people made.
As cringe as some of it may be when I listen to metal I unironically imagine myself as like a badass warrior kicking ass to the song. And that shits bad ass to me. But of course I don't tell nobody I know that shit.
I like generic metal too like the bands you listed but also am looking to branch out. For you have a few recommendations?
1 week ago
Anonymous
If you want to get into more harsher stuff. Death metal is always a good start. Some good starter ones are some classic bands like Morbid Angel, Deicide, Death, Obituary, Bolt Thrower, and Entombed are a few to start out with.
1 week ago
Anonymous
Other genres that you can try out are doom metal. Bands like Sleep and Candlemass are pretty good.
Metalcore is also a genre you can look up. Granted some metal elitist are very anal about that genere. But some example for that are parkway drive, some of bring me the horizon's discography, all that remains, killswitch engage, upon a burning body just to name a few
1 week ago
Anonymous
Other genres that you can try out are doom metal. Bands like Sleep and Candlemass are pretty good.
Metalcore is also a genre you can look up. Granted some metal elitist are very anal about that genere. But some example for that are parkway drive, some of bring me the horizon's discography, all that remains, killswitch engage, upon a burning body just to name a few
If ya want get started and ease up to it, nothing goes wrong like thrash metal. Bands like Testament, Slayer, megadeth, overkill for example
But since your goal is to find a gf. Id suggest get into nu metal since thats making a come back. Bands like korn, slipknot, thousand foot cruch, system of a down, deftones(especially that band. Goth girls are goin crazy with that rn) rage against the machines. Those are a few examples
A man in a fearful situation who does not act is a coward.
A man in fearful situation situation with no fear is a fool.
A man in a fearful situation who acts in spite of fear is brave.
Don't let fear hold you back. Feeling affraid is normal, but don't let it control you. Once you come to terms with acting outside your comfort zone the rest falls into place.
Be nice to her, talk to her, try to stay out of friedzone and especialy do not try to larp as a goth to impress her - she will grow up from this in the moment she gains some self-confidence.
Honestly bro just read through the thread, it's pretty comprehensive.
Either live the lifestyle and dress the way they do, or satisfy the part of their brain with daddy issues. Listen to some metal, hit the gym, and be confidant.
Listen to metal genres, get some ink, put on some muscle, maybe get some piercings if that's your thing. Wear more black, style your hair; take on their lifestyle, basically. Go to indie bands, protests, embrace the dwindling remains of counterculture.
That being said goth/scene girls were all over me when I had the buff farmer aesthetic going on, almost always ones with daddy issues. I naturally gravitate towards counterculture despite being pretty traditional and women seemed to like that. Idk, your mileage may vary.
>Listen to metal genres
Can you force yourself to be into metal? Is it possible?
Understand where the artist is coming from, why they make the music they do. Often it's a way to vent sorrow or rage, which people identify with.
find metal you like and go from there. subgenres are how people get accustomed to the more specific genres
I agree with anon. There's tons of subgenres with their own unique culture and beliefs. Just pick one ya feel comfortable with and find enjoyable.
Got any idea for metal sub-genres?
Try listening to popular metal songs and find what suits you best.
Start with more mainstream like Metallica and Korn and others and then drift around and see what fancies you. I'm sure Spotify has some playlists people made.
As cringe as some of it may be when I listen to metal I unironically imagine myself as like a badass warrior kicking ass to the song. And that shits bad ass to me. But of course I don't tell nobody I know that shit.
I like generic metal too like the bands you listed but also am looking to branch out. For you have a few recommendations?
If you want to get into more harsher stuff. Death metal is always a good start. Some good starter ones are some classic bands like Morbid Angel, Deicide, Death, Obituary, Bolt Thrower, and Entombed are a few to start out with.
Other genres that you can try out are doom metal. Bands like Sleep and Candlemass are pretty good.
Metalcore is also a genre you can look up. Granted some metal elitist are very anal about that genere. But some example for that are parkway drive, some of bring me the horizon's discography, all that remains, killswitch engage, upon a burning body just to name a few
Thanks fellas
If ya want get started and ease up to it, nothing goes wrong like thrash metal. Bands like Testament, Slayer, megadeth, overkill for example
But since your goal is to find a gf. Id suggest get into nu metal since thats making a come back. Bands like korn, slipknot, thousand foot cruch, system of a down, deftones(especially that band. Goth girls are goin crazy with that rn) rage against the machines. Those are a few examples
Trap metal
Trapt metal is pretty good too. Relatively new to it though. Not a big on rap but i do listen to on occasion.
get off LULZ.
just be chad
It's not hard to be a chad, just take care of your body and don't be a pussy.
How to not be a pussy?
A man in a fearful situation who does not act is a coward.
A man in fearful situation situation with no fear is a fool.
A man in a fearful situation who acts in spite of fear is brave.
Don't let fear hold you back. Feeling affraid is normal, but don't let it control you. Once you come to terms with acting outside your comfort zone the rest falls into place.
Become an astronaut and live on the moon.
Hit on the workers at Spencers/Hot topic or something
Not op here but fuck this lmao I don't know why but I feel like if I hit on a woman who is at work that I'm actually committing a crime
Definitely do not do that
they all have "BPD" and are polyamorous. stay away.
Why are your tastes so cringeworthy?
Why would you ever want a gf like this? With millions of mental issues to boot?
You answered your own question.
Be nice to her, talk to her, try to stay out of friedzone and especialy do not try to larp as a goth to impress her - she will grow up from this in the moment she gains some self-confidence.
Bump pic related is my exact type and I need to know how to get one
Honestly bro just read through the thread, it's pretty comprehensive.
Either live the lifestyle and dress the way they do, or satisfy the part of their brain with daddy issues. Listen to some metal, hit the gym, and be confidant.
Be a country guy. I live in a rural state with plenty of each"type of guy" but those ones alwayd go for country guys for some reason.
stop trying so hard