How are the mommy issues, Anons

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    i didnt even realize i had them till i started going to therapy and now i find it hard not to resent her

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Had a big phase of the whole ‘owning the libs’ fad and just all around disliking women because of mine, didn’t even attribute it to her, though.

  2. 1 week ago
    jokermoding

    eh, you know. same old same old. im pretty used to it by now

  3. 1 week ago
    Rank 1 Boymoder

    she divorced my dad and took that opportunity to leave me and my sister too.
    she texts me like thrice a year saying she "still loves us" and we go out to eat for christmas but thats it

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    at their worst i fear. cant wait to move out

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    struggling to differentiate between the 'mommy issues' anons and the 'mommy fetish' anons. not sure if there is a difference tbqh

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      In my experience with people, mommy issues can lead to a mommy fetish, as can daddy issues

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        If I have a mommy fetish how do I know if its from mommy issues or not?

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          What if I have a massive massive mommy fetish but a completely normal and healthy relationship with my mom

          Correlation≠causation.
          Probably not the best phrase to describe it but it seems people with a mommy kink are more likely to have mommy issues, but there are still people with healthy parental relationships with it

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        What if I have a massive massive mommy fetish but a completely normal and healthy relationship with my mom

    • 1 week ago
      w

      neglected by my parents as a kid, now i have a mommy fetish, very sad

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    ruinous

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    they're ok i guess. i love her so much but she's so emotionally draining, i want to move out so we can have a normal relationship instead of the constant tension 🙁

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >How are the mommy issues, Anons

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Hah, nice. Gotta save that one for later

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >dad died young
    >mom treated me as the favorite growing up
    >to kind of an unfair degree, made me a little uncomfortable
    >praises me unrealistically no matter what I do
    >my brothers resented me for it when we were kids
    >she got weird and competitive with my girlfriends in my adolescence, basically tried to chase them away
    >discover I'm gay towards the end of high school
    >mom is very supportive
    >become top
    >mom dotes on my bottom bfs and loves them, opposite of how she treated my gfs when I was younger
    >in adulthood I'm the one who checks up on her most often, helps out if something's wrong
    >will probably be in charge of figuring out mom's care when she gets old
    >I can tell she's a little bit manipulative, but she's lonely and she only does it to reach out for attention and so I don't really care
    >recognize similar manipulative attention-seeking behavior in the bottoms I date
    >Love them anyway
    >Expect them to lavish me in praise and favoritism in return
    If I never go to a shrink, there's no proof that anything is wrong here. Love my mom. She's a great lady

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      Thought provoking post. How'd you brothers take the news of you fucking lads?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Not badly. I get along with both of them well now, we're a pretty close family

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      How does it feel to have been turned gay by your mom, who was (potentially still is) in an emotional incestuous relationship with you?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        'emotional incest'

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        Not really mad about it, but if I look at it objectively I feel like I probably should be and I avoid thinking about it too much

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          That's a fair take. Let's say, worst case, your life is worse now than it could have been, because of actions your mother took. That's the story of almost everyone's life: "If my parents were better i could have been different and happier." That doesn't mean you can't live a very happy, fulfilling, 8/10. Plays the cards you're dealt, you know?

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            That's more or less my thinking. I can recognize some things that are/were a bit off, but I know a ton of people with worse parents and I don't think any of it was really deliberate on her part. She got stuck raising three boys by herself when that was never the plan, and in most ways she did pretty well, we've all done ok so far.

            Idk if I can even blame my buttlust on my upbringing or not, but I have heard that the absent father/overbearing mother combo can do it

            • 1 week ago
              Anonymous

              I do relate. I think it's quite possible I'm not really gay. But here I am, married to a man who I do love for years. I get the feeling I'd have been happier with a woman, and our sex life is pretty mediocre. But when life overall is happy and comfortable, he and my family are supportive, and we really do enjoy each others company, you just shrug and say "It's not a perfect life, but it's my life."

              I'm glad to have spoken to you. I haven't met anyone else in quite this circumstance.

              • 1 week ago
                Anonymous

                Well congrats on your marriage anon. People are complicated and life is complicated, and for what it's worth I think there's often more fulfillment in just picking a path and committing to it rather than wasting too much time agonizing or overanalyzing whether it's the right choice or not. And you never know where your future will take you, either

                In my case, I did experiment sexually with women before I did anything with men. Always felt disconnected and "going through the motions" with women, whereas I very much enjoy it with guys. So whether it's nature or nurture that got me this way I feel pretty secure in my homo status. The only real drawback as far as I'm concerned is that I would like a family of my own at some point, and I'm uncertain of if or how that's gonna work out for me

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    not great, to be honest

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I admired her when I was growing up but more and more I see signs of cluster B personality disorder
    now I can't carry on any degree of a conversation with her because somehow I'm bullying her if I disagree with anything she says

  12. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    i dont know the percent of anons here with an overbearing mommy kink/fetish but if you call yourself 'mommy' in a thread they do swarm over you

  13. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I sleep on a shitty cot at my grandparents became she chose a man over her son.

  14. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I actually have more daddy issues me and my mom are chill

  15. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I try my best to love my mom but I have hangups over my growing up. She scolded me for pursuing girls in my early teens then berated me for not pursuing them later. She says I'm perfect but cannot stop criticizing me. I went from being girl crazy and addicted to porn bobs and vagene to jerking it to furries to jerking it to furry bara to jerking it to irl bara.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      (cont.) sporadically with straight porn. Occassionally, girls will spark something in my junk. Must be the "bi-phases."

  16. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    my mommy issues have gradually receded with greater insight and time away from home. most of what's written beyond this is an account of teenage years.
    displaced a lot of my anger onto her because i was afraid to express frustration with anyone who wasn't familial-ly bound to honor my existence. i still can't, but hrt has taken frustration away entirely.
    never really offered any advice or took an interest to understand my problems, so we stopped talking about anything of import. that's still the case.
    my dad died at 10, so she was going through it throughout the above. took me longer than i am willing to admit to accept that she had a much more difficult time overcoming that trauma.
    i've dumped a lot on her in the past few years. tried to just keep my misery to myself as of late.

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