Maybe this can help people. List 3 things that completely disqualify a guy for you. If a Robot feels the need to post do one for girls instead. For me it's:
>Uses cannabis
Very unsexy. Don't know how this drug ever caught on. At least tobacco for all it's downsides could at least make you appear more attractive under certain circumstances and didn't affect your mental clarity / ability to hold a conversation
>Balding and not doing anything about it
Letting yourself continue to bald or giving up completely and shaving it all off just seems lazy to me. Maybe 20 years ago you had a legitimate excuse but in 2023 guys have options. With as much maintenance the average female needs to do to be passable to the modern guy I think it's reasonable to expect the same in return
>Owns a firearm but has no history of military or law enforcement
Just reeks of insecurity to me. My father never needed a fire arm to make our family feel safe and protected and I've always respected him for that. Probably an unpopular position but it's just my personal taste.
NPD, ugly, fat.
I've made my peace with living and dying alone.
>Just reeks of insecurity to me. My father never needed a fire arm to make our family feel safe and protected and I've always respected him for that. Probably an unpopular position but it's just my personal taste.
why are women so retarded?
>if you want to defend yourself but dont want to bomb yemeni farmers or become a zog enforcer you're insecure
woman moment
What do you expect me to do about being bald? Get a transplant? What kind of maintenance do you need to do that guys don't?
It's fine if you find baldness unattractive, just say it like it is instead of coming up with some dumb reason to look less shallow.
Do you think women don't get transplants just to live up to the insane beauty standards guys have?
>Do you think women don't get transplants just to live up to the insane beauty standards guys have?
Retarded women do. I'd rather have a natural woman built like fridge than a thot with implants. Most men don't care one way or the other.
>beauty standards
>guys
Choose one.
Go on /soc/, ask the thirsty bunch if you are pretty without any make up and you'll receive like 14 marriage demands.
>i could walk this planet without cakeing my face in paint like a failed picasso and men would still be interested in me
>better not,i need to wear a lie on my face daily
Stronk wimmenz!
>the insane beauty standards guys have
LMAOOO the bar is soooo low for women. Literally just don't over eat and you're attractive. Meanwhile women REQUIRE men to be tall, have sharp jawlines, wide cheekbones, wide shoulders, full head of hair, etc. And the real kicker is that theres NOTHING we can do to work on most of these traits.
anon it's not your standards they're trying to live up to
they don't even notice you
Chads don't have high standards either. These women are just blaming their looks as why chad pump n dumps them. Instead of ever even seeing their looksmatch as a human. women are so fucking cruel it makes me feel sick to my stomach. Its impossible to find any that are capable of love.
>Do you think women don't get transplants just to live up to the insane beauty standards guys have?
Umm, yes? Is this a trick question?
Fake boobs are disgusting, big nagger ass (fake or real) that so many white girls have these days is even more disgusting than fake boobs
>Addicted to 3DPD pornography
>Obese
>Types like a woman and only has female friends.
The last one is my biggest ick.
For women or men?
If for men wtf is wrong with you girls only has male friends is a red flag and only has female friends gives the ick
I can barely read what you wrote, this is for men, yes. I think it's fine for men to have women as friends but if they say "I can't get along with other dudes." It's the biggest red flag. Usually they type like teen girls too.
>Usually they type like teen girls too.
And? Men like women who are innocent and fertile and not bitchy hags, get over it.
I never said anything about what they're attracted to, retard. It's about how they carry themselves. No man should mimic the behavior of teen girls.
Trauma and bad experiences have made me distrustful of other men. Is that a dealbreaker in your book?
Nah, it's a matter of reasoning and how you carry yourself. You have a valid reason, it's not a "idk girls are just easier to be around, i dont get dude stuff :3".
Being able to get along well with women can be a good thing too.
>Obese
rip to me
My dealbreaker is trannies posting moronic bullshit. You should get your own gun so you can shoot yourself in the head
>Uses cannabis
I agree with you on this one
>Balding and not doing anything about it
I half-agree, but some guys like having a shaved head or embracing a receded hairline (as long as take care of the hair they have it's fine)
>Owns a firearm but has no history of military or law enforcement
This is the one I disagree with. It's not about "needing" them or feeling insecure, I just like guns. And it's my 2nd amendment right to own them.
A woman who says owning a firearm is a dealbreaker is a pretty big dealbreaker for me tbh
A big gun will never make your cock bigger anon
I dont think thats true
My cock gets big almost every single time i see a gun
I'm going to group these into two categories: peculiar to me (meaning most guys don't feel this way, not relevant to most womens' dating lives), and shared by most men (relevant to womens' dating lives).
So to start with the 'peculiar to me' category (the ones women who are looking for partners can feel free to ignore):
>Tats, particularly in places that clothes can't conceal (e.g. the face)
>Piercings in bizarre locations
>Submissive (I don't mean she has to be hardcore dom but there will be no chemistry between me and a woman who is 100% submissive 100% of the time).
