>Gay bottoms act femininely for their tops. >Butch lesbians act masculinely for their partners

>Gay bottoms act femininely for their tops
>Butch lesbians act masculinely for their partners
>MtF's focus on expressing themselves in a feminine manner
>FtM's.... just do whatever?
Am I crazy or do FtMs just act like how they'd act otherwise, i've never in my life (as a gay male) seen a ftm be "malebrained". What gives? Is it too hard or do they just not care?

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  1. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    in order to be a poon you must well and truly not care what others think of you.

  2. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Trans men don't owe you masculinity, chud

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      grr.. female attention seeking knows no end

  3. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Reminder that FtMs don't exist. Transexuality has only been historically documented in AMABs. FtM transexuality is mostly just a trend, not an actual medical condition

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      oh shut up homosexual

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      What about Milan and Joan of Arc?

  4. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    If you mock them for being girly, they don't take it as an attack on their masculinity, they take it as transphobia. This is because they are women. Even the passoids.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      Imagine being forced to drink a spitting full of drunk sailor spit ..hnggggfff

  5. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ftms have way more leeway to express themselves and in general can hew way closer to their AGAB without getting shit for it. An ftm who puts in minimal effort is a quirky empowered (wo)man challenging cishet expectations, an mtf who puts in a ton of effort but still reads masc is basically viewed as a dangerous animal to be shunned.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      makes me just feel worse for transgirls

      • 10 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah it really sucks. Our status not just as women but as people is basically conditional on constantly successfully performing femininity to the degree society demands, and a lot of us had basically no safe place to practice or develop that femininity before we came out.
        Like I came from a pretty conservative area and I 100% could not be even a little GNC without people trying to beat my ass for being a homosexual, my family included. I got my head forcibly shaved multiple times, got insufficiently masculine things that I liked burned, got just straight up beaten for a variety of reasons, and I know a lot of other transwomen who had similar things happen.

        • 10 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't understand gnc people, but I pass so I could do tomboy stuff I don't think anything would happen

  6. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's because you think of male behavior as default behavior. Like how people who hear people speak with their own accent and think of it as "no accent", you don't notice how it deviates from others because it's the base layer to you.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      i guess ftms think of maleness in the same way

  7. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >>Gay bottoms act femininely for their tops
    Lol.

  8. 10 months ago
    Flux

    it depends on what you mean by malebrained. so many cis men are so emotionally stunted that i’d rope if i had their brains. if being empathetic and warm makes me fembrained then so be it, idc.

  9. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >>Gay bottoms act femininely for their tops
    lesbians act masculinely for their partners
    huh?

  10. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Nah FTMs which aren't trenders try to act all macho and masculine. Just a lot of AFAB are moronic.

  11. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    my personality is my personality, any time i've tried to feign differently it doesn't stick. i don't see the point in trying to act like something i'm not, be it fembrained or malebrained

    i've always thought it was fricking bizarre how some gay dudes start acting all homosexual as soon as they come out. were they holding it in previously, or are they just performing it in the hopes some other gay will hit on them?

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don’t know much about gay men but I can’t imagine they actually find these mannerisms attractive

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      You have it backwards. Gay men are attracted to masculinity, while being themselves behaviorally feminine. So they don't act feminine for tops they just are, instead they try to act masculine.

      Gay dudes acting homosexual are sometimes playing it up. But probably a lot closer to what they really are, than the fake masculinity the used to present. A lot of male gendered behavior is in relation to attracting and interacting with females. If your into men, it serves no purpose and you probably didn't pick up that male gendered language in the first place. Instead they tried to perform it.

      Also gay men are not attracted to homosexuals. It's not helping them be more attractice.

  12. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on your idea of being malebrained. I’ve been always told that I think like a man even though I didn’t have male hobbies or friends

  13. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    >FtM's.... just do whatever?

    They also express in a femenine matter (most)

  14. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    I transitioned from butch to ftm because playing up my masculine side for my gf felt so good and I wanted to do it full time
    The reason you don't meet many malebrained ftms is that we don't post on social media and try to stealth instead of frequenting lgbt spaces irl

  15. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    homosexuality, lesbian or gay, is all about domination. these people view the opposite sex as the dominate personality, ego or mindset for them and they see those masculine as their dominate on. same with those that dominate, those men or women who act in a lower sense, weaker or submissive.

    this never changed. its why homosexuals, lesbian or gay, when 'married' one wears a dress and one wears a suit of in a concept of a masculine or feminine way of dressing.
    yes this is a mental illness.

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      how is this mental illness if it emulates how heterosexuals act

    • 10 months ago
      Anonymous

      This is a really long way of saying in al gay relationships one is the man, and one is the woman.

      The only mental illness is egalitarian homosexuality because they forgo the male/female dynamic.

  16. 10 months ago
    Anonymous

    in western society;

    women are taught they can express their emotions and ideas about self expression freely and have very little reason not to be themselves and follow impulses

    men are taught to shut up and bottle their emotions and if you deviate you're a nerd or worse a gay

    this leads to women being more likely to come out as male and make very big decisions without expectation of backlash and thus end up detransitioning or being feminine trans guys more because they have no social repercussions of being so

    this dimorphism in social gender also makes it so men are LESS likely to come out of the closet (boy mode for much longer than a FTM would girl mode), LESS likely to detransition as coming out basically ruins your entire life and the pressure to be a performing male is huge in comparison

    TL;DR AFABs have emotional freedom, AMABs do not, gay bottoms have emotional freedom because they've been checked out of the system by not being expected to perform masculinity and are not taken seriously

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