I started dating a girl who said she was 19 going on to 20 this year. She never gave me a reason to think she wasn't, but recently she revealed she's still in high school and turning 18 soon. I'm almost 23. I really don't think I should be dating high school girls. Should I break it off?
How long have you been together and how did you meet?
Been dating for like a month, but I knew her for longer than that. We met online. I know. I'm a retarded e-dater.
Have you met in person?
No, we haven't met up irl.
Shes not your gf then and u should probably move on
Doesn't seem worth it to continue with this. Are you head over heels for her or something? Keep in mind that she might still be lying, hoping that you'll be okay with "almost 18" but she's actually 16.
Also she's clearly the kind of teen who propositions older men. You're unlikely to be the first she's done this to. Are you okay with that?
I mean, I liked her quite a bit, but I thought she was closer to my age. But now I don't think it's worth it. It's suspicious that she lied, and high school girls are not emotionally mature enough for anything long term.
You have an opportunity to achieve a loving partner before she becomes a whore (or completely becomes a whore) and you are throwing it away. Wtf.
>teen girl lying about her age to older men online
Mate shes not a virgin and shes probably been fucking 20-30 year old men since she was 15
He can try to meet another. How many guys do you think she's actually fucked? He might as well do it for dating experience at least. Also 23 is post college age typically, so a girl would have been even more ran through. This girl with <10 partners or another girl with >10 partners. I say just date this girl. If she's into him, he's gotta seize the opportunity.
Shes online he isnt getting pussy just simping.
For reference my ex who lied abt her age on tinder had fucked 9 guys most of them much older before she even turned 18
>Shes online he isnt getting pussy just simping.
If he can meet up with her then it's not.
>For reference my ex who lied abt her age on tinder had fucked 9 guys most of them much older before she even turned 18
Her count would be higher the older she gets. Better to take the low count than the higher count.
Better to find a normal girl and not a bpd mess looking for older guys online. Srsly
He can find a normal 16 or 17 year old.
hes 22 hes gotta go older than 18 if hes first world. And op said already he doesnt want to date a highschooler
He can look for 18 year olds then. Who cares if they are in high school if they are legal. That mentality is retarded and so feminized. Date the youngest girl he legally can, that way she's more likely to have not fucked a million guys.
>e-dater
The good news is she's not your girlfriend so you're in the clear.
My ex did the exact same shit. Just realize if she was lying abt that what else is she hiding from u. Can you really trust her now? My ex mentioned lying abt her age 6 months in and a year in mentioned how she cheated like 1 month into the relationship.
Yes, you should. Liars lie, constantly.
No.
Oh my fucking gosh OP is a pedophile, quick glownaggers shoot him.
I know you are joking, but it shows how fucked our society is when people actually think like that.
17/22 is gonna raise some eyebrows but I think 18/23 is fine. Probably should wait until she's finished with high school entirely.
More importantly, she lied about her age. What other critical things could she lie about?
Dating an 18 year old when you're 23 is fine. Fuck everyone who says it's not. Dating a 19 year old when you're late 20s is fine too. Fuck everyone who thinks it isn't. It's legal and they can't do shit but seethe.
What age is she also yes
12 states out of 50 have aoc of 18
8 states have 17
The rest are 16
43 countries out of 195 have aoc of 18 and up
10 or so require marriage, otherwise, no age specified
Why do people have their panties in twist over 16 year olds?
>Should I break it off?
Yeah ur a pedo