>Body count between 0 and 3
Alright now for dealbreakers that I think are shared by me and most gainfully employed men (I say 'gainfully employed' because there are broke dudes who'll date literally anybody, I'm assuming you're looking for a financially stable man).
>INSANELY HIGH body count (say 10+).
>No post-secondary education
>More than 20k in debt (unless the salary is high)
>Spending problem
>Violent
>Morbidly obese
>Single mom with more than 1 kid (I could deal with 1 kid if there was enough other stuff to make up for it, 2 is absolute dealbreaker territory).
>Out of school yet no job
>No fashion sense
>Poor communication skills
>Emotional neediness
>Verbally abusive
>Prone to nagging/manipulating
You have a problem with a woman who never went to college, but have no problem with a woman who already has a kid?
>Owns a firearm but has no history of military or law enforcement
Is owning one for sport shooting okay?
1. Strong opinions on female matters
I don't care if you're for or against things, it's just their self insert that pisses me off.
It's ok when they say "I think abortion is unethical/ethical" but I despise men who say "make abortion legal/illegal"
It's ok when they say "I like women who wear/don't wear makeup" but not "women should/should not wear makeup"
2. Not accepting human qualities of us
Men who judge themselves too hard are annoying to me. Men who are short, bald, and other traits seen "negative" in looks should just own up to it or improve it if it's possible. "I hate my life because I'm short. It's over for me." vs "I'm going to dress in ways to compliment my size/shape." And this extends to women or their partners making comments on them on their looks, especially so.
3. Trans and trans sympathizers
>Strong opinions on female matters
What's your definition of a "female matter"?
Drawing that line is key to what you're saying. If I say "no one at all should be allowed to wear makeup", is it still a "female matter"?
>If I say "no one at all should be allowed to wear makeup", is it still a "female matter"?
Saying "no one should wear makeup" means the same thing as "women (and also men) should not wear makeup."
Just like women who say "circumcision should not be practiced" implies both sexes.
My point is, It's easy to say that a matter is relative to some category like women or whatever when in reality the problem someone may have with it revolves around a particular action and not the one that commits said action.
In that sense it's easy to just be annoyed by people having certain believes just for who they are, excused by "that's not X's matter", which is pretty arbitrary
Everything you have said would lead me to believe that you will kill yourself post haste. I support your decision.
I'm a robot
>substance abuse
>doesn't like physical activity
I think I don't have to explain why those are dealbreaker
>doesn't like snuggles
I like physical affection a lot, it's very important to me even tho on the surface I might appear stoic and closed off in reality I want to hug somebody but usually I don't let that side of me show because I don't want to make others uncomfortable by getting to close
If somebody doesn't want to be physically close to me I won't feel like they accept me and I won't open up and let them be close to me in other aspects
I'm sure I could come up with some more dealbreakers that aren't necessarily obviously to others but I actually never thought about what kind of person I wouldn't date
and I don't have the time to ponder about it right now
>My father never needed a fire arm to make our family feel safe and protected and I've always respected him for that.
Your father had the chance to do that from 1980+ on where the amount of naggers,arabs,pakis and indians was lower by the factor 10. Female voting made sure that now,in the year 2023, you need to protect your kin with weapons and i do not respect females for that
Nobody gives a shit about your preferences you fucking cunt. Die alone and cope with your meds
Anybody know why they beheaded this woman and stabbed her?
stole drugs from the cartel, it's always the same exact story. They work as mules and they think they'll just get away with it
As a fellow femoid I have to say
>fat or out of shape
I don't expect le Chad gymrat to fall for me but at least have a healthy body fat percentage and some muscle mass
>complete misogynist
I mean a la Andrew Tate "redpill" community, someone who vehemently opposes women's rights. As a feminist I find this extremely important
>complete degenerate
Someome who uses drugs and alcohol and porn to cope instead of developing healthy habits and actual hobbies
>Andrew Tate
Andrew Tate is mild, he's a grifter and his content is meant to cater to a large audience. You have no idea what a real misogynist is.
>drug use or alcoholism
>personality centred around politics
>has children or a lot of exes
I could probably list a lot more.
For me it's if hes obese has no hygiene
hating me for smoking my ciggies and tattoos
Also I always fantasy's about being in a relationship with a guy and get paid for it but he knows i don't really love him and then I feel bad about that being my fantasy
>My father never needed a fire arm to make our family feel safe and protected
Can your father deflect bullets with his bare hands? Because unless he can, he would have been fucking powerless to protect you from any intruder who actually was smart enough to understand the advantage of a gun.
>feel protected
Ah so there's the problem. FEEL protected. It didn't matter if he was actually protecting you, just that you FEEL protected, even if there's nothing he could have realistically done had something dangerous actually happened, women only care about how they FEEL, not what's actually happening.
Newsflash roastie, you "felt" protected because you were a dumb kid too ignorant to understand anything, not because your father was Superman.
why do you care so much about one people disagreeing with you?
ig OP's right about gunfags being insecure
>he would have been fucking powerless to protect
and guns are useless against missiles
that's always a bigger fish anon
And how many people conduct home invasions armed with missile launchers, you goddamn moron?
