Here is a great protip on emotional availability (none of you will ever use):
>make up an embarrassing event in your past that could leave you scarred, but it didn't happen
>tell it to your girlfriend
>wait until the first bigger conflict after that
>wait until conflict stops and both of you aren't emotional
>bring up that embarrassing event she used against you was a lie
>emotional availability solved
>he is stable
lost here
I don't like lying and being deceptive though. I wouldn't be able to bring myself to do it. Not for to gain the benefit of them misjudging you anyways. If she regularly did this to you I could do it just to laugh at her I suppose
>I don't like lying and being deceptive though
Relationships are built on lies and deception. Make-up is lying and deception. Both parties withholding bad parts of their personalities at the start of relationship is lying and deception. Go and be honest with a woman from the start. It will always go nowhere.
Well I mean what is the point in building trust and relations with a bunch of lies? Its not going to last. I would rather cut all the bullshit and be honest and if it goes no where then it is for the best. I realize most women will not be honest and it will be a one way street in that regard but I trust my own judgment. I am usually good at judging people
You are talking about what you want to be true and not about what is true. The truth is that if a woman is presented with an honest 7/10 guy and a 5/10 guy who lies about shit she will pick 5/10 even if they both like to wear dresses in their spare time. It is just that 5/10 guy didn't say that on the first date. Also I am sad to see naive guys like you. Women have a much more grounded view of romance. They all wear makeup to get an edge even when it is a lie. It shows they know that in reality love is more like war than it is love. Yes they are fucked up in the head but that is how it is right now.
I just don't care about what a woman thinks over my own morality. I am not going to become someone I despise because it will work on women. I am who I am and if it means I will remain a virgin for the rest of my life then that's the way it is. I know what is true. Lying works. I am just very prudent and honestly I wouldn't put up with a lying manipulative woman. Besides, its just a waste of time lying because eventually you will come to know eachother and come to realize you have wasted years with this person. Bullshit can get you anywhere but it won't keep you there
Tell me are a virgin with no experience in an actual relationship with an XX woman without using those words
>Relationships are built on lies and deception
Thanks!
Do you ask women to not wear makeup on their dates with you because you value honesty?
>Apples, meet oranges
No because I am over the age of 14 and know that makeup is fashion, like earrings or a low-cut blouse.
When was the last time you spoke to a woman you ren't related to, kid?
No but seriously. Have you ever watched any nature documentary about animals mating? If you did are you going to tell me that humans are different and aren't trying to deceive each other from the start to appear more attractive than they are?
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Since you think nature documentaries about boobies mean birds tell lies and wear makeup I assume you haven't spoken to a woman other than your mommy
Since you are either obtuse or an actual retard who doesn't grasp the point I assume you are probably a larping baiter. If you are an actual retard though keep being a retard.
>I watch documentaries about animals so I know how to lie to women
is pretty fucking retarded, retard.
Also - when was the last time you talked to a woman not related to you?
>I watch documentaries about animals so I know how to lie to women is pretty fucking retarded, retard.
It is. Because that is not the point. And thus you have proven yourself to be the retard here and will get no more (you)'s for your baiting.
>I mentioned documentaries because they aren't relevant
kek
The question
>is HE X?
Point four
>how do YOU *feel*?
point six
>how do YOU *feel*?
Typical woman bullshit. The the woman *feels* a certain way that means the man has a particular attitude.
Yeah the points in the image don't really have much to do with emotional availability. Just the man's ability to listen to the woman and her problems. He is more like a place to vent than emotionally available at that point.
>emotional availability
Who the fuck cares?
Bitches keep running after those "emotionally unavailable " fuck boys anyway.
>is he 6'3 Chad with an 8 inch cock?
Why can't women just be honest
>the ick
The professionals calls this splitting. Some women (and some men) idealise partners and the second they do something disagreable, they find them disgusting, vile, reprehensible. In other words, throwing the baby out with the bath water. They do this with friends as well and if you ask them, none of them have had a stable friendship lasting more than 2 years and nearly all their 'friends' are aquantainces and work colleagues. This is not a common mindset, but alot more common with people who have (which the author admitted to her self) attachment issues and/or personality disorders.
In other words, you're dodging a huge bullet having these people dump you. These are battered woman syndromes in the making, they want someone who treats them like trash because that is the only love language they'll know. Sad shit.
My sister is like this. Is there anything I can do to help her?
unironically therapy
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i don't understand how your greentext is related to emotional availability
If you would do that then you would demonstrate it to the woman why you aren't emotionally available, keep things to yourself and you are 100% justified in doing so, as she has proven by bringing up a fake story you made up to hurt you.
Or you could be honest and simply break up with her when she reveals herself unworthy of your vvulnerability.
Realistically how many women would not do that vs how many would?
I don't know, but any who would are not worth staying with. Being single would be preferable.
Emotional availability is the biggest meme on Earth and is basically a trap invented by women to filter out undesirable men. Women actually fucking hate emotional availability in men, it is a turnoff, they love men who are driven and independent who they can ride the coattails of, they do not want a sensitive man who is remotely interested or affected by womens' retarded emotional swings. You need to be emotionally distant, you need to be the exact opposite of what these dumb cunts pretend they want.