first date ideas

bros, I got the first date. I'm 25, what's a good fun idea for a first date that isn't mostly conversation? anything is on the table but I think right now indoors is going to be the plan. it will most likely rain all day.

  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    there is no fun other than going to a cafe, or what ever, to talk and see if you actually like each other. The fun can be done at the second date.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I think it's been established that we like each other over text. not in person yet though I guess. I'm sure you can get to know someone through doing something together and talking some of the time. Cafe or restaurant seems overdone and boring

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I think it's been established that we like each other over text
        yeah, no, happend to me too. And then the first date was last date. Keep your options and if you feel good, go to the other place for fun, just be flexible. Other place aka whaterver you think she might enjoy. I usually went to an animal park, girls loved deers, fawns and goats.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          damn bro. any words of wisdom? what happened?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >any words of wisdom? what happened?
            don't bother creating fun or any other entertaiment to impress. If it works out and you like each other then boring shit like drinking coffee together is enough because you yourself if enough for her.

            • 3 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              what about something fun to break up constant conversation and to relax a little?

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I usually went to an animal park, girls loved deers, fawns and goats.
                idk what else, it's alway fun to watch animals moving around, and women love small baby ainmals, believe me.

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                it's going to be raining, can't do zoo

              • 3 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I only know nice weather activities, anon. Do this then

                Billiards or (local, not big) sports events. Little talk is expected but still very much welcomed and if conversation goes wrong the silence can be overlooked because you can easily shift your attention somewhere else.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    coffee shop

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Billiards or (local, not big) sports events. Little talk is expected but still very much welcomed and if conversation goes wrong the silence can be overlooked because you can easily shift your attention somewhere else.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hug her at beginning. Touch her shoulder empathically/playfully/whatever. Grab her hand at some point. If you don't touch her get ready to be friendzoned or to a platonic love affair

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go somewhere where there are things to talk about. A museum, art show, car show, flea market, the zoo. Movies are not ideal because it means being silent for two hours. If it's going to rain, then a museum sounds good to me.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Museum. Aquarium. Something you can walk around and look at things, things that you then talk about

      this is key

      museum and aquarium seem kind of sleeper and are neither good for relaxed conversation or fun. what about rock climbing?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Rock climbing in the rain? No.

        Many people consider museums and aquariums to be fun.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          rock climbing at an indoor facility. idk I feel like there's nothing to talk about. I don't know shit about history and there's only so much to comment on fish and whatnot. seems like it would lead to shallow and boring conversations

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So what, do you have a personality or not? You sound boring man.
            Determine the kind of thing you're most passionate about, then go do something related to that.
            Go-karting, board games, escape room, music shit, cooking together, ... find your jam and use it, anon.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Museum. Aquarium. Something you can walk around and look at things, things that you then talk about

    this is key

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