Hell even IF you ever find yourself in the incredibly unlikely scenario that someone is invading your home armed with a missile launcher, it's still infinitely better that you have a gun to try and stop them than your bare hands. Hell if anything the gun is objectively the better idea since you wouldn't want to be shooting explosive missiles in your own damn house, and missile launchers are huge, heavy cumbersome weapons that would be a horrible burden to try and lug around a normal ass civilian house.
Like goddamn you seriously thought you were making a profound anti-gun argument by saying "but like, a missile launcher is more powerful than a gun, therefore nobody should own guns!" as if real life is a Halo deatchmatch. Women are too stupid for their own good.
legitimate small dick energy
>racist
I'm half arab so it's kind of obvious why
>unhygienic
I'm quite ocd about that kind of thing. I don't expect him to be as fussy as I am but yeah, it would be a deal breaker if he was unhygienic, not just in himself but with his spaces too.
>works away or excessive hours
I know couples like this and it wouldn't work for me. You see so little of each other I wonder why they're even together sometimes. You're practically strangers.
>Letting yourself continue to bald or giving up completely and shaving it all off just seems lazy to me. Maybe 20 years ago you had a legitimate excuse but in 2023 guys have options
>but in 2023 guys have options.
.....such as?
>Uses cannabis
Fair. I find it repulsive, myself
>Balding and not doing anything about it
>seems lazy to me
>in 2023 guys have options
There is nothing a man can do to prevent it unless they risk permanently damaging their bio-chemistry and getting permanent ED. It's not lack of maintenance or laziness, it just happens to most men at some point in their lives
>Owns a firearm but has no history of military or law enforcement
>Just reeks of insecurity to me
You're an idiot. There are many reasons to have a gun beyond military and law enforcement. Farmers need them. Many people use them for wildfowling and hunting. Many people live in dangerous areas/countries need them for protection. Your nonsense about "not needing a gun to feel safe" is a very privileged and sheltered opinion
All in all, you sound like an airhead
>General immaturity. I wouldn't be able to deal with the sense that a man feels mentally underdeveloped. I expect that he is responsible for himself and his emotions, and is willing to communicate issues before acting childish or petty.
>Lack of self respect. You don't need to be an untouchable pillar of confidence but don't degrade yourself willingly.
>Wokeness. Lol. I'd like to live a (realistic) semi-traditional lifestyle.
hmm... all of yours are fair enough, i'll give you that
just the balding part that may raise questions, there's some folks who look better bald in all honesty, but that's more of a personal opinion than anything
as for girl dealbreakers...
>manipulative/controlling
i absolutely despise anyone or anything trying to control me, since i have a pretty strict policy of "walk not before me nor in front of me, but beside me"
>fickle
given my self destructive/sabotaging tendencies (i've been working on remedying that, mind you), i'm not interested in people who might ditch me at the first sign of trouble or who change their minds too often, consistency is key
>dishonest/omissive
i'm dense as fucking lead, so it's pretty easy to lie or hide the truth from me, but due to my curiosity i tend to find out that it happened anyway, and when i do, my trust in the person shatters
i'm quite honest (often to a fault), so i expect the same kind of honesty from the other person
pretty sure i can work through the vast majority of other red flags, but these are a couple i'm just not willing to withstand with anyone
>list 3 things that completely disqualify a guy for you
hmm okay I can list more but let's go with only 3 for now, realistically.
>makes less than 80k yearly after taxes
>doesn't wear any fragrance
>has no arsty side
>doesn't wear any fragrance
fake chemical shit smell makes me sick. most I'll do is do laundry with essential oils.
>fake chemical shit smell makes me sick.
If you get a chemical smell from a perfume It probably has Aldehydes or circus in it. Try warm fragrances.
I didn't say to respond to me you retarded fat whore.
hmm... how about soap or deodorants?
kek
>hmm... how about soap or deodorants?
Soap and shampoos yes. I don't eat like an american so I don't spontaneously smell like a farm animal throughout the day. I would only wear deodorant if I know I'm going to be sweating.
deodorant is nice to wear in summer, but yeah, good man
>addiction and abuse of any drugs
>criminal past
>anger issues
other ones:
>morbidly obese, Im fine with fat guys with some gut and chubby face but there are limits
>/pol/cel chud
>submissive in bed
>no ambition or passion
>addiction and abuse of any drugs
>criminal past
>anger issues
no this is the thread for icks, not turnons
OP was some high quality bait
>nogunz
I like to hunt. People don't understand the venison craving until they've had an in-season steak that's cooked properly. It's so good, you guys.
don't have any of ur disqualifications apart from being brown
>Letting yourself continue to bald or giving up completely and shaving it all off just seems lazy to me. Maybe 20 years ago you had a legitimate excuse but in 2023 guys have options. With as much maintenance the average female needs to do to be passable to the modern guy I think it's reasonable to expect the same in return
There are no options other than transplant + hormone therapy, and fuck that shit, I am not gonna go through hormone therapy just so some roastie likes my fake hair. Kys