What were they? Premature ejaculation, erictile dysfunction, or something else? Did you manage to beat them? If so, how? Please don't answer if the problems were related to HRT. That's a whole different can of worms and if you want to tall about it it would deserve its own thread.
got small dick'itius. 3.9 inch size
cute.
presonally i've had ED. i took viagra and it still wasn't good enough. i was jus too nervous. i'd thrust a few times and my dick would start to crumple it was like i was bashing the dudes asshole with a cardboard tube. i'm gonna try cialis.
I'm uncircumcised and have had issues for years with getting erect enough to use condoms without my foreskin interfering (because I need to be like 100% hard for the foreskin to stay trapped below the head, even 90% hard isn't enough and will cause issues of the foreskin unrolling and getting in the way).
I couldn’t get hard when I was trying to lose my v card with a chick. Turns out I like dick
As a small child I had a pretty intense hypspadias
The opening on my dick was at the wrong spot and made peeing without making a mess pretty hard
At some point I ended up peeing blood
And then I couldnt pee anymore
I was at age 7, some sort of obtrusion clogged my already fucked up urethra.
They had to cut my dick open and reseal it. After that I never had problems peeing again. But also my dick stayed stuck at the same size it was at 7 my entire life. It cannot be used to penetrate, and the nerves are fucked up so it feels weird in general.
This alone I attribute to me wanting to troon out later in life. The words 'biologically male' meant nothing to me when I can only ever be penetrated and not penetrste. I am attracted to men but genuinely wonder if that developed because I am physically unable to have sexual pleasure any other way.
I guess some type of erectile dysfunction. I've lost my sex drive months after starting an office job. I'm so exhausted all the time I can't even fap anymore.
Damn anon, sucks to hear that. Are you at least happy being a bottom? I think "what could've been" doesn't matter too much as long as you're happy with who you are now.
>Are you at least happy being a bottom?
It made my teenage years and early adult years pretty miserable and confused as I learned to cope and understand how to process tbings
But now as a 4 year hrt transwoman Im in a longterm relationship with a great sex life so I really dont have to think about or be bothered by my early childhood genital mutilation anymore. Still wish it hasnt happened and had a lot of pain, but Im in a happy place now mostly
Sounds like a fairly good outcome all things considered. I'm happy for you
I'm a non dysphoric 19yo whos a virgin and acquired a bunch of fetishes due to penis problem and honestly this sounds like such a good ending it makes me consider transition
Cant reall guarantee youll have the dame success. I at least developed dysphoria at some point. Having the nerves in my dick fucked up ended up making me desperately want a vagina.
Yea i guess things ended up ideal. Maybe. I count my blessings.
Ngl id rather end up like Natalie Mars than lil dickie
Other hypodpadias sufferers: lil dicky, natalie Mars
You could've been a israeli joke rapper anon
It existed. Got it snipped.
I had eczema all over my penis, made sex impossible
Its gone for now but I still have eczema on my body
Eczema on your dick? That sounds horrible.
I have phimosis, but srs will fix that in a few years
Years of HRT did nothing but then I got put on antipsychotics and it gave me ED and basically killed my sex drive :/ I can still cum but it's not the same
I feel some sympathy for old men now lol
I have a big dick and easily get hard and stay hard during sex but I have problem cumming.
I can last for an hour or more during a blowjob and "get milked" without letting out anything but precum but if I don't jerk it myself or thrust with the intention of cumming I just won't cum. Maybe it's a death grip from years of masturbating by hand alone or just some learned thing that I need to try to cum but that's just how it is.
it has caused me minor issues during sex because my partners feel inadequate since they can't make me cum
i got similar issues because im on anti depressants if you are not then just try to stop masturbating so often or take a break a few days before sex if thats possible also try to ease up on the deathgrip you will get more sensitive whit time
Molested 4 times as a kid and now I fantasize and obsess over sex all day, but when the moment comes to do it I'm excited for the first minute of taking off clothes and then a black cloud whooshes over me and I go tense as a board and go soft. And then my female/trans partner bashes me and never talks to me again
christ man i'm sorry. i wasn't molested but i can sort of relate. my mom for some reason wanted me to have the most complete sexual education possible so that i can't even remember a time when i didn't know nearly all there is to know about sex. i didn't just know where babies come from i knew that sex was the most pleasurable sensation out there and that it was ususally done for fun rather than reprodiction. i was obsessed with sex. some of my earliest memories were sexual fantasies. she also told me that most american men wmare circumcised and this terrfied me. i couldn't stand knowing that ihad an abnormal penis and i imagined that one day i'd finally be about to have sex and at the very last minute my partner would see my foreskin and change their mind. at five i told my mom i wanted to be circumcised. biggest mistake and the worst pain of my life. i can't even feel pain past a certain point anymore. stuff like a papercut hurts but things like broken bones feel like nothing at all. i have erectile dysfunction and that same feeling of a black cloud you described when i get naked too, now.
