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How am I handling this situation bros?

>Be me, guy who thought he struck gold with a girl he met online
>Met her playing vidya and she ended up living a mile away
>was her first boyfriend and first everything helped her get her life on track
>turned out she was a bpd psycho and saw me as the escape and solution to all of her problems and made me the center of her world
>fell apart due to her being an idiot
>feel pissed because I helped her get her life together with work/school/family/friends just to be tossed aside and forgotten
>IRL friends have told me to just say who gives a shit because she was hott and I got to bang her
>isn't enough of a cope for me and feel like she sucked me dry

The reason I'm struggling is because this happened about 7 months ago and it's still bothering me from time to time. I have a new girlfriend who's better than her in every way but the closer I get to my new girlfriend the bigger fears I have about being treated the same way as my ex. The reason it scares me is because my ex was the perfect gf until randomly she wasn't. I feel like I'm being negatively affected way after the fact and need help to rationalize a reason why I shouldn't care or think about my ex anymore.

  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > She ruined your life?
    > Who cares bro!! You got LAID!
    Can't imagine why women keep getting away with things. No sir.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >she ruined his life
      Other than him having prsd due to her turning psycho (you get 3 months before a girl shows her realside.) What in his post says she ruuned his life.

      He cant get over his first lay.
      It happens lad.
      Ive got mates who watch their ex have 30 bfs, then go eunning when shes lonely.

      Op litwrallly just needs to move the fuck on. Seems like he is the one qho is making her his world.

      >but muh winminz
      And if it was a female saying this id say man up princess and jog on too.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What is happening with this board? Do robots even exist anymore?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I do but we're in the minority.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No, this board isn't even for failed normies at this point, it's just a place where normalfags come to cry and gather sympathy
      It's ridiculous

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have you ever considered that reality, especially dating, as an average normal fag is so shit that there are just a lot more outcasts now? Also, you can be robot/hikki/autist without being incel. Equally you can be incel and totally "normal"

        >t. Chad robot

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        OP
        That's the thing I am with my current GF and she doesn't have a single red flag she's truly just a nice girl who wants a future with me. The only complaint I have is she can be overly quiet sometimes but other than that we click on every level.

        My issue is I'm suffering from mental trauma over my shitty ex and it sometimes bleeds into my current relationship. I'm trying to find a better way to cope with it because the
        >at least she was hot bro and you banger that
        Cope my friends offer doesn't work for me in the slightest.

        Cope with learning your lessons. You know what to look for now. You grew as a person through the failures and tribulations she brought you through.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Chad robot
          Yeah, you're a fucking retard go have a nice day

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cant argue that Im a retard. The whole point was to show that this is in no way correlated to having sex. Thx for your help

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Chad robot
          What

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Robots have girlfriends. Deal with it incel.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I do but we're in the minority.

      i'm still here. we're being drowned out at this point

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you have got to find something that fulfills you
    try getting a job I guess

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How am I handling this situation bros?
    Not necessarily in a healthy way. But your concerns and responses aren't abnormal by any stretch of the word.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Also, you've been initiated into the real world of dating. Congrats. Now that you know it's possible for history to occur, you should probably start learning from that experience and build a system of red flag recognition.

    You clearly didn't do that with your current fuckhole, else you wouldn't be paranoid.

    Obligatory "fuck off normie, nobody cares"

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

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      OP
      That's the thing I am with my current GF and she doesn't have a single red flag she's truly just a nice girl who wants a future with me. The only complaint I have is she can be overly quiet sometimes but other than that we click on every level.

      My issue is I'm suffering from mental trauma over my shitty ex and it sometimes bleeds into my current relationship. I'm trying to find a better way to cope with it because the
      >at least she was hot bro and you banger that
      Cope my friends offer doesn't work for me in the slightest.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Then I'd say you have some questions you need answered and you need to reflect on what exactly went wrong.

        You're probably feeling insecure because you thought you had things under control and you didn't. It's probably eating at you knowing she slipped through your radar and infiltrated the sanctity or your mind and life.

