how can I come out to my family as an HRT femboy? or should I just never say anything and hope they don't ask about changes? or should I just say something kind of autistic like "I'm taking estrogen to self-experiment with my appearance uhhh don't ask lol" (which is basically true)
I'm legitimately an HRT femboy, not a repressor or coper, and I'd feel uncomfortable if people called me a girl. I wouldn't want to just come out as trans just to simplify things or something
telling them would be the cringiest thing on this entire planet earth. just vibe and take things as they come
>telling them would be the cringiest thing on this entire planet earth.
agreed, I wince at the thought. but I need to have something to say if or when they ask about changes. including basic things like why I haven't cut my hair in a long time
no one in my family really talks about personal stuff with anyone else in the family so it makes it especially awkward
I have very strongly never wanted kids and I've felt that way starting when I was like 14. I was planning on getting a vasectomy as of a few years ago, long before I thought about any of this. I'll probably get one soon
honestly my main problem is I hate the genital effects and don't really like the sexuality effects. trying to see what I can do there
that's why this is such a difficult situation. on one hand it's very cringe to say "I'm a uh...hormone...femboy...guy...." but I also am not gonna come out as trans when I'm not trans, since I don't want anyone to call me a girl or think of me as one
I don't want anyone to call me a girl or think of me as one
>try and look like a girl
>take pills to look like a girl
>but i dont want people to look at me as a girl though
Sounds great op
Nuking your fertility seems like a pretty silly thing to do when you're not trans
He's already gay why does it matter if he losses his fertility
He's probably not gay
most people can tell its fucking retarded to take gender altering chemicals while being on denial of transing your gener
>how can I come out to my family as an HRT femboy?
You can’t.
i know but what should i do or say if they start asking questions. i have to give them something
>I have gender dysphoria physically but am fine socially being a man
If you are not dysphoric then do not troon
Just gaslight them.
>Oh I just wanna see how I look with long hair
>Hm? Pale skin? Oh I've been reading about the risks of sun damage, I've been using SPF50 whenever I go out
>My figure looks different? Oh it's probably the yoga, I'm getting really into it lately
>My chest? Oh I've gained a little weight lately, too many cheeseburgers this summer haha
>My bra? What? Haha chill out, you're imagining things. I wear undershirts sometimes tho, layers are comfy
And so on and so forth. Most people are stupid with zero force of personality. They can be manipulated through sheer blunt application of will.
she just identifies as a girl IRL
Someone said that last thread and she came out of the woodworks with her floppy titties and all to say that she is legitimately a man
Lmao I didn't even realize I was misgendering him while writing that
The downside of naturally automatically interpreting most mtfs as women is the enbies and hrt femboys getting misgendered
That anon and I were referring to your OP pic
People thought he only did the "uwu I'm just a femboy" thing for his porn like lots of other trans girls do, but it's genuine with him
oh ok. yeah it can sometimes be difficult to tell which is which
>not gay
>not dysphoric
sounds like a good idea
Chemical castration is an easy path to fun and profit for the healthy heterosexual man of sound mind. Medical transition is pretty much just a hobby you have to take pills for, and frankly it looks great for employers' ESG numbers so it looks great on a resume too.
if i had a child come out as a hrt femboy I'd just reply with "brainworms" and do nothing
i think it'd be somewhat funny
Make some burnt ass french toast apparently.
im autistic she/her hrt femboy, 2y on hrt. they didn't noticed anything
>how can I come out to my family as an HRT femboy?
dont ever come out to your family as some fetish shit like that. just pretend your trans or smething idk. or say you're nonbinary because you technically are.
t. HRT femman who wishes he was a HRT femboy
and obviously dont come out unless they confront you about the changes
dont mention the hrt (or at least soften the blow by pretending to just be on finasteride) and dont make it a big coming out event. just slowly escalate feminine presentation (if you havent yet) until the point where you happy with it.
and remember that "i felt like it" is a perfectly valid answer