gf broke up with me out of nowhere

>Be lesbian
>meet girl through a friend online
>shes a tall trans girl extremely pretty like a model
>we hit it off immediately
>teases me for being an obvious bottom
>quickly begin hanging out and then dating because of my dependent personality disorder
>long distance but have incredible e-sex
>every time we hangout we're completing each others sentences and have an absolute blast shooting the shit. perfect personality mesh.
>tells me about how im the most important thing to her and spends every day thinking about me.
>months go by and Im having issues due to abuse at home
>she reassures me its okay but we become more distant over time
>tells me that shes been talking to another trans girl and getting topped by her
>I'm okay with this cuz im poly, just happy that she can also express her subby side since i cant top
>life mostly sucks but happy to have girlfriend
>one day on a work break she messages me out of nowhere
>"I really like spending time with you but I can't pretend like I still feel the way I felt before. "
>actually breaks up with me then goes back to work
>don't hear from her again

I'm beginning to give up on love. I don't know why this keeps happening to me. I get extremely invested in a relationship but the second things fumble a little bit its all over. It's only girls that have done this to me as well; there are guys into me but i am not into men so it reduces my options greatly. Dating sucks so much ass and im afraid to get invested in anyone anymore

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  1. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like BottomxBottom codependency amongst other things, sorry to hear that anon

  2. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >incredible e-sex
    kek

    • 1 year ago
      Chamitomoder

      i bet youve never been dommed by a random cisles girl b4 holy shit she activated some sorta shit in me dear god i never subbed like that or found a girl that attractive b4

      https://i.imgur.com/1yYYUBk.png

      >Be lesbian
      >meet girl through a friend online
      >shes a tall trans girl extremely pretty like a model
      >we hit it off immediately
      >teases me for being an obvious bottom
      >quickly begin hanging out and then dating because of my dependent personality disorder
      >long distance but have incredible e-sex
      >every time we hangout we're completing each others sentences and have an absolute blast shooting the shit. perfect personality mesh.
      >tells me about how im the most important thing to her and spends every day thinking about me.
      >months go by and Im having issues due to abuse at home
      >she reassures me its okay but we become more distant over time
      >tells me that shes been talking to another trans girl and getting topped by her
      >I'm okay with this cuz im poly, just happy that she can also express her subby side since i cant top
      >life mostly sucks but happy to have girlfriend
      >one day on a work break she messages me out of nowhere
      >"I really like spending time with you but I can't pretend like I still feel the way I felt before. "
      >actually breaks up with me then goes back to work
      >don't hear from her again

      I'm beginning to give up on love. I don't know why this keeps happening to me. I get extremely invested in a relationship but the second things fumble a little bit its all over. It's only girls that have done this to me as well; there are guys into me but i am not into men so it reduces my options greatly. Dating sucks so much ass and im afraid to get invested in anyone anymore

      im sorry anon thats why i never edate bc i dont trust other ppl (i also need physical affection too). I hope you'll find love eventually

      I live with abusive parents who restrict where i can go and who i can see. I got hospitalized once for a suicide attempt and my parents took power of attorney over me. Anyone i knew from where i used to live got threatened into not seeing me anymore. we moved to a high end apartment complex in the south and I live life under total surveillance with trackers on all my stuff. I take classes online trying to become a web developer because I really enjoy it, and have cool friends (online) who mentor me. I can only talk to my friends online through stuff like discord. That about sums it up.

      this sounds awful anon i actually feel for you so badly i cant imagine how this breakup must feel. the only one ive had ended bc i had a delusional episode and i said some stuff i shouldnt have (god i hate myself so much)

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        >i bet youve never been dommed by a random cisles girl
        i mean, yeah, why would a cisles dom a dude
        "e sex" is still really dumb

  3. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >poly
    what did you expect

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      she was actually specifically monogamous when we met, and I had to promise i wouldnt have any other sexual connections and I agreed.

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        stop the long-distance nonsense and stop the polycule degeneracy, it's always gonna end like this

        i had a b***h go poly on me once without permission and i regret not nipping it in the bud right there. NEVER stay with someone like that if you have an ounce of self respect

      • 1 year ago
        Anonymous

        nta but she's not poly either, she just replaced you and didn't take the time to break up with you at the time
        but honestly what do you expect from a "e relationship"? those things aren't real relationship, you're just a discord friend at best

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          stop the long-distance nonsense and stop the polycule degeneracy, it's always gonna end like this

          i had a b***h go poly on me once without permission and i regret not nipping it in the bud right there. NEVER stay with someone like that if you have an ounce of self respect

          I should say im not rly into multiple relations myself i just am accepting of partners who are like that, i mean.

          but either way, I guess you're right. I just live in a shitty home and dont have a lot of self respect. I don't know how to meet other girls outside of online socializing.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            >I should say im not rly into multiple relations myself i just am accepting of partners who are like that, i mean
            so you're a cuck, that make even more sense then

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Do you have to kick me while im down? I realize its moronic, i obviously wont be accepting of it anymore. I just don't think im worth shit so anything that will keep people in my life i go along with.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            what is your home situation like anon?

