>electrolysis consultation on thursday
Will the cosmetologist laugh at my hon face?
>electrolysis consultation on thursday
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ngl the cis women who work in these places do harbour negative feelings towards their trans patients, it's just a fact of life. one of the laser techs in the clinic i go to got outed as a terf recently and another laser tech was telling me about how her other trans patients are just "crossdressing men" and she prefers having "pretty" patients like me.
so glad im a pretty youngshit and not an old boomer
deep down i feel the same way (though personally i'm not a youngshit, i'm a midshit who got very lucky apart from needing laser) but i still find it depressing when i see how trans women who pass less get treated, even in healthcare environments. unless they're rapehons non-passers deserve respect too, but i also know that if i was a foid who had to laser every john 50 in my city i'd probably eventually terf out too lol
i do feel bad for them but its not like i can really do anything about it, thats less a transphobia problem and more lookism in my opinion. And good luck getting THAT to go away lmao
Oh that's very nice to hear...
I should have done the same when my hair was short
Hope so
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You made a thread before and I really really really want a millennial tranner friend what do you like to do for fun?
I have made many threads before but idk which one you mean?? I'm bad socially because I'm pretty depressed and that makes me avoidant because my mind tells me everyone is better off without me and they must be protected from how horrible I am blah blah so idk if I could be a good friend but stuff I do:
>watching dumb stuff
>playing switch (and I'm kinda bad at that but it's still fun)
>listening to music
>taking walks when it gets less slippery outside
>handicrafts
>drawing
>reading
Do I sound too boring? I somehow connect with kids though so maybe I'm not as dry as I think I am but idk but then one of them asked if I'm a mum so idk maybe I'm getting softer every day
Yes that's the point of going there you're very clever
No you don't sound boring at all in my opinion and the handicrafts thing is very cute
And you said you'd be interested in having someone like me as your friend so do you have a discord or something?? If you give yours I can add you once I go take care of some stuff (like getting rubbish bags!) but just some extra things so you don't get disappointed because this is LULZ after all:
>i'm not into politics so pls don't expect good discussions on that
>i'm not into sexual stuff so pls no erping or porn links etc
Did I scare you away? 🙁
🙁
I went there with short hair early on HRT and said I just really hate shaving and facial hair and my doc (who was a woman) agreed and said she had some done too for some peach fuzz
Unfortunate limitation of empathy moment
nobody cares babe
Hello are you the 30 year old tranner 🙂
Yes. Then they'll outline the payment plan, piggy.
lady I go to is nice, she is a cis woman who had facial hair growth after pregnancy so she could empathize how facial hair is frustrating and makes you dysphoric. I got half my laser done before hrt and they were nice.
Honestly my experience is largely if you're being reasonably chill women in this environments will treat you fine. Half their job is being chatty all day and being nice to customers so they return.
Gl!
Okay thanks!! And like I'm already expecting them to laugh after I've left the shop so idc if they do so behind my back but they shouldn't do it to my face because I'm paying them to smoothen my face and not to hurt my feelings so what you wrote was good to hear!
Honestly they make fun of cis women too just remember that lol. Hair removal services are common with trans woman who knows you might get a decent human. And if not? Just don't go back and shop around
That sucks 🙁 but I'll get the service from somewhere and then I don't need to hear their nasty stuff anymore
I got my laser done as a man. It got really awkward at the end when I had DDD cups though.
simply a laser side effect nothing to worry about
Lol
Jealous of your growth...