gf male friend

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months now and things have been going pretty well. However she has a guy friend of hers she met in class that I can't help but be a little worried about. Sounds like they have a lot of things in common and they've been hanging out just each other a few times.
This past weekend we were on a road trip, and she was driving and handed me her phone to play music. At some point she got a text message where he asked her to go to a museum with him. When she got her phone back and checked her messages she acted flustered and like she really didn't want me to accidentally see that message. This worried me because up to this point it didn't seem like she was trying to hide anything about him and their relationship from me.
Am I being irrationally jealous here or is this something I should talk to her about?

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Dump her dude, she doesn't respect you.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP doesn't demand respect from others

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Its worse than that, she believes OP is a fool and has no problem lying to him. Its like a used car dealer looking straight into your eyes and telling you to trust them the car was only driven by an old lady to church and back.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    She probably knows you're jealous of him and is anxious to be dumped by you because of the guy.

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    unironically the best option here is sending the guy death threats

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Be calm, matter of fact, and importantly direct when addressing the matter.

    >imma level with you baby, I feel like you're trying to monkey branch me and you've been acting extremely suspicious. I don't like wasting my time so if you don't frick with me no more then we are done frickin.

    90% of the time they'll cry, she'll probably try and say he's just a friend or something else or gaslight you saying it's nothing at all while dodging the conflict.

    If you do what I said, there's a solid chance she will wisen up and realize how moronic she is and by stating it as I described she will register you take no shit.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is the best answer so far. If she acts stupid be prepared to drop her ass, it will be confirmation that she's ready to swing to the next one.

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Samegay here, I've had a similar experience of bullshit.

        The goat Patrice O'Neil was a godsend of advice for Yung bucks like us who keep gettin bothered by broads.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      She is seeking male validation elsewhere, never a good sign.

      This. If I'd say fade her out, did you have the talk yet of what's okay and what isn't? Do that early in a relationship to avoid conflicts like this. However, if that line of trust is violated, run. That said, you can always enjoy degenerate make up sex and dump her. That's typically what I do. She wants to be a bawd? Frick her like one, but keep in mind she's gonna get replaced.

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just say you aren’t comfortable with them doing things without including you. Then start going along and make it as awkward as possible

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    You should say ''I don't want you to talk with that guy anymore'', if she or he insists on talking with each other, you should actually beat the shit out of that guy. Don't listen to these loser morons here saying that you should leave her, are you really gonna accept defeat and let him take your girl?
    >muh the law, this, that blah blah blah
    Just shut the frick up, pussy

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Didn't need to read the back story, if your gf starts spending time with a "platonic" male friend. You're fricked, well more accurately cucked.

  8. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    she probably gets cream pied from behind from him if im being honest with you

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    First things first, if you have any female friends that are anything like her male friends (i.e. you hang out alone together and not just with mutual friends or whatever) you gotta drop her or drop your girl. Don't be hypocritical. Secondly, you need to level with her and make yourself clear, tell her that her male friend makes you uncomfortable, and that if she wants to stay together with you, she needs to stop seeing him alone. Hanging out together when they're with mutual friends is alright imo, but anything beyond that is a dealbreaker. Finally, if that doesn't work and she doesn't change anything, you gotta break up with her. Even if she doesn't intend to cheat right now, you and me both know that straight men only hang out with women alone because they wanna get with them. He is going to try to make a move on her eventually, and you don't wanna be the guy who got his girl stolen.

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    as a boyfriend you don't own the monopoly on her free time
    but as a girlfriend, she should know how her going on outings with another man would make you feel
    one way or another you two need to talk about it since it's making you feel some kind of way, but you don't need to be confrontational like she's getting pounded every time you turn your back

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Talk to her about it. You need to be clear on your boundaries.

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It is normal and healthy for you each to have other friends, even opposite gender friends. It is even normal and healthy for her to choose him for some things - if, for example, she and he both play tennis and you don't, she is NOT being unfaithful to play tennis with him.

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Some men are really so fricking stupid. I think if you are this moronic and obligations, you basically consent to getting cucked under the condition that you can pretend to not know about it. lol

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    This new guy she met in class is not a friend but another guy she is dating. She doesn't care how you feel and if she was serious about a relationship with you she wouldn't go out with another guy, then lie to you by calling you a friend. The new guy knows the truth and OP denies the truth. If she was serious none of this would have happened because she wouldn't want to do anything that would create a misunderstanding. No amount of discussion or demands will change her unilateral decision to accept dates from another man and she will defend her decision to do so. OP should accept the truth, she is not his girlfriend but someone she considers a fool and treats him as such.

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >go to a museum with him
    So when other people see them strolling the museum and having a bite to eat afterwards they will correctly assume they are on a date.

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