Femanon with some style trouble.


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Femanon with some style trouble. My friends make fun of me for dressing too conservatively, but I feel weird and dirty any time I dress more revealing. If I'm wearing anything more revealing than a t-shirt and knee length shorts I feel like I'm doing something wrong. I've tried to claim being a tomboy to excuse my fashion, but I'm otherwise pretty feminine.

I want to overcome this so that people don't get the wrong impression of me and mistake me for some unfun prude, but the bad feeling makes it hard to push out of my comfort zone. How can I work through this?

  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being a homosexual and ignore the jokes.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      How am I supposed to ignore people giving me weird looks for being dressed differently from my peers? I feel like a freak. I'd like to ignore it but I don't want to be an outcast.

      friends who make fun of you in a mean way are not your friends
      dress however you like and don't let other people's opinions rule over your life
      make fun of your "friends" for being worthless sluts to assert dominance

      My friends only lightly tease, but they do it from genuine concern for how weird I dress and that's what makes it sting so much. I worry guys won't be interested in me if I don't change how I dress.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >guys won't be interested in me
        however you dress, if you're not hideous or fat, some guys will be interested in you
        you can use your style to attract certain types of men
        i would totally be into a girl who dresses unusually, that just makes her more interesting

  2. 1 week ago
    tits or gtfo

    friends who make fun of you in a mean way are not your friends
    dress however you like and don't let other people's opinions rule over your life
    make fun of your "friends" for being worthless sluts to assert dominance

  3. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    There are countless ways to dress sexually attractive without dressing revealing.

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    You dress how you want to, if anyone says anything just explain how you would feel uncomfortable in what they're wearing, then call them a slut.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I didn't realize this is a thing that people actually worry about after high school.

    There's nothing wrong with dressing conservatively and anyone who judges you off of not showing your tits/legs off enough is probably shitty to be around anyways.

    Think about it like your style is vetting shitty people for you.

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If your """friends""" are shaming you because you don't dress like a whore then they aren't your friends.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Remember not to post in "woman" threads that are not accompanied with tits

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I dress conservatively as well. Nothing above knee length, and I avoid wearing tshirts because they’re ugly. Your friends are mean for making fun of you. These are your options
    >no change
    >get new friends
    >don’t be bothered by their comments
    >change your style
    You can also browse Pinterest for some style inspo.

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Get better friends, because these ones are an awful influence.
    If you want to attract guys who are primarily interest in your body, follow their "advice" and dress like a slut. Otherwise, try to socialize with people who won't drag you down.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Get better friends, because these ones are an awful influence.
      This anon gets it. I married my wife in part is she was all green flags about how she carried herself. She dresses conservatively too and feels similarly uncomfortable.

      If your friends don't support you being yourself, you have bad friends.

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Its 2023. Dress how your friends do or be left behind. All the people telling you to ignore them or to keep dressing the way you do are basement dwelling incels desperate for a pure tradwife who's never been touched by another man and they're trying to manipulate you in some distant hope they might meet you one day.

    Be hot.

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      >Its 2023. Dress how your friends do or be left behind. All the people telling you to ignore them or to keep dressing the way you do are basement dwelling incels desperate for a pure tradwife who's never been touched by another man and they're trying to manipulate you in some distant hope they might meet you one day.
      >Be hot.
      brainrot

  11. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Make compromises. Dress just a bit more revealing so you don't feel that you're left behind but not so much that you'd be heading to a brothel's job interview

  12. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Don't change the way you dress for your friends, they'll wreck everything you are if they get a feeling that they can get their claws in you. Female friends are largely a complete shitshow.
    Dress how you feel comfortable. If it was your boyfriend telling you to dress like this and that, your friends would be the first to screech abuse, but it's fine when they pressure you.

  13. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    I heard women like to not say what they really mean. When they say you dress too conservatively do they actually mean that or are they trying to sugarcoat that you have no style? Maybe they just want you to get more male attention so you dont end up alone. You can dress conservatively and still look good but l wouldn't expect the average modern woman to understand that.

  14. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    it's hard to give advice when I'm unsure how your friends meant it. they may be mean spirited, but they may also just be joking around, in which case there's no need to cut them off. the way to tell is to poke fun at them for something on the same level and see how they react. if they play along it's all in good fun. if they get defensive and more abusive then they're toxic.

    as far as the issue itself, don't listen to the people in this thread saying however you want to dress is valid. the reality is that certain ways of presenting yourself are more flattering than others, and you owe it to yourself to present yourself in the best light. it's possible to dress in a way that's conservative and attractive at the same time. wear clothes that are tighter and fit to your body better, but still cover plenty of it, appear high quality, and make you look professional. imagine rachel from suits.

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