>go to the gym to keep up a LULZ physique
>study for my degree every day to get a good job one day
>work part-time on the weekend to not graduate broke
>meanwhile all the cute girls are getting fucked by the tall handsome dudes who were just born to attract girls
>mfw one day I have to marry a girl like this who, by the time she is 25 years old, has had sex thousands of times with 10+ different men, never going a week without it
>meanwhile I am a kissless virgin at 23
How do I even keep going at this point? Every relationship I am going to enter will be loveless and intimacyless because the girl is sexually burnt out from her hoe phase.
1. not all girls are like that
2. yeah you have to work for it unlike the chads, but whats the alternative? not working for it, and getting absolutely nothing. I did the latter and although my life is easy, it is not fulfilling in the least, and I will die with no accomplishments or family.
>I will die with no accomplishments or family.
Relax, we are all ging to die. in 100 years nobody would differentiate if you wera billionaire an incel or a chad
>in 100 years
Maybe a bit more than that my dude. I still know who Charlie Chaplin, Henry Ford, Duke Ellington and Howard Hughes are and they're from 100 years ago
they dont care though, beause worns ate them all together with the incel or billionaire
Yeah sure they're dead now, but the incel lived a incel life and the billionaire lived a billionaire life and duke ellington played jazz in the 1920s living that life etc etc etc
so? nothing would change in the end
Why are you focused on the end?
>your life should be suffering because you will die anyway
Cool.
>you should study, work hard and put a lot of effort for something it will be completely erased in a few years
cool
>but whats the alternative? not working for it, and getting absolutely nothing
Sometimes that's better.
Yes, maybe. Maybe thats why young men are dropping out of society and giving up at accelerating rates.
Things have to get worse before they get better
stop basing ur self worth on the opposite sex i guess. also the image is wrong. art hoe in the middle ethot on the left but make her bodycount like 6
kys op
>females are unable to have emotional connections if they have sex, with someone who's not me
jeez dude it's a mystery why you're awkward around girl, maybe it has to do with how you view them through incel tinted glasses.
>girls who spend their developing years (16-25) with tons of partying, hooking up with different guys, having FWBs with big dicked Chads, travelling around, experimenting sexually with hardcore sex, threesomes with their bestie, getting fucked at a festival etc. will just go to the sweet emotionally invested girlfriend in one moment they want a boyfriend
Yeah, no. Women don't have any love to give the time they are done with their experimentation phase.
>Yeah, no. Women don't have any love to give the time they are done with their experimentation phase.
Well I think that's marginally better than not having any love to give to begin with,
So stop self improving and stay alone bro, looks like that's what you want
>Be me
>6’
>Good looking
>have turned down more women than I’m happy to keep track of
>Always chased, never the chaser
>still unhappy
Life is more than sex anon.
>be me ()
>5'6 incel
>go online
>pretend im chad
>make up stories
>go to sleep
>wake up
>repeat
>good looking people don’t exist
>good looking people who get girls go to /adv/ to brag about it
I never said I got girls. I turned them down.
stop going to the gym, as you can see from the incel rant in OP it poisons your mind
Meanwhile women think men like their septum piercings and tattoos and dyed hair despite most men not finding them the least bit attractive
youre probably spending your entire life whatevermaxxing and not spending any time developing as a person. pushing yourself is one thing but you have to take time, and put effort into, making friends, having fun, and trying new stuff. inb4 muh hobbies - yea hobbies are a part of it but not the whole thing. for hobbies, the only ones that count are the ones that force you to be around and engage with normies. at 23 you dont have to be an expert but you at least have to try some shit and bring something interesting to a conversation.
What if I have depression?
I think living for women was a bad idea at any age, but in this one when they are so bad it is obviously so. A woman can ordain her life towards man, but as a man you have to be superior.
You have to find something else to keep going.
Fuck the young women when you get your shit together.
>mfw one day I have to marry a girl like this who, by the time she is 25 years old, has had sex thousands of times with 10+ different men, never going a week without it
You don't.
Women live on easy mode, don't ever let any worthless whore to settle for you
I can't fucking do it. I can't have a worthwhile life. I gave up and disconnected from the world entirely. I'm inferior and subhuman.
i hear you, dog.
When I was 18 I met a 20 year old woman who was jaw droppingly gorgeous, had a brimming social life despite being very introverted, stunningly brilliant and kind beyond measure, she was a virgin because her parents had a curfew of midnight every night and any guys who she had taken interest in were put off by that or weren't willing to work with her schedule.
She made all the first moves on me because I legitimately thought she was out of my league and didn't want to pressure her into anything she wasn't ready for; she teases me about it these days but I'm honestly proud that she wanted me so badly she was willing to take what she wanted instead of playing passive. We were together for 3 months before we got sexual, after her first time it was every time we saw eachother.
