Gf wont make you happy

The life is struggle. Even normies struggle. If its not gf then its job. If its not job then its money. If its not money then its social relationships. If its all than then its some addiction. Its all subjective. There will always be a problem and you just have to accept it and try to be contempt

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So? You still need those things unless you wanna go full blown buddha mode and reject the material world entirely.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Okay, how you know? A tomboy in my life would solve enough problems to make me feel more happy than suicidal.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Money would solve literally every problem I have.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It sure helps but what would you do after you bought everything you could wish for? You'd feel empty after a bit just as you do once you finish a goal and then either stagnate or set your sights higher in a neverending cycle

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you don't know what it's like to be a poorfag. when you are poor, you don't get to do anything fulfilling in the first place because YOU HAVE NO MONEY DUMBASS.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not wealthy either though.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nigga, work can be fulfilling. Tf do you need money for?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >work can be fulfilling
            Low paying jobs are not fulfilling in the slightest

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Nonsense, and even then you don't need money to get a job that pays you better.

              Most fulfilling job I ever had was when I made a bit over minimum wage teaching a Lego engineering summer camp at my local elementary school.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >you don't need money to get a job that pays you better.
                I wish that were true. You have to pay to get training and there is zero guarantee of employment after that training

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Once again, nonsense. I got that counselor position when I was still in high school. Just that couple months of experience got me preference within the district when I sought an educational assistant position. (Jr. Tard wrangler, but it's mostly autistic kids now, and I work well with them so long as they're verbal).

                They reimburse for university. Slow rolling a teaching license. I will get there eventually. There's been a substitute shortage and I've had to tag in despite not being anywhere near getting the license. Still get full pay.

                What you need is a social connection, not money. I probably wouldn't have gotten that initial position had I not already been helping out with school events (it's my nephew's elementary).

                People always look at money. Nah, it's social connection. Social connection gives you opportunity for free, whereas those with just money have to pay for it.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >What you need is a social connection
                Just be normal, lmao.
                I have a STEM degree and I can't get a better job than unskilled labourer because I have no people/social skills. I have never passed an interview in my life.
                Working 3 years in a factory got me rewarded me with the opportunity to say I worked 3 years in a factory.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                See

                The university major with the highest drop out rate is computer science. Engineering is up there too.

                >But that's only because it's a hard major! Not because they're socially isolated!

                And? So their reward for being smarter and working harder is a greater amount of harder work?

                CS and engineering majors have gotta be the dumbest smart people on the planet. Literally signing up to compete with other socially isolated males in a major with an average IQ 125+, all for an hourly rate of pay equal to an RN with an average IQ of 103.

                I'm on the spectrum and have the typical social issues. I learned that you just need to show up to places where people are and help out with shit, then they like you. Kids are easy, and you don't have to play the same social games. In district experience preference is coded into the union contract, so I can't get fucked over as arbitrarily. I edge out any more socially adept person because the union says they HAVE TO consider my experience first.

                Highly recommend you look for something union track. Interaction in open-world society requires more social bullshit, and my union contract shields me from that shit.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >something union track
                There are no real factory unions in my country. Factory work is slightly above minimum wage and there is always, always some other man they can replace you with. I will never be able to advance further than lowly floor staff because I cannot interact with people. There have been people here who made team leader in 3 months because they had good social skills.
                I can't think of anything worse than being a teacher. I was a child once I saw how they treat the teachers, I'd rather join the army than go into that hell. I'd get rejected by the army too

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Then do something that isn't at the factory. Lots of union track shit out there that just requires a High School Diploma or GED.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Then do something that isn't at the factory
                Other only alternative is minimum wage retail work. I have tried to get out of factories but there are only factories and MILLIONS of other young men like me out there doing the exact same thing. I was very lucky to get this job.
                >union track
                I don't think there is anything like that here. If you mean railways, that is VERY VERY fucking competitive to get into

                Also, kids are great. Worst thing they can do is be annoying; they don't have any actual power over you. Not like you're doing any better in life interfacing with the adults.

                If you really hate people that much just go OTR trucking.

                >trucking
                It looks like truck drivers make less than what I am on now. How fucking depressing

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Truck drivers make less

                So you're making six figures? Then what the fuck are you bitching about?

                STEMtards really are the dumbest smart people on the planet.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Also, kids are great. Worst thing they can do is be annoying; they don't have any actual power over you. Not like you're doing any better in life interfacing with the adults.

                If you really hate people that much just go OTR trucking.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I usually deal with my own issues by my self. I just don't want to be companionless.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes but having someone makes the rest easier to deal with, unless she's a whore which makes things much worse.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i unironically do better in life when im talking to a girl
    i don't care about other shit when im happy with someone but i can only find bpd girls with cptsd trauma to talk to me so they only last a few months

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    misery company etc

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Gf wont make you happy
    I want a gf, not happiness, can you fucking read?

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're so full of shit. I cuddled with a girl years ago by pure luck and i can't even describe how good it made me feel. Someone with a gf is definitely gonna be more well-adjusted in every aspect of life.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nerds do better in school so that is at least one thing

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Are you trying to say girlfriendless nerds then have it better in other aspects? fuck no. If nerds don't kill themselves or drop out they get to slave away 12 hours a day for good pay or average hours for average pay

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The university major with the highest drop out rate is computer science. Engineering is up there too.

          >But that's only because it's a hard major! Not because they're socially isolated!

          And? So their reward for being smarter and working harder is a greater amount of harder work?

          CS and engineering majors have gotta be the dumbest smart people on the planet. Literally signing up to compete with other socially isolated males in a major with an average IQ 125+, all for an hourly rate of pay equal to an RN with an average IQ of 103.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >have low-stress, more than decent paying job
    >30k in the bank, don't plan on buying anything
    >no addictions, no illness, no expensive hobby, no gf or any other money sink
    >no social relationships problem, i have no problem or responsibility to anyone
    a gf to love me is literally all i need, i have every material need met and no other goals for life

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No but it amplifies happiness if you have any. Just as friends and family do.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There is some truth to this. I am married now and all I can think about is when she will be with child (if ever). The moment you achieve some goal in life (get a gf, get married) you move on to the next problem.

    Life is war.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    im a multimillionaire at 24 with a lot of long term friends that i can depend on and parents that love me, sure having a gf might not make me happy, but it's the only thing in life i havent tried yet

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It wont solve any problems but it'd be nice to have someone to hug.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Lmao I got one and I genuinely I would be better off alone, women are so retarded sometimes. She is more like a pet than a partner where I have to meet her needs and give her attention and in return she is affectionate towards me.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Didn't read. Just opened the thread to look at the picture for a little awhile before closing the tab.

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