Not knowingly, I didn't even know myself. We were just kids at the time basically. After it happened though it broke her heart and she lost interest in me as a friend as well
yeah??? Friends are inherently transient relationships. People often say that they're gonna be best friends forever, but in reality they're friends for at most that specific period of their lives. After that period passes friends end up becoming "friends" that aren't really friends anymore. You'll maybe meet up like once a year or some shit, but it's not real.
hmmm yeah i see what you mean. i have a bunch of friends who i dont speak to for long periods of time. i guess you couldnt really call it a friendship. though if they ever reached out to talk i would want to. also i would hope they would reach out if they need something. that might not be a friendship but it has to be worth something.
you know i made this thread because i felt like i lost someone recently but i really have nothing to complain about. even if they dont like me anymore they are still out there perfectly healthy living their life. i am sorry that happened to your cat.
he told me i was the closest hes ever been with another person, and because i have bad person disorder i panicked and ghosted him. havent seen him in like a year. he still texts me memes and letters and things every few weeks
oh haha i also have bussy penetrating disorder. yeah that is why it went south for me too but i have a feeling i will be the one sending memes here and there until i get blocked. sometimes it is really hard to know whether you are overreacting or if you are getting yourself totally screwed over. i ended up just in a state of superposition. at least you have the opportunity to message back if you ever feel like it.
i lost him a few days ago
i wasnt even a friend to him, i was just a subject of ridicule for a few months
man i was so ready to be his bff too, i guess he got too tired of my fren shenanigans he was leading me on
i think i'm never gonna find someone like him ever again, i don't want to either
he's probably living his best life feeling soo good while i'm in the shitters, but that's my fault for being so selfish of wanting him again and again
i'm grateful for all he gave me tho, he made me find my real self again even if it was all a larp
It happened within the past few weeks. The guy was a great storyteller and so humble for such a long time, but somewhere down the line he got surrounded with yes-men and became a total horse's ass and seemed to hate me whether I was doing badly or well. I knew this guy for six years and we were very close so I'm still getting over losing him as a friend. I'd never experienced anything like that in my adult life.
I think the one that haunts me the most was my friend named "Reuben"
He was a black kid, nerdy, artistic but outgoing.
Being a bit nerdy and artistic white kid myself we naturally gravitated and we made comics together. He was an artist, I was a writer.
If we weren't working on projects he'd often come to me for writing tips.
I loved our relationship and us mutually sharing our creative works.
However, of the course of months to a year I saw him start selling sugar pills as drugs, he'd come to school and showed off his money to brag, then after a local gang got scammed by him and found out they pressed him to join them and slowly but surely my friend became a gang-banging black. He abandoned all his previous passions/interests started talking like them and seemed to be only interested in sex, drugs and money now.
I lament the death of my friend and the birth of this fucking loser.
I hope he's okay and got himself on the right track now.
It depresses me thinking about it.
idfk, he just stoped talking to me a month ago
maybe he got better friends than me, maybe he just realized how stupid i was, i dont really know
he was my best friend for five years
and the last friend i have left began to abandon me these weeks
idk what to do now
That's sad anon.
What do you usually talk about with friends and what are your hobbies/interests
artistic videogames and music
im pretty autistic when im talking about my hobbies, i've seen how people who wanted to know me just stopped talking to me when i tell them about these hobbies
>they are, ais are pretty scary
its just an algorithm that predicts the next word in a sentence basically. theres no thought going into it at all. people who used the old eliza bot felt like it could think too, its just a trick your mind plays on you.
>they are, ais are pretty scary
It's very difficult to prove consciousness in machines. See the Chinese room argument for example
Anyway if you want a temp friend to talk to during these times you can add me: anony555
(I'm gonna sleep now but I'll accept your request tomorrow)
Halfway through highschool I got kicked out and had to go to a different one and one of the guys in my friend group explicitly texted me "you know we're not going to talk to you anymore right" and I completely lost contact with that friend group
Austin if you're reading this, eat cock jk I don't care it was kinda funny and I appreciate the straightforwardnessbut you'll always be '5"6 LOL
Plenty. Of the people who I was friends with in High School, I only talk to one still. Of the people I met in college, I also only talk to one. The friends I've managed to keep the longest are the ones I've met online and have never met in person.