        You're uncomfortably aware of what psychopathy can do and that it looks a lot like normality. This is a defense mechanism you e created for protection. You'll need to discuss it with your gf if you don't want this to ruin the relationship.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

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          OP

          You're 100% correct, she scared the shit out of me because she totally fooled me and did a complete 180 before I could even realize. I plan on talking to my gf later about this and explaining that she's not doing anything wrong and it's something I need to get through. I've always had the motto of not letting my past dictate my future negatively and I need to live up to that doubly with this girl

          Have you ever considered that reality, especially dating, as an average normal fag is so shit that there are just a lot more outcasts now? Also, you can be robot/hikki/autist without being incel. Equally you can be incel and totally "normal"

          >t. Chad robot

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          Cope with learning your lessons. You know what to look for now. You grew as a person through the failures and tribulations she brought you through.

          Yeah in reality what she did to me was a blessing in disguise. She taught me many things to look out for and to also take things slow. I guess at the end of the day she was never going to be what she promised she was going to be and I should be thankful she didn't stick around longer to fuck with me further or end up pregnant or some shit.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Have you ever considered that reality, especially dating, as an average normal fag is so shit that there are just a lot more outcasts now? Also, you can be robot/hikki/autist without being incel. Equally you can be incel and totally "normal"

        >t. Chad robot

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        Cope with learning your lessons. You know what to look for now. You grew as a person through the failures and tribulations she brought you through.

        if you can have sex you are normal. it is the ultimate standard for normal in fact. a man with a bunch of problems is normal compared to a virgin. fuck off normies

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Just to illustrate how retarded that sentiment is.
          >Two people from my HS graduation class, one of them me,
          >who is more normal?

          >athlete, playing soccer
          >in lots of clubs (fireman/paramedic)
          >partying every weekend
          >volunteers
          >school representative
          >friends with everyone
          >virgin
          >clean as fuck record

          >resident schizo
          >some homosexual or another complaining and trying to get me suspended once a month
          >diagnosed psychopathy
          >insomnia
          >not quite alcoholic, but leisure drinking
          >got myself an adhd diagnosis for adderal to function
          >no friends, talks to no one
          >pale as fuck
          >mid 20s bodycount

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          OP

          You're 100% correct, she scared the shit out of me because she totally fooled me and did a complete 180 before I could even realize. I plan on talking to my gf later about this and explaining that she's not doing anything wrong and it's something I need to get through. I've always had the motto of not letting my past dictate my future negatively and I need to live up to that doubly with this girl
          [...]
          Yeah in reality what she did to me was a blessing in disguise. She taught me many things to look out for and to also take things slow. I guess at the end of the day she was never going to be what she promised she was going to be and I should be thankful she didn't stick around longer to fuck with me further or end up pregnant or some shit.

          Just take what she gave you, cherish some of thr nostalgic moments you might have and then move on as a bigger person.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            these are excuses from someone who wants to feel special and not normal. you are not special. even if it was one time, you did something 99+% of people do in their lifetimes. go away normie.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Why do incels put this overemphasis on sex? By eating you also do something all of humanity does. Whew guess you are a normie now.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Everyone eats. Not everyone gets to have sex. As to answer your question, that's what the whole point of being incel is omg it literally stands for involuntary celibate. Get it through your goddamn head.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not everyone gets to eat either. You still hacent explained why sex is the cornerstone of your identity? Why is it far more important than any other factors?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >>By eating you also do something all of humanity does
                >>Not everyone gets to eat either
                Which one is it anon?
                >>Why sex is the cornerstone of your identity? Why is it far more important than any other factors?
                Anyways, the answer is yes, it's far more important than anything when you get deprived of that one thing that means a lot to you, sex with someone you love and who loves you back. You will understand when you lack something that others acquire effortlessly.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >why?
                >the answer is yes
                Could it be that your inceldom is rooted in your lack of text comprehension?

                >Chad robot
                What

                I fulfill most criteria for robots while getting laid easily. Point of this whole retarded discussion was that having sex doesnt determine whether or not you are abnormal.

