I am so demoralized that I have to compete with 50+ other men for the love of an average girl while they are tall handsome male model millionaire doctors, engineers, entrepreneuers, managers, lawyers etc. What's the fucking point?
Dating seems so fucked nowadays. I would love to have a normal girlfriend but it seems that I rather try and become an astronaut because it is more realistic. Competing against the top 0.1% for a regular girl isn't worth it.
yes, IAR is the master race
it's why they need a big house
now stop shilling him
No
No they don’t. Men have the same options only difference is they actually have to intiitate contact, plus men have options for way longer into their life
>Men have the same options
Average man is a sexless incel who cannot even get the number of an average girl.
>plus men have options for way longer into their life
you know what that means right
that there are more men competing for the best women
and that the good women are more scarce since after 30-35 they become bad women
there are more men in the dating market than there are women to go around
this combined with the fact that women only really find 10-20% of men attractive
leads to those 20% of men getting near 100% of quality women
Basically, as a man who is most likely average you have to give up on finding someone who is a quality woman
you have to go for older, more slutty, less smart, less pretty women if you want to not remain single.
How can you tell if you're in the top 20% of men?
this is really easy actually
Ask yourself this:
Can I go out tonight, get a girl interested in me and fuck me/ give me her phone number without much troubles?
If the answer is yes, then you are in the top 20%
Getting a number is not hard
Cope
10-20% is actually an encouraging range to me. I probably find under 3% of women attractive.
so you go on dating apps and swipe left on 97% of women
you probably are exaggerating kek
im glad it gives you hope
but, unless youre drowning in pussy at this moment
it is incredibly hard/ inconceivable that you will get to the top 20%
It’s called Pussy Hoeflation bro.
wait does that mean all men in a relationship have 2 holes?
No if you look the study hp they exclude anyone who isnt actively looking even if single.
If anything it shows women are more likely than men to be fine single.
what is a regular girl to you?
>what is a regular girl to you?
A 5/10 girl working at starbucks.
Anon, we live in a cursed world. That girl is easily a 7/10, as in more attractive than 70% of women you could reasonably date as an adult.
>That girl is easily a 7/10
Treating a 4 like she's a 7, is exactly why men can't get dates.
That sounds very snappy, but have you really thought it through? You don't think there are any other possible reasons?
Women all rate themselves higher than they actually are and in turn think they deserve people out of their league. By saying a 4 is a 7, you acknowledge she should never date you.
Yup, he’s enabling Pussy Hoeflation.
Well, that's not a 4. I mean, think it through. She doesn't look fat, which is an automatic 5/10 or 6/10 in most countries. Her face looks better than average and she bothered to apply makeup and do her hair up, so I'd bump that up to 7/10 myself. Others might even say 8/10.
Women aren't usually deluded about their true standing, as far as I can tell, it's more that they want someone above them *anyway* and will refuse to settle for their looksmatch or, God forbid, someone inferior.
>A.I. girlfriends ruining an entire generation of men
Of course they still pin the blame on the men
Kinda crazy right? Classic seeing the symptom as the problem
You're misinterpreting the data. If this many more women are in relationships they have to be dating someone, and since it's not men their age it means they're simply dating older guys or other women. Guys in their 30s must be drowning in college pussy.
? um no sweaty. it means Chad is dating several girls at once and to him he is single but to the women, they are not single
Here's the full source. Even in the 30-49 age range there are still more single men than single women (25% vs 17%), although the difference is less than the 18-29 age range.
Is there a reason why so many blacks are single? Genuinely surprised
I think I've seen studies saying that black women are the least desired partners. As for specifics, I'm not entirely sure beyond stereotypes that may or may not stem from real common behaviors among certain demographics.
Having never dated a black woman, much less all of them, I can't exactly speak from experience.
probably because outside of the obvious (single mother hood rat type) there's the opposite end of the spectrum where they are successful career women who are happy with that. if black men were your main option for dating as a woman, would you be excited about that?
>Here's the full source. Even in the 30-49 age range there are still more single men than single women (25% vs 17%), although the difference is less than the 18-29 age range.
Yup. I'm waiting for an explanation on this shit other than "someone is fucking lying," but honestly, I can't even conceive of one. Basically, people must be lying, right?
Cope, its hypergamy
>Cope, its hypergamy
How does hypergamy explain shit? The graph shows that there's just straight up more single men than women, but that makes no fucking sense, because those un-single women having to be with SOMEONE (and no, it's not cause they're lesbians because there's more single lesbians than single straight girls)
Multiple women date the same man either knowingly or unknowingly. Older guys are still more likely to be single than women in those same age brackets until old age in which the women are literally becoming widows, so it's most definitely not that.
The modern woman has the illusion of options. The modern woman is allowed to visit the places she wants to be, but not stay there. She has to pray she lucks out and finds a guy who is somehow smart enough to be a high performing guy she wants to fuck, but dumb enough to fuck and date her exclusively and even dumber to escalate his commitment to her against his own interests. The odds aren't good for most women and most of them are fucked in the long run. Guys have a lot harder of a time getting women, but guys on average have a lower standard than women so it's easier for a guy to find a girl he's willing to settle with. A girl might fuck 100 guys and not a single one of the guys she wants to marry will ever marry her, so she'll fuck another 100 and on and on it will go. A guy might fuck 10 girls, all hostesses, waitresses, bartenders, wannabe models, and other losers, but then he fucks a nurse who can actually operate an oven and schedule her own oil changes, WOW WHAT A CATCH! So he settles on her. And he's happy until she gets the delusion in her head that she can lock down the new cute doctor at the hospital, and then her 100 next guys begins. It's all a ludicrous game we've been set up to play.
Getting woman on the lower level of the spectrum is easy Just start trapping it . As soon as the drugs come out the women come out I used to hustle dope and i had to turn down sex like 4 times a day alot of women want to trade pussy for rocks.
it's not about options. it's just that they're not interested anymore and don't have to be. I know some anons like to go on about the wall, being 30 and Christmas cakes, but women are happier being alone and that doesn't bother them as much as you hope it does. If anything it just reinforces why they should not date you.
just date a guy