I still feel a deep void caused by the loss of a friendship over 11 years ago. I fully comprehend my role in its demise and have actively pursued therapy to grow and learn from my mistakes. Recollections of strolling through our neighborhood and visiting the nearby park with them flood my mind. Their jovial nature and infectious laughter are sorely missed. Witnessing their enthusiasm while indulging in their hobbies brought me immense joy. Observing them play video games and passionately discuss them was a delight. However, I hesitate to reach out due to the complicated ending and the extensive duration that has transpired. It is essential for me to acknowledge that it is not their responsibility to offer closure or rekindle our friendship. I did extend my apologies to the other individual involved.
yeah, a long time ago
i'm not getting too deep into the details of it, but she worried me sick, way more often than i'd like
i was at a point where i had panic attacks over her, and it was doing my mental and physical health a lot of harm
so i made the hard choice and left her behind, we tried connecting again twice later but failed both times
i still miss her, she was my first true friend and i loved her like a little sister too
i just hope she's doing okay by now
your bijou plush has a little poopy stain on its eye 🙂
I lost my best friend because I got in a relationship with her mom
was it worth? original originally?
I think not because I didn't learn until later she had feelings for me, and it could have been her and me together rather than her mom
ahhh you know that is a fair mistake. was her mother married or single? i feel like its not aaaas bad if she were single.
Single, I wouldn't have had the balls if she were married
so her own mother essentially cucked her? lmao
Not knowingly, I didn't even know myself. We were just kids at the time basically. After it happened though it broke her heart and she lost interest in me as a friend as well
yeah??? Friends are inherently transient relationships. People often say that they're gonna be best friends forever, but in reality they're friends for at most that specific period of their lives. After that period passes friends end up becoming "friends" that aren't really friends anymore. You'll maybe meet up like once a year or some shit, but it's not real.
hmmm yeah i see what you mean. i have a bunch of friends who i dont speak to for long periods of time. i guess you couldnt really call it a friendship. though if they ever reached out to talk i would want to. also i would hope they would reach out if they need something. that might not be a friendship but it has to be worth something.
My only friend was the neighborhood stray cat called Smudge but some of the kids around got him on Halloween and buried him alive :/
you know i made this thread because i felt like i lost someone recently but i really have nothing to complain about. even if they dont like me anymore they are still out there perfectly healthy living their life. i am sorry that happened to your cat.
he told me i was the closest hes ever been with another person, and because i have bad person disorder i panicked and ghosted him. havent seen him in like a year. he still texts me memes and letters and things every few weeks
oh haha i also have bussy penetrating disorder. yeah that is why it went south for me too but i have a feeling i will be the one sending memes here and there until i get blocked. sometimes it is really hard to know whether you are overreacting or if you are getting yourself totally screwed over. i ended up just in a state of superposition. at least you have the opportunity to message back if you ever feel like it.
i have lost many. sometimes i daydream of them coming back, but they never do. i miss them but sometimes its just better to let go, it hurts........
i lost him a few days ago
i wasnt even a friend to him, i was just a subject of ridicule for a few months
man i was so ready to be his bff too, i guess he got too tired of my fren shenanigans he was leading me on
i think i'm never gonna find someone like him ever again, i don't want to either
he's probably living his best life feeling soo good while i'm in the shitters, but that's my fault for being so selfish of wanting him again and again
i'm grateful for all he gave me tho, he made me find my real self again even if it was all a larp
It happened within the past few weeks. The guy was a great storyteller and so humble for such a long time, but somewhere down the line he got surrounded with yes-men and became a total horse's ass and seemed to hate me whether I was doing badly or well. I knew this guy for six years and we were very close so I'm still getting over losing him as a friend. I'd never experienced anything like that in my adult life.
make fun of her mental problems and acted weird in front of a guy she liked
it wasnt jealousy, im just retarded
I think I am slowly drifting away from mine due to subconsciously pushing her away.
awww why do you think that is?
