got horny met a guy on Grindr yadda yadda. the guy was kind of a good speaker and kinda knew how to turn me on.
anyway after i felt like shit because no aftercare, I got a e-gf a couple days after and the guy is still messaging me and like idunno what to do. I don't want to be talking to this person while I've got this gf but I also don't want to block him what do
Suck him off again. You owe him sex.
online relationships are fake and a waste of time unless you both have money and a way to get steady employment if you move or vice versa. If you want sex again stop talking to the person online. Don't expect aftercare from grindr
what's aftercare?
usually after sex you spend time with each other and be intimate. Kissing, cuddling and sweet conversation when your done with sex are normal in actual relationships
right, but that's not gonna happen with a blow n go tranny date
it's rare for sex outside of relationships. hooking up is not good for your brain
it's good for the malebrain. That's what we were designed to do.
keep telling yourself that bud
To be serious though, yes men need a partner too, but one partner isn't enough because our biology makes it where we need to cum everyday. We're like animals. A regular gf whether she's cis or trans can't handle my libido, and that's why I need another sex partner.
you don't need to cum everyday you've just conditioned yourself too. I never understood the obsession men have with jerking off past being teenagers
i don't like to jerk off anymore. i only want to be able to cum through sex. Women should accept that men and women are biologically very different, and allow their husbands or boyfriends to have a gf. It's not love, just sex.
if it's just about cumming then why do you need another person? you aren't getting much out of fucking random people since there's no emotional connection. You just sound like a slut tbdesu
You're not malebrained, you will never understand. Like why do you need to cuddle for an hour after sex? Because it fulfills what you need as a woman, but I don't get it. I'm fine with not cuddling or cuddling for a few minutes.
because after getting fucked in the ass there is a compulsion to cling to the person who just did that? it's an intimate act where you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you don't open up to someone like that unless you care for them. And if you care for someone and just let yourself be extremely vulnerable to them you still feel needy. The warm feeling of love washing over you as your in the arms of someone you deeply care about is multiplied to an insane degree after sex
The does really sound nice the way you phrased it actually.
But as a man, sometimes we want to just fuck to feel like a man, you know what I mean? We want to dominate someone weaker than us, without consoling them afterwards. Your man is probably doing things for you right, like providing you with something special? So why not let him have a second partner that he only has sex with, but doesn't cuddle with? It seems like nonslutty women prefer cuddling over sex anyway.
because someone I love fucking another person is an intimate act. Sex does not exist without intimacy and emotions, that kind of betrayal has traumatized me since I was a teenager and I want no part of it. Neither does 99% of the population because it fucking stings and is a sign someone does not care about you as much as you may have thought
You sound like a reformed slut, no offense.
nah i have a body count of 1 and they are hella right non monogamy and cheating is fucking evil and sociopathic
are you the same person i was talking to earlier?
no
Stop trying to scapegoat all men and accept that you just need a lot of sex, fuck it's annoying when people equate their experience with universal experience.
fuck off my bf doesnt need to be an adulturer you're just a nymphomaniac whore
damn the theatrical way in which u type is annoying as fuck. performative autism at full blast like bro u realize other ppl can see udoing this shit it's embarrassing
im addicted, help
Coomer
woa a grindr hookup wasn’t a great guy. im stunned
also online relationships should be avoided til u meat irl and know the person is a decent human being.
odd. i always worried i'd regret blowimg dude as i'm mostly top and i also sometimes doubt if i'm really even bi but i've done it twice now and it was no biggie.
>the guy is still messaging me and like i dunno what to do
say no thanks and if need be block him. seems pretty straight foward.
its not for everyone. as long as you didn't get a disease it probably won't come back to haut you. just tell yourself it's somrthing you tried and don't have to try again.
what's the yada yada yada
Hey fix long time no talk, so can we fix that and talk?
>e-gf
No. You have a guy who likes you right there... But you're choosing, not only a woman, but a fake woman? Either stop being retarded or kill yourself.
he's way older than me and I don't really like him outside of kink space
Was it just the lack of aftercare tho? Like if he cuddled you and told you sweet things after, would you have felt good and decided to meet him again?