Gf was sexually assaulted before we met

I met my gf 4 months ago. We both fell in love very quickly, and got into a relationship quickly too. She said she loved me first, I said it back etc. One time after we had sex, like the thired time or so, she mentioned that she had been sexually assaulted about a year before at a party. It took a few hours for this to sink in. It feels awful that someone I love went through such a horrible ordeal. The only form of emotional relief I can find is anger. I want to find this person and kill them mercilessly in minecraft. Based on the context of the conversation, this person hasn't even been prosecuted. I have such a strong urge to kill this person with my bare hands in minecraft. It clearly affected her, she has to deal with certain triggers etc. She's had to have a frickton of therapy and she's still a damaged shell of a person, it makes me cry my eyes out thinking that someone could hurt such a beautiful person like this.

But I want her consent and alibi if I am to kill this person in minecraft. How should I propose this to her? I wouldn't mind if she watched. I want their blood on my hands in minecraft.

The world does not feel okay with this person at large.

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  1. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    dump her, she is not pure

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      fpbp

      She didn't specify, apart from something about leading this older dude on for money, but she never agreed to anything sexual. Does it matter anyway? He deserves pain and death.

      He wants to know if his thing went into her thing

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      FPBP
      Lmao at OP seething over the "honour" of used up women. Simp.

  2. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    This is her issue to work through. The best thing you can do is support her. If she wants to try and prosecute, support her. If she wants you to kill him (unlikely), go for it since you want it so bad. This is not about you and try to remember that.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think I could sustain a relationship with someone who would simply forgive such a thing. As far as I see it the perpetrator doesn't deserve to be alive, certainly not in good quality. We'll have to have this conversation at some point.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think I could sustain a relationship with someone who would simply forgive such a thing. As far as I see it the perpetrator doesn't deserve to be alive, certainly not in good quality. We'll have to have this conversation at some point.

      its a difficult subject, but the anon is right. anyone attacking them risks legal repurcussions, and if it happened at a party a year ago, chances are theres no foolproof evidence, besides testimony.
      testimony requires you to stand in front of a whole room and recount what happened over and over, and traumatic memories are quite literally formatted differently to the brain, so she has to arrange tatters of the event in a timeline and present it in court, as well as defend it from any questioning or worse, attacks on her character. i wasnt brave enough to do so, but my partner supported me through the mental recovery and i dont think i couldve done it without him. you could do the same for her, but its up to you, and it isnt obligated. its okay to be bothered by the topic, and feel however you feel about it.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        It'd just be easier to but a knife through his head after letting him bleed out from his severed cok and be done with it tbh

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          and then when fingerprints come off the knife and they get traced back to someone, that someone goes to jail over human garbage. even hiring someone would get traced back. is it worth risking freedom for the rest of your life over garbage? no. she especially wouldnt want that.
          if you really want revenge, sabotage him socially. no one likes a rapist, and if they do, you usually dont want to associate with them either.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I have no idea who it is, I'd have to ask my gf which in itself would be a huge ordeal. But I'd kill him, use alibis etc, if they fail I'd appeal to the jury and public opinion to acquit. Is any jury really gonna convict a dude who executed his gfs perpetrator?

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            yes. they lock up people and execute them for crimes they didnt commit, and regularly revenge is frowned upon. if youre caught by authorities, its over, end of story. i dont know if i could handle my partner goin to jail on my behalf, especially as recovery and healing was possible even without revenge. just be there for her, all she wants is peace.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            I don't want peace. I want restitution. He deserves the utmost suffering. I want to torture him in the most painful ways possible.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            youre making this about yourself, and thats going to add even more hurt on her plate. stop being such a homosexual and channel this energy into loving her rather than this unhealthy self sabotaging shit, do you really want to leave her alone and guilty at the end of all this? get a hold of yourself, i thought about violence too but this will only hurt her. this is why she didnt reveal his identity yet.

