>cannot get attractive girls because they are out of my league >cannot get unattractive girls because they think I am out of their league
What am I even supposed to do?
>cannot get unattractive girls because they think I am out of their league
If someone you thought was out of your league, would you turn them down? I think this scenario is just in your head.
>cannot get attractive girls because I think they are out of my league
is more like it. You're already self sabotaging with that mindset.
There's no real solution though other than to establish a genuine connection.
I think lowering your standards isn't about chasing after ugly girls. It's about opening yourself up to people who don't necessarily fit the ideal perfection that you've developed in your head.
No because "lowering your standards" is impossible. You're not suddenly going think about fat or ugly people in a sexual way if you've never done that before. Regardless of how much you try to hide it your latent disgust is always going to slip out at some point and you're gonna hurt the other person and probably yourself as well.
Yeah, she's perfectly fine looking. That exactly what
I think lowering your standards isn't about chasing after ugly girls. It's about opening yourself up to people who don't necessarily fit the ideal perfection that you've developed in your head.
>Does "lower your standards" actually work?
Assuming you lower your standards meaningfully, yes, always. You pretty much can't believe in the notion of "Sexual Market Value" if you DON'T think it does.
The fundamental position of the redpill and incels is >we can analyze dating as a form of two-sided market economics
And in such a world, lowering standards is essentially increasing your willingness to purchase from lower quality suppliers to expand your potential supply side for a desired good (dating/getting laid)
You have to make one assumption which I feel is obvious, >Shittier women are more willing to accept romantic proposals from shittier men
And the lowering has to be meaningful in two ways, >some non-zero percentage of that supply increase has to be interested in you, and >you have to have exposure to enough women that in absolute terms, lowering your standards to increase supply actually causes you to interact with enough new women that you can get new results (rather than changing from "I only have access to 1 woman who I'd ask out" to the essentially useless increase "I have lowered my standards by 99%, but since I live alone on a research base in Antartica and talk to basically no one, this now means I only have access to 2 women who I could ask out"
But subject to the above two conditions, your demand remains constant so an increase in supply caused by lowering standards should economically cause prices to lower, AKA "it's easier for you to get laid or date".
Nope. It ain't easier. Uglier girls treat insecure men like shit as well.
Insecure men treat Insecure women or girls like shit too and then play the victim card
>cannot get attractive girls because they are out of my league
>cannot get unattractive girls because they think I am out of their league
What am I even supposed to do?
>cannot get unattractive girls because they think I am out of their league
If someone you thought was out of your league, would you turn them down? I think this scenario is just in your head.
>If someone you thought was out of your league asked you out
Become a man that attracts women
>cannot get attractive girls because I think they are out of my league
is more like it. You're already self sabotaging with that mindset.
There's no real solution though other than to establish a genuine connection.
I think lowering your standards isn't about chasing after ugly girls. It's about opening yourself up to people who don't necessarily fit the ideal perfection that you've developed in your head.
No because "lowering your standards" is impossible. You're not suddenly going think about fat or ugly people in a sexual way if you've never done that before. Regardless of how much you try to hide it your latent disgust is always going to slip out at some point and you're gonna hurt the other person and probably yourself as well.
This.
I don't think I have unreasonable standards. I'm just not interested in someone that would have been in a circus freakshow a few decades ago.
She is sexy, needs just a proper eyebrow trimming.
fuck i would date her in a heartbeat why can't i find a normal girl like this who is extremely attractive to me
Do y’all actually think this girl isn’t attractive? She’s super cute
Yeah, she's perfectly fine looking. That exactly what
is talking about.
No bro. This is exactly what Pussy Hoeflation is, 4’s who act like 9’s and only feels entitled to Chads and thinks average Men are beneath her.
Stop chasing vagina it's a waste of time.
>Does "lower your standards" actually work?
Assuming you lower your standards meaningfully, yes, always. You pretty much can't believe in the notion of "Sexual Market Value" if you DON'T think it does.
The fundamental position of the redpill and incels is
>we can analyze dating as a form of two-sided market economics
And in such a world, lowering standards is essentially increasing your willingness to purchase from lower quality suppliers to expand your potential supply side for a desired good (dating/getting laid)
You have to make one assumption which I feel is obvious,
>Shittier women are more willing to accept romantic proposals from shittier men
And the lowering has to be meaningful in two ways,
>some non-zero percentage of that supply increase has to be interested in you, and
>you have to have exposure to enough women that in absolute terms, lowering your standards to increase supply actually causes you to interact with enough new women that you can get new results (rather than changing from "I only have access to 1 woman who I'd ask out" to the essentially useless increase "I have lowered my standards by 99%, but since I live alone on a research base in Antartica and talk to basically no one, this now means I only have access to 2 women who I could ask out"
But subject to the above two conditions, your demand remains constant so an increase in supply caused by lowering standards should economically cause prices to lower, AKA "it's easier for you to get laid or date".
>is a 4/10 girl easier to get than a 7/10 girl
No, but it widens your pool of prospects.
do people consider her ugly? She looks very beautiful
thats a 10 in pic right there
all girls are 10s