6 years later we're living together, have a dog and I'm putting myself through college, I'm proposing to her when I finish with school this february.
I realize that I'm extremely lucky here, but the point I'm trying to make is that if you're desirable enough (mentally, emotionally, physically) you can really land whatever kind of woman you want and they'll often seak YOU out. I put a lot of time and energy into becoming a better man in my teens, being as attractive as I could, being funny, and being empathetic; it paid off big time and now I have the rest of my life to spend with a woman who could have been plucked from my dreams.
Your premise is great, top notch, but your conclusion is all wrong. You admit you got lucky. But then you turn around at the very end and say "a drop dead gorgeous woman approached me and practically bagged me to fuck and marry her BECAUSE I WAS EMPATHETIC AND UHH I SELF IMPROVED AS A TEENAGER". Self improving has nothing to do with it. You are where you are because of pure luck. I am you but i never got lucky. I also "self improved" all my teenage years and beyond, by the time i was 18 i was 6'5, benched 2.5pl8, had a physique my BJJ coach called "herculean", won tournaments in BJJ and tae kwon do, was classically trained in the violin and piano, competed in nationals in that as well, taught myself acoustic and electric guitar, had gone to multiple international olympiads in various subjects, had a lot of money saved up from summer jobs, had various hobbies where i hung out with a lot of people, from book clubs to choirs to dance classes to hiking, was not shy or a sperg, was very competent in any social situation. And i still got turned down by every girl i asked out, NEVER got approached by anyone, and am a kissless virgin coming into my late 20s.
You. Got. Lucky. That's all there is to deduce, not some just world fallacy where you only got lucky because of some karmic justice for your efforts, no. Just blind luck in a cruel universe.
>And i still got turned down by every girl i asked out,
So you're a tall herculean guitar-playing ass-kicking gigachad, and you got turned down every time? Something here isn't adding up anon. Either you're seriously overselling yourself or you were asking out the wrong women every time.
>NEVER got approached by anyone,
And even if you're not bullshitting, you still should not have expected to be "approached". You're the guy, that's your fucking job. If you can't internalize why, or were too afraid to despite all your accomplishments, then that shows that you ARE shy or a sperg, despite any claims otherwise.
You do realize when you resort to putting your fingers in your eyes and going "LALALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU YOU'RE WRONG LALALALALA" when being presented with evidence against you just further radicalizes the people you disagree with right?
>LALALALALALA I CAN'T HEAR YOU YOU'RE WRONG
That's not remotely what I was doing you obnoxious homosexual. Interesting you casually admit you've been "radicalized" though...
>I was bullied relentlessly as a kid for being a "nerd" and playing the violin, so i turned to martial arts and lifting to stand up to my bullies
Well, I feel like kind of a dick then. Sorry anon.
I wish you luck too, but maybe a little more cocky (or at least, not being so down on yourself) wouldn't hurt.
Your story isn't done yet.
I'm not saying i'm "herculean", just that my coach said so, but i think i look giid, buff and 15% bodyfat at most throughout the year. And i am no gigachad, i am miserable and alone. The exact point i' trying to make that your accomplishments don't make you a Chad. Chads are born, not made. I was bullied relentlessly as a kid for being a "nerd" and playing the violin, so i turned to martial arts and lifting to stand up to my bullies. But the "transformation" didn't go like in the movies, where the guy gets the girl and the bullies apologise. I just stwrted grtting ignored by everyone instead of actively picked on. And i don't know what "the wrong women" entail, i asked the women i felt attracted to and had some rapport with. But i will say that i'm bery humble in real life and downplay my accomplishments (or don't mention them at all to people). Maybe if i was cocky i would be more attractive. Whatever, i've all but given up by now. If it was meant to happeny it would've by now. I wish you luck.
>>go to the gym to keep up a LULZ physique
for my degree every day to get a good job one day
I have a 15 year old niece and its so fascinating to watch her and her friend group because its very obvious that they are all in the early stages of their hoe phase. I grew up as the weirdo on the outside so I had no idea how things really worked, but seeing them has shown me that the teenage years for girls is basically like a 70s porno flick. They have easy access to all the hot guys from the athletes and the pretty boys to the drug dealers and artists, and its pretty much impossible to keep an eye on them 24/7 to prevent sex from happening. One of her friends got pregnant as early as 13, and she was the most quiet polite one.
The timeline OP laid out is pretty accurate, by the time you're 25 girls your age already have 10 years of dating and fucking experience, I wouldn't say they are burned out, but you can't really do anything they haven't done or seen before. Every ounce of sexual innocence has been drilled out of them, and romance is just a means to an end.
>Every ounce of sexual innocence has been drilled out of them, and romance is just a means to an end.
It wouldn't be so bad, if women wouldn't be willing to wreck the relationships because some hot ex called or something.