The first (and only) time I put my dick in a real human I basically felt nothing and could not cum at all. Hoping that resolves itself if I ever end up in another relationship
hypersexuality can be common among survivors of SA. Get help anon, you can make it through
My dick barely fits on my hand to jerk off.
i was so uncomfortable touching or using my dick in any way other than peeing for my entire childhood and i was never taught how to properly clean it so one day when i was like 12 I pulled back the foreskin for the first time to find hardened smegma that was sore as hell. took me a while to clean it all off. and yeah it resulted in phimosis. Looking back I was kinda neglected in some ways and had to figure shit out on my own a lot. also my aversion to touching or inspecting my dick was due to GD.
>phimosis
sorry i got mixed up. i meant to say it resulted in penile papules.
Took me all the way until 16 or 17 to finally retract
Not even trans, it was just naturally tight and I managed to stroke without needing to pull back so I just thought that's how uncut dicks were until reading about it on LULZ. Painfully peeling back the first time when you never even knew your dick did that is a weird fucking experience
I'm glad my European dad kept me whole but damn he could've saved me from the American un-education lol
PS I'm pretty sure the papules are a genetic thing and not related to anything like that, I don't have them
>Premature Ejaculation
I think I have that, but I have sex with prostitutes so does it really matter? I have never been in a relationship so no pressure there, I have semi regular sex with a crossdresser every other month and have been doing so for a few years now, we always go for another round after I hold out for a minute.
Anorgasmia due to ssris and benzos
Would take almost two hours to make myself cum and for like a quarter of the pleasure, a lot of times having to give up. They tried switching my scrips and doses to help but it stayed the same. Eventually returned to normal a few months after tapering off everything, a decision mostly driven by nuked sexual pleasure
Also I have a short and thick frenulum which restricts the motion of my foreskin to half-retraction while hard (a bit different from phimosis but same type of deal)
Anyway if I jerk off more than once a day I'll get a friction burn on the top of my foreskin. Applying lotion afterwards helps it from getting worse but pretty often it cracks and burns. I'm happier living with it then trying to get cut because I blast insane giga-nuts with full body shakes and uncontrollable moaning, and I don't want to take a chance neutralizing that with circumcision
I want to hear more about penises
I’ve never heard of anyone else having this issue but after I’ve ejaculated there’s about a 20 minute period where trace amounts of leftover cum will just sort of slowly seeping out of my dick over time. I can get some of it out quickly if I press down on the underside and push it out like a gogurt but there’s always a little bit. It’s extremely uncomfortable because if I’m wearing clothes it leaves a tiny sticky spot and if I’m naked I have to wipe it off or else it will dry out and close the hole
I suspect that it’s probably due to a slight defect my penis has where just before the opening there’s a weird fusing in the urethra that makes it look like there’s two holes. Hell for the longest time I thought sperm came out of the top hole while piss went out the bottom
Sounds like very mild hypospadias, maybe it's because of that
But it also could be weak pelvic floor or prostate issues
Idk if you're trans but I've heard trans girls talking about this happening
Either way you could look up male kegels and see if it helps over time
I’m a cis man. I don’t think it’s hypospadias because it look like the hole is generally in the correct spot. I know it’s not a prostate issue too at the very least. I’ll look into that though, thanks
phimosis, its alright cause im a bottom. i cant touch the head and i dont need to tbh, it looks clean?
phimo-cock bottoms are the cutest, it's true
It's just a sleek feminine aesthetic
go to the fucking doctor you weirdo
don't let them convince you to be curcumcised. especially if you're an american it gets overperscribed. there are stereroid creams, stretches, and even a partial circumcision that makes a small slit in the top of the foreskin.
It's never had any contact with its opposite number. But that's because of a HQ problem.
I got a pimple on my dick once, hurt like hell for about a day then it just kind of went away
This reminds me of when my Fordyce spots showed up around puberty (as they do) and I was absolutely mortified that I somehow got a contactless std and was forever tainted
Nah, some genetics are just funky and make your genital skin pores grow into little bumps. Real shit hand there
>pic
Why did I laugh