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I live with abusive parents who restrict where i can go and who i can see. I got hospitalized once for a suicide attempt and my parents took power of attorney over me. Anyone i knew from where i used to live got threatened into not seeing me anymore. we moved to a high end apartment complex in the south and I live life under total surveillance with trackers on all my stuff. I take classes online trying to become a web developer because I really enjoy it, and have cool friends (online) who mentor me. I can only talk to my friends online through stuff like discord. That about sums it up.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Are you bpd and/or a threat to yourself? Obviously you are in a stressful situation but do you behave in a way that would make them feel like they need to monitor you? That's kind of a cruel thing to ask but I had a very mentally ill family member who as a minor needed constant monitoring because she genuinely was always trying to kill herself or engage in extreme risk taking due to trauma as a young child and Reactive Attachment Disorder. That being said if you are lucid adult and a person who is able to live without a caretaker that sounds very very bad. I'm tempted to ask for a discord out of concern geez lol.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            no no its perfectly fine to ask that, don't worry. I don't have bpd no, just depressive disorders and really bad anxiety. I am very dependent and find it hard to do things on my own, although i want to be better at this and have been pushing myself wherever possible. My parents think im high grade moronic and incapable of ever caring for myself, or thats what they tell themselves anyway. Im 23 and have been living here all my life; have tried to run away but they always find me and bring me back. It's a really complicated situation that's hard to explain out in the open like this. If you want to talk about it in discord im up for it, i just dont want to be a drain or anything so don't feel like you have to.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            if you post something I'll add, I have friends who are lawyers so I can ask them questions if you genuinely feel like you've been robbed of agency. Or I can just listen w/e though I don't have a ton of free time to be candid.
            I should mention I'm not trying to pick you up or anything I am in a happy monogamous relationship I just get concerned hearing about abuse. situations.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            hehe, i completely understand. I appreciate you wanting to help; I've had people tell me to consult a lawyer before but consulting fees are so high and i get rly nervous about spending money. If you're very busy though then you don't have to. I can figure something out and ask other friends for help. Still, the sentiment is very kind, thank you <3

            >poly
            Come on, girl.... And if you start off as mono and then your partner asks you to go poly, run, just run, it's not worth it. They're already fricking someone behind your back or have someone they'd love to frick and have been flirting with them for quite some time, and opening it up is just there to retroactively absolve themselves of any guilt, and in the worst case to put the blame on you.

            yeah... it was odd to me after she made me promise to be monogamous early on in the relationship. I guess she just didn't like being a dom that much actually, she would sometimes mention how she liked to be a in a subby headspace . I really wanted to please her but im sort of incapable of being a convincing dom; its just not who I am.

            [...]

            If you're a woman, then fine. Feel free to throw me in the trash right after too; that's where i belong.

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            I should clarify I am personal friends with an old lawyer ask for legal advice from her while I do their hair and stuff I'm not asking you for money, it would be less helpful than having a lawyer genuinely look at you situation with a microscope, but I can ask casual questions. Anyways, yeah I'm around stay safe

  4. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    domming someone online is exhausting and e-sex isn't real.

  5. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    This is your sign to not trust trannies or anyone ever willing to date them again

  6. 1 year ago
    Cis >:V

    Not every relationship is meant to last, and you look like a pillow princess? It's not your fault, relationships go sour, people find someone else for relationships, and you find another girl too.
    Oh, and if falling in love is silly, passion leads to silly things.

  7. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >poly
    Come on, girl.... And if you start off as mono and then your partner asks you to go poly, run, just run, it's not worth it. They're already fricking someone behind your back or have someone they'd love to frick and have been flirting with them for quite some time, and opening it up is just there to retroactively absolve themselves of any guilt, and in the worst case to put the blame on you.

  8. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >Poly
    >Relationship dies after honeymoon period
    Imagine my shock

  9. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >im poly
    >I don't know why this keeps happening to me
    Lol, lmao even.

  10. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >I encouraged my cat to start eating at my neighbor's house
    >I was happy she was getting some variety in her diet
    >Last weekend I noticed her sitting in the windowsill of my neighbor's house
    >She hasn't come over to my place for a month now

    Why did this happy?

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      >im poly
      >I don't know why this keeps happening to me
      Lol, lmao even.

      >Poly
      >Relationship dies after honeymoon period
      Imagine my shock

      Okay, message received, for like the 5th time this thread.

  11. 1 year ago
    sanest poster

    how cute and/or cis are you? asking for a friend

    • 1 year ago
      Anonymous

      I have an intersex condition, Androgen insensitivity syndrome. You wouldn't know unless you were my doctor.

      I have bad BDD so i dont rly trust myself to rate my appearance, but people i know think very highly of my looks. My body type is very petite but ive got wide hips. I don't have great self esteem but I'm really affectionate. I like making journals, scrapbooking, gaming, and writing stories. Hope your friend finds this info useful for whatever it is they're studying.

      • 1 year ago
        sanest poster

        >I have an intersex condition
        rip
        do you like reading or just writing?

        • 1 year ago
          Anonymous

          both! But its hard to find good book recommendations these days. So i got really into JRPGs since they scratch a similar itch for me. I hope to one day write some books since I have some ideas that I'm really passionate about.

          • 1 year ago
            sanest poster

            drop discord i need cute book girls in my life

          • 1 year ago
            Anonymous

            Nikkitsu#2741
            hopefully we can be friends <3

  12. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >be me
    >got pussy
    >self esteem rises tenfold
    >go on to frick other b***hes
    Many such cases!

  13. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >It's only girls that have done this to me as well
    Because all women are inherently bottoms (despite some being able to play a top role for a short period) and bottoms cannot be satisfied with other bottoms, meanwhile most men are tops

    Sorry, you just got a shitty roll of the dice

  14. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >she thought internet relationships are real
    lmao

  15. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >e-sex

  16. 1 year ago
    Anonymous

    >having "e-sex" with a dedicated person instead of just ERPing with people

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