          • 2 years ago
            Anonymous

            No someone needs to die because of this. Any world that would condemn such an execution isn't worthy of me living in. I would feel no remorse burning his dick off with a flint and steel in minecraft

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      [...]
      its a difficult subject, but the anon is right. anyone attacking them risks legal repurcussions, and if it happened at a party a year ago, chances are theres no foolproof evidence, besides testimony.
      testimony requires you to stand in front of a whole room and recount what happened over and over, and traumatic memories are quite literally formatted differently to the brain, so she has to arrange tatters of the event in a timeline and present it in court, as well as defend it from any questioning or worse, attacks on her character. i wasnt brave enough to do so, but my partner supported me through the mental recovery and i dont think i couldve done it without him. you could do the same for her, but its up to you, and it isnt obligated. its okay to be bothered by the topic, and feel however you feel about it.

      i agree the most with these two posters. ask her what she want/needs and support her through that. i understand your anger, but this is not about him. this is about her. support her as she heals.

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      this kind of individualism is what poisons the west

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Giving women positions of power is what poisoned the west

        • 2 years ago
          Anonymous

          The west isn’t the one having problems with poisoned baby formula and aborting all the women so there aren’t enough brides kek

  3. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Kill him, doesn't matter if she doesn't want, kill him kill him

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      Found the fed

  4. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Don't kill anyone, that's illegal. Just beat him up

  5. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    So how exactly was she assaulted?

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      She didn't specify, apart from something about leading this older dude on for money, but she never agreed to anything sexual. Does it matter anyway? He deserves pain and death.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        So you want to execute a guy who did something you don't know about, on behalf of a girl who said she was leading him on for money, against said girl's wishes?

        No someone needs to die because of this. Any world that would condemn such an execution isn't worthy of me living in. I would feel no remorse burning his dick off with a flint and steel in minecraft

        Your girl is willing to move on and live in the world. Why shouldn't you be? At this point, the problem isn't her, it's you.

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >Leading an older dude on for money
        Are you sure your girlfriend isn't a prostitute?

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >leading this older dude on for money
        sounds like she was asking for it

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        >leading this older dude on for money,
        LMAO dude

      • 2 years ago
        Anonymous

        Lol. Don't be a moron. Don't let women manipulate you into doing stupid shit. This is not your problem, let her deal with it. If it happened on your watch, that's a different story. But it didn't.

  6. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    The male definition and the femoid definition of """"sexual assault"""" differ wildly

    • 2 years ago
      Anonymous

      She had fricking therapy for it dude, at the very least she got groped, and I want to execute the person who did that.

  7. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly bro she's gonna have too much baggage. Dump her and move on. Make up another reason

  8. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like your girlfriends a bawd

  9. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Same here OP. I know how you feel. My girl was 3 when the same thing happened to her. Yes, 3. The cops protected the offender because... Wait for it... he is part of the local elite in their small town.

    When you're ready to take out the trash, there will be a small window of time as the social order unravels because of the food shortages in Minecraft.

  10. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Always take things women say with a grain of salt. I’m a believer of hear all women. But not of believe all women. 95% of the time a woman was “sexually assaulted” she was either mildly groped and/or cat called or had a consensual regrettable sexual experience with a guy and claims it was non-consensual later. Regardless of if this situation of hers was real or not, don’t involve yourself with these super damaged/attention seeking women in the first place besides except for occasional bedroom fun.

  11. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    My ex was “sexually assaulted” as well. She tried to cheat on me after a while. I used to be a moron loser like you op. This is her issue and the only thing you can do is listen to her when she talks about that shit and nothing more. Don’t fix her issues. She will not respect you because its cringe

  12. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Stop saying "in Minecraft", you c**t.

  13. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    If a woman ever claims to be “raped or sexually assaulted” that’s just womanese for “I’m extremely sexually promiscuous and will 100% cheat on you and im subconsciously letting you know that I want and am only good for a pump and dump”.

  14. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    I was sexually assaulted too anon by my best friend when I was 12 (she was 16) whenever I tell my bf this it doesn’t seem to bother him so it’s nice you care. All you can do is comfort her and try and help her through dealing with what happened. Anger is an understandable emotion to feel but there nothing you can do unfortunately.

  15. 2 years ago
    Anonymous

    Frick you homosexual. if I have to read “in Minecraft” one more goddamn time I will shove a picaxe up your ass

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