I have lost every single friend. Most times, it's pretty anticlimactic.
this unironically but this last one hurt the most because i truly didn't expect it
i lost all my friends cause im a depressive weirdo
now im even more depressive and my entire personality is gone
I'm mentally unstable and always ruin everything
I think the one that haunts me the most was my friend named "Reuben"
He was a black kid, nerdy, artistic but outgoing.
Being a bit nerdy and artistic white kid myself we naturally gravitated and we made comics together. He was an artist, I was a writer.
If we weren't working on projects he'd often come to me for writing tips.
I loved our relationship and us mutually sharing our creative works.
However, of the course of months to a year I saw him start selling sugar pills as drugs, he'd come to school and showed off his money to brag, then after a local gang got scammed by him and found out they pressed him to join them and slowly but surely my friend became a gang-banging black. He abandoned all his previous passions/interests started talking like them and seemed to be only interested in sex, drugs and money now.
I lament the death of my friend and the birth of this fucking loser.
I hope he's okay and got himself on the right track now.
It depresses me thinking about it.
idfk, he just stoped talking to me a month ago
maybe he got better friends than me, maybe he just realized how stupid i was, i dont really know
he was my best friend for five years
and the last friend i have left began to abandon me these weeks
idk what to do now
make a new friend from spare parts in your garage. humans lie and leave, robots are forever.
i have social anxiety even talking to AIs
why? modern ais aren't capable of thinking.
they are, ais are pretty scary
artistic videogames and music
im pretty autistic when im talking about my hobbies, i've seen how people who wanted to know me just stopped talking to me when i tell them about these hobbies
>they are, ais are pretty scary
its just an algorithm that predicts the next word in a sentence basically. theres no thought going into it at all. people who used the old eliza bot felt like it could think too, its just a trick your mind plays on you.
>they are, ais are pretty scary
It's very difficult to prove consciousness in machines. See the Chinese room argument for example
Anyway if you want a temp friend to talk to during these times you can add me: anony555
(I'm gonna sleep now but I'll accept your request tomorrow)
That's sad anon.
What do you usually talk about with friends and what are your hobbies/interests
1st friend: left abruptly to go to Texas
2nd friend: he left the Church to join a tranny throple
I don't have that many friends anymore
Ew wtf. That's weird
I started taking my anti-psychotic medication, and began working out very regularly.
I lost all of my friends.
Halfway through highschool I got kicked out and had to go to a different one and one of the guys in my friend group explicitly texted me "you know we're not going to talk to you anymore right" and I completely lost contact with that friend group
Austin if you're reading this, eat cock
jk I don't care it was kinda funny and I appreciate the straightforwardnessbut you'll always be '5"6 LOL
Plenty. Of the people who I was friends with in High School, I only talk to one still. Of the people I met in college, I also only talk to one. The friends I've managed to keep the longest are the ones I've met online and have never met in person.
I still feel a deep void caused by the loss of a friendship over 11 years ago. I fully comprehend my role in its demise and have actively pursued therapy to grow and learn from my mistakes. Recollections of strolling through our neighborhood and visiting the nearby park with them flood my mind. Their jovial nature and infectious laughter are sorely missed. Witnessing their enthusiasm while indulging in their hobbies brought me immense joy. Observing them play video games and passionately discuss them was a delight. However, I hesitate to reach out due to the complicated ending and the extensive duration that has transpired. It is essential for me to acknowledge that it is not their responsibility to offer closure or rekindle our friendship. I did extend my apologies to the other individual involved.
yeah, a long time ago
i'm not getting too deep into the details of it, but she worried me sick, way more often than i'd like
i was at a point where i had panic attacks over her, and it was doing my mental and physical health a lot of harm
so i made the hard choice and left her behind, we tried connecting again twice later but failed both times
i still miss her, she was my first true friend and i loved her like a little sister too
i just hope she's doing okay by now