                Both are normal af, self-victimising attention whoring retard

                >self victimysing
                Not victimising anyone, im content with life. Though sex is a big part of why I am, gotta admit that.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

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                Maybe you should consider doing some reading exercises.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Both are normal af, self-victimising attention whoring retard

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    Lmao hows it going Satou

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    Never trust women this was your first mistake

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is that a real filter? Instagram?

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll help you OP
    >plan date with your gf
    >go do some fun stuff, give her a nice day, treat her to some yummy food
    >tell her you need to say something important
    >"I am a retard who is still obsessed with my ex and I don't deserve you, so we'll have to break up. Sorry for wasting your time".
    >go home
    Bonus!
    >kill self
    I have no sympathy for narcissistic retards like you. If your ex is so special, go obsess about her alone without involving an innocent person in it. BPD bitches smell types like you from miles away and that's why you got dabbed on. Loser.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Chad robot
      Yeah, you're a fucking retard go have a nice day

      t. Very angry samefag

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

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        Nope, schizo-kun.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Don't lie to me inspect elementcel

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>Be me
    Lmao no. I'm not gonna be (You) normie retard. Go cry about your problems on plebbit.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    bro you got to fuck and shit im a trans girl just bc im trans no one will ever like me, imagine being trans, if u were trans like meyou wouldnt have gotten that gf in the first place, you guys always make fun of us without thinking of our perspective, imagine how it must feel to be closed from the world of this or that just because you were born some way, not to be the one saying like "I HAVE IT WORSE I HAVE IT WORSE" but I really do have it worse, you will never be in a relationship with a trans girl so im missing out on you when I could be a better gf, but im a tranny so you will never want me and im a piece of shit to everyone, come on, that isnt as bad as being born in a way no one will ever want me, if she was trans you wouldve been "ew a tranny" and nothing wouldve happened, I am dying a virgin for being a disgusting tranny and I deserve it because I am a piece of shit and I ruin society and I deserve to die and shit come on

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Imagine just not taking HRT, accepting your biology and moving on.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you literally could just not be trans, your ego is out of control, you are preoccupied with your physical appearance, and you're anima possessed

      I have zero sympathy for people who make hard mode harder, unless its actually for a based reason.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        what, you cant not just stop being trans, then you why dont you stop being straight and become gay and get a boyfriend if its easier what the fuck are you talking about and my ego is down af I think of killing myself everyday eeueueuweeeeuuhhhhh fucking have a nice day no one cares garden gnomeiofjdojdoivjivrefh

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >can't not

          Can't tell if freudian slip or you're baiting. If you say the phrase "my ego is down af" I assure you, you are still existing primarily in the ego-self. If you make actual self-realization you'll realize this flesh you carry around is a transient thing and grasping at abstractions that stem from projected images of that transient vessel are even more illusory than the vessel itself.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >can't not

          Can't tell if freudian slip or you're baiting. If you say the phrase "my ego is down af" I assure you, you are still existing primarily in the ego-self. If you make actual self-realization you'll realize this flesh you carry around is a transient thing and grasping at abstractions that stem from projected images of that transient vessel are even more illusory than the vessel itself.

          And because my ultimate intent here is to be an object of experience and help you in realization I'll add that negative perceptions of your existence are just as attached as positive ones. Depression is inherently narcissistic and egoic.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >can't not

          Can't tell if freudian slip or you're baiting. If you say the phrase "my ego is down af" I assure you, you are still existing primarily in the ego-self. If you make actual self-realization you'll realize this flesh you carry around is a transient thing and grasping at abstractions that stem from projected images of that transient vessel are even more illusory than the vessel itself.

          [...]
          And because my ultimate intent here is to be an object of experience and help you in realization I'll add that negative perceptions of your existence are just as attached as positive ones. Depression is inherently narcissistic and egoic.

          Killing yourself is as much a desire and an attachment as anything else, you're just attached to the end of your suffering.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >im a trans girl
      I literally figured this before reading your post solely because of the reaction pic + filename

      very troon e-physiognomy

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>isn't enough of a cope for me and feel like she sucked me dry
    your dick, right? 😀
    >_>
    right? 😐

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    100,000/10 body.
    Literally perfect.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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    You have to go back now homosexual

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